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Thread: Newbie here ttc boy in September
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September 19th, 2020, 11:14 PM #31
Did I ruin my sway by bding?? I really hope I didn't!! I use the premom app and it says "low chance of getting pregnant." Is the week before ovulation "pink" territory? really hope I didn't ruin my sway!!
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September 20th, 2020, 01:34 PM #32Swaying Advice Coach
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No. Timing doesn't sway. It doesn't work at all, and most of us with all boys got our boys BD a LOT during that week. It's just that many people do still want Shettles timing, even though it's been completely debunked.
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September 20th, 2020, 03:23 PM #33
Thanks, I thought I messed up by letting hubby release inside. What are the chances of a getting pregnant from that one BD? My period ended 3-4 days ago. I think we'll BD today and tomorrow (for fun) and do pull out then abstain until Friday, cause that's when I'm expected to be most fertile and ovulation will be either the 28th or 29th (sometime around then) and we will BD everyday until October 1st. Does this sound good for a boy sway?
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September 21st, 2020, 04:56 PM #34Swaying Advice Coach
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If you're a week before ovulation your chances are none.
That having been said, sometimes it is possible to ovulate early, and so you can't use when your period stopped as a guideline (that is what I did with DS 1 and got a boy even though it seemed impossible since I'd just been on my period!) i still think it's a pretty long shot for you though.
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September 21st, 2020, 06:00 PM #35
Thank you for all your wisdom! I will keep you updated.
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September 28th, 2020, 05:46 AM #36
Hi again atomic, so bding did not go as planned. I never got a chance to have the big O so far. I ran out of lh tests and the premom app didn't predict my peak yet. I thought it did but it keeps changing up on me. Right now I'm getting high lh results so I know peak is close by. Ovulation day might be today or tomorrow.
I know that sperm can last up to 5 days in the body, and X sperm is slower to reach the egg, so does this mean the X sperm has a better chance of reaching the egg than the Y sperm because they don't die off as quick? We've BD the last 3 days so far 1x a day. I'm concerned that I messed up my sway by not having O's and starting to bding too soon in the fertile window.Last edited by dollbear; September 28th, 2020 at 05:49 AM.
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September 28th, 2020, 12:42 PM #37Swaying Advice Coach
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Just because scientists have retrieved sperm that was alive 5 days after sex, it doesn't mean that sperm could fertilize an egg. Scientists have shown pretty definitively that most babies are actually conceived within a 3 day window of O-2 through O Day, with a smaller minority being conceived on O-3. The chances of sex O-4 is one in 1000, O-5 is one in 10,000, and O-6 is 1 in 100,000.
X sperm is NOT slower. That idea is completely debunked. Over 30 years ago a scientist named Dr. Shettles looked through a microscope and decided that because he saw big and small sperm, they must be X and Y. But he was completely wrong. What he saw were capacitated sperm that were ready to fertilize an egg (these are small and fast and don't live very long), and uncapacitated sperm (they are slow, big, and live a while). It had nothing to do with X and Y sperm, which are about the same size, swim the same speed, and live the same amount of time. All this idea of timing was based on this mistake. It has all been debunked.
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October 11th, 2020, 05:47 PM #38
Hi atomic, so I did get a BFP since 8dpo. I've been testing every morning with fmu. Lines have been getting darker and increasing. Today after using the bathroom, I had some light bleeding. I believe today will be 12dpo for me. Test is still positive, breasts are still sore too, could it be implantation bleeding or miscarriage? I don't know what to think. Thanks.
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October 13th, 2020, 10:34 AM #39
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October 15th, 2020, 01:29 PM #40Swaying Advice Coach
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Oh no I only just now saw this, any update?
Bleeding in early pregnancy is super common. Implantation bleeding would generally be earlier on so this may be just some unrelated bleeding. This doesn't mean your pregnancy is ending, though. In many cases of early bleeding, it resolves and you go on to have a healthy pregnancy.!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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