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odd
May 27th, 2014, 11:07 AM
M sorry lyagirl and ashjagla - hope june is the month for u!!!
After thr brown spotting yesterday, no other signs for me. I'm tempted to test but will wait it out at least until Friday if I can
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angielorna
May 27th, 2014, 11:38 AM
Update: Thanks so much for your encouragement ladies. Even with the lines on all the tests...I am not pregnant. I called my OB after my crazy experience at the doctor. They felt horrible for me after I told them how my doctor acted. The drew my blood and pushed through a rush order on my blood results at the lab. They even had a special driver come out to their office to rush my blood to the main hospital lab. They called 2 hours later to tell me that it was in fact negative. I was still in shock because the lines were there. Best of all, after all that, the "wicked witch" came to visit Saturday morning. I showed my husband and two other close friends the actual tests and even they were amazed since the lines were so visible. This was an eventful experience so I think I am going to postpone my next attempt to July. I'm not ready to go through this again in a few days.
As for my extremely rude, inconsiderate doctor. She's toast! She will get no more of my insurance money
I'm so sorry to hear that :( Did you tell your OB about all the positive tests? Do you think it was a chemical pregancy and thats why the tests were positive then neg blood test? How terrible. I'm glad you're going to stay away from the rude doctor. Ugh. Good luck, sweetie.
Angie
MamaLuv
May 27th, 2014, 02:56 PM
Yup. I showed the assistant my tests and she saw the lines too.
girliedreamz
May 27th, 2014, 03:48 PM
Congrats, babyb5!!
fx for you, odd!
Thanks for the tip, steph! I think I did buy some zinc but haven't taken it yet. Will look for that... I've had a couple of weeks off the diet at times (per atomics' advice) but I'm way easing up on it now. Worried I'm easing too much, but as I know you know, gotta get that O happening somehow, right? I'm just trying to make sure I get the exercise in and hoping it's enough to still sway.
So sorry, Mamaluv! What a terrible roller coaster experience. That is so weird about the lines! I think taking a month off is a great idea, and hopefully July is your lucky month.
Sorry lyagirl and ashjagla! Let's hope June is it for you!
angielorna
May 27th, 2014, 04:33 PM
ugh....so I guess I may be entering into a second 2ww in May. CD 10 and OPK was freaking positive this afternoon (complete shock)....going to retest when I get home to see if it was because of lack of fluids today and get ready to DTD and see what happens. Part of me wants to go buy another pregnancy test -- to make sure my opk wasn't reading something else ;) Though I know it's not true, it's fun to dream.
Angie
FitBlonde
May 27th, 2014, 04:43 PM
AF arrived this morning so I'm out! If we do decide to try again it won't be until August.
angielorna
May 27th, 2014, 06:24 PM
I'm sorry to hear that fitblonde :(
Angie
essnce629
May 27th, 2014, 08:48 PM
So sorry to hear that AF arrived Fitblonde! Boo!
I tested in the middle of the night at 3:45am with a FRER cause I was still awake and started feeling nauseous (probably due to lack of sleep LOL!). BFN of course at only 8 or 9dpo!!! Should of held out for 2 more days like I said yesterday, especially if yesterday's temp drop was an implantation dip. Bummed I wasted a FRER!!!!
essnce629
May 27th, 2014, 08:53 PM
ugh....so I guess I may be entering into a second 2ww in May. CD 10 and OPK was freaking positive this afternoon (complete shock)....going to retest when I get home to see if it was because of lack of fluids today and get ready to DTD and see what happens. Part of me wants to go buy another pregnancy test -- to make sure my opk wasn't reading something else ;) Though I know it's not true, it's fun to dream.
Angie
Was your last AF normal? If not, I probably would take an HPT as well.
But if it is ovulation, good luck on your attempt!
WantinganAdkinsGirl
May 27th, 2014, 09:08 PM
I started my 2WW the 23rd. We DTD at my +OPK. I'm not very good at waiting and I'm already wondering when I could start testing? I bought a bulk pack of OPK's plus HPT and I'm going to test with those first. Then if I get a + I will test with a digital HPT. I will also have to do a blood test to get a referral to our OB office.
All of this before a cross country move in 3 weeks :suprise:
angielorna
May 27th, 2014, 09:10 PM
Don't test early unless you can handle BFN's! I speak from experience. I test when I *know* it's waaaay too early, but I'm prepared for it. The earliest you should test is 10 dpo (not from pos opk). But I've been known to test as early as 5dpo, which is far far FAR too early!!!
Good luck!
Angie
AshJagla
May 27th, 2014, 10:16 PM
UGH!! I was so okay with the spotting this morning, but it stopped this afternoon! VERY UNLIKE ME, irregular cycles or not, break through bleeding and early spotting is rarely an issue besides the very beginning of AF, there's never any stop go stop go. And on those rare occasions it's only brown, this morning was brown, pink, and a spot of red (sorry for the picture lol). Hopefully AF will still show in the morning... if not... I'll continue to wonder if I had false ovulation pains on the 7th and what I thought was implantation spotting/cramping might have been my true Ov pains on the 17th, with our last dtd the 15th... 2 day cut off and ttc blue. Bah
But I'm sure since I actually typed this out though, it'll be AF in the am. I just want my body to quit playing with my head so I can move on. Just ordered a nice big pack of ov tests and pg tests and placed my bbt thermometer by the bed.
