Mother after 35

[Leticia]

in 4 weeks the program itself ends but of course I wlll be under the control of my doctor according to my place of residence.

[Rina_Barrowman]

in 4 weeks the program itself ends but of course I wlll be under the control of my doctor according to my place of residence. If the clinic at your place of residence is good enough and you trust your doc completely, then everything will go perfectly!

[Leticia]

it is very inconvenient to be under the control of the doctor who is in another country, so when we with children will be strong enough and will have no need in hormonal support after the end of the program of course we will be with our doctor here, probably he is my doctor for a long time, so it will be easy for us to cooperate)

[Tara Januarson]

I'm from France. We have intention to do ivf with ED but in case of failure we will use services of surrogate mother. Does the clinic provide such services?

I know that in the clinic mentioned somewhere above (*********), there's a programme just for your case. I know, that they provide this Ideal Package. It implies IVF (it is performed within "donation programme") and then, if the positive result hasn't been achieved, you can easily to surrogacy programme without losing any payment! So maybe, why not try it?

[Rina_Barrowman]

it is very inconvenient to be under the control of the doctor who is in another country, so when we with children will be strong enough and will have no need in hormonal support after the end of the program of course we will be with our doctor here, probably he is my doctor for a long time, so it will be easy for us to cooperate) And it's great! How has your everyday life changed? I mean not emotional side. Maybe you have some new eating habits (as far as I know, in your situation it's neccessary to keep a special diet)?

[Leticia]

I can't say I changed my eating habits but there are some changes of course, try to east more food with natural vitamins, no frozen food only fresh, no fast food (which I like sometimes :giggle:) or smth like this, so of course I control what I eat.

[Rina_Barrowman]

I can't say I changed my eating habits but there are some changes of course, try to east more food with natural vitamins, no frozen food only fresh, no fast food (which I like sometimes :giggle:) or smth like this, so of course I control what I eat. And what about physical activity? Now you should take care and be less active than usually. Isn't it hard?

[Tara Januarson]

Yep, and is it difficult to limit yourself? Does it cause any problems for you personally?

[Leticia]

it is like natural process, you feel what you should do and what you shouldn't, so it is pretty easy for me, some other instincts turned on inside me))))

[Rina_Barrowman]

And what about your family? Do they understand changes, which have already happened and which will happen soon?

[Leticia]

yes, of course))) my hubby is so happy) we waited for this for so long time, he calls himself "daddy"))) didn't know whom we will have but bought already some things which don't need appropriate colour) probably everyone is happy and wait with excitement to see and to hold on hands our little miracles)

[Rina_Barrowman]

yes, of course))) my hubby is so happy) we waited for this for so long time, he calls himself "daddy"))) didn't know whom we will have but bought already some things which don't need appropriate colour) probably everyone is happy and wait with excitement to see and to hold on hands our little miracles) Understand your feelings! But is it good to buy something beforehand? There is a rule, according to which you shouldn't do it

[ever hopeful]

Goodness, can't you just be happy for Leticia. It's great news and being pregnant isn't like being I'll! Enjoy every minute - and shop if/all you want - by the sounds of things you've waited a long time for this so you really deserve this. Xx

[Rina_Barrowman]

Goodness, can't you just be happy for Leticia. It's great news and being pregnant isn't like being I'll! Enjoy every minute - and shop if/all you want - by the sounds of things you've waited a long time for this so you really deserve this. Xx And who said that we are not happy for her? Of course we are! Her example inspires us!

[ann5]

Understand your feelings! But is it good to buy something beforehand? There is a rule, according to which you shouldn't do it

i think it's just superstition.

[Leticia]

hey,hey, hey, hold on, all my dear friends))) everything is ok! I believe that everyone if happy for me! I love you all and is thankful for your support during all this not easy time.
I enjoy every minute, it is really cool)))) Such an interesting process)))) They both grows inside me, doctor said that everything is ok:ttcgirl:

[Rina_Barrowman]

i think it's just superstition. Maybe you are right. Anyway, the most important thing is everything's ok, future mom is happy and kids are growing up!:flowerz:

[Clea_Lerman]

hey,hey, hey, hold on, all my dear friends))) everything is ok! I believe that everyone if happy for me! I love you all and is thankful for your support during all this not easy time.
I enjoy every minute, it is really cool)))) Such an interesting process)))) They both grows inside me, doctor said that everything is ok:ttcgirl: Great! What else did the doc say?

[Leticia]

said that everything is ok, prepare for ultrasound...probably it is too early, need to wait till the 23rd of September.

[Clea_Lerman]

said that everything is ok, prepare for ultrasound...probably it is too early, need to wait till the 23rd of September. it's not so long, But I understand that you are curious and want to see your babies sooner!

[Leticia]

yes) wanna see them) how they move there, how they live) seems to me we will watch this disk with ultrasound every evening before going to bad)))

[Clea_Lerman]

yes) wanna see them) how they move there, how they live) seems to me we will watch this disk with ultrasound every evening before going to bad)))
It's a norm! The picture of my sister's ultrasound is still hanging on her fridge, despite her boy is already 3 years old!

[ann5]

said that everything is ok, prepare for ultrasound...probably it is too early, need to wait till the 23rd of September.
will you be able to know the gender?

[Clea_Lerman]

will you be able to know the gender? It's too early for it, i think

[Leticia]

nice) yes, it is too early now. I don't mind to know the gender) btw it doesn't matter whom we'll have! I'm just happy to by mother) Started to read fairytales to them)

[ann5]

do you think they hear you reading them faitytales?

