articles and studies about why abstain is not good for males over 35

[atomic sagebrush]

And never worry about starting a new thread OR keeping an old one going. I love to keep old threads going so we have these really informational threads for people to read, but you guys never need to go looking for threads to post in, it's fine to just post a new thread and I can always direct you. There's a lot of info on here and we just roll with it no matter what.

[Naiad]

Thank you!! I was thinking that might be best. That's what we did with our other pregnancies, except with the boys we had two attempts in the fertile window, on consecutive days. Definitely doing 1 BD only here...