I am wondering about something else ,
Does TTC after surgery sway pink?
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I am wondering about something else ,
Does TTC after surgery sway pink?
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Interesting business!! I had massive surgery with stage 3 endi removed, d & c, tubal dye flush and ovarian drilling. Fell pregnant 10 days later, had a chemical then two weeks later fell with my DD too. Maybe I had a double whammy pink sway with the loss that sways pink too.
I'm 28 and my DH is 30, we are swaying blue. 1. To have our kids out and gone by our early 50s and 2. If we don't get a boy, still have time to go again for a 3rd child and get a boy.
Also yes to the pressure. The sooner I have a boy the less stressed I (and hubby) will feel to "provide" the family with a son to continue the surname line and inherit all these family heirloom things. My DH is very much on board TTC (always keeps his bits cool, hasn't touched alcohol in months, is trying to eat better - even spinach...never thought I'd see the day!)
This is a really interesting phenomenon. Here I am super glad I made it to DD2 being 2 and 1/2 before we start getting serious about swaying this spring. I think the kinda obsession is a big factor for me. I started researching how to conceive a boy when my youngest was about 3 or 4 months old. I do think that for me it helped me deal with the gender disappointment and at least focus my energy into something positive.
I feel in the minority too, as a Pink Swayer wanting to get pregnant very quickly after this baby is born.
My reason is this ; I was 35 when I conceived, and will be 36 when I have him.
I would love a big family, and time is of the essence.
Mrs Sparkles I'm the same-swaying pink before 1 year post partum. I had my second son in December 2016 and will be ttc from October this year. I am 36 turning 37 in July and really want to be done by 38.
My hubby is onboard and this is definitely our last as he only wanted 1! Haha!
Just to give an example because I think at least one person who commented in this thread was implying I was making this observation up:
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/intr...ming-blue.html
I get threads, plans, or personal messages like this at least 2 dozen times a year from blue swayers and practically NEVER from those wanting pink. Plus I have way fewer blue swayers so it sticks out like a sore thumb.
There is something here, something that I don't understand and that I am seeking to understand. You don't have to believe it, I believe it, and I want to understand whatever it is going on in people's heads so I can better help you guys to successfully sway. Whenever I notice a strong trend like this, I want to know more.
I would love more input on this if anyone has any thoughts.