Results 1 to 5 of 5
  1. #1
    Dream Newbie

    Join Date
    Oct 2018
    Posts
    1
    Post Thanks / Like
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0

    Regret at not swaying properly

    Hey guys,
    So I found out a few weeks ago I am pregnant which I was elated about after trying for a while. When we began trying I did a lot of research in to gender swaying and really wanted a girl for personal reasons. After it wasn't happening I decided it didn't matter, boy or girl, I just wanted to have a baby.

    We used Pre-seed and SMEP (sperm meets egg plan)and they worked. Now I'm overcome with hormones and anxiety about having a son. I do know I love this baby whatever sex. But I feel so guilty and not excited at all about a boy, I can't stop crying.

    We're going to find out the gender so I can get my head around it if it's a boy and stop this anxiety either way.

    Can people who used Pre-seed and/or SMEP (sperm meets egg plan) tell me what gender babies they went on to have?

    I'm sorry if this comes off insensitive, I'm just a hormonal mess.




    Sent from my Pixel 2 XL using Tapatalk

  2. #2
    Dream Member
    missiz's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2013
    Location
    Australia
    Posts
    440
    Post Thanks / Like
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    its fair enough that you are having these feelings, you would definitely not be the only one going through this after falling pregnant. alot of ladies have a certain amount of anxiety after finally falling pregnant. I used a small amount of pre-seed with my 3rd pregnancy which was my 1st sway, and I successfully went on to have a daughter. I didnt use SMEP but no matter what you do in a sway, there is always a chance of a girl, even if you didnt sway at all.

    and dont worry about being hormonal, im 12 weeks pregnant and an absolute mess too hahaha hang in there xo

    8 years 5 years
    Successful sway 2 years old
    Successful sway 2 week old


  3. #3
    Dream Member
    Throwaway_panther's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2016
    Location
    U.S.
    Posts
    2,220
    Post Thanks / Like
    Blog Entries
    2
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    There really isn't a "proper" way to sway though! People do end up with both genders purely by chance, and people on here all the time have gotten their DGs from sways that weren't to the letter!

    And for what it's worth, I know a boy swayer who did SMEP and preseed and got girls both times she swayed. No factor is ever a deciding factor! I did essentially SMEP and used a fingertip of preseed for one of my attempts this time (I have a lot of CM in general) and was actively swaying blue forever and will honestly be surprised if I get a boy
    DD 2016
    x8
    DD 2019 (sway opposite )


    Dec. 2017: IVF Cycle #1 - 16 > 9 > 2 blasts: 1 normal XX, 1 abnormal XY
    Feb. 2018: IVF Cycle #2 - 17 > 8 > 4 blasts: 1 normal XX, 1 abnormal XX, 2 abnormal XY
    Took a leap of faith and transferred two XYs: Chemical


    No rainbows. Just an unending storm.

  4. #4
    Swaying Advice Coach
    atomic sagebrush's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2010
    Location
    Eastern Washington State, USA
    Posts
    95,809
    Post Thanks / Like
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    Yes you can still get a girl doing everything under the sun that's boy friendly!

    If you do decide to try again in the future, please don't hesitate, come to me, I have ways to boost odds of conception that are more pink friendly. It's SO much better to compromise on a few things than to go on and on not getting pregnant and then basically end up doing a blue sway in order to conceive and I'd be happy to help with that when the time comes.
    !!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!

    LOOKING FOR YOUR SWAY PLAN? Have you checked the coaching forum? It will be posted in the same place your questionnaire is! https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

    LE Diet Ideas Threads: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54174-brand-sparkly-pink-new-diet-thread-girl-sways.html and here:https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54926-le-diet-thread.html?highlight=le+diet+meal+ideas

    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

  5. #5
    Dream Vet
    LMSM's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2016
    Location
    Australia
    Posts
    1,243
    Post Thanks / Like
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    I swayed blue, did the SMEP and used Preseed...and got a girl! (Though I must be extremely predisposed to girls, seeing I had two before swaying)
    Good luck!
    Lucky Mummy to 3 adorable princesses
    (07/2013) (09/2015) (03/2018)
    (07/2014)
    Our sway didnít work for #3 - but we love her to bits... still hoping we might add blue to the crew, to complete our family - hopefully TTC blue mid 2020?

    Will take any and all available blue dust,please

  6. Thanks atomic sagebrush thanked for this post

Similar Threads

  1. Does anyone regret those GD feelings now that bubs is here
    By 3littleladies in forum Gender Disappointment
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: October 10th, 2013, 11:15 PM
  2. do you regret any part of your sway?
    By a&jmummy in forum Gender Swaying General Discussion
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: August 22nd, 2013, 10:30 PM
  3. Intro to Swaying LIBRARY - General Swaying Info Found HERE
    By atomic sagebrush in forum Gender Swaying General Discussion
    Replies: 22
    Last Post: January 2nd, 2013, 07:57 PM

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •