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yogi&booboo
March 24th, 2014, 03:36 PM
Praying pink, congratulations!!!. I tested today 12dpo, BFN, feel very down right now. This is my 5th months ttc. I feel the back pain, and funny taste in month.... Have very high hope, but still BFN. I don't know if I can still keep going....

Babyb5,
I am in your shoes too.I lost track of my dpo after my cbfm stayed on high for almost 25 days and no peak. Im so mad at my self for not temping because i thought that would ease my nerves but only made it worse. Per the cbfm i am cd 28. The wait sucks and definetly gets your hopes down and makes you not want to keep going. Good luck and I hope you get your bfp. We may be down this month if ugly af shows but we will keep going because there no better feeling than a bran new baby :)

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flowerlily
March 24th, 2014, 03:39 PM
Hi everyone...can I join in? I'm new here and been doing the le diet and exercise for the past 6 weeks.
This is my first month ttc and I'm 2dpo.

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crazycatcouple
March 24th, 2014, 04:11 PM
Welcome flowerlily!

lfc_sarah
March 24th, 2014, 04:13 PM
Welcome! :)


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flowerlily
March 24th, 2014, 04:51 PM
Thanks ladies.
Any of you still doing the exercise ..I don't know if we have to keep doing it or not.
So far I've stopped the peppermint tea and the cranberry juice, and keeping the folic acid also been doing the BD every 4days since af stopped.

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Prayingpink
March 25th, 2014, 12:46 AM
Thank you again everyone. I'm still in shock. I have to be honest, im a bit scared to miscarry. Had spotting after bd (sorry tmi) but that's normal for this early on. I will be watching this thread as I'm rooting for all of you! Have hope. You all deserve your precious bfps :). I can't wait to see some good news from you lovlys.

Babyb5 and yogi, please don't give up hope. I know those bfps are big blows but it'll happen :) maybe you are a late implanter and won't get a bfp till after missed af. You aren't out till you are out. You are in my prayers and thoughts

kitkat18
March 25th, 2014, 03:03 AM
Congrats again praying for pink keep us updated!! Welcome flowerlilly! Xx

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Lilly 585
March 25th, 2014, 04:11 AM
Congrats praying for pink. It is heared that if u conceive a girl , you pg could be detected so early, if u carry a boy, due to low levels of hcg , pregnancy could not be detected so earlier. So keep on praying ladies.best of luck .

yogi&booboo
March 25th, 2014, 11:20 AM
Prayingpink Thank you for your wishful thoughts :) If I don't get af is either because my cycle is out of wack or bfp but most likely because of the first one.

I also wanted to share my funny story. So I and the dh finally decided it was time to get a bigger vehicle so we decided yesterday to trade in my camry for a mini van. Amazed with all of the new technology that is kid friendly:) Anywho so we decided to post on facebook that we were excited to announce that we would soon have an addition to the family. Lol everyone started to congratulate us thinking we were pregnant. After we posted pics of my new soccermom minivan I said happy early april fools and everyone almost fell off their chairs lol lol The guys at the dealership could not stop laughing with us.

Have a great week ladies!

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Mackenzie
March 25th, 2014, 12:22 PM
Cd2 for me :( on to next month. Hope everyone is doing well and good luck :) I got super super faint lines on the internet cheapie tests this month..that happen to anyone else? I think they were evaporation lines but still made me mad lol

yogi&booboo
March 25th, 2014, 12:47 PM
Cd2 for me :( on to next month. Hope everyone is doing well and good luck :) I got super super faint lines on the internet cheapie tests this month..that happen to anyone else? I think they were evaporation lines but still made me mad lol

Mackenzie
Sorry AF showed her ugly face. I had a positive last month too but af came shortly after. I read this could mean a chemical pregnancy. The pics of my positive are in the february 2ww if you would like to take a look at them. Good luck and I hope you get your bfp soon.

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Marika
March 25th, 2014, 12:58 PM
Sorry about AF Mackenize :-(

Marika
March 25th, 2014, 12:59 PM
Welcome flowerlily!

babyb5
March 25th, 2014, 03:18 PM
This months and months of BFN drives me nuts. (5 months now) Last night, I finally broke down in tears in front of my husband. I need to let out my disappointment and frustrations. I'm just turn 40, I felt maybe I'm getting too old to have another baby. I have 4 DD (10, 7, 4, and 2). I want to try for my last for a boy. For all my girls, I only did 1 attempt on the first +okp and they all take only 2-3 months. But this time, I took supplements, DTD every 2-3 days, preseeds, and 3 attempt on +opk, still no luck. My cycle are very regular, 28-29 days. What is going on? The day I tested bfn is the hardest day for me and usually take a few days before I can feel better. I feel my whole life now is thinking about ttc. The more the wanted, the harder it gets. I just don't know how to relax anymore.

sweetdream
March 25th, 2014, 03:40 PM
mackenzie do you have a pic? I had faint lines.

Mackenzie
March 25th, 2014, 07:33 PM
I threw them out when I got af lol, they were very faint not pink I'd say but I could still see something. yogi, I had a chemical in Nov and didn't get a pos test till af stopped halfway through, just thought I got reg af but it was kinda weird so took a test 4 days in and was clearly pos not dark though but def pink then just faded and continued af. Do u ladies know if ppl count chemicals as " miscarriage"? I've heard they are so common. If so I've had 3 misc now total with 3 healthy girls. Just went to ob for some blood work.

yogi&booboo
March 25th, 2014, 08:05 PM
I threw them out when I got af lol, they were very faint not pink I'd say but I could still see something. yogi, I had a chemical in Nov and didn't get a pos test till af stopped halfway through, just thought I got reg af but it was kinda weird so took a test 4 days in and was clearly pos not dark though but def pink then just faded and continued af. Do u ladies know if ppl count chemicals as " miscarriage"? I've heard they are so common. If so I've had 3 misc now total with 3 healthy girls. Just went to ob for some blood work.