SamS_TTCPink
May 27th, 2014, 10:25 PM
AF arrived this morning so I'm out! If we do decide to try again it won't be until August.
Bugger! 😞
SamS_TTCPink
May 27th, 2014, 10:26 PM
So hopefully I'll be back in in 2WW after tonight!! Pos opk today!! This just HAS to be our month. 😊
odd
May 27th, 2014, 10:31 PM
Ohhh...good luck mumofsix :-) enjoy the bd :-)
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odd
May 27th, 2014, 10:34 PM
Ok so unless my body is playing tricks on me, I am pretty sure I am preggo!! But will wait until Friday to confirm anyways coz I'll be devastated if there's bfn in the meantime.
I am pretty sure what I had was IB yesterday - well, I just couldn't take it anymore and was having the worst day today and pigged out like there's no tomm..is it ok to do so at this point or will i hurt my chances with not keeping BP low for today???
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girliedreamz
May 27th, 2014, 11:11 PM
Go Mumofsix! Totally pulling for you!
That royally sucks, fitblonde. :(
Boysway
May 28th, 2014, 12:00 AM
Sorry to hear Fitblonde :( Fingers crossed for the next time you try.
Good luck Mumofsix :)
Marika
May 28th, 2014, 02:51 AM
Sorry FitBlonde :-(
Fx for IB odd!
essnce629
May 28th, 2014, 03:12 AM
Good luck Mumofsix!!!!
essnce629
May 28th, 2014, 03:20 AM
These are the cheapo SurePredict tests I took today at 3:45am, 1:30pm, and 11:00pm. They're supposed to be more sensitive than FRER detecting hcg as low as 10miu, but the reviews are mixed with false positives and evaps LOL! I had 10 of them so figured I'd use them up! I actually took one last month when we weren't even TTC and when I was still on the minipill and it came back with a super faint line but it was unusually skinny and didn't look right. What do you think? I'm either 8 or 9dpo today.
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/28/u9yzeme3.jpg
laVieEnRose
May 28th, 2014, 03:39 AM
FX the lines will get darker Essence!
I'm the about the same DPO as you I think, and I too did a few cheap tests already but no lines at all. So your 'lines' look promising!!
I'm just really irritable but that's prob pmt - AF due early next week.
We have a weekend away planned and just wanna know if I can have a few drinks or not!
Feeling a bit down to think that I will carry on LE diet for another cycle!!
Marika
May 28th, 2014, 03:46 AM
essnce - I think I see something there. Fx it will get stronger and that it is your BFP!
Marika
May 28th, 2014, 03:48 AM
Lavieenrose - 8-9 dpo is really early to test so don't give up yet! I hope you will get a reason to not have those drinks ;-)
stephk
May 28th, 2014, 04:20 AM
sorry to hear of the BFN fitblonde :(
odd and essnce - sounds like we will hear positive news from you very soon! Fingers crossed!
lavie - dont give up hope yet, fingers crossed your positive isnt far away either!
ashjagla - hopefully by buying those you wont need them and are actually PG :)
mumofsix - good luck for your attempt, praying this is your month hon x
angielorna
May 28th, 2014, 07:56 AM
odd -- I usually cheat a lot during the time between (what would be) implantation and AF. I figure that the baby has already implanted and determined....and I don't know it. I usually still skip breakfast and red meat, but eat whatever otherwise. I hope this is your last 2 ww for at least 9 months :P
Essnce - I think you are on your way to a BFP! 8-9 dpo is super early (even on 10 mls tests). I'm sure your FRER will come up with 2 lines in no time!
Mumofsix - can't wait until you can test ;) Good luck on your attempt!!!
Angie
Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 08:01 AM
Ok I know it's not big or fat, but do you think this is positive? I, 9-10dpo, and this was with 2mu.
http://i59.tinypic.com/f1cbc0.jpg
Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 08:03 AM
I think I see something essence ☺️
MamaLuv
May 28th, 2014, 08:27 AM
AF arrived this morning so I'm out! If we do decide to try again it won't be until August.
Sorry to hear that FitBlonde. I hear you. I'm sitting out too. I'm considering doing an attempt in July and if not then I won't try again until September.
AshJagla
May 28th, 2014, 08:38 AM
mumof6 - Good luck!
odd - exciting! FX you get your bfp when you test :D
essence - I SEE LINES! Hope the continue to darken for you!
Abifasc - I definitely see something there!! Awesome!!
laVie - You're still so early, definitely time for a bfp to pop up, fx!
AshJagla
May 28th, 2014, 08:43 AM
As for me, no spotting or bleeding this morning. Nothing at all. Like it never even happened. My tests I ordered should be in around the 30th/31st, think I'll wait it out till then to test so that if it was IB that I should get a good hcg read and so AF still has a couple of days to show...
This is so weird.
Marika
May 28th, 2014, 08:45 AM
Abifasc - I see something! how long does it take for it to show?
Marika
May 28th, 2014, 08:46 AM
Ash - fx you get a line next time you test!
Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 08:57 AM
Marika, the picture was at about 3-5 minutes after I used it. It's dry now and hard to see but still there. I'm trying to hold it and use a frer in a few hours!
Marika
May 28th, 2014, 09:01 AM
Abifasc - sounds promising - looking forward seeing your frer!! :fx:
stephk
May 28th, 2014, 09:05 AM
yay sounds and looks really promising!
Rosie85
May 28th, 2014, 09:32 AM
I definitely see a line abi!!! Woohoo!!!
Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 09:33 AM
Ladies, I'm really pregnant!!!
http://i62.tinypic.com/21dn6lk.jpg
stephk
May 28th, 2014, 10:12 AM
Fantastic news! Huge congrats!!!
Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 10:17 AM
Thank you!!! Huge surprise...I thought we Dtd too early and I had less "symptoms" than last month...mostly just exhausted with a runny nose.
AshJagla
May 28th, 2014, 10:30 AM
WOOHOO! Big congrats on that BFP!!
yogi&booboo
May 28th, 2014, 10:32 AM
Congratulations Abifasc!!!!
wishi you a happy and healthy 9 months 💞💕☺
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Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 10:36 AM
Thank you!!!!
SamS_TTCPink
May 28th, 2014, 11:12 AM
Ladies, I'm really pregnant!!!
http://i62.tinypic.com/21dn6lk.jpg
Yes you are!! Congrats!! 😀
SamS_TTCPink
May 28th, 2014, 11:13 AM
So it's after 1am but just had to pop on and say we attempted and now I'm officially in the 2ww!! 😊😊😊
AshJagla
May 28th, 2014, 11:30 AM
Hope the wait goes by quickly for ya mumof6! FX!!
yogi&booboo
May 28th, 2014, 11:39 AM
That's awesome Mumofsix!
Good luck, i hope you get your stickybean 💕 i won't be to far away from you. I should be in the 2 ww soon ☺
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Rosie85
May 28th, 2014, 11:42 AM
Congrats Abi! So exciting! I hope to join you in a few weeks.
Rosie85
May 28th, 2014, 11:45 AM
Fingers crossed for you mum!
I am itching to get my +opk. It's been almost two weeks since my bleeding began so I am on cd 12 I believe today. My lines are getting darker so I am hoping my cycle is regular and it will be positive tomorrow or the next day.
Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 12:01 PM
Yay hope you get a BFP soon mumofsix! Fx for you Rosie!
Marika
May 28th, 2014, 12:05 PM
Fantastic!! Congrats Abifasc!
loobylue
May 28th, 2014, 12:07 PM
Congratulations Abifasc. That's wonderful news. Good luck all others either in 2ww or about to be.
essnce629
May 28th, 2014, 12:07 PM
Huge CONGRATS Abifasc!!!! I could see the line easily on the first test without the tweaking!
Fingers crossed for you Mumofsix! Hope the TWW goes by fast for you!
I haven't tested again yet. Will do so soon as I just got home from dropping the kids off at school.
odd
May 28th, 2014, 12:09 PM
Congratulations abifasc - how exciting! !! I am dying to test as well :-)
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angielorna
May 28th, 2014, 12:25 PM
a big fat congratulations, abifasc!!! I love seeing BFP (even if they aren't mine).
Essnce, I hope to see yours later today!!!
What is up with all of that Ajajada (I'm sorry, I spelt it wrong, but I couldn't find your name without going back a page or two and leave this page/post)?
I hope it's IB and you get a BFP soon. If there's anything worse than the 2WW, it's AF limbo. UGH!
I had an attempt last night. Going to keep testing with OPK's. Still can't believe it was that positive yesterday afternoon and I suspect it was super concentrated. It was slightly pos last night, but nothing like the afternoon. If I get an OPK Friday, as I was anticipating, I'll DTD again Sat a.m. and hope I don't miss it. Still 4 days in between! minus about 12 hours, I guess.
Good luck everyone!!!
Angie
Angie
Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 12:44 PM
Thanks for the encouragement everyone. I hope to see all of yours soon!
AshJagla
May 28th, 2014, 02:04 PM
Ajajada love it lol. You can call me Ash/ley whatever works. Jagla is my last name, I'm not very creative haha. Usually go by poku on web forums, not quite sure why I didn't here.
AF Limbo is certainly the worst, I kept checking all morning and nothing at all. Finally caved and grabbed an 88 cent test (feeling guilty about all the wasted $$ on BFNs this month). It's negative and there was a tiny bit of spotting there. OF COURSE. I really don't care about getting my BFP this month any more, I'm just ready to move on.
girliedreamz
May 28th, 2014, 02:06 PM
Woohoo, Abifasc!!! So exciting!!
I've been having tons of ewcm (tmi?) in the last couple of days so I broke down and used an OPK today (even though I'm trying so very hard to stay away from Martha obsessive testing!). Wouldn't you know, +OPK! We're doing every 4 days, so already have had 2 attempts this month. Last one was on Sun, so... 3 days ago? Wondering if we should dtd today or wait until tomorrow. I never should have tested... lol! :poas:
angielorna
May 28th, 2014, 02:11 PM
DTD first thing tomorrow morning?
Good luck!!!!
Angie
laVieEnRose
May 28th, 2014, 02:14 PM
Congratulations Abi!! Xx
odd
May 28th, 2014, 02:32 PM
OK
I couldn't wait any longer so on my way to my son's school, stopped by to pick up tests..
Came home and tested right away - LOL. And there's 2 linessssss...eeeks!! Even though i knew it and felt it, I still can't believe it. I don't know how to post a pic yet..but OMG - ITS A BFP.
