I don't think it's flares of AI disease that sways, it's whatever it is in us that makes us more prone to them to start with. We have just GOBS of all boy moms myself included who have allergies, asthma, skin issues like eczema, and more serious AI diseases. But they still have boys even before they develop their conditions, and even when not flaring. So if it's a question of thinking flaring is somehow worse, it's really no different than the day to day, but I don't ever want to see anyone getting ill for something that does not help a sway anyway (artificial sweetener)
That's great you feel at peace! Keep that energy!!