Think i never will get a baby again

[onebigwish]

I know it’s extremely negative thinking cause it’s just my second round but i literally tried everything to boost odds of conception. This round i used 25 mg of clomid days 3-7 i got my positive opk on cd12 and ovulated on cd13 saw EWCM on cd 11&12. We BDed on cd 11,13,14,18. After bd laid 5 min on my back then rolled over to my tummy and slept till the morning (deep penetration) Had a big O before and after DH. I just don’t understand what whe did wrong. I really think i wont will get another baby again especially because my boys i got pg the first month. What’s your opinion atomic shall i take clomid mext round or not? Maybe it’s the clomid that isn’t getting me pg.

Ps: before 4 months i had my cupper iud removal& laparoscopic operation And dont need clomid just for swaying purposes.

[atomic sagebrush]

It takes fully fertile couples doing nothing to sway an average of 3-6 months to get pregnant. If you've gotten pregnant the first time out in the past, it is good luck. It's not a guarantee that it will always and forever be that way.

We have an average on this site (including those on Clomid) of 3 months to conception. So you're still well within that normal range 3-6 months or so. Don't start worrying till you have gone 6-9 months not getting pregnant!

Some months just arent THE month. Something can go "wrong" with the egg or the sperm or the way they combine or maybe they just never find each other. It's totally normal and 25 mg of Clomid for 2 months is extremely unlikely to be affec ting your ability to conceive negatively. Now if you were on 100 for 5 months then maybe, but I just think this is a matter of having to wait for the right sperm to meet the right egg!

[onebigwish]

Update: i had a implantation bleeding on 7dpo it were two drops and one time with wiping it was brow/red it stopped quickly. I was convinced the timing was right for IB i even didn’t have the pmdd symptoms I usually had!
Poas today BFN 13 dpo and started spotting....
Im so hartbroken i was convinced that I’m pregnant because of the IB yet i dont trust my body anymore ever!

Can a midcycle bleeding be caused by b6+b12 and vitex?

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes, it can, and I would strongly suggest giving up the vitex as it has seemed to really cut odds of conception for people.

How much B6 are you taking? Have you noticed any changes in your cycle since starting it?

[Noemi2017]

Onebigwish dont loose your hope. It took me 8 months till i conceived. With my son i also got pg the first month. Try to be patient the right month is coming. Good luck

[onebigwish]

Yes, it can, and I would strongly suggest giving up the vitex as it has seemed to really cut odds of conception for people.

How much B6 are you taking? Have you noticed any changes in your cycle since starting it?

I was started taking vitex for just two weeks and b-complex for two months.b6 50mg & b12 1gram. Oh and i forgor to say that i also take wheat germ oil since two months

No i didn’t noticed any changes in my cycle. Only that spotting in midcycle which i thought/hoped it was IB...

Tomorrow im 15dpo and still spotting...so considering i have a long LF. I normally have 12/13 days LF

[onebigwish]

Onebigwish dont loose your hope. It took me 8 months till i conceived. With my son i also got pg the first month. Try to be patient the right month is coming. Good luck

Thanks you noemi,how many weeks are you pg yet?

[Noemi2017]

Im already 19weeks

[Throwaway_panther]

I'm so sorry you're going through this onebigwish. I think I asked you awhile ago if DH had had his sperm checked out. And it was decent, right?

You're still in that year window -- which is killer, I know, but you're still not in "maybe there's an issue" territory yet, especially when you're swaying for a girl: something that comes with some things that potentially hinder conception. I'm sure atomic's working with you, but have you dropped some certain sway tactics that might be keeping you from a quicker bfp? Like TOO low fat, too low calorie, jump & dump, etc.?

I feel for you. After how many miscarriages we had, I truly felt like it was never going to happen at times. Literally felt like I was just constantly running face first into a wall over and over sometimes. And now I'm almost 28 weeks pregnant. Certainly not at all on the timeline that I wanted, but it did finally happen for me too that a baby stuck. I'm hoping you get your month soon!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I'd drop the vitex. Have you been taking the vitex daily or did you stop around CD 14?