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FitBlonde
May 13th, 2014, 10:50 PM
I have no idea what's going on. I have TONS of EWCM and cramping?? I had a +OPK 10 days ago, surely I can't be ovulating again?? I'm so confused!
angielorna
May 13th, 2014, 10:53 PM
I think those can be pregnancy symptoms too!
fivebabies
May 14th, 2014, 12:04 AM
I'm 10dpo in the AM too Angie! :) I have a bunch of the cheap .88 cent ones that I am using but won't buy a FRER until I see a faint line. I am sure I'll wake up to AF though.
FitBlonde, OPKs can detect early pregnancy chica!!! :)
FitBlonde
May 14th, 2014, 01:52 AM
I took an OPK this arvo. Here's the pic...
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I'm either pregnant or ovulating again lol
yogi&booboo
May 14th, 2014, 02:04 AM
Fitblonde,
I had this about two months ago and I think it was late ovulation. I had positive opks twice in one month. I truly hope this is a bfp for you but I would also bd just in case.
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FitBlonde
May 14th, 2014, 02:30 AM
We did BD just in case, but I haven't been doing the diet or exercise and have started prenatals, yikes! Oh well. Fingers crossed it's not late O.
Marika
May 14th, 2014, 02:31 AM
FitBlonde - are you gonna POAS?! :-) Fx!
FitBlonde
May 14th, 2014, 02:38 AM
In the morning at approx 11DPO (I think haha). I'll update you in roughly 14 hours. If I did ovulate it would have been this morning with all the cramping I had so by this arvo the OPK should have been negative.. FX.
My husband also got me a FRER test which I will use on 12DPO.
essnce629
May 14th, 2014, 03:23 AM
FitBlonde what cycle day are you on? Have you ever ovulated super late before? I bet you're pregnant! I tried out an OPK as a pregnancy test when I was the same stage as you with DS2's pregnancy and it came out positive. The pregnancy test was a light BFP at that point (11dpo). Good luck for the morning!!!!
ETA: I just looked back at my chart when I got pregnant with DS2 and I had EWCM on CD24, which was 12dpo! Very similar to you so I hope that's a good sign for you!
stephk
May 14th, 2014, 04:03 AM
Hi all, tentatively joining you as I think I may be in the 2WW but not sure!! Think I may have ovulated somewhere around last weekend but havent got a clue, my OPKs were getting darker all week but never quite positive, then I couldnt test on saturday. Have had super light negative lines every day since sunday so I am working on the assumption that I did O - we BD wednesday and friday so have everything crossed!
Fitblonde - it may well be late O but also apparently we do get a surge of estrogen somewhere around 7dpo which can result in EWCM so it could also be that? Fingers crossed you are PG!
Boysway - enjoy that beer on friday night and get stuck into the lovely food too :)
Angie - hope you get your BFP soon, sounds like you are closest to testing?
FitBlonde
May 14th, 2014, 05:08 AM
FitBlonde what cycle day are you on? Have you ever ovulated super late before? I bet you're pregnant! I tried out an OPK as a pregnancy test when I was the same stage as you with DS2's pregnancy and it came out positive. The pregnancy test was a light BFP at that point (11dpo). Good luck for the morning!!!!
ETA: I just looked back at my chart when I got pregnant with DS2 and I had EWCM on CD24, which was 12dpo! Very similar to you so I hope that's a good sign for you!
It's hard to tell, I just came off the pill two months ago. Last month I O'd on day CD21 and my period came exactly 2 weeks later. Then this month I got a +OPK on CD17 & CD18 (I assumed I O'd on CD19). So so far I have been O'ing roughly 3 weeks after AF starts.
When I conceived my son I O'd around CD27, but had just come off the pill after 7 years on it. I had breaks off the pill in the last year and my periods are usually 5 weeks apart. I got a very faint BFP with my son at 11DPO (which is tomorrow) so FX I get a BFP tomorrow, otherwise I'll just assume that I O'd and will start the 2ww over again :hair:
daisymoo
May 14th, 2014, 05:25 AM
Best of luck Fitblonde! Hope it's a bfp!!! :)
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3girlsnwaiting
May 14th, 2014, 07:57 AM
Well ladies it is CD 49 and AF arrived this AM. I knew she was on her way with the drop in temp. I need to get back to exercising anyway for my boy sway.
Best of luck to everyone still in the 2 WW.
stephk
May 14th, 2014, 09:58 AM
sorry to hear that 3girlsandwaiting :( hope next month is your month
fivebabies
May 14th, 2014, 10:59 AM
Bummer 3girlsnswaying! :(
fivebabies
May 14th, 2014, 01:53 PM
I'm out too. AF showed up this morning. Its ok though, I really want a February baby so FX for next cycle!!!
angielorna
May 14th, 2014, 02:10 PM
Boo to AF.
essnce629
May 14th, 2014, 02:19 PM
Good luck next month Fivebabies! Hope June is your month!!!
FitBlonde
May 14th, 2014, 07:34 PM
Good luck for next month girls!
I got a BFN this morning, but am stocking up on more tests today and will continue testing until 14DPO. If I don't have a BFP by then I'll assumed I O'd late and will test again in a week or so.
SamS_TTCPink
May 14th, 2014, 08:19 PM
Another BFN this morning so I think I'm defiantly out. 😞
angielorna
May 14th, 2014, 09:44 PM
:( mumofsix
Fitblonde, still time for a positive! Fingers crossed!!
angielorna
May 14th, 2014, 10:33 PM
Anyone else feel like MacGyver when taking pregnancy tests? I've got to squint, analyze, hold it 100 different ways so the light will shine on it differently and ultimately take it apart.... MacGyver!
Angie
angielorna
May 14th, 2014, 10:34 PM
Oh and I had to look up the term line eye.... And now I am self diagnosed. I have line eye!!!
Angie
FitBlonde
May 15th, 2014, 12:01 AM
Anyone else feel like MacGyver when taking pregnancy tests? I've got to squint, analyze, hold it 100 different ways so the light will shine on it differently and ultimately take it apart.... MacGyver!
Angie
Haha thats me! I swear I spend like 30 minutes everyday just rechecking 'just to make sure'. I think I have a problem lol
stephk
May 15th, 2014, 12:30 AM
I think we all have that problem lol taking it in different lights and rooms to make sure!!
Mumofsix sorry you are out :(
Fit blonde you are definitely still in with a shot
FitBlonde
May 15th, 2014, 12:48 AM
I hope so. I'm still getting very positive OPK's today, so who knows :shrug:
essnce629
May 15th, 2014, 01:20 AM
Would you say this is a positive OPK? I'm on CD10 today and the earliest I've ever O'd (I have 52 charts to look back on) is CD12. Should I go ahead and do my one attempt tonight or wait till tomorrow night?
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/15/ese6ubun.jpg
And here's a comparison with tonight's test (very bottom) and the two I took yesterday at 12pm and 10pm.
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/15/3u9eqahe.jpg
FitBlonde
May 15th, 2014, 01:45 AM
Hmmm I would say its pretty close. I got one like that then an even darker one the next day.
stephk
May 15th, 2014, 03:15 AM
Looks really close, in fact I never got that close with mine!! Not sure whether I would BD today or wait until tomorrow. Will you be testing again today?
Marika
May 15th, 2014, 03:32 AM
Loooks very close essnce. When I have had that strong lines it has been at its strongest within hours more or less.
What time of the day is it for you now? Here it's morning so for me that would probably have been a strong positive this evening and I would have made the attempt tonight.
Marika
May 15th, 2014, 03:35 AM
Sorry Mumofsix :-(
essnce629
May 15th, 2014, 03:41 AM
It's almost 1am here. I think we're just going to dtd right now since we wouldn't get another chance till midnight tomorrow. So it's either now or 24 hours from now.
Marika
May 15th, 2014, 03:45 AM
I see, I would probably do the same. Better do it a bit early to make sure not missing the egg, than taking the chance and risk of being too late. GL!
stephk
May 15th, 2014, 07:31 AM
i think you are doing the right thing - good luck
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 09:50 AM
Dang dang dang!!!!! So I tested this morning (big shock, I know) and when the pee was moving across I was SURE I saw the test line go pink. Super duper excited....had to leave midtest to deal with other kids. I have to tell, those few minutes I was over the moon and planning was in overdrive.
Came back to a stark negative!!!! Well, the McGyver in me *thought* I saw a hint of a shadow...so I played a game of shadows then decided it was my imagination :'(
I'm telling you, this TTC'ing is messing with my head, my heart AND my vision. So, of course, any rational TTC'er (haha) decides they have to take ANOTHER test because there is no way that could happen. I watched the whole process to see if I was crazy. Exact same freaking thing.
Hope others had better luck than I this morning!!! Fitblonde, how about you?
