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Gender Swaying Factors versus Gender Swaying Tactics

by Gender Selection Guru
August 9th, 2013

Why do we at Gender Dreaming call swaying techniques “tactics” instead of “factors”?

The word “factor” implies something that is a necessary part of a whole. Mathematically, when we factor something, we are reducing it to its smallest indivisible part. The parts HAVE to be there – if you leave out one factor it changes everything. A factor is an essential, integral part of something. To use the word “factor” when talking about swaying implies that there are X number of things that you HAVE to include in a sway, things that affect gender equally, things that can make or break a sway if they are not included. pH, ions, minerals, hormones, supplements, timing and diet are the oft-touted IG sway factors and if you leave any of them out, according to them, it means you will have less of a sway. Just like trying to get to 36 without using the number 2 – it’s not possible. You need the factor 2 to get to 36 and according to IG you need timing to get to a baby of a particular gender.

On the other hand, a tactic is a strategy to accomplish a goal (or a part of an overall strategy), a means to an end, not an essential part of something. You can have one tactic/strategy for accomplishing a goal or many strategies. If you use one tactic, you can use others if you’d like, but you don’t have to. One tactic very well may be good enough. You can try a tactic on for size and decide it doesn’t work for you, drop it or switch to a different tactic. You can eliminate tactics that are disruptive to your life and focus on tactics that are a better fit.

If you have to get to work, there are various tactics one might use to get there – you can walk, bike, drive, take the bus, call a coworker for a ride, hitchhike, even work from home instead. Your getting to work is not diminished by whether you walk or ride the bus – it might take you a little longer but then again you’re spared the stress of driving! All you have to do is get to work – it doesn’t matter HOW you get there, how long it takes, or whether you enjoyed the ride or not.

With swaying, it works the same way. The goal is getting a baby of a particular gender and how you get there can vary dramatically (as we all know by looking around at the rest of the world most of whom have both boys and girls without any thought or effort whatsoever). I personally believe there are many ways to sway, but they are NOT “factors”. They are TACTICS. Meaning, you don’t have to do all of them. You don’t even need to do ANY of them (doing nothing and just TTC, IS a tactic and may be effective for some people who find the idea of swaying to be highly stressful). Each tactic is not adding 3% of a sway or whatever they used to claim on IG and only if you do them all will it add up to a good sway. Some tactics are supereffective and others probably don’t get ya a whole lot or anything at all really.

If you’ve already done what you can do, swayed the amount it is possible for any of us TO sway (because remember, swaying can never be 100% or even close or the whole human race would have died out a long time ago) with an effective tactic, then trying to include an ineffective tactic is at best silly and at worst can ruin a sway by either undoing some of the good you did with your effective tactic or else by taking your energy and attention away from doing effective tactics, well, effectively.

As an example, IF diet really can be 80% effective (which some of the French Gender Diet data indicates) and 80% is about as good a sway as you can get, then why would you waste time and energy doing timing just in case?? Timing is hugely disruptive, time consuming, reduces odds of conception, and may even sway in the opposite direction by making pink swayers get obsessed and detail-oriented and blue swayers feel overwhelmed and reducing sperm numbers for them. If you already GOT the 80% from diet, even if timing can possibly sway by (let’s be generous here) 25% (it doesn’t) you are NOT adding anything whatsoever to your sway. The diet tactic already did the heavy lifting…all timing can do is add stress that may even undo some of the good the diet tactic did, by screwing up your testosterone levels and making it super hard to get pg, which over time leads to people cheating on diet and dropping tactics that are way way way more effective than timing.

If these “factors” were really factors, then by all rights InGender should be getting better than 80%. They’re doing a strict French-style diet plus hormones, ions, timing, pH, etc etc etc…if all these things really add to the sway, should they not be doing BETTER than the stats on diet alone? Like, WAY better? But they’re not. I don’t mean to say these things don’t sway (some do, some don’t) but they can’t be swaying more than it is possible to sway, if you get my drift. These things CANNOT be “factors”, they’re TACTICS.

Basically, what I’m trying to say is, there’s only a certain amount of ground we can cover with swaying. We can only sway so much, swaying will never be 100% or anywhere close, and so given that reality, instead of including “factors” that are allegedly prerequisites for success, you should pick tactics that accomplish your overall goal of getting a baby of your desired gender – and focus on the ones that work for YOU and your husband. You don’t NEED to do them all, if you’ve already got the ground covered one way you’re not going to cover it any better by doing more than needs to be done. 80% is 80% regardless of how you got there.

In other words, you can only get to work one way – it’s ludicrous to say, well, I’m going to walk to work today but I’m also going to call a cab and have it follow me along just in case my legs suddenly give out on me. It’s a waste of your money and effort, and I suspect it would even make you more likely to give up on the walking if it was a little chilly or your feet got tired. The cab may even get in your way if you needed to cross the street. You don’t need BOTH the walking and the cab strategy. You have to pick the tactic that will get you where you need to go while meeting your personal needs the best.

Putting a little dress or a football under the bed, no worries. That’s no effort at all and there are no downsides to it. But including timing, ions, biorhythms, astrology, Chinese Gender Predictor, and even some of the stuff that may even have a grain of truth like pH, is this huge expense in time and effort, they keep people from TTC in months they need to be TTC and can prevent pregnancy, they keep swaying always first and foremost in your mind which can affect T levels and mess with your mind to such an extent that people without strong gender preferences end up getting GD!

I personally have witnessed m any people who did not do diet or gave up on it when things got tough in order to rely more on timing or ions to carry the day. And women who were in their late 30’s and limiting themselves to trying in !!!! 2 !!!! months out of an entire year because of astrology. That’s kinda like deciding walking to work is too hard and taking a month off to construct an imaginary teleporter out of a cardboard box to get you there.

Even things that probably do sway a bit like frequency can be super disruptive, feed swaycession, and create a big sticking point between husband and wife (not to mention reduce odds of conception). If you’re already doing diet and taking supps, PLEASE don’t get so hung up on frequency that you are consumed by it. In the big picture of an overall good sway, frequency is probably not getting you anything that isn’t already covered. Maybe if a person was doing nothing else to sway, frequency may sway a little bit. But 80% is 80%. Adding frequency to an otherwise good sway is like calling the cab to follow you while you walk – you were gonna get to work anyway and all you have added is a distraction – one that may piss your husband off so bad that he pulls the plug on the entire babymaking adventure (this HAS happened to people).

So when swaying, think TACTICS, not “factors”. If something isn’t working for you in your life, then drop it. Use other tactics to accomplish the same goal. Assuming you TTC every month starting at 18 and ending at 40, that’s only 264 months in which you can even possibly get pregnant – and obviously for most of us it’s a heck of a lot less than that since we may not even have begun TTC till we were older, and lose months due to pregnancy, breastfeeding, our fertility may decline sooner than age 40, and so on. That is SUCH a short time and it goes in the blink of an eye…don’t waste those precious months it on “factors” that don’t even work when you’re already using tactics that do.

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Personalized Swaying Plan Member Testimonials

by Gender Selection Guru
May 10th, 2013

Real feedback from Real Members in our forum-

Just saw the request for testimonials, and wanted to tell anyone who is thinking about purchasing a custom sway plan that I have one, and truly believe it is well worth the $$….even if you kind of know how you want to sway, I think the reassurance and answers to all the questions that arise as you go along makes the service invaluable.

The value for money (in my opinion) is not just in the sway plan itself… but all the quick and thorough answers atomic gives me on a daily basis, and the fact that your forum is “private” is a bonus too (for anyone who is a bit guarded about all their ttc tmi questions in particular!)

I am so grateful to atomic for her continued support and quick answers to all my questions….I am not even pg yet (only actively starting to ttc this month, after buying plan in Feb), but already I think its the best money I have ever spent, thank you atomic – Member coralsky

 

I bought a custom plan back in August 2012, even though I knew we wouldn’t be TTC until April 2013. IMO, the coaching service is definitely the best part of the plan! I am too much of a planner to not do my own extensive research, so I really could have written up a plan myself, but the one-on-one attention from Atomic was worth every penny I paid, and that’s with paying more for an extra six months of support since I bought so far in advance!

I had a lot of questions throughout the whole process and Atomic always answered them patiently and thoroughly within about a day. I ended up tweaking my plan quite a bit at the last minute, and I was so grateful for Atomic’s input. I might have ended up trashing my sway altogether if I hadn’t had her to bounce ideas off of and reassure me.

We ended up getting pregnant our very first cycle trying and, although it was nothing like I thought it would be, I’m very confident in our sway. I know that if we do have an opposite, I did what I could with what I had, I will love him with all my heart, and Atomic will me here for me when we eventually TTC #4!-  Member Sihaya

 

Atomic’s coaching has been the best part of the swaying plan. Each cycle for me can be so different, so it is very reasuring having someone that i can call upon with all the knowledge i need to answer my many many questions. It makes the whole swaying process much less stressful. Very important when swaying pink!

I highly recommend the coaching service. And so reasonably priced. – Member jasper

 

I would also like to give a strong recommendation for the custom sway plan. Atomic truly takes her knowledge of swaying and based on the questionnaire you fill out, she makes the best possible plan just for *YOU.* It takes the stress and guesswork out of swaying. If a question pops into your head, you just type it in your special atomic thread and she gives you her advice. You don’t have to stress and wonder if you have the right answer to your questions.

Atomic truly did “write the book” so to speak on swaying, and her methodology has already proven much more successful than the “other site.” It just makes sense to follow the best advice that comes straight from the source. If you’re serious about swaying as your method of getting your DG, you should buy a plan. I honestly don’t even think it was all that expensive considering everything you get with it, and it’s waaaaay cheaper than going HT. My only regret is that I wasn’t able to buy the 21 day meal plan Atomic is offering now to correspond with my sway as it wasn’t available back then. If I were to do it all over again, I’d buy a custom plan about 4 months or so before my attempt and buy the 21 day meal plan and use both of them together. – Member BabyGirl4Me

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Categories Natural Gender Swaying, TTC a Boy, TTC a Girl
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Tips for Conceiving a Boy

by nuthinbutpink
April 14th, 2013

Here are some fast facts and some tips when trying to conceive a boy-

Timing doesn’t sway.  Shettles got it wrong.

Timing is based entirely on one man’s mistake.

40-odd years ago, Dr. Landrum Shettles (who was actually an incredibly smart man in pretty much every way and did wonders for the cause of infertility), took a look at some sperm under a microscope and noticed something that no one had ever seen before. Some of the sperm had tiny little heads and seemed to be moving faster, while other sperm had big fat heads and were moving more slowly. He immediately concluded that the fat heads HAD to be X sperm and the skinny heads HAD to be Y sperm. He began to perform and publish studies based on this idea, write books, and we STILL can’t get rid of the guy 40 year later.

The problem is, he was TOTALLY WRONG. What he was really looking at, was capacitated and uncapacitated sperm. The capacitation process had not yet been discovered when Dr. Shettles developed his timing theory. Capacitated sperm are sperm that have lost the protective cap at their tip and are all excited about it because it means they’re ready to fertilize an egg. Uncapacitated sperm are bigger and more laid back because they still have their protective cap. Eventually, they’ll lose that cap and be small and move around a lot more too, but they are BOTH X and Y sperm, whether they have a cap or whether they don’t. Sperm capacitate in waves and they seem to be able to communicate with each other on some primitive level to coordinate this process, so as long as there are living sperm present, some will be capacitated and ready to fertilize any cute little egg who happens to show up dateless at the party, and some will be waiting their turn.

Have a Bedtime Snack, Have a Boy

Studies show that eating a bedtime snack and eating breakfast, meaning one never goes more than 8-10 hours without eating, not even at night, results in more boys.

High Calorie, High Protein Diet will Sway Boy

Studies show that it’s not as simple as consuming calcium and magnesium to conceive a girl and potassium and sodium to conceive a boy.

GenderDreaming has developed a TTC a Boy Natural Gender Selection method to help assist those that want to try to sway their odds naturally to have a boy.  This method is referred to as the “High Everything Diet(HE Diet)”.  In short, the HE Diet is a

  • high calorie
  • high protein
  • high healthy fat diet, with
  • high nutrient intake and eating in patterns that are more likely to help keep blood sugar steady.

This diet has a scientific basis using the Trivers Willard Hypothesis.  This research showed that the gender ratios could be controlled by Parental condition at conception.  Trivers and Willard believed that animals and humans would give birth to more males when parents are in “good conditions” and more females when parents are in “poor conditions”.

Conditions means more than just diet. There is more to determining gender than what you eat.

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