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    Atomic please help

    I got a special personalised plan last year but now I can't access it because it's expired. We ll be ttc This month ( I've delayed it till
    Now because of Dh work commitments.

    Just a few questions before ttc. I can't remember what DH was supposed to do lead up to the conception. Was it abstain or every day ?
    Also I won't be using OPk strips because that will make me OCD. I'm happy to just pick a day I think I'm ovulating ( based on educated guess ) and if it happens this month it happens. Also I'll be taking femara. To confirm thats day 2-7 on my period ? ( I'll check my notes on that because might be well off )

    We Ve just signed papers to put our house on the market. I was hoping to to get pregnant this month instead of next month when sale will happen as I'd imagine that will be a huge testosterone surge with that. I know now isn't ideal because we have a list of things to complete before next month but I just can't wait any longer to ttc. It's never a right time. Selling the house is scary so I'm hoping that sways pink ? I'm also super excited by it and feel proud by our renos so maybe not. Ah ! I have ups and downs of doubt and excitement about the sale. I really don't know if this is working for or against me. A lot of people are congratulating us on the renovated house so that's not good for my sway haha

    Still losing weight and Le pcos dieting. Not exercising. Still on metformin. Probably the lowest of been since having kids weight wise and concentrating on keeping blood sugar lower. Drinking wine and coffee way more than before. I've had a few months off since last year especially around Xmas but it will be 12 weeks of Le diet consistently till ttc this month ( with 2 weeks off in the middle ). Although this last year I've been losing weight with a few times I've gone off the wagon, put a bit on and lost again. But in total I've lost. I've been quite chilled about the sway though.

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    Well, I can't guarantee this is exactly what I put in your plan (which I unfortunately made on my laptop that died, and while I can hunt it down in the Custom Forum you'll have to give me at least a day to find it) but based on what you are saying here in this post what I'd have you do is BD unprotected every 3 or 4 days (3 better chance of conception, 4 possibly better chance of pink). You can't, on Femara, just pick a day and have one attempt. We can't do that it will be too low a chance of conception.

    E4D has been getting great results and I think you're good to go if you do that. You're right there is never an ideal month and something will always come up.
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    I don't think you said the BD 4 times in the personalised sway because at that stage i didn't have femara. So imagine that would change your opinion. I think you said to once at positive OPK and DH to release daily. If I do BD 4 times should he still release daily ? He's 37.


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    Ah yes - also because you want to possibly get pregnant faster.

    I would not have him release in between. It will cut odds of conception by a lot and hasn't worked anyway.
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    Thanks ! I can now get my hands on clomid ( there was shortage in Oz for a while ) I have a prescription for both incase I couldn't. Will I still stick to the femara ?

    I trust what you're saying with BD 4 but it still makes me nervous because both boys we only had sex once for each pregnancy. Basically I've only had unprotected BD twice in my life and have two boys from it. We re not planners and basically decided two seconds before we had intercourse to get pregnant on both occasions. Did it and then changed our minds and decided to maybe wait few more months before we got pregnant and of course both times fell pregnant with the one trial. Haha as complete adults mind you. We re still faking this adult thing and pretending to know what we re doing


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    One study showed Femara is "pinker" and additionally it's better odds of conception.

    Oh I totally understand, we got one of our boys the same way. Thought we'd TTC, hubby got cold feet and changed his mind but it was already too late!!

    If E4D hadn't been getting solid results I'd not recommend it for you but it really has been doing well for us. Admittedly not a huge sample size yet, but still good results.
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    Awesome
    Silly question but due to work I have to delay the BD4 because DH won't be here during the week. First attempt will be day 10 and second day 14. That's potentially two days in fertile period. Is that ok ?


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    No, it's not. If you O between CD 10 and 14, the CD 10 will cover you. If you O CD 14 or beyond that, the CD 10 sperm would be dead by then. In the very, very longshot that there was something left from CD 10 (very unlikely) then it would already be capacitated and would fertilize the egg before the CD 14 had time to capacitate.

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    Great. ThTs makes a lot of sense. Thanks x 100 again


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    Atomic please help

    What is E4D? Nvm. I figured it out.
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