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November 11th, 2020, 05:02 PM
#81
Swaying Advice Coach
No, that would sway blue because it is a sperm safe, conception friendly jelly.
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November 20th, 2020, 02:44 AM
#82
Hello Atomic
I had a smiley face on the "pink clearblue" yesterday morning. My other Clearblue monitor was still showing HIGH. In the evening it had two fat stripes on both clear blue stripes (pink and monitor) and I had my "try".
Today morning both stripes were fat and again a smiley (pink) and a MAX (monitor). Now my question, could it have been enough or would you try again?
My ovulation has been postponed this month due to the swaying, it's so hard to get the moment right. Do you have any other tip regarding Ovus? Frequencies I have dropped everything, I really want to receive quickly.
Well, since everything had shifted my husband had released 24 hours before the attempt, is this bad for the sperm, are there in any case too few?
Sorry for the many questions, I'm a bit confused because I was so fixated on trying and everything has shifted.
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November 20th, 2020, 01:49 PM
#83
Swaying Advice Coach
One release 24 hours before does not deplete sperm numbers. It takes 7-10 days of back to back release to deplete sperm numbers (and really even then for many men it's completely ineffective)
If you want better chance of conception, have another attempt. If you want better chance of pink, stick with the attempt you've had.
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November 20th, 2020, 02:17 PM
#84
all right, I'll keep trying with one try.
would you rather attempt the LH peak or the cervical mucus peak?
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November 20th, 2020, 02:26 PM
#85
Swaying Advice Coach
The LH peak. Cervical mucus is useless for us because it can change so dramatically during swaying.
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November 20th, 2020, 02:40 PM
#86
all right, I'll try to have my try at LH Peak. Thank you for everything!
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December 2nd, 2020, 07:43 AM
#87
Dear Atomic
Unfortunately it didn't work this cycle, I now try every 3 days.
But my husband did not abstain between the 4 days, could it be that the amount was too small for 1 attempt? (he had published daily)
I wanted to ask you in general what you think of it:
It is always said everywhere you should let go of the desire to have children etc. Do you think that the psyche really plays a big role in getting pregnant or not?
I am dejected every month that it doesn't work out. I'm afraid it won't work as long as I can't let go of the desire for a little girl.
Anyway, if every 3 days doesn't work either, do you have another tip? I don't want to add multiple attempts as long as possible!
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December 2nd, 2020, 01:31 PM
#88
Swaying Advice Coach
Yes, I'd drop having the releases between attempts. Just have him do the every 4 days and not release between.
Wanting a baby does not prevent you from getting pregnant. That is just something people say when they don't know what else to say to people. It's almost like people want to find something to blame the woman for no matter what, so when she does not get pregnant they say "you must have wanted it too much."
The first thing we need to do is give the e4d in the 72 hour pattern WITHOUT having your husband release between times a try. (there IS NO every 3 days. ONLY every 4 days in either the 72 or 96 hour pattern. Saying "every 3 days" only confuses people)
I would try for at least 2 months that way. Then we can talk about adding in another attempt if you want to, or you can try that way forever if you want. You WILL get pregnant eventually.
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December 2nd, 2020, 01:57 PM
#89
Oh, maybe that was the mistake. My husband always published a sample in between 96 hours.
would you try again in the 96h or 72h pattern? (this time without my husband's publication). what was more successful?
thanks for your courage Atomic, so I'll keep trying. you just can't turn it off if you want to!
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December 2nd, 2020, 02:04 PM
#90
Swaying Advice Coach
72 hours. We've had good results with 72 hours and it's much higher chance of conception.
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