Starting to sway again

[Teamblue]

Hey! We have three daughters. While pregnant with my third daughter I found this page and really researched and read through the forums. We had planned to sway when my third turned one. However, the month after she turned one we found out my oldest daughter had cancer. Now, over six years after having my third daughter, we (with our three precious HEALTHY daughters) are ready to add another family member. I thought after everything we went through with my oldest I wouldn’t care what the gender of another child would be. But I still have such a desire to have a son. So here we go! I feel like I’m completely starting fresh with learning all this. With my first three I very much had a girl sway lifestyle. Now I think I’m more neutral. We moved to a farm, so our lifestyle changed. But I have tons of questions. I did buy the coaching package because I’m sure I’ll need lots of help. But a couple of questions. Do I need to completely give up coffee? I drink two cups a day with Splenda and raw whole milk. Also I saw somewhere that flax seed is not good for a boy diet? Is that correct? Also is peanut butter okay? And what about Raisin Bran cereal with raw whole milk? And what about sweet tea?

[Teamblue]

Hey! I just wanted to see if anyone had any advice😊