After reading a ton, people do count these as miscarriages. They say that it is very common but wasn't heard of much in the past because there were not that many sensitive tests in the market before but now that there is, women are able to catch them. :( I also read that some women will take these really hard.

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Mackenzie
March 26th, 2014, 02:50 AM
Ya well it gets very frustrating when you see a line and then it's nothing. Although I must say I really don't mind if I had another girl, I just want a healthy baby...just one more ;) doesn't matter what gender! Makes you appreciate what lovely children you already do have. Oh and I took another test today to see because of how late the pos came up with last chem and it was neg. also the tests that I saw a faint line on, I didn't see anything till they were pretty much dry...so away past the slotted time.

kitkat18
March 26th, 2014, 03:22 AM
Hi guys, babyb5 so sorry you are still waiting for that BFP!! Hugs!! I feel for you I am coming up to my third attempt and its hard to stay positive. I too am a little vintage at 35 conceived both boys at 28 and 30 so worried about my fertility. What I am trying to do is to enjoy what I do have two beautiful boys take them to park, bounce on trampoline and try not to obsess over the whole ttc business easier said than done!! Hope we all get our BFP to those ttc in April!! Yogibooboo what an April fools!! Fingers crossed you will have some real news really soon x

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Marika
March 26th, 2014, 07:50 AM
Hi,

I think I can consider chances for a bfp in march as over for me. The light tiny bleeding that seemed so promising at 7-8 dpo has continued since and is increasing. Now it's almost like af.

I think the Vitex messed it up for me. I have really regular cycles normally and now I don't know how to count cd. Expecting AF on friday but if it gets as heavy as normal AF today, is today to be CD1 then?

And I should drop the Vitex, right?

So frustrating! :sad:

Marika
March 26th, 2014, 07:51 AM
Hi,

I think I can consider chances for a bfp in march as over for me. The light tiny bleeding that seemed so promising at 7-8 dpo has continued since and is increasing. Now it's almost like af.

I think the Vitex messed it up for me. I have really regular cycles normally and now I don't know how to count cd. Expecting AF on friday but if it gets as heavy as normal AF today, is today to be CD1 then?

And I should drop the Vitex, right?

So frustrating! :sad:

babyb5
March 26th, 2014, 03:55 PM
Af come today as I expect it. My cycle is very regular 29 days. Ovulated on CD 16. From my pass cycle, I had my +opk on cd14 and cd15 and O on cd16. We DTD on CD13, CD 14, CD 15, but not CD 16 because Opk turn to negative during the day. My luteal phase always 13 days. For the future, should I bed CD 13 (night), CD15(night) and CD16 (morning) or CD14 (night), CD15(night) and cd16 (night)? What do think?

crazycatcouple
March 26th, 2014, 08:26 PM
Marika, I'm sorry that it doesn't seem to be IB and rather AF :-( That is disappointing! I don't know anything about Vitex...what is it taken for?

babyb5 - I am unsure of exactly when to BD as well. I also O on cd 16. Last month we did cd 9, 11, 13, then 14am, 15pm, and 16pm. This time we tried less - just cd 14pm, 15am, and 16pm - to get a hopefully stronger batch right before O. If this hasn't worked, I'm not sure which route to go next. Personally, of your 2 choices, I'd think the first one, simply to get another 2 day hold and get some strong swimmers in there, but I'm curious to hear what others recommend as well!

Tomorrow is 12 DPO for me, and I'm worried it's going to be another BFN, but at the same time, I have just been "feeling" pregnant lately. I'm really trying my best not to read too much into anything, but it just feels right for some strange reason. Of course the continued BFNs seem to point in the other direction, but I suppose it's not over till it's over, right? Trying to stay positive!

babyb5
March 27th, 2014, 12:35 AM
Good luck crazycatcouple. Are you going to test tomorrow?

LilithWiser1979
March 27th, 2014, 12:04 PM
I am 5 dpo, and have been super pessimistic about this entire month's attempt. But then, today, I started getting cramping. Too soon for implantation cramping? Ugh, I think it was better being all doubtful about it. Now I can't wait to test!

crazycatcouple
March 27th, 2014, 12:07 PM
I tested this morning and got another BFN :-( It's strange though because I just don't feel like AF is coming. Obviously I could be way wrong, lol, but I still have hope. Today is 12 DPO, which I would think would get a BFP if I am in fact pregnant, but who knows, maybe it's taking longer than normal for whatever reason. AF is due on Saturday, so I'm going to probably keep taking the cheapies from now until then and then take my last FRER on Sat if AF doesn't show up.

flowerlily
March 27th, 2014, 12:25 PM
I am 5 dpo, and have been super pessimistic about this entire month's attempt. But then, today, I started getting cramping. Too soon for implantation cramping? Ugh, I think it was better being all doubtful about it. Now I can't wait to test!

I'm too 5dpo today and been having those cramps but I thought it was just my mind playing tricks at me :rolleyes:but it's good to know somebody else is feeling the same. Anyway isn't it a bit too early for symptom spotting?:D
When are you planning on testing?
I won't be testing till first week of April (or thats what i keep telling myself..lol) cous thats when AF is due.

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LilithWiser1979
March 27th, 2014, 12:28 PM
I got faint BFPs on 7/8dpo with my sons, so I'm probably going to POAS tomorrow, since I'm obsessive like that, LOL!

flowerlily
March 27th, 2014, 12:38 PM
I got faint BFPs on 7/8dpo with my sons, so I'm probably going to POAS tomorrow, since I'm obsessive like that, LOL!

Wow that's good then for you at least:)...I never tested with my two until AF was due or missed it...but again I wasn't on diet or working out this much...:o
Good luck and hope you get a BFP soon.

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babyb5
March 27th, 2014, 02:25 PM
It happened to me this month that I have cramps around 5-6 dpo, and it last the whole week till AF due. I try to hold off testing until I miss AF, but I could not wait and tested on 12dpo, bfn. Good luck to everyone who is waiting to test and have a bfp.

lfc_sarah
March 27th, 2014, 02:32 PM
AF is due for me Sunday so when do you guys recon that I should test?

Good luck to everybody testing! xxx


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LilithWiser1979
March 27th, 2014, 03:43 PM
I start testing at like 7dpo, but I love to POAS, and I think a lot more people wait for 10dpo. That sucks, babyb5! I hope that's not what's happening :(

SamS_TTCPink
March 27th, 2014, 05:38 PM
OMG! OMG OMG!!!

My DH thinks I'm seeing things but what do you think....http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/03/28/a4a7e2en.jpg


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crazycatcouple
March 27th, 2014, 06:06 PM
I see a line for sure!!! Congrats!!!! SO excited for you :-)

sweetdream
March 27th, 2014, 06:16 PM
I see a line! Congrats!

babyb5
March 27th, 2014, 06:28 PM
Yes, congrats!

SamS_TTCPink
March 27th, 2014, 06:33 PM
Yay!! Thank you!!! 😃😃
I told DH you's think there's a line and now he thinks I should buy a new pack of tests cause maybe these are faulty!! 😜 lol!!


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Rosie85
March 27th, 2014, 07:01 PM
There is a line for sure! Congrats!

yogi&booboo
March 28th, 2014, 12:27 AM
MumoofSix
I see it yey!!! Congratulations :)

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yogi&booboo
March 28th, 2014, 12:48 AM
So no af for me yet but feel it coming soon. Don't know what dpo i am now but it really doesn't matter at this point. Dh is having rorator cuff repair surgery next week on thursday and will be out of baby making service for a few months. I this i have came to peace with my self now. I think what i really needed was an excuse for time off work and thank goodness for the state of california that i can care for him ;) get paid and be off work for a few weeks. Maybe ill be back on a diet soon. Kaiser is asking me to go in an do a urine rest after i called not so long ago and inquiring about my false positive lol debating if I should call and cancel it or wait should i get a positive at home. Anywho good luck to you all. No attempt for me next month, or following. Ill update before i say my goodbye :))

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kitkat18
March 28th, 2014, 02:30 AM
Enjoy your ttc break yogi keep checking in on us xxx

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SamS_TTCPink
March 28th, 2014, 03:15 AM
MumoofSix
I see it yey!!! Congratulations :)

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Thank you! 😃
So nervous now cause it's still so early. DH keeps telling me not to get attached as I haven't even missed AF yet.


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MIka1104
March 28th, 2014, 08:55 AM
Congrats, Mumofsix!! Hope its a sticky pink bean for you!!

Yogi, I really hope things work out for you. I really felt like I was out just the morning of getting mine. I had absolutely no symptoms and was already planning to move forward. There is still hope :fx:
I hope everything goes well with your dh' surgery!

laVieEnRose
March 28th, 2014, 08:59 AM
Mumofsix congrats to you!! I can see a line too! Fx

yogi&booboo
March 28th, 2014, 09:43 AM
Congrats, Mumofsix!! Hope its a sticky pink bean for you!!

Yogi, I really hope things work out for you. I really felt like I was out just the morning of getting mine. I had absolutely no symptoms and was already planning to move forward. There is still hope :fx:
I hope everything goes well with your dh' surgery!

Hi Mika :)

Thank you for helping me stay positive. Hope all is well with you and thank you for your wonderful wishes for my dh ;)

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3girlsnwaiting
March 28th, 2014, 02:46 PM
I am out again this month. We will give a try again next month. Hoping others get their +s :)

Prayingpink
March 28th, 2014, 11:48 PM
Mumofsix, that's so positive! Congrats! I hope you get your pink sticky bean.

Yogi, you are still in my thoughts as are all you other lovely lady's. Try to not give up hope just yet. There's still a chance :)

SamS_TTCPink
March 28th, 2014, 11:52 PM
Thanks prayingpink! I'm so excited!! 😊😊
How are you feeling?


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Prayingpink
March 29th, 2014, 02:22 PM
I'm feeling good. I decided to keep excersising this pregnancy and eat really well. I was enjoying losing weight before my bfp so I'm hopping to keep a healthy lifestyle (not le diet of course). But I'm enjoyingy workouts. I'm gunna keep jogging 3 days a week until I don't feel comfortable with it anymore and some strength 5 days a week :). It's been great. Other than that, in soooo tired. But have insomnia most nights. Gotta love the first trimester lol. Plus I'm more constapated this pregnancy which is so weird. I didn't have it with my other two pregnancies. How are you?

LilithWiser1979
March 29th, 2014, 02:29 PM
I'm guessing constipation is from all the fiber supps for pink swaying? I know I'm afraid of that happening. I've been on a ton of fiber supps, 3 cups of coffee every morning and lots of low carb veggies. I'll have to taper off slowly or it'll be really bad!