Angie
stephk
May 15th, 2014, 10:10 AM
:( Angie - how many dpo for you? might still be too early for a positive?
daisymoo
May 15th, 2014, 10:25 AM
Hang on in there Angie! Could still get a big positive tomorrow Fingers crossed for you!
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angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 10:45 AM
I believe I'm 11 DPO (maybe 10, but I'm thinking 11 is right). I know, still time. I keep doing the math. If implantation happened 7 DPO where the HCG levels might be. Sigh. Early testing is the craziest thing (I decided this morning). If kids can wait for Christmas/birthday etc., then I should be able to wait 3 freaking days until AF is due, lol. Not that this will stop me. But really, it's only 14 days to have to wait....why does it have to feel like 400?????
Angie
daisymoo
May 15th, 2014, 11:03 AM
Ha! It does feel like an eternity doesn't it! Try and wait until the morning (if you can!) Do you have any symptoms?
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angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 12:00 PM
No symptoms. Except the ones in my head. I've had a sore/swollen throat for a few days, losing my voice. I keep thinking I have tugging in my lower abdomen (not cramping) and intermittent breast tingliness, but I think it's more psychosomatic than anything else. I am peeing more, but I think it's because I'm drinking more for my throat. AGONY, lol.
I'm actually thinking of hitting up the $ store across the street on my lunch, how sad is that....
Angie
daisymoo
May 15th, 2014, 12:12 PM
Well I really hope you get a bfp I had more symptoms the month I didn't get my bfp The body has a strange way of tricking us I think! My very first symptom this time was heartburn followed by a sore throat too! Go to that $ store!!!
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angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 01:35 PM
haha, sadly I did. I'm pretty sure it's an imaginary line....soooooooo not really there. I have to do all sorts of crazy manuevers to catch a glimpse. BUT, here's to hoping that it isn't ALL in my imagination and it grows into something recognizable as a line :P
Angie
stephk
May 15th, 2014, 01:48 PM
Yay hopefully it will go darker tomorrow :)
odd
May 15th, 2014, 02:16 PM
Hi everyone. ..hope everyone is doing well - I am trying to stay away from GD so I don't obsess. lol
I will probably get +opk day after tomorrow but had our unplanned attempt today. I hate that things don't go as planned...last month was a dud but hope this month still counts even with 2 days cutoff
Should i start counting days tomorrow or after I get my +opk??
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Marika
May 15th, 2014, 02:20 PM
Fx for you Angie! I hope the line turns stronger til tomorrow!! Can you catch it on camera?
I know how you feel about that testing, it's just an addiction! I would look at those sticks so many times in so many different angles and lights and then hide them when dh came to see what I was doing. :-D
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 02:28 PM
I'm hiding it at work!!! No, nothing can be caught by camera. Hell, I'm not sure I'm catching it with my naked eye (maybe if it's turned JUST the right way, there MIGHT be a hint of a line). My new motto is sometimes an evap line is just an evap line. But......
I've now smudged the whole freakin test so it looks like a line (but in the wrong spot). I was trying to smuggle it from one spot to another in my bra (embarrassed smilie here) and I think the heat of my skin caused some weird reaction.
I spend so much time in the bathroom at home now it's no wonder DH isn't concerned, haha.
Thanks for the finger crossing and luck wishing. I'm desperate to know!
Angie
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 02:32 PM
Odd -- Do you mean for the 2ww? If that's what you're referencing, then I'd start counting after I think I've o'ed. I got my (almost positive opk) on a Thursday night, but I think I o'ed on Sunday. So Monday is 1 DPO. Did I answer anything even remotely to what you were asking???
Good luck!!!! I hope you catch that egg!!!!
Angie
I thought I hit reply with quote. I was mistaken. Oops.
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 04:02 PM
haha, took yet ANOTHER test. Negative as negative can be.
I feel like I'm spamming the board. I'd say I'm sorry, but if I was, then I guess I wouldn't be posting :P
Angie
fivebabies
May 15th, 2014, 04:22 PM
LOL! You're entertaining us Angie! I'm jealous that you still get to obsess!!!
Bloom4314
May 15th, 2014, 04:30 PM
Today I am 7DPO (according to FF) in my first cycle since losing my son at 19+6 in March. And I crazily tested this morning and it was negative. Even though it's super early, I had this ridiculous thought in my head that I would get a gorgeous positive at 7DPO, the earliest I've ever gotten one. I think I'm crazy lol. But at last in here, I know you all understand that "crazy" haha.
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 04:33 PM
Hi Bloom4314 :) You've gotten a BFP at 7 DPO in a previous pregnancy??? Wow, you are my new idol. Yes, I do understand that level of "crazy". I think it's pretty main****** around here (or maybe I should just speak for myself, lol).
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of you son. Such a heartbreaking experience to have.
I hope you get your BFP soon :)
Angie
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 04:35 PM
LOL! You're entertaining us Angie! I'm jealous that you still get to obsess!!!
At least I can be of service :P
and I'm spending a fortune, $1.25 at a time!!!! (well, the last 2 were $1.99....ugh)
And you will be obsessing again in no time! Gotta love living life in 2 week time spans!
Angie
Bloom4314
May 15th, 2014, 04:36 PM
Hi Bloom4314 :) You've gotten a BFP at 7 DPO in a previous pregnancy??? Wow, you are my new idol. Yes, I do understand that level of "crazy". I think it's pretty main****** around here (or maybe I should just speak for myself, lol).
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of you son. Such a heartbreaking experience to have.
I hope you get your BFP soon :)
Angie
Nooooo! No 7DPO positive here. I just meant it would have been the earliest I've ever gotten one. The earliest I've gotten on is 10DPO and it was mega light! So even thinking one at 7DPO was possible was crazy ;)
Thank you. I hope you get your BFP soon also x
Bloom4314
May 15th, 2014, 04:42 PM
I wish we were able to buy tests that cheaply in Australia! The cheapest I've seen them is around the $7 mark, and that was the blue dye ones. The FRER are about $12 each! I bought a bulk pack of the OPKs on eBay and they came with a handful of cheap dip-strip HPTs as well so I'm using those at the moment.
FitBlonde
May 15th, 2014, 06:04 PM
Okay so I tested this morning and I'm not sure if it's a very very very faint BFP, an evap line, the indent where the line should be or I'm just seeing things. It's easier to see as it dries. I'll upload some pics even though you really can't see anything! I'm going to get my husband to check once he gets up.
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essnce629
May 15th, 2014, 06:12 PM
Fitblonde-- I can't see anything on my phone, but I hope it's the beginning of a BFP for you! My best friend got what she thought was an evap line on 10dpo since it was way after the time limit, but the next day she had a blazing BFP on a FRER and a digital! So fingers crossed for you!
essnce629
May 15th, 2014, 06:15 PM
I took another opk today at noon and it seemed either the same or maybe even a smidge lighter than last night's. We went ahead and BD last night so hopefully I'm O'ing today or tomorrow. Today is CD11 for me.
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 06:57 PM
Fitblonde, I see something too! I didn't at first, but when I double checked, I can see something in the first pic. I can't tell if there's color or not, but I see a line :D
I hope this is your bfp!!! When will you test again???
Angie
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 06:59 PM
Sooooo....my one test had a second pinky line show up hours after I took the test. It's still negative, right?
lyngostar
May 15th, 2014, 07:27 PM
Angie you are just like me. Lol. I check the tests over and over. I shine the light on my phone through them to get a better look. Lol.
I'm not sure if it's still negative. How long was the test sitting? A few hours or the whole day? If it was a few hours then it could be your bfp. Fx
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 07:35 PM
4 hours. I'm going with negative until I get a positive in the time frame. That's my story anyway. :P
FitBlonde
May 15th, 2014, 07:38 PM
Yeah I'll test again in the morning.. Unless my IC turn up today
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 07:45 PM
Where are you, fitblonde? Just wondering about time differences bc is almost 8pm here. I hope you get then and can pee again today! Is your frer for tomorrow?
Angie
FitBlonde
May 15th, 2014, 07:58 PM
Nah I'm in Australia. I used my FRER yesterday and it was negative. It is only 10am here lol. The FR ones like I used this morning gave me an earlier positive with my son than the FRER, so am just going to use them. Plus theyre cheaper!
angielorna
May 15th, 2014, 08:04 PM
Ahhhhh.....cheaper is better! Especially if they are more effective at getting the job done :) good luck! (again)
FitBlonde
May 15th, 2014, 10:06 PM
I know, I didn't know how expensive tests were. $9 for one FRER :-/ that's ridiculous.
odd
May 15th, 2014, 11:42 PM
Holycrap..I guess my waiting game begins sooner than expected. We dtd this morning on a whim..and I J&d; I was supposed to ovulate on Saturday but checked tested just now to be sure and there it is. Big fat smiley.
I am so nervous! ! Of all days, decided to go out for big fat lunch right after we dtd..
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stephk
May 16th, 2014, 03:36 AM
I check the tests over and over. I shine the light on my phone through them to get a better look. Lol.
lol i do this too!! haha
stephk
May 16th, 2014, 03:38 AM
good luck odd!!
daisymoo
May 16th, 2014, 05:34 AM
Odd sounds like perfect timing! Best of luck!
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angielorna
May 16th, 2014, 09:17 AM
Good luck, Odd!!!
I got a BFN this morning. I think I'm done. Done, done, done. There's no point in further testing 12DPO. If my pink line yesterday was a true BFP, it would have been positive this morning.
I'm actually contemplating ending my TTC'ing now. I have two happy, healthy boys. I'm going to be 36 in July and I wanted to be done having kids by 35. I'm nervous about having additional problems due to my age (considering my history). I have to talk to DH about all of this. He wasn't all that gung ho for a third, so I can't imagine him being crushed by the idea. :( I, stupidly, had my hopes WAY up after that positive line popping up hours later. I knew it was dumb, but I couldn't help but hope.
I know I'm only 12 DPO and there is still a chance, but I'm just not feeling it. I'm very sad today....
Thanks for "listening",
Angie
SamS_TTCPink
May 16th, 2014, 09:25 AM
I know how you feel Angie. I'm thinking of stopping TTC too. Our plan was a Xmas bub this year, which was crushed when I had the m/c and now everything seems to be against us! We said no more once were 35 too and that's May next year. We also don't want another March-May baby as we have so many birthdays then as it is and it's already hard financially. So it's this month or not at all and I'm sure I'm out now with AF so late and still all BFN's and I'm sure we missed the egg. I've also run out of supps and almost out of opk's and can't really continue to afford it all. And my DH wasn't keen on another baby at the start either and said a few weeks ago he was done so I know he wouldn't care.
Really didn't think it would all be so hard but maybe it's cause it's just not meant to be! 😕
You never know though, maybe when you stop "trying" it will all happen easily for you and you might get a surprise BFP! 😀
stephk
May 16th, 2014, 09:50 AM
So sorry to hear this guys. Angielorna sorry for the BFN today. for some people it just doesnt show up yet though so you never know. mumofsix - it is so true for a lot of people that they stop trying and then bham!
Im not stopping TTC but I do wonder how much longer I can consistently do the restriction on the diet, even monday to thursday, its just getting annoying. Or maybe its just hard coming back from holiday as I have been hungry all week and cant wait for the working day to finish so I can go home and eat
SamS_TTCPink
May 16th, 2014, 09:52 AM
Steph you've had a tough time, I don't know how you've kept up with the diet this long! You're amazing. I can't wait to see your BFP!! 👍😀
stephk
May 16th, 2014, 10:49 AM
:omg: its been almost 7 months on the diet!!
essnce629
May 16th, 2014, 12:56 PM
:omg: its been almost 7 months on the diet!!
That's crazy steph! You definitely need a BFP this month!!!!
Angie-- still hoping you have a chance! It's not over till AF arrives!
angielorna
May 16th, 2014, 12:58 PM
:omg: its been almost 7 months on the diet!!
*applause* You are amazing!!! I hope you get your BFP this month! You've certainly EARNED it!!!!
And thanks, essnce629. I know, but I feel far too good (physcially) to be pregnant. Oh well. Decisions to be made. I've been off the diet for about 1.5 weeks now. Even had breakfast 2 times!!! haha
Angie
FitBlonde
May 16th, 2014, 05:01 PM
I had a BFN this morning, so I am going to say I O'd late. Arg so frustrating. Im pretty much out of the running for a girl now since I had already started my prenatals and got back on my boy diet :-( there goes 12 weeks of diet and paintful hour long cardio sessions. I'm so mad at myself right now.
I guess I'll be checking in another week.
daisymoo
May 16th, 2014, 06:05 PM
Wow! 7 months on the diet! You're definitely getting a daughter Steph!
Fitblonde and Angie Don't loose hope If af is not here you're still in the running!
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Pinktink
May 16th, 2014, 10:01 PM
8DPO here. Doing my head in. BFN (of course) today. I got a BFP 9DPO with my son so that's why I decided to test early. I had had lots of wet CM but that changed to creamy yesterday but there is only a wee bit. I just want to jump forwards a few days ;) good luck to anyone who is testing soon!
SamS_TTCPink
May 16th, 2014, 10:03 PM
Hope it turns to a BFP soon Pinktink!
angielorna
May 16th, 2014, 11:39 PM
Boo, fitblonde! Thats crazy!! I hope you get a bfp soon. I don't think you are out for a girl. Even without swaying there is always a chance.
Pinktink I know what you mean about fast forwarding! Good luck!
I'm pretty sure AF is not only showing, but showing early (I guess in this case, better early than late... Saves me money on tests). Started spotting this eve. :(
And to top it off I brought pizza home for dinner and Dh asks if I was giving up on my sway totally now (I ate a burger last night). When I told him idk, he said ok, but if you end up with another boy, don't blame me! with AF coming he's lucky he's still breathing.
Angie
fivebabies
May 17th, 2014, 01:03 AM
LOL! "He's lucky he's still breathing". You crack me up Angie.
I have actually decided to stop ttc too. I'm going to wait a year. but it makes me nervous since I'm already 33 and not exactly a spring chicken. I do already have 5 wonderful, healthy kids so I keep thinking "why push my luck?" :(
I really hope you guys get some BFPs soon!
stephk
May 17th, 2014, 01:52 AM
Fitblonde - if you only very recently started the prenatals and boy diet I don't think it would override 12 weeks? Pinktink wow that is early to have got a BFP, with my DS my BFP was 12 days after positive OPK so I guess it was 11 dpo, I started testing at 9 dpo then, don't know how I held out!! The thought crossed my mind to test today but that would be silly, way too early!!
Angielorna - lol does he not know that cheats are mandatory! Especially when AF is coming!
stephk
May 17th, 2014, 02:38 AM
TMI I've just been to the loo for the 3rd time in the past 3 hours. But of a dodgy tummy, probably over indulged last night and definitely drank too much. Had brown spotting just now when I wiped I'm going to be so gutted if AF is coming already :(
loobylue
May 17th, 2014, 02:43 AM
Never TMI Steph - the brown spotting could be a really good sign. Do you normally spot before AF? And this much time before AF? I do but the spotting this time seemed different and even earlier, which made me suspicious.
stephk
May 17th, 2014, 03:14 AM
I don't know what is normal to be honest I never used to get spotting. last month AF started with spotting and then full blown the following day. It did look different so who knows. Feeling a bit guilty about drinking so much last night but last time when TTC I limited myself in the 2ww which really annoyed me. I have had cramping in weird places too but have tried to ignore it as I don't want to get my hopes up for nothing.
stephk
May 17th, 2014, 03:32 AM
It now looks like AF. Totally gutted :(
loobylue
May 17th, 2014, 03:41 AM
Steph - I'm sorry. This is such a tough time. I'm not trying to give you false hope but with ds2 I thought AF had started for sure, but it stopped and turned out ok. Last week I was having much the same too. Giving you a virtual hug. X
SamS_TTCPink
May 17th, 2014, 06:37 AM
Oh no steph! I was so hoping for a BFP for you this month!
angielorna
May 17th, 2014, 09:49 AM
Steph, I'm so sorry :( AF really is a WITCH (I'd use other words, but that might be inappropriate for the site?). I was really really hoping for you, it all sounded so promising. Is there a crying smilie somewhere?????
Hugs,
Angie
angielorna
May 17th, 2014, 09:56 AM
fivebabies, that's my thought too. Why push my luck? I'm very grateful to have had the opportunity to carry to term twice. There was a point in my life that I really thought I had zero chance of having children (since my first 2 pregnancies ended in MC at 10 weeks and then my 3rd at 14 weeks). So the fact I have 2 children who are happy, healthy and wonderful is amazing to me. I worry about what if, especially at 35 and especially since my 3rd pregnancy may have been because of a chromosomal abnormality (or neural tube defect).
It's such a hard decision to make. Rationally, I know that 2 is enough. But my heart aches for a third. Yes a girl would be blessing, but a healthy baby would be the ultimate gift. UGH!!!!
And, steph, I know cheating is mandatory and I the vindictive side of me wants to make him do LE for a whole week and see how he manages. Bet he'd feel differently then!!!! I can't believe how long you've been on the diet....it's only 2 months here and I am desperate to be off it!!!!
Good luck to everyone who is still in the 2ww that you get your BFP this month. I hope everyone else catches that egg next month...ASAP. TTC is both amazing and infuriating. Creating new life is hard work :P Who knew condoms were wasted money!!!
Angie
odd
May 17th, 2014, 11:04 AM
Hi girls, I have a silly q. We dtd on friday mid morning and then I received a +opk later that day; it continued to stay positive until last night.
This morning however, my opk was negative so does that mean I wil ovulate now or I habe already ovulated? I don't temp so don't know how to find out.
I've had mild cramps since morning so just trying to figure out when I would be considered dpo1.
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odd
May 17th, 2014, 11:05 AM
I meant Thursday. We dtd Thursday and received the +opk later on Thursday
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stephk
May 17th, 2014, 02:36 PM
Odd - it should say on your test. Mine says that you should O between 24-48 hours following the positive
Angie - yes make him do the diet and tell him cheats are not allowed mwahahahaaaaa - i do enjoy what I eat it's just a bit annoying sometimes trying to be around 30% fat and below 60g protein. I have at least one cheat day a week, well I cheat most weekends all weekends really otherwise I would go mad lol
Really hope to see some more BFPs from ladies still in 2ww
essnce629
May 17th, 2014, 03:34 PM
I think I screwed up my opk tests. I think CD9, 10, and 11 were actually negative. Yesterday's CD12 test lines were darker than the control then dried equal and I just took one 10 minutes ago and the test line is way darker than the control. That makes more sense with my normal O on CD15. Temps are still low so didn't O yet. I just started having O pains last night and today. We BD on CD10 thinking I had my positive then, but going to BD again tonight and if I O tomorrow or so then hopefully that will equal just one attempt.
Here's my +opk from 10 minutes ago. CD13 today.
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/18/vutusuna.jpg
Boysway
May 17th, 2014, 04:36 PM
Essnce, that is definitely a +OPK!
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angielorna
May 17th, 2014, 07:39 PM
Essence...I'd do the same!!!! Go catch that egg :)
Angie
SamS_TTCPink
May 18th, 2014, 03:55 AM
AF just arrived. So defiantly out for May but now at least I know where things are at and hopefully back to normal. CD1.. Let the counting begin!
Abifasc
May 18th, 2014, 07:14 AM
As of last night, I'm in the 2ww again! Hoping for a pink BFP this month. Hope all of you are doing well!!
SamS_TTCPink
May 18th, 2014, 08:34 AM
Yay Abifasc! GL!
Abifasc
May 18th, 2014, 01:36 PM
Thanks! I was pretty sure the opk was + (both lines were equal darkness) at 10:30 last night so we bd. little after 11pm, but the test line was darker than the control this morning. That makes me nervous, but that still leaves me with 1 attempt in the fertile window so it may be ok. Dh didn't shower his time and I didn't j&d so hopefully pregnancy is still possible. Agh now for the super long 2ww!
Abifasc
May 18th, 2014, 01:37 PM
Mumofsix, June is a beautiful month to conceive!!! Hope it's your month!!!
stephk
May 18th, 2014, 01:45 PM
Good luck abifasc sounds like perfect timing
Marika
May 18th, 2014, 02:13 PM
Good luck abifasc!
Boysway
May 18th, 2014, 05:24 PM
Good luck Abifasc :)
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odd
May 18th, 2014, 06:46 PM
Good luck to us all lol..I think I am only 1 dpo today since I had major o pains yesterday.
How important is the diet in 2ww?? I didn't eat all morning but had 2 meals beteeen 1 and 5 and both kinda heavy. ..hope I didn't screw up all my hard work
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essnce629
May 18th, 2014, 07:06 PM
Mumofsix-- sorry that AF arrived but I'm glad it looks like things are back on track with your cycle and hopefully June is your lucky month!
Abifasc-- looks like we will be doing the TWW together! We had our attempt last night as well! Fingers crossed for both of us!
Odd-- I was just reading yesterday that Atomic thinks the diet is most important right around O and through the TWW since girl embryos develop best in a low glucose environment and that's exactly what the LE diet creates. So you definitely want to keep up the LE diet so that pink embryo can stick. Good luck!
odd
May 18th, 2014, 07:17 PM
Ok thanks so much essence. It wasn't thst high but in the higher range for me..I mustve consumed about approximately 1300 to 1400 cals..around 40-45 g of fat and 30g of protein.
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Abifasc
May 18th, 2014, 10:00 PM
Thanks everyone! Not feeling crampy at all today so maybe o day is tomorrow? I'm going to try really hard nog to stress about testing this time.
essnce629
May 19th, 2014, 12:36 AM
Ok thanks so much essence. It wasn't thst high but in the higher range for me..I mustve consumed about approximately 1300 to 1400 cals..around 40-45 g of fat and 30g of protein.
You're actually on the low end for calories and protein for the LE diet. Atomic doesn't like to see anyone eating under 1500 calories and 40-50g of protein. Your body still needs to ovulate and make a good quality egg which is why she doesn't want anyone getting too low on nutrients. The LE ranges are 1500-1800 for calories, 26-60g of fat, and 40-50g of protein.
FitBlonde
May 21st, 2014, 06:10 AM
Just thought I'd update.. I'm 8dpo tomorrow (I think! Haha) so will start testing from now. I have no symptoms so I'm not holding out much hope...
SamS_TTCPink
May 21st, 2014, 06:43 AM
Fingers crossed FitBlonde!! You never know. 😀
laVieEnRose
May 21st, 2014, 09:28 AM
Joining here - I'm 2 or 3 DPO. I know it's soo unlikely and really silly but I'm symptom spotting already and trick myself in 'feeling' stuff. I have some cramping like prior to AF but that's obviously nothing. It's all I can think about so its going to be 2 very long weeks!!
SamS_TTCPink
May 21st, 2014, 09:37 AM
Yay laVieEnRose!! Fingers crossed for you too. 😊💜
Boysway
May 21st, 2014, 09:42 AM
Good luck laVieEnRose :D
Rosie85
May 21st, 2014, 09:43 AM
Good luck ladies! I have my opk sticks coming today so hopefully I can get a positive soon and join back in here for my 2 ww!
Abifasc
May 21st, 2014, 11:12 AM
Yay Rosie! Hope you get a + soon!
I'm feeling exhausted today and yesterday, but I'm only 2-3dpo and I refuse to do any symptom spotting this month.
Rosie85
May 21st, 2014, 11:49 AM
It is so hard not to symptom spot!! I had symptoms starting 3 dpo last month and I was indeed pregnant. Hope this is your month Abi!!
essnce629
May 21st, 2014, 12:41 PM
Good luck Fitblonde! We need some more BFP's around here!!!
laVieEnRose and Abifasc-- we're all in the exact same spot! FF gave me my crosshairs today but I think they're a day off. 97.4 is a pre-O temp for me so I think I did O on my normal CD15 like always and so that would make me just 2dpo. My temps are slow to rise, but that may be because I started sleeping with a giant fan pointing towards me 3 days ago (on top of the open window and ceiling fan I always have!) Glad I have you both to do the TWW with!
I had a middle school meeting last night for my older son and I sat right in front of all the snacks and had several pieces of salami, crackers, and cheese which probably blew me past all my fat and protein numbers! But oh well! At least I did my workout last night when we got home!
Abifasc
May 21st, 2014, 01:10 PM
I usually have pretty intense o pain, but not this month! I'm a bit crampy but nothing crazy. I still want to write my symptoms down just so I have them in case I am pregnant :)
odd
May 21st, 2014, 01:17 PM
Hi ladies. Glad this thread is alive again.
Good luck rosie!
Essence, abifasc and fitblonde, good luck and hope we all get our bfps this month..
This is my first cycle ttc and o'd saturday - I do feel all sorts of funny inside but that's probably coz I'm o aying extra close attention this month lol..
Exercise has slowed down quite a bit and diet has been easy coz I've lost appetitie but it was my birthday yesterday and friends and family have me celebration since sunday so loads of cakes and sweet treats. .oh well - haven't been too outta control thankfully
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AshJagla
May 21st, 2014, 01:35 PM
Hey, I hope it's okay I post here! I've been stalking you guys on and off all month lol. Wishing everyone gets BFPs this month and for those who have gotten the dreaded visit from AF that you get awesome BFPs in June!!
I didn't test or temp for ovulation, but CD14 I had a bunch of ewcm in the morning accompanied by cramps and spotting and no fertile cm since, though we did continue to bd every day or two until CD22 just in case. I am now on CD 28 or 13DPO *I think*
AF could start any time from today the 21st to the 28th since I have irregular periods. I have tested the past 3 days and keep getting super duper faint lines which I now am starting to believe are all evaps... Just wish I'd get a neg test without an evap so I could feel certain one way or another!
