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    BD'ing E4D + peak opk

    Hi @atomic sagebrush

    We have been BD'ing e4d, we BD last night with a "high" opk and I woke this morning to my peak, is that good?
    Should I throw another attempt or just continue E4D pattern.

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    It all depends on what you want - if you want best odds of pink, just continue with e4d, if you want better odds of conception and are ok with possibly somewhat lowered chances of pink, have another attempt at positive OPK. Good luck!
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    Thank you @atomic sagebrush ideally I'd like to get pregnant this round as my due date over the next couple of cycles I have big events on.

    I woke up to a much stronger peak line on my OPK strip and a peak clueblue digital - see attached pic (top test is this morning). I had a lot of cramping yesterday afternoon and more discharge which was a lot like EWCM.

    My next BD is not until tomorrow on potential O day which means Ive done 0-3 & O and I'm worried I've missed my window. Would doing BD today harm my sway alot or do you feel confident with sticking to tomorrow's (e4d pattern)?20220513_065643.jpg

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    Oh sorry I only just now spotted this.

    It's your choice. For a better chance of conception you'd have another attempt. For best odds of pink stay with the attempt you had for now and have your next attempt on schedule. If you really can't make up your mind, flip a coin and do what the coin tells you.
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    Thanks @atomic sagebrush We just kept it at e4d. Would doing it at O hurt my chances of pink?

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    Nope. Timing doesn't sway a bit!
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    Thanks Atomic! So the boys swimmers aren't the faster swimmers? when you say timing doesn't matter, They won't get to the egg first if you BD on O day?

    So we continued just BDing every 4 days, I ended up getting another peak the next day and BD and I felt I ovulated the following day.

    I am 7dpo and I've been really dizzy and have had achy lower back and hips, metallic taste, increased hunger, constipation and sore boobs so I thought I'd just take a pregnancy test knowing it was far too early to see anything but I got this as soon as I picked it up after the 3mim alarm
    Could this be right at 7dpo?! It is so red! I took my trusty strip too and I can see a faint line on that aswell.20220523_064939.jpg

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    No. That's been completely debunked - X and Y sperm live the same length of time, swim the same speed, and are about the same size. Nearly 60 years ago - that's older than me even LOL - Dr. Shettles looked thru a microscope and saw some large, slow sperm that lived a long time, and some small, fast sperm that died quickly. He WRONGFULLY (and we know 100% he was wrong and mistaken on this) decided, with absolutely no evidence to prove it, that the big sperm were X and the small ones were Y. But they were in fact dormant (hibernating) and capacitated (ready to fertilize an egg) sperm of BOTH GENDERS - some of the big ones were Y sperm and some of the small ones were X.

    And even though we now have the technology to know that beyond a doubt, this theory just will not go away, because it's seemingly so "pretty" and perfect that many people just WANT it to be true. But wanting something to be true because it seems like it "should be", doesn't make something actually be true.

    Dr. Shettles died 20 years ago, he was very old and had not done any science in the public eye for some time prior to that, and everyone promoting his methods and selling books with his name for the last 30+ years is capitalizing on his name to sell something he was simply wrong about. Timing simply doesn't work, it doesn't sway, it's by far the most studied element of gender swaying and if there was anything to it, it would be completely proven by now. for every study that claims it works, there are 5 others showing it doesn't or that "it works the opposite" or whatever. If it worked, these studies would all be in agreement! Most of us on here have 2-3-4 or even more timing opposites, myself very much included.

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    Wow! That's very interesting thank you atomic!

    I was testing on both CB digital and strips aswell as doing BBT.
    they all had the same peak days and ov day even had my CM changed and had OV symptoms.
    I'm getting alot of symptoms and my BBT has shot up.
    I just took another preg test and it's definitely darker.

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    If you'd like a fuller explanation I do have my timing debunking here (but you may need to use a different browser than Tapatalk, as Tapatalk doesn't always open links on forums correctly) https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...le-timing.html

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