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July 31st, 2019, 05:14 PM
#21
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I think you need to do e4d method - unprotected sex every 96 (better chance of pink) or 72 (better chance of conception) hours. This is still one attempt (BD every 8 days will be WAYYYYY too long and give you next to no chance of conception)
OPK can be false negatives so with those very long cycles I think you're better off having regular sex so you won't miss a month.
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July 31st, 2019, 08:03 PM
#22
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I think you need to do e4d method - unprotected sex every 96 (better chance of pink) or 72 (better chance of conception) hours. This is still one attempt (BD every 8 days will be WAYYYYY too long and give you next to no chance of conception)
OPK can be false negatives so with those very long cycles I think you're better off having regular sex so you won't miss a month.
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July 31st, 2019, 09:53 PM
#23
I'm so relieved to see you say that... I've been feeling pretty deflated by the poor chance of pregnancy doing it my way. Thanks so much!
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July 31st, 2019, 10:00 PM
#24
So you don't think that frequency of intercourse plays a huge role then? What have you seen with regards to the effect of frequency? I understand you don't think timing had a big impact on effectiveness of girl sway, is that right?
Thanks again for your help!!
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August 1st, 2019, 02:53 PM
#25
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Frequency hasn't worked. It's the number of attempts in the fertile window that sways, not frequency. And by having attempts every 4 days that ends up being one attempt in fertile window (and there's an explanation for that if you'd like to hear it.)
Timing doesn't work at all and has been as debunked as it's possible for something in science to BE debunked. 4 of my 5 are timing opposites - I got my girl in boy timing!
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August 2nd, 2019, 04:36 AM
#26
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Frequency hasn't worked. It's the number of attempts in the fertile window that sways, not frequency. And by having attempts every 4 days that ends up being one attempt in fertile window (and there's an explanation for that if you'd like to hear it.)
Timing doesn't work at all and has been as debunked as it's possible for something in science to BE debunked. 4 of my 5 are timing opposites - I got my girl in boy timing!
Okay, that's really helpful advice. Thank you so much!
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August 24th, 2019, 09:24 AM
#27
Just thought I'd duck back and let you know that I'm pregnant... Fingers crossed the sway has paid off! We went with BD every 5 days, so once in my fertile window...
Thank you for your help!!
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August 25th, 2019, 12:46 PM
#28
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Babygirldream
Just thought I'd duck back and let you know that I'm pregnant... Fingers crossed the sway has paid off! We went with BD every 5 days, so once in my fertile window...
Thank you for your help!!
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Congratulations! I hope the pregnancy goes well for you and you get your little princess x
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August 25th, 2019, 04:02 PM
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Huge congrats and tons of pink dust heade your way!
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September 23rd, 2019, 08:01 AM
#30
Hey guys,
I'm reaching out because I'm sitting in tears, for no good reason. I am only 8 weeks along, so I have no idea what the gender of my baby will be, and yet somehow I feel like I know I'm carrying my third son. It will be our last baby, and I feel this deep and overwhelming grief that I'll never have the daughter that I want so badly. I feel trapped and isolated. I will of course love this baby, just as I adore their brothers... But I'm absolutely dreading finding out the sex. And I feel so guilty about it too. Are you able to direct me to any helpful groups /forums /resources at all? Thanks so much for all of your help x
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