Originally Posted by
suregena
Oh, dear! I had been planning on abstinence with a cut off, but now I don't know (like with most things... I think I've got a plan formulated then I read something additional on here and then I'm back to "I DON'T KNOW!!!")
I'm concerned about birth defects now!
Oof. Abstinence isn't difficult for us, sadly, because between our son and my husband's odd work patterns + my job, we rarely have the chance or energy to do anything. He is always so tired that he doesn't even really self-release.
Before our son, our jobs were different and we were pretty regular with doing things. Not so much these days.
But, anyway. I'm confused again. Hmmm.