11DPO EPT w/ FMU & FRER in evening
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v628/AngelPoku/DPO11EPT2_zps52d3b80f.jpg (http://smg.photobucket.com/user/AngelPoku/media/DPO11EPT2_zps52d3b80f.jpg.html)
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v628/AngelPoku/DSCF0558_zps5ca4bc61.jpg (http://smg.photobucket.com/user/AngelPoku/media/DSCF0558_zps5ca4bc61.jpg.html)
12DPO $store & CB both with SMU
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v628/AngelPoku/DPO12store_zps619454b8.jpg (http://smg.photobucket.com/user/AngelPoku/media/DPO12store_zps619454b8.jpg.html)
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v628/AngelPoku/DPO12CB_zps7ee60743.jpg (http://smg.photobucket.com/user/AngelPoku/media/DPO12CB_zps7ee60743.jpg.html)
13DPO FRER with SMU with drink in between *wasn't planning to test*
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v628/AngelPoku/DPO13FRER_zpsf2c9de72.jpg (http://smg.photobucket.com/user/AngelPoku/media/DPO13FRER_zpsf2c9de72.jpg.html)
Rosie85
May 21st, 2014, 01:56 PM
Sorry the lines are so confusing ash. My thought would be that maybe you are having a chemical pregnancy?? My lines got darker but never as dark as the control line.
AshJagla
May 21st, 2014, 02:18 PM
It would explain getting so many different "evaps" on a variety of tests :/ AF isn't technically late until after the 28th... hope things pick up but not feeling very hopeful for this month.
Abifasc
May 21st, 2014, 02:31 PM
Sorry, AshJagla, I see some Evans and some bfns. I don't trust blue dye at all. You're not out till af shows!
Abifasc
May 21st, 2014, 02:32 PM
Evaps*
AshJagla
May 21st, 2014, 02:47 PM
Thanks Abifasc :)
I'm so incredibly impatient and all these bfn's/evaps make me anxious. Anxious for either a BFP or AF to hurry up and get here so I can be on to my next cycle. I'm sure you girls are familiar with the feeling though lol
lyagirl
May 21st, 2014, 04:00 PM
Im 6dpo and feel like ive got the worst cold. Come to bed at 830pm as exhausted. Wondered if it's hay fever but I feel like death :(
essnce629
May 21st, 2014, 05:31 PM
Sorry Ash, how frustrating! I hope things get figured out soon. It could be that you ovulated later than you thought. I have O pains and eggwhite/watery cm for days before I ovulate. By O day my cm has completely dried up.
I hope you feel better soon lyragirl! Get some rest!
AshJagla
May 21st, 2014, 05:51 PM
Really Essnce?? I didn't realize that could even happen, I thought it was generally textbook, when you feel this, this means that is happening, iykwim!
Well we kept bd'ing until the 15th, CD 22, so if that's the case I should still have a shot. My cycles are so irregular too, 28-35 days is normal but the cycle I got pg with DD2 one was 50 days!
I think if AF does show up that I'll have to start temping and testing, I haven't so far because I figured I didn't think timing was key for ttc blue, but now I see I'd like to know just so I can be sure of how many DPO I am when POAS.
essnce629
May 21st, 2014, 06:34 PM
Yes you'd have fertile cm for days before you O as that let's the sperm get to where they need to go and already be waiting in the fallopian tube when the egg comes.
stephk
May 22nd, 2014, 03:29 AM
good luck AshJagla - hope you are PG, but if you are not, maybe the temping and testing will be good anyway, as the attention to detail may sway blue for you. Sounds like you are in with a shot though :)
AshJagla
May 22nd, 2014, 08:27 AM
I should know one way or another soon I think, lots of symptoms. Can't tell if they are AF or PG symptoms, but I'm assuming AF. Sore bbs, irritable, exhausted, mild cramps, have lost all will to clean my house lol
stephk
May 22nd, 2014, 08:40 AM
gosh i never have the will to clean my house lol!!! 2ww is so hard because AF, O and PG symptoms are pretty much the same and its so hard not to symptom spot.
AshJagla
May 22nd, 2014, 09:03 AM
Right?! I try so hard not to pay any attention but when you're ttc you spend the rest of the month focusing on cm, signs, timing, diet, supps, etc. I think it's pretty much impossible to ignore your body after all of that in the 2ww.
I hate that my periods are irregular too because I don't really even know WHEN to expect AF, so I could be late right now, or not... which pretty much goes for the entire next week. With O spotting the 7th, I thought my very light spotting on the 17th could be implanting, even now when I think I've got all the signs for AF I have fertile CM which usually I don't get anywhere near AF. But I'm sure it's just a fluke and I convince myself I am or am not pregnant several times a day haha.
angielorna
May 22nd, 2014, 09:42 AM
I know exactly what you mean AshJagla. I really hope all those "evaps" will turn into a BFP for you. Have you managed to wait until tomorrow to test again? Or did you cave?
Good luck,
Angie
stephk
May 22nd, 2014, 09:51 AM
some people apparently get fertile CM around 7 dpo - its a surge of estrogen keeping the womb lining going. It can happen whether PG or not though, its not a sign of anything. Lets hope those evap lines turn into a BFP for you, we could do with some more BFPs here!
Have you sought advice from atomic on trying to get your periods more regular? she might have some good advice for you.
AshJagla
May 22nd, 2014, 10:17 AM
We've only just started sups a couple of months ago and this is our first month really actively ttc, so we'll probably try another cycle or two on our own, but if things start dragging I certainly am going to purchase a private plan and the boy cookbook while I'm at it. I'd do it now but DH needs some convincing that it will help.
Despite super crazy cycles though, I've never had any difficulty getting pregnant. M/c was 1st month trying, DD1 was 2 months, DD2 was 1 night lol. DD2 was also conceived on what would have been a 50 day cycle given when I had to have O'ed for conception and her due date. I never tested early before either, so I have nothing to compare these too.
Angie, I tested yesterday at 13DPO with FRER, not testing again until tomorrow in hopes of something more definite.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v628/AngelPoku/DPO13FRER2_zps803f3712.jpg (http://smg.photobucket.com/user/AngelPoku/media/DPO13FRER2_zps803f3712.jpg.html)
stephk
May 22nd, 2014, 11:10 AM
breakfast cereal and fortified foods plus pre-natal vitamins and nutrient dense foods are the way to go for you. Eat/graze often, dont allow yourself to get hungry. Eat lots of eggs, meat, nuts, avocado, that type of thing. Making myself hungry now and i have just had my afternoon bowl of fruit and yoghurt!
AshJagla
May 22nd, 2014, 11:39 AM
I'm a serial dieter, not a cereal eater lol. I'm trying though ;)
stephk
May 22nd, 2014, 12:09 PM
Wouldn't it be great if we could eat for each other lol I've never been on a diet until now lol!
AshJagla
May 22nd, 2014, 12:16 PM
It would be SO nice!
At least this can give us extra reassurance that diet does sway, it's so obvious when you look at what non-swaying All Boy moms eat vs non-swaying All Girl moms. There's definitely something to it :D
laVieEnRose
May 22nd, 2014, 02:19 PM
I'm not a cereal eater and not a serial dieter either!!! Lol. I often skip meals (especially lunch) and im often within the calories but I do love my meat (I'm French ! I eat anything alive !).
I reckon I 'made' my boys eating too much Nutella! I was basically raised on Nutella and it has been my breakfast for ever! It has been so hard given it up!
Can't wait to eat it again!
I'm with you on the 'symptom watch' .... I go from 'oh I think it's a pg feeling' to a 'no, I don't feel anything' ....and then I think I haven't done enough re my sway, or I'm thinking that perhaps the egg hasn't been brushed down by my lonely Fallopian tube...basically as you can see, I m going crazy lol.
6bluewant1pink
May 22nd, 2014, 02:27 PM
Wouldn't it be great if we could eat for each other lol I've never been on a diet until now lol!
I wish I could do someone's boy sway lol. I can definitely guarantee I'll have a boy for them lol.
Etreintedouce
May 22nd, 2014, 02:52 PM
Dh and I on a whim decided to make an attempt. We will see what happens! I'm joining the 2ww wait with you guys :) I don't think we will get pregnant this month but who knows.
I started using opk's last month and never got even a line. ( been on the diet 44 days) But I only tested once a day (at 4pm) for a couple days before and after when I should ovulate so about a week total. This month I started testing on cd8 and in my fertile window 3 times a day . This month I've noticed when they dry I have a line but usually you can barely see it before it dries. We had one day with a for sure line but not positive I had ewcm and my cervix was high and open so we decided wth might as well try. It's been a couple days my cervix is low and I'm dry so maybe I ovulate without a positive or that's the closest I'll get to a positive? Either way I'm going to keep testing till af so I know better for next month. I told Dh not to get to excited because it might take a couple month, but I can't help thinking what if we do get a bfp this month! Lol
Sorry for a long post good luck to everyone still waiting for af I hope you get your bfp :)
angielorna
May 22nd, 2014, 02:53 PM
count me in on doing someone elses boy sway! Always had sugary cereal for breakfast, lots of meat *steak, how I miss you*, snacking all the time -- high fat, sodium, calories. Never skipped meals....like ever. Love fast food too!