BFN for me at 7dpo. Doesn't mean much, but the cramping stopped, so I'm skeptical that this is my month :(

kitkat18
March 30th, 2014, 03:47 AM
Hey lillith hope this is your month!! Xx

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kitkat18
March 30th, 2014, 03:48 AM
Sorry three girls and waiting what attempt are you on? Xx

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flowerlily
March 30th, 2014, 06:29 AM
Lilith it's still early days, don't give up yet, are you using the same test brand you used for your previous pregnancies? I'm planning on using the same brand.
Somehow these 2weeks are the longest weeks ever for a lot of us here! :(
Are you having any more symptoms...my cramping also subsided today but I've been gassy(sorry tmi) since yesterday and I have the odd twinge in my nibbles.
I really hope this our month and anyone who is in the same boat as us...GL.:)

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SamS_TTCPink
March 30th, 2014, 06:46 AM
Keeping my fingers crossed for you all! 🙏


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lfc_sarah
March 30th, 2014, 11:49 AM
AF arrived for me, I'm out :(


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maidentomother
March 30th, 2014, 01:33 PM
Sorry Sarah! *hugs*

Houseofblue
March 30th, 2014, 02:28 PM
Hi ladies can I join?? I am in the 2ww too, first attempt after swaying for 3 months... I'm either 7, 8 or 9 DPO (not sure exactly when I O-ed)... took a dollar store hpt a couple days ago and it was bfn. Had 3 mild night sweats in the last week, very unusual for me (I normally get them night before AF starts and night before lh surge/ovulation). My breasts leaked a tiny bit yesterday and my breasts feel fuller but I tend to read into things a lot... hoping that BFN changes. :/

kitkat18
March 30th, 2014, 02:29 PM
Good luck house of blue xx

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Houseofblue
March 30th, 2014, 02:45 PM
Thanks kitkat and GL to you too!!! :)

LilithWiser1979
March 31st, 2014, 10:46 AM
Alright, I got a real squinter this morning, and I'm not even sure that it's a BFP because the test was bent and took FOREVER to fully clear. It might even be an evap line :(

I'm really wondering because I had a totally vivid dream about having my baby girl, nursing her and taking her out right after the birth. Aaugh, I really hope it's a sign that if this IS a BFP, it's my DD!

Guess I'll have to wait until tomorrow! I'm 9 dpo today.

Rosie85
March 31st, 2014, 12:19 PM
Lilith do you have another test so retest with today? Hope this is it!!!

crazycatcouple
March 31st, 2014, 12:30 PM
Af arrived for me on Saturday :-( We'll be sitting this next month out and doing another attempt in May. It sounds like there are some promising symptoms in this group right now. Fingers crossed for all you ladies!!

Houseofblue
March 31st, 2014, 12:35 PM
Sorry about the bfn crazy cat! I'll prob be right behind u because I don't feel much in the way of symptoms anymore :(

LilithWiser1979
March 31st, 2014, 01:57 PM
I thought I had to wait for first morning's urine? Is there a way to compensate for that for a test during the day?

Rosie85
March 31st, 2014, 02:19 PM
I have taken tests in the middle of the day before. It may be less likely to show up positive if it's super early like you are though. Don't drown yourself in liquids but eat and drink like normal and when you feel like you have to go, go. I wouldn't use an expensive test but a dollar store test would be perfect. DS3 is the only one I used 1st morning urine for. The other two were middle of the day, I had a feeling and took a test.

LilithWiser1979
March 31st, 2014, 02:23 PM
I have internet cheapies. They worked with DS2 at 7 dpo, but that was first morning's urine. I read online that 4 hours without peeing is the same as first morning's, so I'll see if I can make that happen! If not, it'll be tomorrow morning.

tarasue
March 31st, 2014, 02:26 PM
Maybe if you do your workout and then don't drink anything??


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LilithWiser1979
March 31st, 2014, 02:55 PM
I already did my workout, and there was no holding back peeing after that, since I downed a big water bottle during it. Maybe tonight. Then again, if I see another BFN, I won't be confident in it :(

maidentomother
March 31st, 2014, 04:38 PM
I'm so excited for when you next test, Lilith!

Mackenzie
April 1st, 2014, 06:07 PM
Sorry about AF crazy cat!

Houseofblue
April 1st, 2014, 08:39 PM
Anyone's symptoms come and go in the 2ww? I wake up feeling a little PG but then the rest of the day I don't feel pg at ALL! Might test tomorrow, should be far enough along by then, 11 or 12 dpo!!! I haven't taken a hpt since 6/7 dpo which was BFN.

flowerlily
April 2nd, 2014, 05:34 AM
Lilith, fingers crossed for you! Hope you get a BFP today/soon!

Houseofblue: I have cramps that go and come (sometimes super strong) but I also have other symptoms, I'll post in your other thread...hope you get a BFP soon!

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Houseofblue
April 2nd, 2014, 09:13 AM
flowerlily got a bfp today! A bit nervous b/c I have a history of mmc (4 losses) and of course praying it's a pink bundle!! Your symptoms sound very promising! I never cramp until AF actually starts so I think any cramping without bleeding is a great sign! When will you test???

flowerlily
April 2nd, 2014, 09:24 AM
Wow congrats house of blue!! Hope it's a sticky pink bean!!
Sorry to hear about your losses.
I will test on Friday:)
I try not to over think about them and being prepared for anything as it's my first month off BCP!
GL. :)


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WantingPink
April 2nd, 2014, 09:37 AM
flowerlily got a bfp today! A bit nervous b/c I have a history of mmc (4 losses) and of course praying it's a pink bundle!! Your symptoms sound very promising! I never cramp until AF actually starts so I think any cramping without bleeding is a great sign! When will you test???

Congrats!! So happy for you!! Hope you have a pink sticky bean in there!!

Houseofblue
April 2nd, 2014, 10:58 AM
Thanks ladies, and GL GL GL flowerlily!!!!!

kitkat18
April 2nd, 2014, 11:21 AM
Congrats house of blue!! Fingers crossed your little bean sticks and its your much wanted daughter xx

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LilithWiser1979
April 2nd, 2014, 11:30 AM
It's still super faint, and I'm not going to be happy until I get a dark, solid line, but I think I can cautiously say it's a BFP!

Thanks for the "2nd morning's urine" advice, Wanting Pink. That's the bottom test. First one is just plain, old, FMU. I would still be completely confused if I only had the top test. The second is darker, and the first is the same as the previous 3 days! It DID appear after the 5 minutes that the instructions on the back suggested, but it's pink, not grey, like evap lines supposedly are. The complaints on Amazon for this product said it took forever to turn, and I think I have to agree with them. Sigh, I'll have to recommend Wondfos to anyone else who wants an IC suggestion.

In the meantime, I'm off to the gym! If it's a fluke, then I'm staying ready for the next sway. If it's a REAL BFP, I want an active, fit pregnancy. Ugh, I'm crampy. Hope that's a good sign!

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flowerlily
April 2nd, 2014, 11:46 AM
I can definitely see a line, especially in the second one! Hope it gets better in the coming days!!
Good luck! :)


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Houseofblue
April 2nd, 2014, 12:24 PM
Yeayyyy congrats Lilith!!!!!

MIka1104
April 2nd, 2014, 12:35 PM
Congrats, Lilith!! I was very crampy around that time, too. I thought I was out and af was gonna show. I hope everything works out for you!

angielorna
April 2nd, 2014, 01:16 PM
OMG, Lilith!!!! I'm so excited for you....CONGRATS!!! I definately see the line. Did you tell DH yet? I hope he takes it okay, considering.

May be a silly question, but will you find out the gender before birth????

Sending you sticky, pink dust!!!
Angie

Rosie85
April 2nd, 2014, 01:42 PM
Congrats Lilith! I knew it!

tarasue
April 2nd, 2014, 02:01 PM
Congrats!!! So excited for you!


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LilithWiser1979
April 2nd, 2014, 02:08 PM
Thanks everyone. I told DH that I got a questionable result and that I'll have to confirm tomorrow. I REALLY hope it's significantly darker tomorrow, so I can show him and have some closure one way or the other on this awful month's TTC attempt! I think he'll sigh deeply and accept it, though. He really IS a good man, this is just a sore subject coming to a head.

For sure I will find out gender ASAP!!! In fact, I'm going to call around to find an OB who will be fine with my Panorama testing at 9 weeks (I'm turning 35 next month, so it IS an indicated test.) I'll go with the OB that is the closest to my house and will support my Panorama test and then transfer to my midwife after that. It's just awkward doing all the testing with a midwife. Sometimes that insurance doesn't want to cover it unless an MD requests it :(

Mulberry Smurf
April 2nd, 2014, 02:48 PM
Congratulations :) have thought for a while you'll get your dg xx

WantingPink
April 2nd, 2014, 02:59 PM
So glad the second morning urine worked for you!! Those IC are terrible but I guess you get what you pay for right? I know I hated mine. Here is a picture of my progression. I thought they took forever to get darker so I hope yours get darker faster!!

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Houseofblue
April 2nd, 2014, 03:04 PM
Wow so cool, wantingpink!!!!

LilithWiser1979
April 2nd, 2014, 04:30 PM
What dpo was the first one, WantingPink?

Mulberry, I am SO hoping you're right! I've definitely given this sway my all!

kitkat18
April 2nd, 2014, 04:41 PM
Looking good lillith!! I hope its a BFP for you xxx

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SamS_TTCPink
April 2nd, 2014, 04:54 PM
flowerlily got a bfp today! A bit nervous b/c I have a history of mmc (4 losses) and of course praying it's a pink bundle!! Your symptoms sound very promising! I never cramp until AF actually starts so I think any cramping without bleeding is a great sign! When will you test???

WooHoo!! Congrats! Praying it's a sticky bean!

It's so nerve racking isn't it. First we are waiting for that BFP then once we get it we're nervous and waiting for a healthy bean to stick and arrive safe and sound, then we worry about them once they're here! Why do we do it to ourselves?!? 😉

We defiantly need Due in Dec 2014/Jan 15 tread now! There's going to be a few of us. Yay! And hopefully we have pink beans!! 💜


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SamS_TTCPink
April 2nd, 2014, 04:55 PM
I congratulated you on the other thread Lilith but wanted to say congrats again!! 😀


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WantingPink
April 2nd, 2014, 05:00 PM
Wow so cool, wantingpink!!!!

The first one is 11 DPO but it is also the one I threw away!! I didn't get a positive until 12 DPO but even that one was negative at 5 minutes. I usually keep them for an extra hour so I took the kids to school, came home, looked at it again and freaked out!! Then I went and dug the other one out of the trash. I was going crazy in my head.

Mrs_Incredible
April 2nd, 2014, 05:39 PM
I found 2nd mu better too. Had a freak out with a lighter test until I remembered the previous days tests had been 2 mu, of course I had to test again, also the IC took over a week to get darker. Congratulations Lilith!! Xx


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angielorna
April 2nd, 2014, 06:01 PM
Lilith....I'd already have purchased, and used about 5 FRER!!!! I always use the dollar store ones for early testing and as soon as there is a hint of a positive, I whip out the FRER to confirm :) Can't wait to see the line darkening!!