I'm gonna wait until the 2nd to tell my hubby on iur anniversary :-)
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loobylue
May 28th, 2014, 02:37 PM
Congratulations! Such lovely news.
stephk
May 28th, 2014, 02:39 PM
What a wonderful anniversary present!! Congrats :)
stephk
May 28th, 2014, 02:41 PM
Girliedreamz if it were me, I would DTD tonight. Sundays sperm will be gone by the time the egg comes out
Abifasc
May 28th, 2014, 02:53 PM
Congrats odd!!! Yay!!!
Marika
May 28th, 2014, 03:00 PM
Congratulations Odd! Such a great anniversary gift!
babyb5
May 28th, 2014, 03:50 PM
Big congrats Abifasc! Happy and healthy 9 months. Hope this is your girl.
Rosie85
May 28th, 2014, 04:08 PM
Congrats odd!!!
angielorna
May 28th, 2014, 04:24 PM
a big congratulations for you too!!!! How are you ever going to keep your pregnancy a secret until the 2nd?!
Angie
Boysway
May 28th, 2014, 04:46 PM
Congratulations Abifasc :)
Good luck Mumofsix :)
Yay, another bfp :) Congrats odd.
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odd
May 28th, 2014, 04:59 PM
Thank u everyone. :-)
Angie, hubbys travelling so shouldn't be a problem. .fingers crossed lol..
I told my son and he's like, make sure you return the baby if it's not a girl ok..lol
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essnce629
May 28th, 2014, 05:10 PM
Girliedreamz if it were me, I would DTD tonight. Sundays sperm will be gone by the time the egg comes out
I agree with Steph. I'd DTD tonight.
And omg, congrats Odd!!! What an exciting day this has been!
essnce629
May 28th, 2014, 05:14 PM
I took another SurePredict test with smu today and this time it was BFN. No shadow of a line or anything! So who knows what's up!
I'm either 9 or 10dpo today (I think 9, FF says 10). I refuse to waste another FRER so I'm saving it for tomorrow. I had a super faint BFP on 10dpo with DS2 so fingers crossed!
AshJagla
May 28th, 2014, 05:39 PM
Congrats ODD!!
FX you get your BFP with that FRER you're saving essence!
odd
May 28th, 2014, 06:34 PM
Thank you essence and ash...
FX for u eesence - hoping for positive news from u soon
Ash, any updates? ? I've been following ur cycle with keen interest and hoping u get to hear good news soon
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SamS_TTCPink
May 28th, 2014, 07:09 PM
Fingers crossed for you mum!
I am itching to get my +opk. It's been almost two weeks since my bleeding began so I am on cd 12 I believe today. My lines are getting darker so I am hoping my cycle is regular and it will be positive tomorrow or the next day.
Thanks Rosie. Sounds promising, hopefully you'll get that pos opk soon!! x
SamS_TTCPink
May 28th, 2014, 07:10 PM
Congrats odd!!!
AshJagla
May 28th, 2014, 07:38 PM
Spotting off and on as of noonish, very light, don't even need a liner yet. Super annoyed at myself for not detecting O lol. Don't really have high hopes, but when spotting stops it makes me wonder if I could have Ov'ed CD24 rather than the 14th and if I'm experiencing ib.. or if maybe with those faint positives this might actually be a chemical so my hormones are out of wack, which could be throwing AF off. Will be testing Friday if AF hasn't come full force yet.
Still VERY excited to see all of these BFPs, so happy for ya'all and hoping for sticky beans for everyone ^_^
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girliedreamz
May 28th, 2014, 08:49 PM
Woohoo, odd!!!!
Okay, I'm dtd tonight. If I can get dh on board. Mid-week friskiness is tough to come by at his age. Lol!
essnce629
May 29th, 2014, 01:39 AM
Okay, I'm dtd tonight. If I can get dh on board. Mid-week friskiness is tough to come by at his age. Lol!
Good luck on your attempt!!!!
stephk
May 29th, 2014, 03:42 AM
girliedreamz - it sure is! hope you managed to attempt and are now in 2WW again! well my DH is usually up for it but its me that is shattered in the evening. Had to force myself to do it last night as I am out tonight! So if my positive OPK happens today at least I am covered. Dont think it will happen today but yesterdays line was a bit darker than tuesdays so if its going to be another fade in then I want to capture it this time and not run out of tests!!
lyagirl
May 29th, 2014, 03:42 AM
Congrats to all of u who got bfps!! Such lovely news! And gl to attempts!
AFM I'm 14dpo and not testing now until missed af after the weekend. Cant take any more bfns. No symptoms anymore so think im over to june attempt.
kitkat18
May 29th, 2014, 04:18 AM
Congrats odd and abisfac !!! Great news!!! Xxxxx
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sweetdream
May 29th, 2014, 04:24 AM
Well I'm in the 2ww too! I dtd tuesday! And O'ed last night I think! It did go weird with OPK. But yesterday my O pain was real bad. Before midnight it was almost over. And the OPK turned lighter at 23.00 hours.
essnce629
May 29th, 2014, 05:12 AM
Good luck Sweetdream!!!
I took another SurePredict test and a FRER tonight at 10:30pm with super concentrated dark urine. Both were BFN and stark white. No shadows or anything! So maybe all 3 of my SurePredicts yesterday with faint lines were evaps or false positives? I'm either 9 or 10dpo (I think 9). I should have waited like I said I was going to!
Boysway
May 29th, 2014, 05:21 AM
Good luck lyagirl :)
Good luck sweetdream :)
Boysway
May 29th, 2014, 05:26 AM
Sorry about your bfn essnce :( Fingers crossed it's too early.
SamS_TTCPink
May 29th, 2014, 09:32 AM
Posted in the April/May/June thread too but not sure who reads what so thought I'd ask here too...
So 2 nights ago (48hrs ago) I got an almost positive after a fade in pattern. Then yesterday morning and again last night I got a very positive. But now I just got another very dark positive?? We had our attempt last night so should we just leave it at that or should I be concerned it was too early as I'm still getting positives??
Here's the pics... Last night is the top one and tonight's is the bottom one. (Take into account the top has dried)
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/29/ehedavys.jpg
SamS_TTCPink
May 29th, 2014, 09:33 AM
Still keeping fingers crossed essence! I didn't get a BFP at all until 10DPO last time. You're not out yet! 😊
Rosie85
May 29th, 2014, 09:45 AM
Mum I think your attempt last night is perfect timing.!!
SamS_TTCPink
May 29th, 2014, 09:53 AM
Thanks Rosie. I really hope so!! I can't miss the egg this month. 😕
lyagirl
May 29th, 2014, 10:25 AM
Spoke too soon think the wicked witch has arrived early:(
SamS_TTCPink
May 29th, 2014, 10:28 AM
Oh no lyagirl! 😞
AshJagla
May 29th, 2014, 11:18 AM
Hope she goes away lyagirl!
Abifasc
May 29th, 2014, 11:19 AM
Mum I thought the same thing this past month...it was positive on sat so we made our attempt but it was even more brilliantly positive so I thought we made our attempt to early. Obviously as you know I did get pregnant after all so I'm sure you're ok!
AshJagla
May 29th, 2014, 11:20 AM
Yesterday spotting stopped around 3pm and started back up this morning, still so light I don't need any liner yet. This is so abnormal!! I keep wondering if any of the sups I'm taking could be causing this but I can't imagine it would. I've never spotted for so long before AF, it usually only lasts 1 day and it doesn't stop, goes right in to AF flow. I'm very confused.
CD37
Longest cycle I've had since DD2 was 38 days, so I'll be "late" Saturday.
angielorna
May 29th, 2014, 01:31 PM
Holy crap, Ash. So irritating. I'd be talking to the DR. to see WTH is going on!!!
Mumofsix -- I say your timing is perfect :) I left a more detailed reponse in the swayers thread (I won't bore you all by repeating it here :P) But fingers crossed!!!
Essnce -- that really sucks. So weird you'd get an evap on more than one test and now BFN. My goodness, odd things are happening around here!
I hope you're still in the running!!!
Angie
AshJagla
May 29th, 2014, 01:57 PM
I'll be going next week if the spotting doesn't pick up or stop over the weekend and I'm still getting BFNs. Secretly hoping it's IB but not hopeful since I don't ever remember having it before.
yogi&booboo
May 29th, 2014, 02:38 PM
Mumofsix I think i will be right there with you in the 2ww.
I tested yesterday afternoon and had my dark positive which makes me believe I probably had my first pos opk in the morning. I tested this morning and it was still positive with the cheapy opks. I am bummed that my cbfm didint give between my peak again 😩 but its ok im glad i had the cheapies for backup. Good luck with the 2ww and sending everyone lots of baby dust !http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/30/quvyduna.jpg
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laVieEnRose
May 29th, 2014, 03:08 PM
Mumofsix, this is exactly what happened to me too earlier this month. We kept to the one attempt. FX we caught the egg!
I know I tested too early this week but I'm too scared to test to see another BFN so will try to hold on till Monday which would make me about 13DPO.
How very strange essence...still hoping this is your month ...
Ash, I would def see a doctor soon just to make sure you are ok.
Stephk enjoy your night out! X
laVieEnRose
May 29th, 2014, 03:12 PM
Lyagirl, hope she won't turn up!
girliedreamz
May 29th, 2014, 04:10 PM
Sorry, lyagirl! :(
Mumofsix - I agree...I think your timing is spot on!
Well, I couldn't get dh to move a muscle last night despite my best attempts. So, no dtd. Grrrrr. Hoping we're not too late if I can get him hopping today. Technically this is day #4 for dtd every 4 days, so I'm hoping if that method work we're still in the running. Had another +OPK this morning. (I do the digital so it's either smiles or no smiles...both yesterday and today I got smiles!) I've been doing 1 attempt at +OPK for 3 months, so I'm hoping that maybe by doing something a little different, this might be my month?
This had me in tears today... one of my friends from junior high posted a photo on facebook of her and her toddler daughter getting their nails done together with the caption "first time doing our nails together... I've been waiting for this my whole life!" Really hit home. Me too, but I may never have it!
Trying to be happy for her and not depressed for me.
Sigh. Is it too late in the 2ww or a glass of wine?
SamS_TTCPink
May 29th, 2014, 08:22 PM
That comment would crush you! It got to me just reading your post, it's so hard when others seem to 'get our dream' and then mostly unintentionally "flaunt it". Fingers crossed this is your month & you have your baby girl in your arms soon. x
angielorna
May 29th, 2014, 10:24 PM
I say it's never too late in the 2ww for a glass of wine!
Rosie85
May 29th, 2014, 11:22 PM
I am not sure what is going on. I have yellow stretchy cm...The kind I have while pregnant. I thought it might be yellow from left over miscarriage stuff and that I should be ovulating soon. Nope. Even though it's ewcm my opk tests are sooo negative it's not even funny. Every other month they would get darker as soon as the ewcm showed up. It's been two days. I did have ewcm a week ago and we attempted just in case but that is so soon after a loss...it was cd7. Today I am cd14. I think we might do an attempt tonight and just see what happens. I'm not sure what to think other than I know those tests aren't turning positive anytime soon.
yogi&booboo
May 30th, 2014, 12:47 AM
I am honestly very in love with wonfo OPKS. They are very affordable and give great results :) cd25 and 2bds only 1 more to go. I am highly considering a fourth but i am hesitant. For all the blue mommas out there is 4 bds ok for a blue sway? :) http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/30/ybe2u4uq.jpg
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essnce629
May 30th, 2014, 02:16 AM
Rosie you're probably just ovulating late, either due to hormone issues after the miscarriage or maybe even stress from the miscarriage itself. I've always had really regular cycles, but even then I've O'd as early as CD12 and as late as CD20! I have 52 charts to look back on and things change for no reason. I'd keep testing and I'm sure you'll get your +opk within the next week. Maybe just DTD every 4 days in the meantime. Good luck!!!!!
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 03:48 AM
ash - that is so weird but remember that each pregnancy is different, some women may get implantation bleeding for one and not for another. Fingers crossed for BFP news from you soon!
mumofsix sounds perfectly timed and I am really hoping you get your BFP!
girliedreamz - hopefully you can get DH cornered soon and you catch that egg!! and of course you can have wine at this point, my motto is drink til its pink :) no alcohol deprivation in the 2ww for me like last time TTC. Really sorry that comment from a friend hurt you, that would not have been her intention.
lavie - hoping to hear BFP news from you in the next couple of days
yogi - good luck for your attempt! Yes 4 attempts is great for blue, in fact I had 4 attempts leading up to my positive OPK when DS was conceived - thurs night, sat morning, sun afternoon and monday night (the pos OPK was monday). So glad I dont have to do that now for a pink sway!! Too exhausting!
Rosie - perhaps a good idea to BD and then keep testing? Good luck with what you decide.
SamS_TTCPink
May 30th, 2014, 04:00 AM
Opk's are still positive??!!! Trying to restrain from attempting again but so worried about missing that egg!? 😕
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 04:11 AM
remind me when your last attempt was? do you have ewcm?
SamS_TTCPink
May 30th, 2014, 04:16 AM
Our attempt was 48hrs ago.
I don't really have any ewcm.
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 04:23 AM
hmm its a tough one. I know what I would do but thats not necessarily what is recommended. I know that atomic says to go with the first positive but this does seem odd. Maybe contact atomic to see what she thinks?
SamS_TTCPink
May 30th, 2014, 04:26 AM
She said just one attempt at the first pos opk.
SamS_TTCPink
May 30th, 2014, 05:09 AM
The boys just unintentionally crushed me! I went to pick them up from a school disco and there were all these kids dancing with their mums for the "last song" so I asked the twins to dance and they said no. They then said "we're not girls. We're not going to dance with you, if you want a child to dance with you should have had a girl". Broke my heart! 😞
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 06:22 AM
oh no i am so sorry to hear that! I would have thought that boys would want to dance with their mums :( are they getting to an age where mum is no longer cool (which happens to boys and girls)?
SamS_TTCPink
May 30th, 2014, 06:26 AM
They're 7. It's probably not cool. Lol!!
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 06:36 AM
yes you are not cool to a 7 year old lol
angielorna
May 30th, 2014, 07:47 AM
Aww, mumofsix, how sad :(
Weird, you and I are in the exact same boat. My opks are still pos. As in the test line is still darker than the control line. Since Tuesday (the day of our attempt). Tomorrow's going to be hard to fit in an attempt, but I'm going to do it...somehow, someway. I don't have any ewm either. Bodies are weird. They never act how you think they're going to.
Good luck. What CD are you? I got my pos on cd 10, which is why I'm hesitant to believe it was accurate. I was expecting my first one today. It would be so much easier if the stork really brought babys :P
Angie
MamaLuv
May 30th, 2014, 08:47 AM
Sorry, lyagirl! :(
Mumofsix - I agree...I think your timing is spot on!
Well, I couldn't get dh to move a muscle last night despite my best attempts. So, no dtd. Grrrrr. Hoping we're not too late if I can get him hopping today. Technically this is day #4 for dtd every 4 days, so I'm hoping if that method work we're still in the running. Had another +OPK this morning. (I do the digital so it's either smiles or no smiles...both yesterday and today I got smiles!) I've been doing 1 attempt at +OPK for 3 months, so I'm hoping that maybe by doing something a little different, this might be my month?
This had me in tears today... one of my friends from junior high posted a photo on facebook of her and her toddler daughter getting their nails done together with the caption "first time doing our nails together... I've been waiting for this my whole life!" Really hit home. Me too, but I may never have it!
Trying to be happy for her and not depressed for me.
Sigh. Is it too late in the 2ww or a glass of wine?
Sorry you feel that way Girlie...I know that feeling all too well. I have a snotty snob cousin who loves to throw her girl in my face intentionally. It sucks! (Although your friend likely didn't do it on purpose).
AshJagla
May 30th, 2014, 09:13 AM
Aww Mumof6 xx It's a shame how quickly kids grow these days, moms should still be cool at 7!
