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July 22nd, 2019, 02:13 PM #1
I did not realize Please give me hope
I didn’t know about dtd multiple times during my fertile time. I came upon this site too late by doing another search. I feel like I have done everything wrong to get a boy. I got a positive opk Thursday night, got my peak on clearblue fertility monitor Friday morning. I was trying to get as close to ovulation as possible so we dtd Friday night. We were going to again on sat night and we did, but when I was changing position so to speak he finished outside of me. Then we did it again Sunday morning but by then I know my egg was probably dead. I would of for sure tried to dtd more of I would have known. Is it probably a girl now ?
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July 23rd, 2019, 07:47 AM #2IVF Advice Coach
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No! There isn't one thing that you can do "right" or "wrong" with swaying. I am sure you did a lot that will increase your chances and there is no one thing that you forget or do another way that will make or break your sway! Good luck!
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July 23rd, 2019, 09:16 AM #3Swaying Advice Coach
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It never boils down to one thing like that!! You can absolutely still get a boy with one attempt. Good luck and blue dust!
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July 23rd, 2019, 10:05 AM #4
Thank you for replying. I feel like everything I did was wrong. But I thought it was right at the time. I did the bsf, which I read you do not recommend because it kicks sperm, I tried to dtd as close to ovulation as possible, which I know has been proven to not matter, and all this constant anxiety over my desire for my boy has caused me to not be able to eat, which I know sways girl. I do eat a high sodium diet, took folic acid, EPO ( which you also say isn’t good) false unicorn root, fertile cm. I work out, hubby is very fit ( does CrossFit at least three times a week, does not smoke ( but will smoke the special tobacco, which he has for years , but we did still conceive our first boy regardless idk)
I tested sorry ph which was very high, but then I saw here that that doesn’t matter either. Also, doggie style etc and had him release outside my fertile window right before I got into it to clear out old sperm so to speak. We just are busy, and to get hubs to dtd sometimes is difficult during the week.
So everything that I thought I was doing good, besides eating salt, was really not. I know that not one thing will break a sway, but it seems as though I did it all wrong.
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July 23rd, 2019, 10:08 AM #5
Thank you for the kind reply. See my last post to describe what I thought I was doing right, but really wasn’t. It seems the more I learn, the more I realized I didn’t do it correctly.
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July 23rd, 2019, 10:12 AM #6
Also, what are the most recent stats on frequency.? I saw one but it was several years back which was 66.5% successful on dtd once.
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July 24th, 2019, 06:26 PM #7Swaying Advice Coach
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Yes I need to get someone to keep my blue stats for me. sorry it's not more current. But overall we're still getting about 66% for the overall stats of the site and my recommendation for all blue swayers is to have the 3 attempts.
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July 24th, 2019, 06:28 PM #8Swaying Advice Coach
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Even with "textbook" blue sways we still get opposites. You always have a chance of a boy and if you were anxious, being very anxious and controlling about your sway may sway blue as well
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