Angie

Houseofblue
April 3rd, 2014, 08:30 AM
Any more news ladies??? :)

flowerlily
April 3rd, 2014, 09:34 AM
Any more news ladies??? :)

Still waiting for Lilith's BFP!:)
I'll test tomorrow and I'm getting ready for either BFP or BFN and I wouldn't be surprised if it's a BFN cause my symptoms are so similar..I'm craving sweets today wich is another symptom for me when AF is around the corner:confused:

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yogi&booboo
April 3rd, 2014, 11:37 AM
Hi Gals,
CD1 here. Looks like had late ovulation and I didint get to bd when I actually indeed was fertile. Today is my dh's surgery and its funny how everything worked out. I have had a hectic last few weeks. I was in a hit and run accident last night by these two high teens. Im kinda glad no bfp for us this month because of all of this mess. More thankful that my children and dh are ok. Good luck to all you recent bfps and those to come and tons of baby dust to those gender dreamers. This momma will be on a break for the next two months because I want to avoid a December and January baby. Plus it gives me time to shed some of these swaying pounds. Good luck beautiful xoxo

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kitkat18
April 3rd, 2014, 02:09 PM
Yogi you.poor thing glad you and your family are okay how scary!! X

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LilithWiser1979
April 3rd, 2014, 02:40 PM
It's officially a BFP! It was darker today, and now I can feel confident in it. Yay! Oh goddess... now comes the gender worrying!!

Houseofblue
April 3rd, 2014, 02:48 PM
Yeayyyy Lilith!!!!! :) :)

flowerlily, I always crave sweets before AF too, and started craving sweets 4-5 days ago and I got a bfp!! Sometimes your AF and PG symptoms can be the same, you're def not out!!

yogi- glad you're ok!!! Totally understand the month thing- are your girls' BD's then? 2 of my boys are Feb/March and my sis's son is March so I did not want another Feb/March baby!! I hope to see your bfp in a few months!!

flowerlily
April 3rd, 2014, 04:14 PM
Wow congratulations Lilith!!:) Hope its sticky pink bean there!!;)

Thanks for the reassurance house of blue:)..fingers crossed for tomorrow!

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Leebug
April 3rd, 2014, 05:14 PM
Hi guys! Ive been kind of MIA this 2ww.didn't want to get my hopes up & guess what?
BFP BFP BFP BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Praying this baby sticks
EDD 12/12/14

lyngostar
April 3rd, 2014, 05:28 PM
Congratulations Leebug and Lilith!!! :D

SamS_TTCPink
April 3rd, 2014, 05:30 PM
Congrats Lilith & Leebug!! 🎉😀


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flowerlily
April 3rd, 2014, 05:40 PM
Congrats Leebug!! Hope it's a sticky one!:)
That's a lovely EDD.

Come on ladies, anyone still hiding with a BFP:D...lol

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LilithWiser1979
April 3rd, 2014, 07:00 PM
Wow, there must be something in the water. I love the rash of BFP's going around!

Mrs_Incredible
April 3rd, 2014, 07:43 PM
Congratulations ladies!!! Yogi, glad you are all ok xx

Houseofblue
April 3rd, 2014, 08:01 PM
Congrats Leebug!!!!!

kitkat18
April 3rd, 2014, 08:19 PM
Congrats leebug and lillith xx

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Mackenzie
April 3rd, 2014, 09:41 PM
Congrats to all the bfp in here :) much needed! Yogi hope u r doing ok.

Leebug
April 3rd, 2014, 11:47 PM
Thank u ladies! I know this sounds horrible but I'm trying to not get very excited until I at least get to 6 weeks.I don't think I'm even going to call the OB or even get bloodwork until then.I just don't know if I could handle that disappointment again.
House-our due dates are one day apart!
lilith-so happy for u.hope its a healthy pink bean!
Congrats ladies!!!

SamS_TTCPink
April 4th, 2014, 12:08 AM
It's not horrible at all Leebug. I understand completely. Part of me is wishing I hadn't even tested yet as this worry about losing it is horrible.

Fingers crossed it all works out for you and it's a very sticky bean! 😊


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lfc_sarah
April 4th, 2014, 02:39 AM
Congratulations!!!! xxx


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oncue
April 4th, 2014, 08:54 AM
Yay leebug and Lilith! Fab news for u both xo

flowerlily
April 4th, 2014, 08:59 AM
Boo..I'm afraid ladies I'm out this month as it's a BFN for me today:(
The count down for AF begins..sigh..at least I was prepared for either. Imagine the state I would have been if I started testing earlier...lol

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Leebug
April 4th, 2014, 09:15 AM
Thanks!
I tested at 5pm this time which ive NEVER done.I just had this nagging voice in my ear telling me to test.I was hesitant because I was only 11 DPO. I held it for a few hours & the test was clear as day!

Leebug
April 4th, 2014, 09:21 AM
A few symptoms tipped me off.Thought I should share-
Super thirsty
really sensitive gag reflex
Bleeding gums (had a cleaning during 2ww)

Houseofblue
April 4th, 2014, 10:56 AM
I'm sorry flowerlily :( hang in thereC! What dpo are you? Some ladies posted on another thread of mine on this board that either they or women they know didn't get BFP's until a week past AF! You're not out til she shows!!

Leebug, I totally understand...I've had a bunch of losses in the past so totally get it! Praying it's a sticky bean for you, and a blue one! You can take all of my blue dust I don't need it or want it, could you spare some of your pink? ;) So cool about the one day off EDD's!

Houseofblue
April 4th, 2014, 10:58 AM
Oh thought I should add that hot flashes/night sweats can be a major PG symptom! This is the first time it's happened when PG but I had another one last night- woke up drenched, this is the 4th time since ovulation!!!

