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March 21st, 2019, 10:08 PM #31
Wahhhhhhhh! Omg ABC literally tears in my eyes right now- I loved your "novel" every word so true and heartfelt you are such a beautiful soul.
And yes you do know me, you've seen me at my worst with gd so your insight into the situation is so appreciated I can assure you.
I also vividly remember your struggles and journey to your gorgeous twins- quite similar to Pbns story actually and I am so very happy that you have come out just one year later with those precious bundles!
You do give me hope and the way you have embraced ds3 gives me even more hope that I will bond with ds4 if that's what is meant to be for us.
Yes I absolutely did sway too long last time and I think I did that to try and take my mind off my gd with ds2.
So this time I am going to enjoy ds3 and wait patiently for my ppaf to return and then like you said hit it hard with diet, exercise one attempt etc. because Like you said getting pregnant is no trouble for us no matter what we do lol!
So glad I started this thread it has helped clarify so many things for me- I am so grateful for all of you taking the time to help me xxProud Mum to two gorgeous boys
2014 2016
Swayed expecting beautiful DS3 due Feb 2019
Dreaming of a in 2020
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March 21st, 2019, 11:31 PM #32
Oh hun, I've been there.
There's that perfect little man staring up at you with his beautiful eyes, and you just explode with love for him. You'd die for him.
But there's that place inside you, that longing place, that itch that you can't seem to scratch, and the overwhelming love that you feel for your boys doesn't change that. You'd never for a moment want to be without your sons, but right now, you're without your daughter. Incomplete.
My advice? GO FOR IT. You don't regret the ones you have.
But I would advise that you go into #4 with the assumption that you will have another boy. There's a 50% chance that it'll happen, after all. Expect a boy. Plan for a boy. LOVE a boy, to the point where if you have a girl, there's a wistful moment in which you miss that fourth son you now won't have. Go into it looking at why another boy would be brilliant.
The fourth time, we didn't really bother to sway. All I did was time things so that we dtd three days before I ovulated. That's it.
We had a name chosen for him. His name would have been Evan Taliesin. I whispered it to myself from the moment we chose it until I walked into the ultrasound at 21 weeks to be told that our fourth child was actually a girl. The girl I'd longed for, and as I fought back tears of shock and joy that for once I was actually getting something that I really really wanted, I did have a moment - just a moment - as Evan vanished from my life, in which I missed him, this boy who had never actually existed.
Take the plunge. Take the chance. There's a 50% chance that you still won't get your girl if you have another, but a 100% chance that you won't if you don't. And if you do have another little boy, then perhaps it's because he will do something incredible, and you needed to bring him into the world.July 2010
September 2012
November 2014
August 2017
Our perfect family!!!
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March 22nd, 2019, 12:41 AM #33
Awwww Abc I LOVED your post you have a way with perfectly expressing those feels
Kitten we are going well! My boys are in love with their baby sister (they would have been as in love with a boy too I'm sure) they constantly say they love 'our' baby () and 'our' baby is the cutest hey mummy. It's been my most favourite thing by far watching my older two bond so beautifully with the her and wow are they protective of her. I'll get annoyed with her over something and they're at me saying "she can't help it mummy, she's just a baby" (thanks boys )
Like Abc so wisely pointed out, I do not for a second feel my life is perfect now because of dd, BUT I do feel a contentment that I'm unsure comes from having a dd or just the fact I was able tp have one more baby? Could be a combination of both I will be here lurking for however long it takes for you to decide what you'll do and 100% support whatever decision you make
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March 22nd, 2019, 07:33 AM #34
I didnt realise you hadn't done the PCOS diet yet, this makes me excited its a totally different sway!! as ABC warns though it does cause weight to fly off if you arent careful, i felt like it had a really different effect on my body compared to the standard LE diet.
i just stuck to the basic rules of no processed sugar, wholegrains (wholegrain bread and wholewheat pasta) fruit and veg, its also got to be full-fat dairy (though i did almond milk this time), i had small bits of meat here and there but mainly left it out. daily totals are higher than they are for standard LE at around 1800cals 50-60g protein and 50-60g fat.
it does end up more expensive food-wise and i'll be honest my meals were very repetitive!! black coffee in the morning then veg soup and a pitta with humus and salad (and egg whites if i needed the protein, avocado if i needed the fat) for dinner and tea was usually either a jacket potato with some cheese and salad or pasta with veg and pesto, sweets-wise i had fruit and found that worked well.
surprisingly (sugar addict here) i didnt miss sugary foods and felt much better not eating them tmi sugar gives me a bad stomach but before this sway i stupidly ate it anyway!!
one thing i never expected from team green was how much more chilled i found the pregnancy, i knew i wasnt finding out so i just let it go and hardly thought about gender which was such a huge difference from all my other babies!! by the time i reached the end i was just excited to see who was joining us also i was surprised at how cute the unisex newborn baby-gro's arenow 6blue5pink
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March 22nd, 2019, 07:22 PM #35
"Expect a boy. Plan for a boy. LOVE a boy, to the point where if you have a girl, there's a wistful moment in which you miss that fourth son you now won't have. "
Love love love this nearlyalegume!!! Thank you truly!
