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July 24th, 2015, 04:18 PM
#11
yes this is such a fab site and everyone is incredibly helpful, I hope you have a great sway emma. My DH isn't keen on abstaining :-( so he is doing frequent realise (by himself lol) every morning and then when it comes to DTD he is going to release and disregard first off before we BD I just hope that this works aswell as abstaining
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July 24th, 2015, 04:20 PM
#12
Hi Princess mom I notice you already have a DD do you think you did anything differently to when you conceived DS
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July 25th, 2015, 06:11 PM
#13
Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
sassy86
yes this is such a fab site and everyone is incredibly helpful, I hope you have a great sway emma. My DH isn't keen on abstaining :-( so he is doing frequent realise (by himself lol) every morning and then when it comes to DTD he is going to release and disregard first off before we BD I just hope that this works aswell as abstaining
abstaining not working very well anyway. Neither tactic is bringing home the bacon. Most important thing is sticking with one attempt!
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August 4th, 2015, 09:07 AM
#14
Hi, well I DTD yesterday evening DH had already released in the evening before we DTD (I don't think he knew we going to BD last ) I had my second flashing smiley face yesterday, it was our first and only attempt this month, a couple of things are concerning me.....I took Sudafed and so did DH I completely forgot that I should be taking Benadryl and also I have noticed a bit of EWCM today is there anything I can now to quickly to dry it up ?
thank you
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August 4th, 2015, 03:26 PM
#15
Swaying Advice Coach
You are all good! Sending you a ton of pink dust!!!
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August 5th, 2015, 04:16 AM
#16
Thank you for your help atomic, I just have one more concern (sorry) I DTD on Monday night as my fertility monitor was flashing and then it normally I normally get a pos opk the day after, I was hoping to wait until Tuesday when I had a definite positive but I knew DH would be away, but my concern is I still haven't got a pos opk yet its still just flashing and my sticks aren't showing a dark line, Im worried to do bd again as I only wanted to do the one attempt but im worried that if its too far from ovulation I will be in boy territory, what do you think?
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August 5th, 2015, 05:22 AM
#17
Dream Vet
Welcome Sassy!
Most current girl swayers here on Gender Dreaming are doing:
* LE diet for at least 12 weeks before attempt which is 1500-1800 calories, 40-50g protein, and 30-60g fat a day.
* Skipping breakfast.
* No snacking.
* Fiber supplement with meals.
* 60 minutes of cardio daily OR nothing at all.
* 1 attempt in fertile window (by BD every 4 days OR by BD once at +opk)
* Folic acid or folate only.
* Clomid if you can get it.
* Alcohol and caffeine daily.
* Olive leaf extract for DH.
* Licorice root for DH (only if under 35 years old with no blood pressure issues).
Most have stopped doing antihistamines, Rephresh/Replens/Sylk, jump and dump, PH stuff, saw palmetto, and even vitex as they don't seem to sway much and only make conception harder.
Good luck!
Me: 35 years old. Was an infant nanny and birth and postpartum doula. Now a full time SAHM.
DS1: Aug 2003 (my first home birthed water baby!)
DS2: May 2009 (my second home birthed water baby!)
Oct 2014
July 2016: Laproscopic surgery to remove a ping pong ball sized endometrioma on left ovary and 3 pea size fibroids on outside of uterus. Hysteroscopy to remove one larger "penetrating fibroid" inside uterus.
Oct 2016: Heartbroken after DH's vasectomy. Looks like my dreams of a daughter are gone.
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August 7th, 2015, 06:03 PM
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Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
sassy86
Thank you for your help atomic, I just have one more concern (sorry) I DTD on Monday night as my fertility monitor was flashing and then it normally I normally get a pos opk the day after, I was hoping to wait until Tuesday when I had a definite positive but I knew DH would be away, but my concern is I still haven't got a pos opk yet its still just flashing and my sticks aren't showing a dark line, Im worried to do bd again as I only wanted to do the one attempt but im worried that if its too far from ovulation I will be in boy territory, what do you think?
There is no "boy territory" so don't worry about that.
YOu need to be in with an attempt that has a chance of conception. So I would have another one if you haven't gotten your positive yet.
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August 10th, 2015, 06:53 AM
#19
Hi I got my first pos on Wednesday evening so 2 days after my attempt so I left it at the one attpt and didn't bd again but hopefully that will be enough to get me bfp!!
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August 12th, 2015, 10:15 PM
#20
Atomic,
Can you speak more about why to drop SP and vitex? I've just started my sway and have all of these supplements on hand. Can you speak more on this? I also saw somewhere that you no longer recommend Aspirin too? I guess a lot has changed in a year because all of these were recommended on my sway plan. I have to do an EGS because this is absolutely my last baby and I'm almost 38. DH is 48.
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