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November 18th, 2018, 04:09 PM
#61
Swaying Advice Coach
If you post in your coaching forum I can give you same day service!! Just "reply" to your plan.
Anyway, it's not critical at all, it's just to guard against delayed ovulation. I suspect you've ovulated and it's all good now anyway. I'd just let him rest now.
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November 28th, 2018, 04:18 PM
#62
Dreamer
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November 28th, 2018, 05:13 PM
#63
Swaying Advice Coach
STill aim at SMEP just ease off the attempts that are not in the fertile window.
I would go back to 2x a week and then hit it with the 3x attempts at or around positive OPK.
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December 17th, 2018, 07:50 PM
#64
Dreamer
Hi atomic
I’ve got a bit of a funny one this month - I’ve been DTD every other day and waiting to ovulate but still nothing. When I did an ovulation Callander it said I should have by now - about 4 days ago.
A) can you have random months where you don’t ovulate or is it more likely I’ve missed it with a test
B) if I didn’t ovulate should I be concerned? Especially with my low ovarian reserve?
C) if I did and missed it somehow - am I in major girl territory by just dtd eod and not getting in my multiple attempts around OPK???
Relevant Bd in our fertile window are - Cd12, cd14, cd 16 and tonight which is cd18
Can I still ovulate after cd18 or is that highly unlikely??
What do I do now - just continue dtd eod for a while longer? When can I stop?
Thanks xx
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December 18th, 2018, 05:27 PM
#65
Swaying Advice Coach
Yes you can still ovulate at any time. Even after several weeks/months! Keep BD.
It's also possible to have a false negative OPK - so the OPK never goes positive but you have surged and ovulated.
No I'd not worry - often with low ovarian reserve you will still ovulate, just that the egg is no good. Doesn't tell us anything
DTD every other day sways blue. I don't have as high of confidence in it as I do the 3 around pos OPK but it's still good for blue.
Just keep going as long as you guys can stand it.
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December 26th, 2018, 05:07 PM
#66
Dreamer
Hi there!
It’s been a while - I’ve sort of lost my way with my sway if I’m totally honest.
We’ve been ttc for 4 months now over 5 month period (we took 1 month off as we went away and my sway took a massive hit). Still no BFP. With my three girls we got a BFP within 1-2 months. I think that’s part of my spiralling motivation. Before ttc #4 I got told I had low ovarian reserve after some bloods I had done. This cycle I didn’t appear to ovulate at all, but I’ve just had a ridiculously heavy period with some really weird symptoms and (sorry tmi) lots of clotting - so I did wonder if it was perhaps a missed miscarriage?? *
As it’s Christmas, my sway has deviated - diet is ok (as I’m stuffing my face!!) but I’m not really exercising, supps are hit and miss and I am drinking quite a bit of gin (during my swaying I reserved it to one large red on a Friday night!)
Do I ttc in jan cycle - in 2 weeks on the basis that my egg reserve may be low and time not on my side (36) or do I take jan off to give myself 6 weeks to get back on it properly??? I’m also concerned that if it was a missed miscarriage- if I ttc in jan (the next cycle) doesn’t that sway pink?? Just would like some friendly advise on what others would do in this situation.
I know In the scheme of things ttc for 4 months is nothing, but I just feel I’m losing my way a bit and if I’m totally honest losing my conviction for swaying (my partner is a non believer, especially as #3 was a sway opposite)
Help!! Xxx
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December 26th, 2018, 06:44 PM
#67
Swaying Advice Coach
I answered this in your other thread!
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January 6th, 2019, 05:37 PM
#68
Dreamer
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January 6th, 2019, 07:37 PM
#69
Swaying Advice Coach
O Pain does not tell you when you're ovulating. You can have those pains before during and after O (the Fallopian tubes cramp pretty intensely after ovualtion)
But yes go ahead and BD tonight and then again CD 17. If possible to BD C 16 then go for it, but if not I wouldn't worry too much about it.
Don't worry about the morning attempt. That is mainly for people who have to do Shettles timing. They don't do any earlier attempts and so I have them do that morning attempt. But I've never done that and I have 4 boys all of whome are from attempts very much like yours are.
I can't tell you if that's 4 attempts or not - just too many variables. But I can tell you that is very very much how I got my boys. We didn't BD day after day after day, much more like what you guys did - and that's for all four!
We don't know how baby oil sways. As a general rule I prefer people avoid oils because sperm isn't meant to swim thru oil but a little is fine, it couldn't have amounted to anything esp. with the Preseed in the mix. You got this!
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January 7th, 2019, 01:01 PM
#70
Dreamer
Thanks so much atomic - so so reassuring to know that’s how you got your boys! Fingers crossed it works the same for us. It’s cycle 5 for us so I really hope this is it
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Healthy baby girl :)