LilithWiser1979
April 4th, 2014, 11:03 AM
I agree with Houseofblue, flowerlily. A lot of us are getting later BFP's, and AF hasn't come, so you're not out! What tests are you using? I am having serious doubts about internet cheapies now, after reading so many negative reviews. I guess I got lucky with my last two pregnancies and was sent decent ones. The batch I used this time SUCKS! It's still squinty-light, and AF is due tomorrow. These are supposed to be the equivalent of FRER's!

I'm going to wait until AF is overdue to buy an expensive test at the drugstore before I show DH again. He wasn't thrilled at the faint line, and I think he still hopes it'll go away. A dark line will give him some closure.

flowerlily
April 4th, 2014, 11:53 AM
IKWYM ladies..which is exactly what happened to me with DS1, it didn't show until AF was late at least a week..so I know there is still hope. And with DS2 it showed around this time (13dpo).
I'm still using the same brand, (Boots early pregnancy test) it says you can use it 4 days before AF is due. I have friends who use it, they always recommend it (though they always see a + early). Seriously, I need to change that brand. Haven't read their results on the net yet. At least I got the one with 2 tests, so I still have spare one.
My AF is due tomorrow too. If it doesn't come tomorrow I'll test again on Sunday.:)

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maidentomother
April 4th, 2014, 12:03 PM
Congrats Leebug, House and Lilith! I love seeing all these BFPs. :)

Houseofblue
April 4th, 2014, 01:53 PM
Thanks maiden!

Guys, seriously, don't use the cheapies.... I tested again yesterday just to make sure, and FRER came up dark and definite immediately, and the dollar store test was barely there, def a squinter! I know some people swear by the cheapies but my experience with them has been terrible and I will never recommend them to anyone! Now I know why they cost a dollar!!
ETA: When I took those tests yesterday, I was 13 or 14 DPO (AF was due today). Ladies use a FRER!!

flowerlily
April 4th, 2014, 02:02 PM
Well, there is only small €s between the Boots brand and CB digital..:confused: we'll see what the weekend brings.
In the mean time, I have sore full like boobs..and when I sleep on my belly there's dull achy pain on my right side...:confused:

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Leebug
April 4th, 2014, 03:17 PM
I agree.frer or this time I got a generic frer from rite aid that worked lovely!

Leebug
April 4th, 2014, 03:19 PM
House please do......all my pink dust coming ur way!I already feel nausea.
That makes me a bit nervous!

SamS_TTCPink
April 4th, 2014, 07:03 PM
I'll take some of that pink dust too Leebug! And you can ALL my blue. 😉


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flowerlily
April 5th, 2014, 04:17 PM
No sign of AF today:(, will test tomorrow.

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Mrs_Incredible
April 5th, 2014, 05:41 PM
Asda own brand tests are good. £3.50 for 2 and give a decent early line in my experience xx


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flowerlily
April 5th, 2014, 05:59 PM
Asda own brand tests are good. £3.50 for 2 and give a decent early line in my experience xx


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We don't have Asda here in Ireland, but pretty much every other shop;)
Went sopping today and got CB digital 2s..:eek:

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SamS_TTCPink
April 5th, 2014, 06:53 PM
There's still hope for your BFP yet flowerlily! 😊


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flowerlily
April 6th, 2014, 08:14 AM
There's still hope for your BFP yet flowerlily! 😊


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No sign of AF again:(..so tested in the AM and BFN even with CB digital, so I'm suspecting I Oed waaay later than I thought:confused:

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maidentomother
April 6th, 2014, 07:30 PM
Flowerlily, do you chart? If so, post a link to your chart and maybe I can guess at when you Oed.

I just entered my temps from today and yesterday and now it looks like I Oed on Friday, which means with another 'high' temp I should get cross hairs tomorrow. It's a slow rise though; usually I have a big temp jump right after O, and I'm still not in my usual post O range 2 days after O this month. I guess it must be the Vitex? Oh, and my almost positive OPK started fading rapidly on Sat, which does suggest I Oed.

I wish now that I had BDed again on Friday. I do have a shot with an attempt 4 days before O but I'm not optimistic. Still, I'm really hoping I did actually O and I will be happy when this awful cycle is over. I don't think I will test until 12DPO or later what with confusion re: O.

flowerlily
April 6th, 2014, 07:40 PM
Do you mean like on FF or OPKs, no, it's one thing that I'm regretting not using. Just thought to go with the flow and see what happens wich was also the reason I chose to BD once every 4days.

Anyways, fingers crossed you get a BFP soon.

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maidentomother
April 6th, 2014, 07:54 PM
Hmm. Do you have O pain? I remember you said you started having post O symptoms about 10 days ago, is that right? What CD do you normally O on and what CD are you on now? What's the longest cycle you've ever had that you recall?

Thanks, it's either this month or next year as I am taking a break from TTC.

flowerlily
April 6th, 2014, 08:11 PM
Yes, but they can come before/during/after ovulation, right? So I've had it sinse the beginning of last week..and the worst cramping I ever had was on 10dpo(I had to take 2 paracetamols) and today is 16dpo.
That is really hard one, usually when I have exams or pregnant, or BF a child undeŕ 6 months, as I said in the other thread my cycles have always been regular, even after the m/c they came back after 4 weeks.
E.T.A: On day 14 according to FF.
I was really sleepy and tired when I posted last night.
Good luck:D

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maidentomother
April 7th, 2014, 07:00 AM
Thanks flower! I am 3DPO/CD31 today and I will test when AF is late, a week from tomorrow.

