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April 17th, 2013, 12:52 PM #11
Yes I've been there too unfortunately Anyone who has experienced a loss feels very much the same I think... Gender desire pales in comparison to wanting a healthy baby in my opinion!
I lost my first son at 32 weeks, and it's a loss I have never gotten over really. Then last year I lost my one and only DD at 14 weeks. I am finally pg again now after TTC for 9 months and I can honestly say I don't really care what this one is now... I mean I DO CARE, but I just want a healthy baby above all. It's like that old saying "You don't know what you've got till it's gone..." I will be a little upset if this one is a boy only because it is probably our last, and I will have to give up the dream of having a daughter. But I would NEVER say I am disappointed at having another son. It's more about the loss of NOT having a daughter, not disappoinment at having another son, know what I mean?
I am so sorry for your loss ... I promise you it does get easier with time, and it just makes the next baby even more cherished and loved. Good luck to you@ 9 wks
DS - 2004 @ 32 wks
DS1 - 2005
DS2 - 2007
DD - 2012 @ 14 wks
DS3 - 2013
Baby is here! Born December 4th, 2013 So blessed to have 3 healthy, handsome boys!
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