new 13 weeks scan please tell me the gender!

[lisvna]

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[NeedAGirl!]

Looks pretty classic boy to me based on second pic. Sorry, I think you were hoping girl?

[nuthinbutpink]

That's a boy, hun.

[lisvna]

One tech said boy other one said girl.....one of those said its too soon to see it with a potty shot right now. So very confusing but It looks boyish to me but the skull looks very girly (see post yesterday).

[nuthinbutpink]

That last ultrasound looked to be very poor quality. This is really clear. I know it's not what you were hoping for but I think that is a definite boy. That is a penis and a textbook boy nub.

[dloui128]

these new shots definitely look like a boy to me

[lisvna]

The whole ivf/pgd cycle was so hard. Even with 4 embies we just got pregnant with one. So we are very happy we can give our son a sibling (and in this case a brother). We put our selfish desire of a girl aside just to give our son a sibling and that's the reason we put back 4 embies. 2xx and 2xy. We hoped for a girl would stick but unfortunately it is a boy and we knew it could happen and that was okay for us. It is "just" our second child so we know we have more chances. We hoped that we wouldn't be in the position to choose for a third baby just because of gender.....I wish I had slightly more luck in my life because it's seems to me like I always don't have luck in the things I really want. But this boy is very welcome and we will love him as much as our other son. Dr Phill said ones: some decesions are right. sometimes you have to make a decision right. You have to say: "This is the decision I have made. I'm going to grow we're my seeds are planted and I'm going to make something out of that." (it was said in English I translated it in Dutch and again to English so I hope it makes sense hihihihi).

[nuthinbutpink]

That's awesome, lisvna. I admire what you did and it speaks volumes about your character. I think brothers are awesome and you have a perfect family in the making.

[sixhappysons]

I think you have an amazing attitude and will love having sons to raise. Brothers have a fantastic bond.

[alreadyneedivf]

I couldn't even tell my son was a boy at 36 weeks so I am no help at all with ultrasounds, but congrats on having another boy since it seems like the experts on here are pretty confident--they will be best friends--how special!!!!

[auroara78]

I think that is a great attitude to have, and I know your son will be so happy having a brother! I did feel very sad orginally that DS2 was a boy, (mostly because i worried about if we'd ever get a girl), but now the's a 1 years old and DS1 and him play so well together, I am so happy he is here and that DS1 has a brother. I think this will turn out awesome, and as you say, there is always a chacne for a girl down the road. That is what I did!

[RedCanoe]

13 weeks is really early to tell for sure, but that really looks like boy bits to me. With my last little boy they could tell at the 13 week ultrasound, as well. I'm sorry you didn't hear girl and I know you must be disappointed. But having two little boys really is quite awesome, and your attitude is great already, so I think you will enjoy them. And like you said, you can go back for a girl for #3! :)

[Pangea]

Definitely looks like a boy to me. Congratulations.

I wanted a girl when ttc DS2, I knew about swaying but I decided not to. I was hoping he would be a girl and when I found out he was a boy I was a bit disappointed, but now I love having two boys. It's really lovely watching them play together, they have a lovely relationship and are into all the same things now, DS1 was delighted to have a brother.

[love-my-kids]

I agree those are classic boy nub and potty pics. Congrats!!!

[ashkash]

I agree that it looks quite boyish. The bond between brothers is so amazing, and you will love watching them grow up together. Congratulations!

[pearl]

Congrats with a healthy :babym:

[lisvna]

Thanks girls!

[NeedAGirl!]

I definitely echo what everyone is saying - I had pretty bad gd when DS2 was born but now I know that was God's plan all along. All I have to do is listen to their silly conversations and watch DS2 looking to his big brother for reassurance and I know why he is here!

[Cinss]

I also think boy from this pic

[lisvna]

With the 17 weeks 3d scan she confirmed it is a boy.