Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    Dream Newbie

    Join Date
    Nov 2019
    Posts
    17
    Post Thanks / Like
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0

    First month TTC ended in chemical..advice for next month!

    Hi Atomic,

    So I got an early BFP which then turned into my 2nd chemical, last was in September. We did two attempts, 5 days in between. Had been doing LE alternate diet/exercise, moderate alcohol & my husband was doing abstain.

    Is there anything I should differ for next month? Not sure about abstain etc. Would really like to conceive ASAP but aware most fertility positive things = more boy friendly too!


    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

  2. #2
    Swaying Advice Coach
    atomic sagebrush's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2010
    Location
    Eastern Washington State, USA
    Posts
    107,138
    Post Thanks / Like
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    Oh gosh I'm sorry to hear that, Amy.

    Two attempts 5 days apart is actually ONE attempt since there's no way both batches of sperm could have made it to the egg.

    Abstain doesn't work, if you prefer to drop that and go to either FR (releasing daily for 7-10 days) or regular release every 2-4 days with the one attempt, that's just dandy if that feels better to you.

    Are you taking any herbs or any other supplements, even things that seem benign like B6 or peppermint tea?

    PS - did you intend to lock this post so no one could respond?? It's easy to do on accident so I opened it for you and am replying, but if you prefer it's relocked just let me know.
    !!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!

    If you appreciate my help with your sway plan, please consider a donation:

    https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=C92U9TVWTRTDQ

  3. #3
    Dream Newbie

    Join Date
    Nov 2019
    Posts
    17
    Post Thanks / Like
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    Hi Atomic,

    Ah thank you so much!! I did it on purpose but only because I figured I wasnít really sure 100% what I wanted to ask, so Iíve since just submitted another one! Really sorry about this! My head has been all over since the loss, we had really got our hopes up so feel a bit confused about how weíre going about the next attempt!

    That makes perfect sense about the attempts. Iíd only been taking folic acid so far.


    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

  4. Likes atomic sagebrush liked this post
  5. #4
    Swaying Advice Coach
    atomic sagebrush's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2010
    Location
    Eastern Washington State, USA
    Posts
    107,138
    Post Thanks / Like
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    Oh, well, I hope it was ok I unlocked it, then! No worries, I'd actually answered your other question (which was a bit different) so hopefully between the two you feel you've got a good reply! Let me know if there's anything else I can help you with.
    !!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!

    If you appreciate my help with your sway plan, please consider a donation:

    https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=C92U9TVWTRTDQ

Similar Threads

  1. 2nd month on Clomid, 2nd 6 day LP - Advice please
    By LA_Girl in forum Trying to Conceive a Girl
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: February 27th, 2018, 02:43 PM
  2. Replies: 4
    Last Post: September 30th, 2012, 01:52 PM

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •