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    Sad Face Lost my little one...

    Found out that my baby's heart stopped at 6 weeks but didn't know until I was 11. Had a D&C. I'm soooooo sooo sad. I swayed pink. I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to try again soon but I'm afraid and I was eating whatever I wanted to during the pregnancy (including meat). I feel like I'm rambling but I needed somewhere to get it out to people who understand and don't think I'm crazy.
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    Lost my dear unborn baby August 2014, gender unconfirmed.

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    I'm praying for you. I was so Excited about your baby and can't wait to meet him or her in heaven. I hope you do try again.
    praying and swaying

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    So sad to read this. Time helps the helping process as well as surrounding yourself with the people you love. Thinking of you xxxx
    5 yrs 20 months. Hoping for

    Cycle 1 - HRC August 2013 - Long Lupron protocol - poor response, cycle cancelled

    Cycle 1.5 - HRC October 2013 - Microdose Lupron protocol - 15 eggs, 10 mature, 9 fertilised, 8 to day 5 All abnormal No transfer

    Cycle 2 - HRC January 2014 - 13 eggs, 8 mature, 8 fertilised, 6 to day 5, 4XX, 2XY - 4 abnormal BUT... 2 normal XX

    FET 1 - HRC May 2014 - BFN

    FET 2 - HRC August 2014 - BFP!!!

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    I'm so so sorry! Definitely do what feels best, I've been reassured from the lovely ladies that m/c sways so I would try again when you feel emotionally ready rather than stressing about being off diet while pg. Hugs!
    DS1 (2012)
    Due 7/13/2015 ! Swayed pink and I am blessed to be with and (TWINS!)!

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    So sorry mama. I had a very similar experience. It is so heartbreaking. I do hope you try again. For me I feel I wont heal until I have a baby in my arms but I'm scared that I will have more losses. Very tough situation. Get some rest and keep in touch. Big hugs to you.
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    August 2014 at 12 weeks

    DD1 our beautiful rainbow baby joined us october 2015. No sway...just miracles.

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    So sorry mama heartbreaking. You know what is best for you but lots of ladies have conceived quickly after miscarriage Xx
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    How heartbreaking MamaLuv. The loss of a baby is something that's all too common but something no mum should have to go through, whether it's 6weeks, 36weeks into a pregnancy or after birth or later, either way it's the loss of a child and it hurts.

    After my loss in April, it was hard to try again and I was worried about being off the diet etc but m/c also sways pink. I got pregnant with our twins the second cycle after the loss and so far they are happy and healthy!

    Sending you love and prayers xx
    Mum of 9 boys & my stillborn angel daughter, Shaylah Anne 20/02/2015

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    If you feel ready to try again then do everything you did to sway and + it is believed that m/c sway pink. If you don't feel ready, take as much time as you need.
    I would like to tell you what my OB told me when I had my m/c "a great amount of pregnancies are rejected by our body because it knows something is wrong".
    I don't know if it gives you comfort, but it helped me to deal with my loss.
    (2005) (2008) TTCBLUE 2015

    It's a girl!!!


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    Sorry to hear of your loss MamaLuv sending love and healing your way.
    '01 model (my baby girl forever 5mths '02 model)
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    My gender dreaming success arrived safe July 2015. He is a complete dream come true and an absolutely beautiful little boy.


    A huge thank you to Atomic for all her encouragement when I was up against things out of my control and ready to chuck it in. I can never thank you enough. Thank you also to all the other knowledgeable and ever supportive ladies that have helped and encouraged me. I truly believe my dream would not have come true without this site, my boy gender plan and the incredible love and support.

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    Thanks ladies. This is the hardest thing I've ever endured. It hurts knowing I'll never know my baby. I think about him or her everyday. :-(
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    Lost my dear unborn baby August 2014, gender unconfirmed.

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