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    Back pain and cramps

    So it’s been 2 weeks since my chemical. Early this week I was having a ton of EWCM we had an (accidental) attempt Tuesday. Today I’ve been having a lot of cramping and lower back pain and m wondering if it’s ov pains. Since our accident my husband and I have been in the “why not!” Mode of trying. With my chemical we had an attempt on CD 14 and CD 18 about 100 hrs or so apart. I’m wondering if we should have an attempt tonight or wait until tomorrow being that we had an attempt on Tuesday. I’ve been on the fence because I’ve been off diet and really on a HE diet for about 2-3 weeks, and I don’t want that to undone or undermine my sway. Not sure what to do at this point and am looking for any input!
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    I definitely have low back pain some months from O pain. So yes it can absolutely be from O.

    It is up to you if you want to try or not. Personally, I would have you try, because Tuesday to Friday is e4d pattern. But only you can decide that - if you'll live 1000 lifetimes of regret if you try and get a boy, obviously wait, but keep in mind that you can skip this month and try next month and still get a boy (and indeed, for all we know this month may have been better! We just have no way to know)

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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    I definitely have low back pain some months from O pain. So yes it can absolutely be from O.

    It is up to you if you want to try or not. Personally, I would have you try, because Tuesday to Friday is e4d pattern. But only you can decide that - if you'll live 1000 lifetimes of regret if you try and get a boy, obviously wait, but keep in mind that you can skip this month and try next month and still get a boy (and indeed, for all we know this month may have been better! We just have no way to know)

    When in doubt, flip a coin and do what the coin says.
    Well we had our attempt. I pushed passed my OCD after flipping a coin and we did it lol
    I’m slowly coming to realize that I lost 2 pregnancies and will be lucky to have a healthy baby. The only thing that worries me is the little weight gain, I don’t know if it was from bloat or being that the dr weighed me at night and I haven’t weighed myself since. The two weeks off diet I don’t think could be a huge variable in my sway, being that two week sways don’t have a huge success rate.
    All I can do is see what happens and hope for the best!
    Thank you for your advice Atomic!
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    Exactly. If 2 weeks really mattered we'd not see the results we do with 2-4 weeks on diet (which are lousy)
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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Exactly. If 2 weeks really mattered we'd not see the results we do with 2-4 weeks on diet (which are lousy)
    That’s what I keep telling myself. The only thing that makes me nervous at this point is the little bit of weight I gained before ttc this time
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