If you had bad cramping on 10DPO (CD24?) I strongly suspect you Oed then! So now you are 6DPO based on that. How long is your LP (time between O and AF) usually? 14 days?

Did you BD around CD24 at all? You were doing BD every 4 days, right?

flowerlily
April 7th, 2014, 11:45 AM
Yes my LP is also 14d...I thought the egg was fast gone and we DTD 2 nights after that (I wasn't feeling up to it)...not knowing what was really going on.
Anyways, I'll test every week just to be on the safe side.
Thanks. GL

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maidentomother
April 7th, 2014, 07:38 PM
I'm still not sure which CDs you BDed on but FX you got lucky.

Leebug
April 7th, 2014, 10:32 PM
To all the ladies TTC pink....vitex always made my ovulation at least 3 days later & I always had a slow rise.The stuff I used was called Femaprin.It is vitex & B6.Took me 3 months to conceive dd#1 & 1 month for dd#2(after I had swayed blue for 14 mos with no luck).dd#1 did low Cal diet & BD everyday leading up to ovulation 7 plus days.
DD#2 low Cal diet BD every other day CD 15 17 19 21.ovulated on day 21.used preseed both times.I 100% believe the vitex& diet gave me my 2 beauties.hth

flowerlily
April 8th, 2014, 03:27 AM
I'm still not sure which CDs you BDed on but FX you got lucky.
Started it on CD7, then10, 14, 18, 21,and then it should have been on CD24 (or 10dpo) but I had the cramps, (which I thought was from implantation and the eggie fast gone, but from what I can see now it surely wasn't. So it happened again on CD26(12dpo) which now I think was 2dpo, does this make a little sense now?;)
Do you think I might still be in with a chance? Thanks.
Oh God, I'm so new to this! :D

E.T.A: With all the attempts I did J&D.


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maidentomother
April 8th, 2014, 05:34 AM
Leebug, that makes me feel better about my slow rise and more sure of O. OPKs do align, too - I got my darkest ones, almost positive, starting late the day before.

Flower, 3 days before gives you a great chance! IME O pain is MUCH stronger than implantation, which I've only felt once and it was a very mild sensation. Whereas O pain can be quite intense with full on cramping.

lyngostar
April 8th, 2014, 05:16 PM
Anyone else 7dpo? I'm getting the urge to poas again. Even though I know it's far to early. Lol.

flowerlily
April 8th, 2014, 05:21 PM
Anyone else 7dpo? I'm getting the urge to poas again. Even though I know it's far to early. Lol.

Yes, me! Just joined this thread
http://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/showthread.php?t=41028
Come join us there, and good luck!;)

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lyngostar
April 8th, 2014, 05:43 PM
Thanks flowerlily. I tend to float between threads a lot. Lol.

maidentomother
April 9th, 2014, 02:21 AM
Starting today there's a shot at a BFP, flower and lyngo!

lyngostar
April 9th, 2014, 05:23 AM
Oh that's exciting. Think I may have to test today. :)

flowerlily
April 9th, 2014, 05:29 AM
If you're using the cheapies go ahead but at the same time it's way too early, maybe wait 2 more sleeps;)
GL!

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lyngostar
April 9th, 2014, 07:01 AM
Yeah it is the cheapies. But as I hate seeing a bfn, I'm probably going to wait a few days. When r u testing?

flowerlily
April 9th, 2014, 08:42 AM
On Saturday or Sunday, but I need to get the €shop pregnancy tests first, never used them before, and I have a CB digital for confirmation or when those don't work.

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lyngostar
April 9th, 2014, 03:35 PM
I have a CB digi for confirmation too. Lol. I bought 20 cheapies from Amazon. But I really don't plan on testing till Tuesday. It's my anniversary.

flowerlily
April 9th, 2014, 03:43 PM
Wow, that's almost a week from now! :o
But if it's a BFP, I bet it'll be the best anniversary present ever! Good luck;)

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lyngostar
April 9th, 2014, 03:51 PM
Thanks flowerlily.:) That's why I'm trying to wait. I'm already getting tempted to test. The only thing stopping me is the feeling I would have if it's a bfn.

flowerlily
April 9th, 2014, 03:57 PM
Ugh, this one is difficult, but can you prepare yourself for either way?
Are you having any symptoms?
What if you test on Sunday and you are likely to get a faint line, then use the CB on Tuesday for confirmation?

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lyngostar
April 9th, 2014, 04:12 PM
I don't think I could be prepared for a bfn. Especially if it was only negative because I took the test to early. I like ur idea though. :) think I will go with that. No symptoms yet. But with ds2 I had no symptoms till I was 3 or 4 weeks pregnant.

maidentomother
April 9th, 2014, 05:07 PM
Happy almost anniversary, lyngo. :)

My temp was super high this am...trying not to get my hopes up!

flowerlily
April 9th, 2014, 05:08 PM
That's a good sign..right?

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lyngostar
April 9th, 2014, 05:16 PM
Sounds promising though. :)

maidentomother
April 9th, 2014, 06:34 PM
I was already awake when I took my temp, BUT it was at my usual time. I've also been feeling very warm today with flushed cheeks. I am always warmer after O but not usually this warm until 7DPO, if ever.

In pregnancy charts, temps often go higher than ever before, starting around 4-5DPO (at the very earliest). So supposedly a promising sign...does this link let you see my charts?:

4a5f89 Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/Circles/homepage.php?u=Pink+Power)

flowerlily
April 9th, 2014, 06:40 PM
Yes, and wow that's really promising! Fingers crossed for a BFP!:)

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lyngostar
April 9th, 2014, 06:45 PM
That's defo looking good maiden. :) I don't temp but have been feeling hotter than normal.