Rosie, I agree, thinking late O caused by m/c or the stress from it. Hope O shows up soon <3
Rosie85
May 30th, 2014, 09:24 AM
Ladies I think your multiple days of positive tests are okay. Mine were positive for 3 days but I only did the deed on the 1st day. Still ended up pregnant and I know I Oed like 2 full days after.
AshJagla
May 30th, 2014, 09:30 AM
Today is CD 38 and 12-13DPO if I ovulated late like I think I did.
Still very very light spotting only sometimes when I wipe. (tmi sorry)
Took a frer yesterday afternoon with no hold, had a big white indent that was showing up but didn't see any color. This morning took another FRER, I saw a faint line so I took it out to make sure it wasn't an indent and it's not, but it's also pretty much colorless as far as I can tell. Have wondfo's coming in the mail tomorrow.
Sore boobies yesterday, to the point where my bra felt a bit uncomfortable. Felt kinda yucky this morning, like I need to eat a couple of crackers. Could be AF symptoms too.
If AF doesn't show by Wednesday morning and I'm still getting BFNs I'll call the dr to get a blood test in just to be certain one way or the other.
SamS_TTCPink
May 30th, 2014, 09:39 AM
I'm on CD13. I think we will have another attempt tomorrow too. I can't believe it's all so hard, our boys were so easy and there was no tracking ovulation or anything with them!! They just happened! 😜
I wish I could just order a daughter and have her delivered by stork. 😉
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 09:58 AM
I think i have finally got a positive OPK, the lines are the same colour!!! Unless anyone thinks it still isnt dark enough? (please be honest!) typical that it comes when I am eating like a pig and the weekend of sushi and meat and general feasting is here....will have to try my best to be good now for a couple of days.19084
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 10:00 AM
dammit it looks lighter in the picture!!!! Thinking of BD first thing tomorrow morning, then if todays is the true positive its not too far off, if I get a positive tomorrow its all good? DH is leaving at 11am tomorrow for a party so there will be no BD after 11am tomorrow or on sunday.... last BD was weds night and I am 100% fine with having an attempt before the 4 days is up.
yogi&booboo
May 30th, 2014, 10:10 AM
That looks positive in my eyes Stephk! Good luck!
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stephk
May 30th, 2014, 10:30 AM
Really?! Wow finally a positive!! I might take another test in a couple of hours to see what it looks like too. I emailed atomic to see what her opinion is on BD tonight (7.30pm when DS goes to bed) as opposed to first thing tomorrow (7am-ish before DS wakes up). Because we last BD on weds but by the time the egg comes out in 24-48 hours time there will be no spermies left, I have had hardly any EWCM this week. You have to understand girls I am so broody and desperate to be PG now so I cannot let weds be my attempt, I am not confident with a cutoff like that.
AshJagla
May 30th, 2014, 10:37 AM
Looks like a positive opk to me Steph!
laVieEnRose
May 30th, 2014, 11:07 AM
Those OPKs are causing so much stress! On my ipad, the color looks a little lighter Stephk, but that could just be my device fault. Sorry it's not really helping! Maybe bd first thing tomorrow ? (That's what I would do as a good compromise)
Well. I couldn't resist POAS so did another test but as expected its BFN - AF is due on Tuesday - I don't feel pg so I'm prob out for may...at least I can enjoy a few drinks this weekend - we are off on a family camping and I think I will need alcohol to keep me warm! (Had to pack so many clothes to b prepared for the British weather - it looks like we r going away for a month lol!)
Have a lovely weekend girls, enjoy bd, POAS, OPKs and other GD's paraphernalia ! Xx
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 11:20 AM
Have a lovely break lavie - and you are not out until the witch shows :)
angielorna
May 30th, 2014, 11:22 AM
Tuesday is 4 days away!!! I wouldn't say you're out yet :) But, having said that, have a great time and enjoy the alcohol. May be the last chance you get :P
Angie
angielorna
May 30th, 2014, 11:23 AM
I think i have finally got a positive OPK, the lines are the same colour!!! Unless anyone thinks it still isnt dark enough? (please be honest!) typical that it comes when I am eating like a pig and the weekend of sushi and meat and general feasting is here....will have to try my best to be good now for a couple of days.19084
I think the right line is a tad darker than the left....and I don't know which is which! But if you say that the left is darker in real life, then I would agree, positive and BD away :)
Good luck!!!
Angie
angielorna
May 30th, 2014, 11:24 AM
and, I agree! I'd BD again. I wouldn't feel confident with Wed as an attempt either. I'm so excited for you!
angielorna
May 30th, 2014, 11:25 AM
Today is CD 38 and 12-13DPO if I ovulated late like I think I did.
Still very very light spotting only sometimes when I wipe. (tmi sorry)
Took a frer yesterday afternoon with no hold, had a big white indent that was showing up but didn't see any color. This morning took another FRER, I saw a faint line so I took it out to make sure it wasn't an indent and it's not, but it's also pretty much colorless as far as I can tell. Have wondfo's coming in the mail tomorrow.
Sore boobies yesterday, to the point where my bra felt a bit uncomfortable. Felt kinda yucky this morning, like I need to eat a couple of crackers. Could be AF symptoms too.
If AF doesn't show by Wednesday morning and I'm still getting BFNs I'll call the dr to get a blood test in just to be certain one way or the other.
I hope to see a positive Wondfo tomorrow morning!!!
