OOPS....BFP

[aussiesmiler]

So, as you can see I am pregnant and this was a big OOPS! I have only just come to terms with the shock of it all because this was not part of our plan. In fact the first thing DH said to me was 'don't you need to have sex to have a baby'! Because we were certainly NOT trying and in the month of December we only DTD once, yes poor DH but it was such a busy month and with 2 small children I just wasn't in the mood and also DH was working long hours before his Christmas break so it really was a 2 way street. THE most ironic part of all of this is that I had a $200 appointment with an amazing IVF Dr here in Melbourne and as I was sitting in front of him with my pretesting scripts being written I was already 2 days pregnant! How's that for irony ladies!!

Anyway, I have cried and felt many emotions because we really didn't want 3 children but I convinced DH to have 1 more and his proviso was yes but only if we go HT to ensure I get my girl, because as much as he would love a daughter he was very content with our family of 4. I think it's another boy although I was doing things very, very differently to when I conceived my boys but some of them this time were even more boy friendly than ever before because I was taking all the recommended vitamins by Lori/Dr P. I was, however, thanks to Atomic, skipping breakfast, not snacking ever and only eating 2 meals a day because I wanted to see if I could do the LE diet if my pretesting was unfavorable. There are other things but I will leave it here for now....it is in the hands of God but somehow I think DH will be installing a urinal!!

[kitkat18]

Congrats aussiesmiler! I know its not the exact result you were after but maybe it will be your little lady and you will have just saved thousands of dollars! Crossing everything for you that it is, so many oopsies end up being girls and sounds like you were girl swaying XX

[aussiesmiler]

Thanks so much kitkat! Please keep everything crossed for me XX I think I'm going to need it! But yes there is the chance I have saved us thousands of dollars!! Upon thousands.....

I know a few people who have told me their DD was an oops baby including my Grandma and Nanna who both had oops girls. I am 12.5 weeks pregnant and have my scan next week (first time DH could get home early enough for an appointment) so I will definitely post a pic for nub guesses.

[kitkat18]

Please do Aussie! I will be sure to guess for you X

[lovemy2blessings]

Congrats, hope you have a dd!

[True Blue]

Congratulations let's hope your dietary changes, ooopsie conception and conceiving with a young baby all sway in your favour

[sc1411]

Congratulations

P.S. My first DD was an oops baby

[aussiesmiler]

Congratulations let's hope your dietary changes, ooopsie conception and conceiving with a young baby all sway in your favour

Thank you True Blue! Having such a young baby was my second biggest concern because we were booked in for ER at HRC for the end of May when DS2 would be just 1 and having 2 babies so close together is going tp be exhausting.....but I won't be the only person to do it so I'm sure I will survive :-))

[foxymrsg]

Massive congrats! I'm keeping my fingers tightly crossed this is your girl! Looking forward to nubcessing with you next week! GL for your scan!

[Girlfriend]

Thank you True Blue! Having such a young baby was my second biggest concern because we were booked in for ER at HRC for the end of May when DS2 would be just 1 and having 2 babies so close together is going tp be exhausting.....but I won't be the only person to do it so I'm sure I will survive :-))

Good luck Hun, I hope its your DD