But I was a serial dieter too. But never for more than a few weeks at a time. Even when I did the moderate healthy eating -- nothing extreme -- I couldn't maintain. This is probably the LONGEST I have ever been on a diet and have mostly stuck to it (mostly).
Angie
AshJagla
May 22nd, 2014, 03:50 PM
I had some sort of comment half formed about how I'd love to "not eat" for you la but I just ran my head into the doorway and now I've forgotten.
GL Etreintedouce! Hope you get your bfp!
AshJagla
May 22nd, 2014, 05:31 PM
Whew, feeling a little better now, just a knot on the forehead. How I managed to *RUN* into door frame with my face? Well I'm not positive, but I'll go ahead and say it was on the way in to the kitchen rofl. omg
Just took a look at my chart, last month was a 29 day cycle and today is day 29. AF could come at any second at this point. Just twiddling my thumbs until I see what happens.
SamS_TTCPink
May 22nd, 2014, 08:41 PM
I wish I could do someone's boy sway lol. I can definitely guarantee I'll have a boy for them lol.
I wish I could sway blue for someone too! Lol!! Maybe we could all just swap babies. 😉
SamS_TTCPink
May 22nd, 2014, 08:42 PM
Good luck Eteintedouce!!
Etreintedouce
May 22nd, 2014, 08:56 PM
Thank you! I officially got a +Opk today of coarse lol last month I gave up by cd20 today is cd19. I thought maybe the vitex and sp might of made me ovulate late last month so I stopped taking it a couple days before this month glad to see I ovulate! Lol so I have like a three day cut off. At least I know better for next month if we don't get a bfp this month. I'm super excited to have a chance at getting pregnant though!
essnce629
May 22nd, 2014, 09:42 PM
Thank you! I officially got a +Opk today of coarse lol last month I gave up by cd20 today is cd19. I thought maybe the vitex and sp might of made me ovulate late last month so I stopped taking it a couple days before this month glad to see I ovulate! Lol so I have like a three day cut off. At least I know better for next month if we don't get a bfp this month. I'm super excited to have a chance at getting pregnant though!
How long ago was your attempt? If I were you I'd BD tonight. You usually don't O until 1-2 days after a +OPK so BD'ing tonight would probably still be one attempt in your fertile window and would give you the highest chance of a BFP. I had my first +OPK on CD12 but didn't actually O till CD15. On CD12 the lines were equal, on CD13 the test line was darker than the control, and on CD14 they were equal. On CD15 the OPK was negative.
Etreintedouce
May 22nd, 2014, 10:14 PM
We dtd on Tuesday we are going for abstain and 1 on +Opk. I think that would still be in the window. I think I would ovulate tomorrow so it would be a 3 day cut off right? I did usec Rephresh 12 hrs before than j&d.
stephk
May 23rd, 2014, 03:19 AM
Good luck Etreintedouce!
Marika
May 23rd, 2014, 03:42 AM
I think I'll be joining in here again :-) I am not 100% sure of course, but I think I am ovulating now. Started getting stronger opk tests wednesday, but then ran out of tests so I couldn't test yesterday but normally after starting getting stronger, they turn positive next day. We did bd yesterday morning just in case and right now I have all the usual symtoms of o that I have day after a opk+; most significant is a sharp pain in one side (left this time!). So hopefully an egg is releasing and some swimmers are up there waiting.
stephk
May 23rd, 2014, 05:02 AM
Good luck Marika!! hoping for a BFP for you!
MamaLuv
May 23rd, 2014, 08:00 AM
I'm still in the 2ww...I've been testing almost every day (a little anxious)....I've taken about 6 tests now. 4 of them showed very faint lines. The first 2 I took were straight negatives. I learned I was testing too early. The most recent 4 show a the faint line still (after the 3 minute window) but the two earliest ones I took that showed negatives still say negative with no evap line. What do you guys think. I'm wondering if I am or if I'm not. I'm so confused! Oh...and I'm 12dpo. My cycle was due on either the 25th or 26th. (kind of off due to recently coming off the pill).18964
stephk
May 23rd, 2014, 08:56 AM
I can see faint lines on all 3 tests hon - I think congrats might be in order!!
Abifasc
May 23rd, 2014, 09:43 AM
I see pink lines on all three tests MamaLuv!
Etreintedouce
May 23rd, 2014, 10:00 AM
Mamaluv I see the lines too! Congrats!
SamS_TTCPink
May 23rd, 2014, 10:45 AM
There's defiantly 2 lines!! Congrats!! 😊👍
yogi&booboo
May 23rd, 2014, 10:49 AM
Mamaluv Congratulations!!! Those are definetly positives. Wishing a happy and healthy 9 months :bighug:
angielorna
May 23rd, 2014, 10:58 AM
I'm still in the 2ww...I've been testing almost every day (a little anxious)....I've taken about 6 tests now. 4 of them showed very faint lines. The first 2 I took were straight negatives. I learned I was testing too early. The most recent 4 show a the faint line still (after the 3 minute window) but the two earliest ones I took that showed negatives still say negative with no evap line. What do you guys think. I'm wondering if I am or if I'm not. I'm so confused! Oh...and I'm 12dpo. My cycle was due on either the 25th or 26th. (kind of off due to recently coming off the pill).18964
Yay! Congratulations, my dear, you are officially pregnant!!!!!!
Your 2ww is OVER, with such a wonderful end :)
Angie
daisymoo
May 23rd, 2014, 11:33 AM
Huge congrats mamaluv! You are pregnant!!
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Boysway
May 23rd, 2014, 12:09 PM
Yep, definitely three +Hpt's. Congratulations :)
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MamaLuv
May 23rd, 2014, 12:09 PM
THank you everyone. I just left the doctor and her test showed negative. I don't know if the fact that it's 12noon and not my first urine that makes the difference. I haven't technically missed my period yet either (due the 25th or 26th)....Anyhow, she said my lines probably don't mean anything. She also refused to give me a blood test!! I know my body and after three kids I know the drill. I've had sickness, unusual bloating, cramps, headache EXTREME fatigue.... I'm even more confused now. To make it all
worse she started talking to me at length about miscarriages!!!! Who wants to hear that?! She had this sneer the whole time like I was nuts. Finally as I'm leaving I go on the elevator to see this cute little lady with her pink and white dress with a perfect baby bump. I got in my car and burst into tears. I'm so sad. :,-(
Rosie85
May 23rd, 2014, 12:18 PM
Oh mama! That is so terrible of the doctor. How heartless! You know yourself better than anyone. I'm sure that she said it was negative because it's so faint and they don't use the early ones at the clinics...normally just the regular kind so since you aren't late yet I am sure that's why it didn't show! I am very sure you are pregnant. Congrats and don't let today's visit get you down.
stephk
May 23rd, 2014, 01:21 PM
Sorry but what a b1tch! Shouldn't be a doctor! So sorry to hear that and Rosie is right, docs don't use the very early detection tests. I'm sure yours will get darker. Please don't worry and enjoy the weekend
daisymoo
May 23rd, 2014, 01:41 PM
Mamaluv you are pregnant Don't worry about some old doctor She's probably just jealous! ;)
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Boysway
May 23rd, 2014, 01:42 PM
Awww :( Mamaluv you poor thing. Huge hugs. That was really wrong of that doctor. I honestly wouldn't go back to see her.
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Abifasc
May 23rd, 2014, 08:41 PM
So I'm 4-5 dpo and trying really hard not to symptom spot but I might as well write them down. Feeling suuuuper tired, constant drippy and stuffy nose, slight soreness in my breasts and frequent urination. I'm not getting excited yet though. I feel like since the opk became more glaringly + after our attempt that we might have Dtd too early.
SamS_TTCPink
May 23rd, 2014, 09:01 PM
Drs can be so heartless at times! When I was bleeding and had problems with DS6 pregnancy the dr told me I would miscarry but it didn't matter anyway as we already had 5 kids!!
When I got my BFP in March my drs test was negative too so maybe they aren't as sensitive as some HPT tests!
Can you see another dr maybe who will do bloods for you?
AshJagla
May 23rd, 2014, 09:18 PM
How heartless for her to start in already on m/c possibilities! I would not be going back to see her!
