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    four years ago i have a similar situation
    i will look for the link

    https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...ovulation.html
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    It takes an average of 3-6 months to conceive. If you got pregnant faster in the past that was just good fortune.

    It sounds to me like you and your husband were having sex too early if you had sex CD 10 and then nothing after that. If your cycle is regularly 28 days long, you're ovulating CD 13/14 even if you get a positive OPK CD 10. Wait a couple more days and have sex CD 12 or 13 instead. Since he can only DTD once, you need to make sure it's a little further on in the fertile window, or all the sperm may die before the egg shows up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by coffee View Post
    four years ago i have a similar situation
    i will look for the link

    https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...ovulation.html
    I actually don't think this is a similar situation. I think this time, you're just detecting the surge a little earlier than normal, and that time your doctor missed the egg on the ultrasound. So I think what is happening is that you detected the surge early, then had an attempt too soon, and all the sperm died before the egg showed up. If your cycle was 28 days long, and you had an attempt CD 10, and could only have one attempt, that was probably 3-4 days before ovulation and we don't have good results for conception with sex that long before ovulation. I would wait till CD 12 or 13 and have attempt then. If you were really having the surge CD 10 and ovulating CD 11, your cycle would NOT be 28 days long, it would be shorter.
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    to day i got my positive
    after trying for two mothes
    in my third cycle i got my positive
    it is weird, we had ttc in my CD13 at 10 pm
    and again in cd 14 at 5 pm
    but the first time my husband abstain for more than a week
    and second time veigra i have no big orgasim everythimes
    as he had very low sex drive and i think it is becuase he is nervous
    i do not know what gender i will get
    for me
    i am in HE diet for 5 monthes
    i had red meat every night
    no coffee no sugar at all
    too much viges, fruits and nuts
    two eggs every single day
    lemon water all my days
    dark chocolate everyday
    i changed my diet completley
    i sleep deep and early

    i took only fish oil and pottasuime pill one a day
    and i take guaifenesin four days before ovulation

    my wight has increased for 6 kiloes i think because of fish oil
    my BMI is 33 i know it is not good to be overwight
    but i do not care
    i want my boy more than any thing else

    what do think gender i will have
    i have to thanks The ALMIGHTY for any gender He gave me

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    I honestly can't say what gender your baby will be, that's just beyond my ability to know. You did a good job on your sway and I hope you get the boy you're dreaming of!
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    Congratulations! Best of luck for your healthy beautiful baby boy!
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    SADLY yesterday i miscarriaged i do not know why . i loss my pregnancy it is five weeks old
    is it good to try again for pregnancy next cycle or i have to wait few monthes for swaying a boy ?!


    second question Do you think viagra caused mc ?
    or my age i am 39
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    Oh gosh so sorry to hear this sad news.

    With an early loss like that, as long as you were still eating well and taking your supplements, it's ok to try with the first cycle. Some blue swayers prefer to wait the first month just to be sure they're not swaying pink, but I don't think that's necessary and we have seen plenty of boys conceived the month after an early loss. Your call to make, whatever you think is best.

    Viagra does not get into the semen so it's not going to cause a loss.

    Rates of losses do increase with age, but I can't tell what the reason for your loss is. There are many younger women who also have early losses, and young women who do IVF and have a lot of abnormal eggs and/or sperm. We're never going to know the cause, but I want to assure you that just because you've had one loss, it doesn't mean it will reoccur. I had a baby at 39 and one at 42 with two losses along the way, but still was able to have two healthy babies.
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    I am so sorry for your loss!
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