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August 14th, 2022, 06:24 PM
#131
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
Thefinalcountdown
See I *know* this but it still makes me so nervous along with everything else! Even just thinking about making an attempt makes me have nervous poops bc omg what if it’s another girl. I know EVERYONE on here knows the feeling!!!
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FX FX FX! I am living through you vicariously and cheering you on from afar:P
BUT if you have a girl, I'd be surprised! PLUS you have proven track record of being able to have a son since you already have one...
look at me with FOUR girls, 4!!! not one hint of a son in sight if anyone gets it, it's me :P
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August 14th, 2022, 08:56 PM
#132
Big Dreamer
You are going about it all different so you have just as good of a chance at a boy as anyone! I am just so nervous if I don’t wait the 18 months but hubby wants to try sooner rather than later but who knows maybe I won’t get my cycle back till then anyways!!! How are you doing? Had some sickness going around??
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August 15th, 2022, 06:12 PM
#133
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
Thefinalcountdown
You are going about it all different so you have just as good of a chance at a boy as anyone! I am just so nervous if I don’t wait the 18 months but hubby wants to try sooner rather than later but who knows maybe I won’t get my cycle back till then anyways!!! How are you doing? Had some sickness going around??
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You might catch that first egg before cycles returning since you are having unprotected BD
The way I look at it is that you are doing lots of great things for your body - eating well, being outdoors getting fresh air and sunshine, getting all the nutrition you can with supps and whole foods, and exercising - when your cycle returns it is likely because your body feels like it is ready to sustain another baby - whether it be at 6 months PP or 18 months PP - so try not to stress over the # of months you are PP!
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August 15th, 2022, 06:14 PM
#134
Dream Vet
Thanks for asking - just exhausted as little miss has a cold, and coughs/is snotty/miserable atm - so no sleep for us two!
We're at the tail end of winter here so hopefully it will all get better soon - but this winter has hit people hard, with COVID plus the usual ailments.. baby had started daycare in January so obviously she's been exposed to a lot of germs/viruses etc so feels never ending :P
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August 15th, 2022, 09:05 PM
#135
Big Dreamer
Oh no!! Try to rest when you can! It’s really hard with the little one up all night then having to work all day and take care of everyone else!! One day she will sleep through the night, change is always just around the corner. Make sure you are well rested before tackling weights and stuff. And probably good to wait till winter is over to start thinking about swaying when all the sickness has passed! I don’t want any first egg oopsies just in case something in that first egg is pink friendly… and then I can have my full 4 weeks to be extra HE and feel like I wasn’t cheated!! I dk I might try to get hubby to wait till 18 months but I know he definitely doesn’t and obviously I don’t want to either so I guess it just depends on what my body decides to do!
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August 16th, 2022, 03:58 PM
#136
Swaying Advice Coach
Remember though that I got my 4th boy catching that first egg (well technically not the first, but I had only one period then my cycle went away again for several months) and never had a period at all with him!
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August 17th, 2022, 02:18 PM
#137
Big Dreamer
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Remember though that I got my 4th boy catching that first egg (well technically not the first, but I had only one period then my cycle went away again for several months) and never had a period at all with him!
Well yeah but you were a boy makin’ freight train, woman!! I can’t take any chances . The good news is my husband is really excited about having one and talks about it all the time. It helps that he’s very happy to practice bd…also I told him about all the HE practices like FR, bd unprotected, and um, ingesting semen and he thinks the HE practice is written by a man!
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August 17th, 2022, 06:27 PM
#138
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
Thefinalcountdown
Oh no!! Try to rest when you can! It’s really hard with the little one up all night then having to work all day and take care of everyone else!! One day she will sleep through the night, change is always just around the corner. Make sure you are well rested before tackling weights and stuff. And probably good to wait till winter is over to start thinking about swaying when all the sickness has passed! I don’t want any first egg oopsies just in case something in that first egg is pink friendly… and then I can have my full 4 weeks to be extra HE and feel like I wasn’t cheated!! I dk I might try to get hubby to wait till 18 months but I know he definitely doesn’t and obviously I don’t want to either so I guess it just depends on what my body decides to do!
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Yep! This is why at the moment is just gently working my way towards HE etc - event though I know it takes a while to build it up and the muscle /body changes - it's just easier to have energy when you sleep more/are not as sick haha
Though, summers here are killers so might have to crank the aircon to workout and sod the electricity bill :P
OOOOh I thought you were doing BDs unprotected and such - gotcha it's certainly frustrating waiting for that 1st PP period... gosh it's easy to be a man: never any cycles, or hormonal shifts (at least in comparison to women).
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August 17th, 2022, 06:28 PM
#139
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
Thefinalcountdown
Well yeah but you were a boy makin’ freight train, woman!! I can’t take any chances
. The good news is my husband is really excited about having one and talks about it all the time. It helps that he’s very happy to practice bd…also I told him about all the HE practices like FR, bd unprotected, and um, ingesting semen and he thinks the HE practice is written by a man!
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It does sound like it, eh? LOL
(FR - is that fast release? isn't that swaying pink?)
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August 17th, 2022, 08:41 PM
#140
Big Dreamer
Originally Posted by
LMSM
It does sound like it, eh? LOL
(FR - is that fast release? isn't that swaying pink?)
We are doing FR- frequent release so bd every 2-4 days unprotected. I mean hubby is really excited to have a 4th! He wants another baby - so do I but I don’t want to try too soon so I’m going to wait as close to 18 months as we can stand for our best chance at a boy!! I’m really happy he’s down to have 4 though.
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Ok thanks Atomic :) he’s been away so we’ve also had a massive gap in between BD - not going to plan much lol I’m about to buy more Coq10 pills, stick to 100mg? They seem easier to get in higher...
Back again: blue sway planning