I see 2 lines on every single one of those tests! But FRER are early detection and the doc offices usually use ones similar to First Signal (around here anyway) and so of course such faint lines wouldn't show on those yet. Please do not be disheartened, we all see those positive tests!
essnce629
May 23rd, 2014, 10:35 PM
Omg, what a terrible doctor! !!! I see the lines on all three tests! Maybe try taking another test tomorrow with second morning urine to see if it's darker. And I agree that the tests at the doctors offices aren't that sensitive. I don't usually go in there to confirm till after my period is due
angielorna
May 23rd, 2014, 10:49 PM
THank you everyone. I just left the doctor and her test showed negative. I don't know if the fact that it's 12noon and not my first urine that makes the difference. I haven't technically missed my period yet either (due the 25th or 26th)....Anyhow, she said my lines probably don't mean anything. She also refused to give me a blood test!! I know my body and after three kids I know the drill. I've had sickness, unusual bloating, cramps, headache EXTREME fatigue.... I'm even more confused now. To make it all
worse she started talking to me at length about miscarriages!!!! Who wants to hear that?! She had this sneer the whole time like I was nuts. Finally as I'm leaving I go on the elevator to see this cute little lady with her pink and white dress with a perfect baby bump. I got in my car and burst into tears. I'm so sad. :,-(
Your doctor, my dear, is an idiot. Why the heck would she be talking about miscarriage with you if she didn't think you were pregnant?! You're super early. I'm sure FRER is more sensitive than theirs. I know it's hard, but try to relax. I can't believe she refused a blood test. That is ridiculous. I'd find another doctor to talk to.
Hugs,
Angie
FitBlonde
May 24th, 2014, 12:46 AM
I agree mamaluv your dr is horrible! Hugs.
Bfn for me today at 10 DPO and honestly, it doesn't worry me if it stays that way. I am completely content with one happy healthy little boy.
You watch, I'll go and get a BFP now that I've said that lol
Marika
May 24th, 2014, 01:16 AM
Mamaluv - I see those lines too! What an awful dr! Hope you don't get to see her anymore.
Abifasc - Fx for you! Hope those symptoms turn into two lines in a few days!
I am 1 dpo and trying to ignore the fact that I am in the 2ww. Last cycles 2ww was terrible and so stressful, I have to find a way to handle it better.
essnce629
May 24th, 2014, 04:45 AM
Good luck to everyone in the TWW! I'm either 4 or 5dpo. I did have a hot flash tonight, which was my very first symptom with both pregnancies. So that's exciting! Feeling crampy right now too.
DH and I are going to be spending a night together in Long Beach tomorrow night. We won a night's stay at a hotel at DS1's fundraiser last year and it expires next week so we couldn't let it go to waste! My mom came up yesterday to watch the kids. We're getting a couples massage and going out to dinner and hopefully having a nice 1 hour gondola ride if we can get a reservation in time. Today was DS2's 5th birthday and next Saturday is his party so I've been SUPER busy. Looking to relax for the next 2 days!!!!
I was reading on an IVF site last night and the doctors on there recommended exercising no more than 4 days a week for 90 minutes max during the TWW and greatly limiting caffeine from all sources since it constricts the blood vessels, so I'm going to follow that advice even though I'm not an IVF patient. So no more double shot of espresso for the next week for me!
stephk
May 24th, 2014, 05:40 AM
Sounds promising!! Look forward to BFP news from you soon! Enjoy that break and happy birthday to your DS :)
SamS_TTCPink
May 24th, 2014, 06:36 AM
Sounds like a nice little break! You defiantly couldn't have let that go to waste. Enjoy your night together.
AshJagla
May 24th, 2014, 07:48 AM
Oooh enjoy your night with hubs! That sounds so wonderful :D
AshJagla
May 24th, 2014, 08:53 AM
Okay, so here's this morning test from CD31. Decided I should put DPOs anymore since O was never confirmed by test or temp and my cycles are irregular. Next month I'm definitely going to be temping so I can feel more certain.
Thinking BFN
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v628/AngelPoku/52414_zps826328ae.jpg
FitBlonde
May 24th, 2014, 04:26 PM
BFN this morning for me to.
AshJagla
May 24th, 2014, 05:43 PM
How many DPO are you Fitblonde?
FitBlonde
May 24th, 2014, 10:32 PM
10 or 11 dpo
AshJagla
May 24th, 2014, 11:10 PM
Ahhh you've still got plenty of time for that bfp to show up :3 I'm thinking I'm out of the game this month & just waiting for AF now.
kitkat18
May 25th, 2014, 02:10 AM
Hi guys!! I've missed you all had a well deserved break from ttc while my hubby recovers from surgery for a ruptured appendix!! Its been soo stressful and ive been so worried about him so its been a lovely break not worrying about opks, symptom spotting etc. Stayed on diet but had a fair few cheats!!!
Cycle day 3 so look forward to joining you for June !!! Will catch up on the Goss now on the other forums xxxxxx
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stephk
May 25th, 2014, 03:14 AM
Welcome back Kitkat!! Hope your DH is feeling better!!
essnce629
May 25th, 2014, 04:40 AM
Welcome back Kitkat!!!! Hope your DH feels better soon! Hoping June is your month!
DH and I are in Long Beach and I have eaten sooooo much tonight! Definitely no LE diet! I had a 10oz steak, lots of bread and butter, roasted artichoke with garlic mayonnaise sauce, creamed spinach, French onion soup, and a breve latte! Then I had a caramel peanut butter chocolate candy apple on our gondola ride and now we're eating salami, cheese, and crackers in our room!
At least I'm in the TWW though and I did have my fiber beforehand LOL!!!
SamS_TTCPink
May 25th, 2014, 04:45 AM
Sounds so good essence! Hope you're having a great time.
Boysway
May 25th, 2014, 05:58 AM
Welcome back kitkat :) I hope your dh is feeling better.
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kitkat18
May 25th, 2014, 06:06 AM
Sounds amazing!!!! Essence I am drooling ....... Thanks boysway he is getting there its nice to see everyone's updates! I've missed you all xxxxx
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lyagirl
May 25th, 2014, 06:21 AM
Welcome back kitkat!
Im 10dpo and bfn :( can't help but feel like these symptoms are mind over matter and not really there. Two days until optimal testing day and the wait is killing me!
FitBlonde
May 25th, 2014, 07:13 AM
I am 10dpo too lyagirl.. Hopefully we get our bfp!
SamS_TTCPink
May 25th, 2014, 07:15 AM
Still keeping everything crossed for you both FitBlonde and Lyagirl!!
FitBlonde
May 25th, 2014, 08:05 AM
Looks like I may be out. I've just started getting brown spotting :-(
stephk
May 25th, 2014, 08:31 AM
Oh no :( sorry to hear that Fitblonde was hoping for BFP news from you
lyagirl
May 25th, 2014, 09:26 AM
Oh no, however I had that in my last pregnancy. Brown is old blood and your body might be trying to "have a spring clean" in readiness. So might not be out yet x
odd
May 25th, 2014, 12:15 PM
Isn't 9 or 10 dpo implementation? ? Which would result in old blood?? I dont think u r out yet. Good luck fitblonde
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Abifasc
May 25th, 2014, 01:30 PM
I wouldn't think you're out yet FitBlonde!
I'm 6-7dpo and extremely extremely tired. I had to leave church go come home and sleep because I couldn't stay awake and I'm about to go nap again. I'm definitely either pregnant or coming down with something!!
essnce629
May 25th, 2014, 01:51 PM
Good luck Abifasc, sounds promising! When are you going to start testing?
Fitblonde-- Do you normally have spotting this early before AF? I agree that it can be implantation and you definitely still have a chance. 10dpo is still really early for testing. My best friend, who swayed for a girl too this month, had a BFN on 10dpo, what looked like an evap on 11dpo hours after testing, and a blazing BFP on 12dpo! Fingers crossed for you!
Abifasc
May 25th, 2014, 02:13 PM
I'll be 8 or 9 dpo on Tuesday so I'll start testing then.
AshJagla
May 25th, 2014, 03:01 PM
FX it's not the witch Fitblonde!
Really hope everyone gets their bfp this month!
laVieEnRose
May 25th, 2014, 03:16 PM
Welcome back kitkat! I wish your DH a speedy recovery. X
There are some promising 'symptoms' out there! FX!
I'm DPO6 or 7 too abifasc! I don't really feel much so far. Perhaps a just a bit more sensitive to certain smells (especially bad ones lol)
Abifasc
May 25th, 2014, 03:39 PM
I haven't noticed any sensitivity to smells, but my nose us a bit stopped up right now!
Etreintedouce
May 25th, 2014, 03:46 PM
I'm jealous of you guys who are 9+ dpo I am 2 or 3 . I can't imagine having to go through the wait every month I'm so impatient lol at least I work 7 days straight next week so that should make the time go faster! I hope you lady's start getting bfp's soon!
FitBlonde
May 25th, 2014, 04:01 PM
I sometimes have spotting but my periods are usually always late and I always get bad cramps which I have none of. I had about 6 wipes of brown discharge then nothing. If I do get AF it will come in full force today.
