Please share your BD pattern with baby boys

[timi10]

Hello

we are ttc baby #4 we would love a boy after 3 gourgeous girls.

we meant to follow shettles, we used condom before my first + opk, and we BD since that day which was 4 days ago my cycle was 28 days last month so I started opk on CD 10

got my first (perhapsfalse) + on CD 15

I am CD 18 today,

however today I got a + again even on the cheapie on which I had never had a + before

please share if you can how you ended up with your boy, i need reassurance, we really planned this pregnancy and meant to BD only on O day, but it seems I am just about to ovulate and I have girlies waiting for eggie?

any input?

any chance still conceiving a boy?

thx

[bluebonnet22]

Sorry I dont' understand your post 100%, but on this site we believe TIMING DOES NOT SWAY. It does not matter what day you DTD and has zero correlation with gender. There does seem to be a pattern on this site towards "number of attempts" meaning, the number of BD attempts you make in your fertile window. The general advice for boys is at least 2 and ideally 3 attempts. If you want a boy, I would try to BD 3x in the 36 hours following your + OPK. When we got my son, this is what we did.

[timi10]

Sorry if I posted on the wrong thread, I only wanted to hear some stories about timing, I also take supplements to make my CM alkaline and I diet to favour a boy

I only meant to ask mommas with boys who BD days before O.

thank you

[timi10]

thank you for your input. that is what we meant to BD before O day on O day and a day after O day.

however it seems that my body is just gearing up to O . which means that we BD on days leading up to O

I had a + 3 days ago but today I got 3 + in a row, which means I still havent ovulated

[bluebonnet22]

Didn't mean to offend, sorry, just didn't want you to get hung up on timing. If you ask haven't ovulated, I would keep up BD until you have ovulated. I think lots of attempting sways blue!

[timi10]

you didnt offend at all. English is my second language ;-) and THANK YOU so much, I really hope we havent messed it up

[bluebonnet22]

You definitely haven't messed up! Just keep up trying, it will only help.

[timi10]

You definitely haven't messed up! Just keep up trying, it will only help.

[Alexis2007]

Hi! We bd the 2nd day of +opk, which turned out to be O day! Got our boy too! For what it's worth, my hubby had a very low sperm count, so we abstained 4 or 5 days prior to O so that's why the one time of bd.

[timi10]

That is how we planned, however we got a + on opk and jumped to bed LOl
I still havent ovulated as I have had 3 + opks this afternoon so the plan that we should only BD right at O day has just failed. I am really hoping that other factors, like making my body more alkaline WELL in advance will work FX