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    Chemical Pregnancy from Donor Embryo FET - Does this sway at all?

    I had a frozen embryo transfer on 3/17 with a beautiful baby girl embryo, and it unfortunately ended in a chemical pregnancy. I am not sure what our next step, if any will be, but I was curious if a chemical pregnancy would sway towards anything. I guess I am really just hoping to fill the hole in my heart that aches for a baby. I am devastated at our loss, but am thinking we might try after AF stops and hopefully I ovulate. I swing back and forth between simply wanting another child and wanting a daughter.

    I have low ovarian reserve and I have heard that after a loss you are more "fertile" and it might sway girl. I am just wondering if there is any truth to that and if it is even worth trying. I guess I am just looking for ANY good news at this point.
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    No advice sweetie, just wishing you the best of luck whatever you decide xxx
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    Oh gosh I'm so sorry.

    Chemicals are thought to sway slightly pink although I do not feel we have enough data to really say that and it may just be wishful thinking.

    There may be something to the idea that you may make a better egg after a chemical, or it may just be as the Brits say, "rubbish". Is there any chance for another round of HT? If there is, I of course recommend not trying (because all this is sheer speculation anyway) but if this is well and truly it, it may be something to consider.

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