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    dear atomic

    we tried 0-2 again with a single attempt after flushing my fallopian tubes.

    now i'm very insecure since i had an orgasm on one try. on the ovulation day we had no sex but an orgasm. can that fluctuate blue now? Should I be worried?

    Thank you for your answer!

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    I personally doubt orgasms sway much. We have done many polls and threads and found that many moms of all girls always had them. I wouldn't worry about this.
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    hello atomic. unfortunately it didn't work for us again. we would now try the method with 7 days of abstinence. My question:

    Does my husband have to empty 7 days outside and then have intercourse (the 8th time) or 6 days outside and then have intercourse (the 7th time)?

    Another question, is it correct that it has to be 7 days? 4 or 5 are not enough to fluctuate pink?

    One more time: THANKS

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    Again, I think we are having some confusion on what abstain is. Abstain means that your husband does not ejaculate anywhere for 7-10 days before having one attempt.

    What you are describing sounds like daily release. It is fine to do daily release, and in that case have him release 7 days and then have attempt inside on the 8th day.

    Yes, it needs to be 7 days. 4-5 does not seem to be enough.
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    Excuse me, I understand you correctly. Either daily emptying (outside) with one attempt or 7-10 days of abstinence with one attempt.

    I read something else on genderdreaming. I notice that they often speak of a cutoff of 2-3 days. If the 7-10 days are too long for my husband, can you also abstain for 2-3 days and then recommend a try?

    I am firmly convinced of the timing with a try, how would you best do it to get pregnant quickly?

    They always talk to fluctuate pink, a small amount of sperm is needed. After 7-10 days of abstinence, according to a study, it was found that the quality of the sperm decreases but the amount increases?

    high sperm count = boy?
    how does that fit together to fluctuate pink ??

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    No. Abstaining 2-3 days does not do anything. It has to be no ejaculation for your husband for 7-10 days.

    The sperm with an abstain is lower quality and much of it cannot swim to the egg. That means it still lowers sperm numbers.

    I am fine with you leaving abstain out if you would like. Neither abstain nor daily release has worked that well for us.
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    Many thanks. May I ask how you did timing with your girl?

    Do you recommend yam? I'm afraid I have a low progesterone level (measure temperature) but I don't want to take Clomi. Can you also recommend something to me?
    How much folic acid should i take?

    Thank you very much Atomic, you are great as you keep writing back

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    My husband and I had sex every 4 days or so.

    Yam supplements do not work. The kind of progesterone in them is not usable by your body. The yam creams they sell only have a very small amount of progesterone and are meant for menopausal women, not women trying to conceive.

    Is your luteal phase 14 days after ovulation??

    I like you guys to take 1200-1600 mcg of folic acid or better yet, folate. Take this even into your pregnancy, for the entire first trimester, and then wean off slowly to the amount in the prenatal.
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    dear atomic thank you all very well.

    a question, I'm using the clearblue monitor. now he shows me the 3rd high today and tomorrow I will have a Max (I'm sure). we had GV on the 2nd up, can I now have GV again at the 3rd up and then stop at MAX tomorrow? have heard that 3 days before ES the likelihood of pregnancy is low? may I again today as it is still 2 days before ES or is there still only one attempt?

    Thanks for your quick reply. LG

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