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    I did not realize Please give me hope

    I didnít know about dtd multiple times during my fertile time. I came upon this site too late by doing another search. I feel like I have done everything wrong to get a boy. I got a positive opk Thursday night, got my peak on clearblue fertility monitor Friday morning. I was trying to get as close to ovulation as possible so we dtd Friday night. We were going to again on sat night and we did, but when I was changing position so to speak he finished outside of me. Then we did it again Sunday morning but by then I know my egg was probably dead. I would of for sure tried to dtd more of I would have known. Is it probably a girl now ?

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    No! There isn't one thing that you can do "right" or "wrong" with swaying. I am sure you did a lot that will increase your chances and there is no one thing that you forget or do another way that will make or break your sway! Good luck!
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    It never boils down to one thing like that!! You can absolutely still get a boy with one attempt. Good luck and blue dust!
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    LOOKING FOR YOUR SWAY PLAN? Have you checked the coaching forum? It will be posted in the same place your questionnaire is! https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

    LE Diet Ideas Threads: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54174-brand-sparkly-pink-new-diet-thread-girl-sways.html and here:https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54926-le-diet-thread.html?highlight=le+diet+meal+ideas

    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

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    Thank you for replying. I feel like everything I did was wrong. But I thought it was right at the time. I did the bsf, which I read you do not recommend because it kicks sperm, I tried to dtd as close to ovulation as possible, which I know has been proven to not matter, and all this constant anxiety over my desire for my boy has caused me to not be able to eat, which I know sways girl. I do eat a high sodium diet, took folic acid, EPO ( which you also say isnít good) false unicorn root, fertile cm. I work out, hubby is very fit ( does CrossFit at least three times a week, does not smoke ( but will smoke the special tobacco, which he has for years , but we did still conceive our first boy regardless idk)

    I tested sorry ph which was very high, but then I saw here that that doesnít matter either. Also, doggie style etc and had him release outside my fertile window right before I got into it to clear out old sperm so to speak. We just are busy, and to get hubs to dtd sometimes is difficult during the week.
    So everything that I thought I was doing good, besides eating salt, was really not. I know that not one thing will break a sway, but it seems as though I did it all wrong.

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    Thank you for the kind reply. See my last post to describe what I thought I was doing right, but really wasnít. It seems the more I learn, the more I realized I didnít do it correctly.

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    Also, what are the most recent stats on frequency.? I saw one but it was several years back which was 66.5% successful on dtd once.

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    Yes I need to get someone to keep my blue stats for me. sorry it's not more current. But overall we're still getting about 66% for the overall stats of the site and my recommendation for all blue swayers is to have the 3 attempts.
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    LOOKING FOR YOUR SWAY PLAN? Have you checked the coaching forum? It will be posted in the same place your questionnaire is! https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

    LE Diet Ideas Threads: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54174-brand-sparkly-pink-new-diet-thread-girl-sways.html and here:https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54926-le-diet-thread.html?highlight=le+diet+meal+ideas

    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

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    Even with "textbook" blue sways we still get opposites. You always have a chance of a boy and if you were anxious, being very anxious and controlling about your sway may sway blue as well
    !!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!

    LOOKING FOR YOUR SWAY PLAN? Have you checked the coaching forum? It will be posted in the same place your questionnaire is! https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

    LE Diet Ideas Threads: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54174-brand-sparkly-pink-new-diet-thread-girl-sways.html and here:https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54926-le-diet-thread.html?highlight=le+diet+meal+ideas

    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

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