AshJagla
May 25th, 2014, 05:32 PM
I'm still sitting here twiddling my thumbs on CD32. Super tired and cranky. AF should be here soon.
FitBlonde
May 25th, 2014, 05:37 PM
I've had a bit more brown spotting this morning and a BFN so will just wait it out.
lyagirl
May 25th, 2014, 06:12 PM
You testing tues FitBlonde? Im testing tues at 12dpo. Will end up testing tomorrow too though as cannot fight the urge lol
FitBlonde
May 25th, 2014, 06:28 PM
Yeah I'm testing every day. Unless AF shows before then.
Boysway
May 25th, 2014, 07:58 PM
Good luck to those testing and waiting to test :)
I am hoping to officially be in here as of Saturday. Ovulation should be on Friday for me which is 4 days time!
FitBlonde
May 26th, 2014, 03:42 AM
Omg I think I just got a faint BFP.. Do you see anything???
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FitBlonde
May 26th, 2014, 03:46 AM
It's really hard to see now but you can see it if I hold a torch under it
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yogi&booboo
May 26th, 2014, 03:48 AM
I definitely see something fitblonde. Keeping my fingers crossed this is your bfp ☺💞
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FitBlonde
May 26th, 2014, 03:52 AM
I will test again in the morning. FX its a BFP and it sticks with the spotting I've been having.
ETA: This was taken at 5pm after holding it for 5 hours or so. Hopefully it will show something in the morning!
lyagirl
May 26th, 2014, 04:06 AM
I had bfn again this morning. My cycles are usually around 33 days, would this mean that I would wait longer for a bfp?
Abifasc
May 26th, 2014, 07:41 AM
I see a line but can't tell if it's an evap, FitBlonde. What cd are you on?
bluebonnet22
May 26th, 2014, 07:50 AM
lyagirl - usually everyone has a very similar LP length (even with long cycles) and usually just the FP varies (ie with a 33 day cycle you just ovulate later than those with a 28 day cycle). You'd still expect a BFP between 10-14 dpo or so, even with a long cycle.
Abifasc
May 26th, 2014, 08:02 AM
Actually FitBlonde in the inverted pic I think I do see a colored line! What dpo are you?
girliedreamz
May 26th, 2014, 11:29 AM
Coming to join you all in the crazy... :)
I *think* as of today I'm in the 2ww. Again. (Month #4!) I've had a bear of a time spotting O, so we're dtd every 4 days. Last night was attempt #2, so fingers crossed we can catch an egg.
P.S. I feel you on the LE diet, steph...I've been on it for just about 14 months. :O We'd originally planned to start ttc last Sept, but life/work/stress got in the way. Gee, no wonder I'm not sure when/if I'm Oing.
babyb5
May 26th, 2014, 03:23 PM
Surprise BFP! AF was late for 3 days. Did not expect it, since DH was sick during last month around O time, so we skip bed during O time. DTD only 4-5 days before O). But I'm TTC a boy. So scared this is another girl.
Abifasc
May 26th, 2014, 03:44 PM
Babyb5, timing doesn't sway, but frequency does...did you Dtd more than once around that time?
babyb5
May 26th, 2014, 03:48 PM
Yes, we dtd one day before and skip one day and dtd again.
yogi&booboo
May 26th, 2014, 03:54 PM
Congratulations babyb5! Wishing you a healthy upcoming 9 months ☺💞
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FitBlonde
May 26th, 2014, 04:59 PM
Actually FitBlonde in the inverted pic I think I do see a colored line! What dpo are you?
I am around 12/13DPO today. The test wasn't any darker this morning. Will test again tonight and tomorrow morning.
AshJagla
May 26th, 2014, 06:32 PM
Big congrats baby5!!
Boysway
May 26th, 2014, 06:52 PM
Congratulations BabyB5 :)
Good luck Fitblonde :)
odd
May 26th, 2014, 08:08 PM
Congratulations baby5..
Fitblonde..looks like tjat was implemention bleeding. ..good luck and congrats in advance :-)
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odd
May 26th, 2014, 08:10 PM
Girls...am 9dpo today. Have had backache and dull cramps for the last few days and just npw when I went potty, had a blob of brown cm type stuff (tmi, sorry)
Really hoping and praying its implementation bleeding and super early AF. Our anniversary is in few days anf what a perfect gift bfp would be
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odd
May 26th, 2014, 08:11 PM
And not* super early AF
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Boysway
May 26th, 2014, 08:55 PM
Fingers crossed for bfp for you :)
SamS_TTCPink
May 26th, 2014, 09:00 PM
Congrats BabyB5! Hope it's your sticky blue bean. Sending blue dust your way. 😉
SamS_TTCPink
May 26th, 2014, 09:01 PM
Keeping my fingers crossed for more BFPs in the coming days!
Abifasc
May 26th, 2014, 09:33 PM
Fx it's ib for you odd!
FitBlonde
May 26th, 2014, 09:38 PM
Congrats babyb5!!!
I'm picking up some FRERs tonight so will test again tomorrow with one of those. I'm not sure what's going on!!
Boysway
May 26th, 2014, 09:47 PM
Hey ladies, just a quick question. I want to put up a sway plan to be reviewed. I put one up for my last attempt. Should I type a new one or just alter the old one including the title?
essnce629
May 26th, 2014, 11:07 PM
Congrats Babyb5!!!!! Sending you all my blue dust!!!!
Fitblonde-- try taking your FRER test tomorrow with 2nd morning urine. Most people get better results then. I "think" I may see something in your pics though. Fingers crossed for you!!!
Odd-- hope that's some implantation spotting for you! Good luck!!!!
essnce629
May 26th, 2014, 11:11 PM
I'm either 7 or 8dpo (FF says 8) and my temps having been climbing higher every day but today dropped .4 degrees. Hoping that's an implantation dip, which FF says is most common on 7 or 8dpo. We'll see what tomorrow's temp does. I don't think I'm going to test for 2 more days.
stephk
May 27th, 2014, 04:02 AM
wow lots going on here! congrats baby5 - two attempts in the fertile window sways boy and I am sure you were doing other things to sway so fingers crossed this is your sticky blue bean!
fitblonde, essnce and odd - looking forward to BFP news from you!
girledreamz - wow that is a looooong time to be on the diet! not sure if you have had advice from atomic on this but she recommended zinc 3 times a week for people who have been on the diet for longer than 6 months.
boysway - maybe just alter the old one? might be easier?
Marika
May 27th, 2014, 04:29 AM
Baby5 - Congrats! Fx for a blue little bean!
FitBlonde - Good luck!!
Marika
May 27th, 2014, 04:30 AM
essnce and odd - keeping my fx that you are implanting! :-D
MamaLuv
May 27th, 2014, 08:43 AM
Update: Thanks so much for your encouragement ladies. Even with the lines on all the tests...I am not pregnant. I called my OB after my crazy experience at the doctor. They felt horrible for me after I told them how my doctor acted. The drew my blood and pushed through a rush order on my blood results at the lab. They even had a special driver come out to their office to rush my blood to the main hospital lab. They called 2 hours later to tell me that it was in fact negative. I was still in shock because the lines were there. Best of all, after all that, the "wicked witch" came to visit Saturday morning. I showed my husband and two other close friends the actual tests and even they were amazed since the lines were so visible. This was an eventful experience so I think I am going to postpone my next attempt to July. I'm not ready to go through this again in a few days.
As for my extremely rude, inconsiderate doctor. She's toast! She will get no more of my insurance money
Abifasc
May 27th, 2014, 09:08 AM
I'm so sorry MamaLuv
stephk
May 27th, 2014, 10:07 AM
so sorry to hear mammaluv. Yes stay away from that horrible doctor.
Sorry to hear you are skipping June and hope July is your lucky month.
AshJagla
May 27th, 2014, 10:08 AM
So sorry for your awful experience and negative blood test MamaLuv. I think most people in your situation would need a month off from ttc too hun! Hope you can relax a bit and that you get a true BFP in July xx
lyagirl
May 27th, 2014, 10:37 AM
Im so sorry mamaluv! Bitch doc!!
GL all waiting for bfps!
Im 12dpo and got another bfn this morning, I don't feel like I might be preg anymore, feel pretty normal so just expecting af at the weekend. Just want to know either way now and if not im getting some wine down my neck and move on to june!
AshJagla
May 27th, 2014, 10:55 AM
Well I'm officially out ladies. I had yet another BFN this morning and have finally started spotting. I expect AF to be here in full force tomorrow. Best of luck to everyone waiting to test, I'll still be stalking!
odd
May 27th, 2014, 11:05 AM
Wow..m so sorry to read ur horrible experience mamaluv - upside is you have some answers and know how to move forward. Best wishes for july
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