BZ94
March 4th, 2013, 07:09 AM
So my GD isn't horrible these days, or at least it's been replaced by the panic of "oh my god I'm having a third baby" but certain people/comments have really been pissing me off.
Yesterday I was out to breakfast with my boys and ran into a childhood friend and her family. The friend has an 18 month old daughter who was with them and her mom (the grandma) looked at me and said "This is what a little GIRL looks like!" and then laughed. She had three kids -GBG- and now has a granddaughter and is expecting a grandson from her son and daughter in law this summer, so I guess she doesn't know what GD feels like, but I thought it was really rude.
Later that day we saw DH's aunt, who from the beginning of my pregnancy told me I was having a girl because I "filled out everywhere" which is her way of saying I have gained a lot of weight this time (I have, and I hate it!) She always asks me how much I'm working out during my pregnancies and clearly favors her daughter and her daughter's DD over her son and her two grandsons. Yesterday she looked at me and kind of shook her head and said "It's so weird that you're having a boy, your face has REALLY changed this time." I was like "Are you talking about my double chin, haha?" and she was just like, "Don't YOU think it's changed?" and walked away. I think if I were having a girl I wouldn't care because I'd feel like the weight gain is worth it, but adding to my GD with comments like that really hurts.
UGH. I know people with one of each probably don't get it, but I am just sick of these comments and not really looking forward to hearing them forever.
Yesterday I was out to breakfast with my boys and ran into a childhood friend and her family. The friend has an 18 month old daughter who was with them and her mom (the grandma) looked at me and said "This is what a little GIRL looks like!" and then laughed. She had three kids -GBG- and now has a granddaughter and is expecting a grandson from her son and daughter in law this summer, so I guess she doesn't know what GD feels like, but I thought it was really rude.
Later that day we saw DH's aunt, who from the beginning of my pregnancy told me I was having a girl because I "filled out everywhere" which is her way of saying I have gained a lot of weight this time (I have, and I hate it!) She always asks me how much I'm working out during my pregnancies and clearly favors her daughter and her daughter's DD over her son and her two grandsons. Yesterday she looked at me and kind of shook her head and said "It's so weird that you're having a boy, your face has REALLY changed this time." I was like "Are you talking about my double chin, haha?" and she was just like, "Don't YOU think it's changed?" and walked away. I think if I were having a girl I wouldn't care because I'd feel like the weight gain is worth it, but adding to my GD with comments like that really hurts.
UGH. I know people with one of each probably don't get it, but I am just sick of these comments and not really looking forward to hearing them forever.