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    Quote Originally Posted by sassy86 View Post
    Thank you, I think I'm going to give up with clear blue I have one more stick which I'll use tonorrow morning. I jave tested every day since last Friday (cd9) and still no smiley face yet I had a positive opk on Monday at 3pm along with some ewcm and what felt like ovulation pain and since then the line has got fainter and fainter but I cant understand why clear blue hasn't picked anything up yet unless I just really havent ovulated yet
    For some people the Clearblues work great, for others they get better results with the standard OPK. I would have you go to every 4 day method now (and for better chance of pink you could do this in the 96 hour time frame) in case you didn't actually ovulate after all.
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    Thank you advising me, I recieved a smiley face this morning which is typical as dh has gone away now and won't be back until Monday evening/Tuesday morning.
    I dtd on Sunday at 10pm recived a positive opk the following day at 3pm and got a smiley this morning at 7 am so yoi never know maybe I could still be in with a chance although if I did ovulate late I'm not sure if sperm would survive 5 days (who knows)

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    It would be very unlikely but lets' hope you ovulated sooner than you think! Good luck and pink dust!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinkangel80 View Post
    Hi! Apologies for sending you private message, I didnít realise before I had read the bottom of your page. thank you for reading message. I have been reading lots of your posts. I currently have a little boy who I adore but have suffered post natal depression. Iím absolutely desperate for a girl but also terrified to try again. When I became pregnant with my boy, I was off the pill for at least 7months, always had a relatively good diet. Iím very slim, and also teach dance. I used opk strips and saw a faint line and dtd....only once! Then fell pregnant with a boy!

    2.5yrs later, Iím thinking of trying again but worries sick! My hubby is desperate for another child but does not know my sincere desire for a girl. My cycles have always been irregular since coming off pill again - have been off pill since June. I bought ĎOvuSenseí product to track my cycles and so far, cycle 1 no detection of ovulation, cycle 2 ovulated on day 19 and cycle 3, ovulated day 28!! Absolutely no rhyme or reason. Thought I ovulated round about day 19 - day 21??

    I purchased the Shettles method book and have been looking at that. I have been having supplements like calcium citrate, cranberry tablets, folic acid and chaste berry. Iíve also been drinking more milk etc but still keeping a low diet.

    Iím petrified to do anything.....I was going to stay on LE DIET and dtd on day 11/12 so that the girl sperm may reach by day 19...if that makes sense. If doesnít happen, then increase days. can you advise me if Iím along the right lines??

    Thank you so much. Xx
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    Oh don't worry about it, some people treat my private messages as a way to get free coaching and will post in there constantly but the occasional message is no biggie.

    You really can't look at what you were doing when you got your boy - none of these things are magic bullets, they all just up the chances a bit! We do what works best for most people most of the time and have gotten good results that way.

    Did you get your period in Cycle One?? Then this means you very likely did ovulate. When did you get your period in relation to when you think you ovulated?? I want to be sure you're detecting the true surge as that may give us more useful information.

    Are you having trouble with the Ovusense?? Can I help you with that in any way?? It should work pretty well for most people so I'm worried if it's not operating well for you.

    Shettles method does not work and has been completely debunked. It would be very tough to use it with an irregular cycle anyway. Most of us on here got opposites with Shettles (I have 4 Shettles opposites!! both my boys and my girl!) The important thing is to have just one attempt in the fertile window, we don't really know why it works, but it does help. If you want to read the full case against timing, it's here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...le-timing.html If you realy really want to use timing, I'd use your Ovusense fertility monitor and then have an attempt on the second "high" reading rather than waiting for "peak".

    THe supplements you've purchased have really not gotten good results for us (everyone must take folic acid, of course) We have really eliminated most of the supplements as they didn't work and caused a lot of side effects. How were you planning to take the cranberry and vitex?? If you MUST take calcium, please use calcium WITHOUT Vitamin D and I would be very cautious drinking more milk to always stay in the limits of LE Diet.

    PLEASE do not DTD on CD 11 for a CD 19 ovulation!!! You will have absolutely NO chance of conception doing that. If you must start off with a cutoff, I suggest the method I mentioned above (having sex on the second "high" reading). If you really want to pin it down to a cycle day I would aim at no more than a 3 day cutoff (so CD 16 for CD 19 ovulation). The problem is, when your cycle is irregular, you can't predict when ovulation will occur, so it's like taking a shot in the dark - you very easily could end up ovulating on CD 16 and having had an attempt that day! (luckily, this would not hurt your chances since Shettles doesn't work anyway, but I know that many people would be upset if they didn't hit their cutoff properly)

    You probably should start a new thread for your questions just to keep your info separate from Sassy's, so the way to do that is by going to the forums (here's our TTC a girl forum, just to make it easier https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...nceive-a-girl/) and clicking one of them open. That is the part everyone misses - you actually have to open a forum, not a thread, but one of the forums, to get the "start new thread" option. Then you'll see "start new thread" at the top of the page and can start your own thread so we can have all your informtion in one spot!

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