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    yes this is such a fab site and everyone is incredibly helpful, I hope you have a great sway emma. My DH isn't keen on abstaining :-( so he is doing frequent realise (by himself lol) every morning and then when it comes to DTD he is going to release and disregard first off before we BD I just hope that this works aswell as abstaining

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    Hi Princess mom I notice you already have a DD do you think you did anything differently to when you conceived DS

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    Quote Originally Posted by sassy86 View Post
    yes this is such a fab site and everyone is incredibly helpful, I hope you have a great sway emma. My DH isn't keen on abstaining :-( so he is doing frequent realise (by himself lol) every morning and then when it comes to DTD he is going to release and disregard first off before we BD I just hope that this works aswell as abstaining
    abstaining not working very well anyway. Neither tactic is bringing home the bacon. Most important thing is sticking with one attempt!
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    Hi, well I DTD yesterday evening DH had already released in the evening before we DTD (I don't think he knew we going to BD last ) I had my second flashing smiley face yesterday, it was our first and only attempt this month, a couple of things are concerning me.....I took Sudafed and so did DH I completely forgot that I should be taking Benadryl and also I have noticed a bit of EWCM today is there anything I can now to quickly to dry it up ?
    thank you

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    You are all good! Sending you a ton of pink dust!!!
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    Thank you for your help atomic, I just have one more concern (sorry) I DTD on Monday night as my fertility monitor was flashing and then it normally I normally get a pos opk the day after, I was hoping to wait until Tuesday when I had a definite positive but I knew DH would be away, but my concern is I still haven't got a pos opk yet its still just flashing and my sticks aren't showing a dark line, Im worried to do bd again as I only wanted to do the one attempt but im worried that if its too far from ovulation I will be in boy territory, what do you think?

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    Welcome Sassy!

    Most current girl swayers here on Gender Dreaming are doing:

    * LE diet for at least 12 weeks before attempt which is 1500-1800 calories, 40-50g protein, and 30-60g fat a day.
    * Skipping breakfast.
    * No snacking.
    * Fiber supplement with meals.
    * 60 minutes of cardio daily OR nothing at all.
    * 1 attempt in fertile window (by BD every 4 days OR by BD once at +opk)
    * Folic acid or folate only.
    * Clomid if you can get it.
    * Alcohol and caffeine daily.
    * Olive leaf extract for DH.
    * Licorice root for DH (only if under 35 years old with no blood pressure issues).

    Most have stopped doing antihistamines, Rephresh/Replens/Sylk, jump and dump, PH stuff, saw palmetto, and even vitex as they don't seem to sway much and only make conception harder.

    Good luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sassy86 View Post
    Thank you for your help atomic, I just have one more concern (sorry) I DTD on Monday night as my fertility monitor was flashing and then it normally I normally get a pos opk the day after, I was hoping to wait until Tuesday when I had a definite positive but I knew DH would be away, but my concern is I still haven't got a pos opk yet its still just flashing and my sticks aren't showing a dark line, Im worried to do bd again as I only wanted to do the one attempt but im worried that if its too far from ovulation I will be in boy territory, what do you think?
    There is no "boy territory" so don't worry about that.

    YOu need to be in with an attempt that has a chance of conception. So I would have another one if you haven't gotten your positive yet.
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    Hi I got my first pos on Wednesday evening so 2 days after my attempt so I left it at the one attpt and didn't bd again but hopefully that will be enough to get me bfp!!

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    Atomic,
    Can you speak more about why to drop SP and vitex? I've just started my sway and have all of these supplements on hand. Can you speak more on this? I also saw somewhere that you no longer recommend Aspirin too? I guess a lot has changed in a year because all of these were recommended on my sway plan. I have to do an EGS because this is absolutely my last baby and I'm almost 38. DH is 48.
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