Such great advice. I am so happy that you got your daughter and am in awe of your mindset going into that pregnancy!
Thanks again for replying your response was so eloquent and touching xxProud Mum to two gorgeous boys
2014 2016
Swayed expecting beautiful DS3 due Feb 2019
Dreaming of a in 2020
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March 22nd, 2019, 07:25 PM #36Proud Mum to two gorgeous boys
2014 2016
Swayed expecting beautiful DS3 due Feb 2019
Dreaming of a in 2020
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March 22nd, 2019, 08:30 PM #37
Pbn - Seriously, dear lady, I couldn't have survived that journey I went through without all the love & support you gave me! I've been thinking about that recently as I've been reflecting on where I was at during this time last year. So thank you again - you are absolutely the best!!
Pbn and Kitten my boys are like that with the twins too!! They dote on them to the point where DH and I get annoyed... like, just give the babies some space already!! We knew DS1 would be like that but we've been surprised about DS2 - we thought he'd have a lot of jealousy/adjustment issues. But he's just crazy about them! Nothing like watching sweet little boys love on their younger siblings! And I think it says something about what good boy mamas we are to be raising such loving, sweet boys!
Aww and I LOVE nearlyalegume's advice too! I had really bad GD with DS2 (didn't sway really with him as I didn't know much about it then), BUT, one thing that helped is that I did have his name basically picked out before we conceived him (a big part of me I think always knew our second would be a boy as well). So I think I grew attached to him already knowing what his name would be for so long. At one point - shortly before we conceived - I pictured us having a boy-boy-girl family and it seemed perfect to me in my head. Obviously things turned out slightly differently (with my bonus DS3/twin boy!) but looking back I see how DS2 was so "meant" to be in our family and that vision of him with his name and all that I had before he was conceived I think helped me with the GD that came later.
Yea like 4b2p said it's the cutting out sugar that really makes the weight fly off!! And it did make me feel better/healthier overall - even eating way less - not having all the sugar and refined junk in my diet. Seriously I think not only is atomic's PCOS diet good for swaying pink, I think it's just a good way to eat in general! So much healthier! I didn't really eat meat during my sway (even though it is allowed on the PCOS version), but I did eat salmon sometimes. I also drank a lot of red wine for my alcohol as there is something in red wine that is supposed to help lower glucose levels.2013 2015
Three babies
2019 My rainbow boy/girl twins born January 2019 - thank you Atomic and Gender Dreaming!!
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March 22nd, 2019, 11:38 PM #38
Abc was my pleasure
Nearlyalegume your post is beautiful
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March 23rd, 2019, 08:17 PM #39
Love love love reading all your ladies » responses..sooo heartwarming I *may* have ( ok, I have), she’d a few (a lot) of tears
My little « opposite » is one today, and it was seeing how your « opposites » just melted your hearts and belonged like they were always there that got me through my GD back then. Now she is here, I get it... they were just meant to be.
That comment hurt as much as it helped back when I found out, but I do truly get it now.
And definitely will be planning for a 4th of a kind...and team green.
Kitten, can’t wait for our next respective sways you know you can have ALL my pink dust, we.re only like 50 km from each other so it shouldn’t get lost on the way this time haha
XxxxLucky Mummy to 4 sweet divas
(2013) (2015) (2018) (2021)
(July 2014) (November 2023)
Our sway didn’t work for #3 & we had a little oops for #4 but we love them all to bits... not sure if we ever will but somehow hoping we might add blue to the crew, to complete our family, one day...
Fingers crossed for TTC #5 (again) for early 2024!
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March 23rd, 2019, 08:48 PM #40
Oh I was hoping this thread would help you too LMSM I know you still struggle like I do with imagining 4 of a kind and actually 4 of any gender lol!
Omgosh! Happiest of birthdays to your little miss S!!! I bet she is being spoilt rotten right now. I love birthdays so much ( other people's not mine haha) and especially my children's it is such a rewarding time. Enjoy the day with your beautiful family xx
And yes we need to get that pink and blue baby dust on a direct route this time haha!Proud Mum to two gorgeous boys
2014 2016
Swayed expecting beautiful DS3 due Feb 2019
Dreaming of a in 2020
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