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    Another BFN :/

    We’ve been TTC for 3 months now. Kind of. My husband was away from home the first 2 months, so it’s kind of hard to count those months. We had as many attempts as we could during that time. He came home around the time I was ovulating this month and we got lots of attempts in but it still didn’t happen. I’m getting frustrated. I haven’t been on birth control since July. I had a copper iud for almost 7 years. I’m wondering if I might have scarring in my uterus from the iud or something going on that is making it difficult to get pregnant. Just looking for suggestions and advice.


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    Well, if the first two months were not ideal it's probably just one of those things. It takes fully fertile people 3-6 months to conceive and so you're still absolutely in the wheelhouse.

    That having been said if you find that your anxieties are really upsetting you, you can always go in and have them do an HSG test and then you'll be able to see there is no scarring and won't worry about it so much.
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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Well, if the first two months were not ideal it's probably just one of those things. It takes fully fertile people 3-6 months to conceive and so you're still absolutely in the wheelhouse.

    That having been said if you find that your anxieties are really upsetting you, you can always go in and have them do an HSG test and then you'll be able to see there is no scarring and won't worry about it so much.



    So my period is a day late. I tested again and got this very faint line. Not sure what’s going on. I guess I’ll wait and see what happens...


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    Could you have ovulated later than you think?
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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Could you have ovulated later than you think?
    It’s possible. I was only using clear blue digital to track ovulation. I got a flashing smiley for 2 days and then a solid. I stopped testing after the solid.


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    When did you attempt in relation to the solid?
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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    When did you attempt in relation to the solid?
    We BD’d 2 days before the solid. Twice the day of the solid. Once the day after. Once the day after that. We also BD’d 3 days after that.


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    Yes in that case you could absolutely have conceived later on. Is the test still positive today?
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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Yes in that case you could absolutely have conceived later on. Is the test still positive today?
    AF arrived the following day. Something similar happened a couple months ago. Not sure why that keeps happening.


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    We have been having a lot of faint positive pregnancy tests that then go to nothing over the past few months. I am suspicious of the tests, like maybe they're using some new tech or something that is rendering false pos.
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