[ann5]

and when will be it ok to check the gender?

[Leticia]

it is individual, bcz sometimes child can turn such a way that it is impossible to see gender, sometimes ultrasound can be wrong, depends on doctor's experience) sometimes it is ok, usually exact gender can be known after 20th week...for me it is not so soon) so I have to be patient!:giggle:

[ann5]

understood:)
thanx for the inf
sorry can you remind me your term?:)

[Leticia]

It will be 10 weeks tomorrow) time passes so fast) feel as if it was yesterday when I found out I'm pregnant)

[ann5]

yes...time flies...and how are you feeling?
do you feel some movements already?

[Leticia]

No, I'm not...doctor said it is ok to feel the baby at 16-18th week, so should wait a bit) Feel myself pretty well, as pregnant:giggle:

[ann5]

has your body mass increased already?

[Leticia]

yes, I became a bit bigger not much bcz term is not so big but I have already seen the tummy))) nobody except me and hubby don't see it but we see)) it is what we watch every evening before going to bed)

[ann5]

yes, I became a bit bigger not much bcz term is not so big but I have already seen the tummy))) nobody except me and hubby don't see it but we see)) it is what we watch every evening before going to bed)
oh, darling..it's so sweet...so gladfor you and your hubby.
very soon your family will be completed and your dreams will come true!!!

[Leticia]

yes) think in 2 weeks will go to ultrasound and will try to see gender)

[ann5]

it will be your 12th week of pregnancy. is it possible to see exactly the gender of the child?

[Leticia]

Probably, since 11th week genitals just started to form, so at 13th week doctor can say something but there is 50% of risk that it is a mistake but still we will go) since 15th week ultrasound result can be more exact but we don't want to wait till 15 weeks) we clearly understand that will know nothing exact but still it will be the first our ultrasound like this) as for the most exact result I've read that male gender is easier to see and it can be done at 18th week and female gender only at 20-25 weeks.

[ann5]

Probably, since 11th week genitals just started to form, so at 13th week doctor can say something but there is 50% of risk that it is a mistake but still we will go) since 15th week ultrasound result can be more exact but we don't want to wait till 15 weeks) we clearly understand that will know nothing exact but still it will be the first our ultrasound like this) as for the most exact result I've read that male gender is easier to see and it can be done at 18th week and female gender only at 20-25 weeks.

does ultrasound harm the fetus?

[Leticia]

There are different sides of this question, some say it is ok, some say know. So, as I understand ultrasound is a high sound that it is beyond human perception. This conventional sound waves as a talk or music, for example, but the oscillation frequency of these waves is higher than the human ear can hear. Like any sound, it penetrates through the obstacles, partly reflected from them. Ultrasonic device emits a signal, and it is reflected (giving echo) from different tissues with different force, it is an echo and recorded, becoming a picture. Effects on the fetus due to these sound waves. It is unlikely that the embryo can not hear them, it has no ability to hear high-pitched sounds. I must say that up to 16-17 weeks, the organ of hearing does not sufficiently developed, in order to hear at least some sounds. Often during the survey can be seen as the kid turns away from the sensor, but it has more to do with his pressure on the abdominal wall, than the influence of ultrasound on the fetus.

[ann5]

There are different sides of this question, some say it is ok, some say know. So, as I understand ultrasound is a high sound that it is beyond human perception. This conventional sound waves as a talk or music, for example, but the oscillation frequency of these waves is higher than the human ear can hear. Like any sound, it penetrates through the obstacles, partly reflected from them. Ultrasonic device emits a signal, and it is reflected (giving echo) from different tissues with different force, it is an echo and recorded, becoming a picture. Effects on the fetus due to these sound waves. It is unlikely that the embryo can not hear them, it has no ability to hear high-pitched sounds. I must say that up to 16-17 weeks, the organ of hearing does not sufficiently developed, in order to hear at least some sounds. Often during the survey can be seen as the kid turns away from the sensor, but it has more to do with his pressure on the abdominal wall, than the influence of ultrasound on the fetus.
so as i understood you right, the ultrasound has less influence on the early terms and it doesn't harm te fetus. but the more term is the bigger influence is?

[Leticia]

No, I don't think you. I meant that ultrasound is not harmful for fetus but the gender can be known for sure at later term.

[ann5]

oh, i see.
so it's too early for you to know the gender?
don't you want to keep it in secret?even for you?

[Leticia]

in secret?! No way))) I'm not so patient to wait for such a long time. BTW want to decorated room for children and should know how to do it and what colours to use)

[ann5]

but you always can buy things and prepare room in such a way that it can suit both:)

[Leticia]

probably a couple of weeks left to know the gender, so I'll wait till some exact result of ultrasound.

[ann5]

i read that very often ultrasound shows wrong results!

[Leticia]

Can't say that it is very often but there are cases when the result was wrong. Also there is 3D ultrasound now and it is difficult to make a mistake with such technical progress. Again everything depends on the term.

[ann5]

and on the position of fetus. sometimes our miracle turns so that the doc can't see anything...

[Leticia]

yes, it is can be like this but it is not our case, so hope we will see everything clearly)

[ann5]

hope so too!!!
so when will you go?

[Leticia]

genitals are completely formed after 20th week, till this period there is a big chance that doctor will make a mistake, so I have 12 weeks now. think when it will be 15 weeks we can go, so not earlier than at the end of October.

[ann5]

pretty long to wait!
are you full of excitement?:cheerteam: