That is good to know.... here I was thinking that i'd just pick the items with the highest percentiles. I have read through the complete index and I am still overwhelmed about what to try. This is my third swaying attempt so gosh I would like it to work out. I can't do everything though. I do not have an obsessive personality at all (I almost wish I did to be honest), work full time outside the home and want to spend all other time with my boys, not obsessing over my next attempt-- wasted time if it fails a third time.
I need a do this manual but it sounds like nothing is perfect.