Angie
3girlsnwaiting
May 30th, 2014, 11:42 AM
Hello ladies. I am back. Currently 5 DPO. This cycle I did not let hubby on to when u was Ong in hopes he would be more relaxed. I too was much more relaxed so we shall see. Baby dust to all :)
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 11:45 AM
just took another test and the lines were the same colour after only 3 mins - Im taking that as a blaring positive!!!!!!!
Marika
May 30th, 2014, 03:41 PM
Yay, time to attempt for you steph!! Good luck!
stephk
May 30th, 2014, 03:47 PM
The deed is done :) poor DH had trouble finishing, he said the pos OPK put him under pressure!!
Marika
May 30th, 2014, 04:04 PM
stephk - knowing it's "for real" also makes it really hard for my Dh to finish! Welcome to the 2ww! :-D
girliedreamz
May 30th, 2014, 06:16 PM
Thanks for the commiserations, ladies! I'm sure my friend meant no harm by her comment... just happy to be sharing a moment with her daughter. As she should be! But it's nice to be among women who get how crushing it can be to see that mother-daughter moment while living with the fear that I may never have one!
Yay, stephk! fx for you!
My dh had the same problem... so much so that we haven't dtd yet. Gah! I fear I'm out this month unless O was either really early or really late. Hoping to get one more attempt in tonight on the off chance it's really late.
Boysway
May 30th, 2014, 06:23 PM
Girlie dreamz we had the Dane issue last night and this morning :( No luck with bd!
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yogi&booboo
May 30th, 2014, 07:48 PM
The deed is done :) poor DH had trouble finishing, he said the pos OPK put him under pressure!!
Omg Stephk,
My dh was like this morning. We are going to try one more time tonight and one tomorrow afternoon. I hope my dh can manage. Its the opks that freak my dh too :(
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Marika
May 31st, 2014, 12:34 AM
Starting to think may is not my month either. Had light spotting yesterday (7 dpo) and still spotting today 8 dpo. Not even the most optimistic part of me can hope for it to be IB since every cycle has been like this. Starts lightly and then gets heavier until it turns to AF at 10-11 dpo. :sad:
yogi&booboo
May 31st, 2014, 12:38 AM
Hang in there Marika,
Their is always a first for everything. Hopefully this will your implantation bleeding. Keeping my fingers very tightly crossed for you. 💕 xoxo
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Marika
May 31st, 2014, 12:45 AM
Thanks yogi. Also took a test this morning (before having spottings) and it was negative. Know it's early, will now try not to test anymore until I see what happens with the spottings.
SamS_TTCPink
May 31st, 2014, 01:19 AM
Opk's are negative now. Wish I'd BD'd last night. Pretty sure I ovulated last night (Friday night). I had mild cramping. Do you think there's any chance that Wednesday night would have been ok timing or too early?? And tonight would be too late wouldn't it? 😕
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 01:33 AM
Mum - if you ovulated last night and BD wednesday night it sounds like great timing. The swimmers should survive 48 hours :-)
SamS_TTCPink
May 31st, 2014, 01:36 AM
Thanks Marika. I really hope so!
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 01:38 AM
Girliedreamz, Boysway and yogi - hope your DHs can manage something today and you get your attempts in. I didn't realise what pressure it put them under. I asked mine if I shouldn't tell him about it but he said he wanted to know. He thinks we should BD today and tomorrow too to be sure.....errrr I don't think so!! Think he was joking though, DS will be awake all morning before he leaves for the party, I'll be asleep tonight when he gets back and there's no way I'll be up for it after his party so that's it thank you very much ;)
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 01:39 AM
Mum - sounds like perfect timing!! Yay we are in 2ww together :)
Marika - you are not out yet :)
SamS_TTCPink
May 31st, 2014, 01:51 AM
Yay stephk! It's going to be a long 2 weeks. 😉
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 02:50 AM
I came down with DS's cold last night. DH has had it a couple of days, for once I don't mind as it helps with the sway lol. Also painted my nails this morning, figured it can't hurt eh!
SamS_TTCPink
May 31st, 2014, 03:20 AM
I've had the kids cold too, hope it helps. And attempted to paint my nails but I'm so not girly that it looks like the kids did it! Lol. 😉
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 03:24 AM
I used clear nail varnish on my fingers and just topped up my toes with red. No point doing colour on fingers as I mess it up and don't have time to wait for it to dry! Plus all the cleaning washing up etc it doesn't last long!
essnce629
May 31st, 2014, 05:19 AM
Just a quick check in as it's after 2am here and I need to go to bed asap since tomorrow is DS2's 5th birthday party! It's a triple birthday party with 2 other friends of his whose birthdays are all the same week. It's turned into a HUGE party with over 130 people. My mom is staying with us this weekend to help out and me, her, DH, and DS1 stayed up tonight and made 300 fruit skewers! I'm sooooo tired! We're having a taco guy at the party so I'm sure I'll be eating a ton! It's Rio2 themed (the movie) and we're having a bounce house, bird show, and photo booth! So crazy!!!!
I was 11dpo today and have not tested in over 24 hours. My SurePredict test last night at 10dpo was BFN with no shadow or anything. I only have one SurePredict test left, one FRER, and 3 CB digitals. Not sure if I should take a test before bed right now or tomorrow at 12dpo. If no BFP by tomorrow then I think I'm out for May. Which would be too bad since I've only exercised ONCE in the past 11 days!!!! And I'm pretty sure I've been over the LE limits for the past week!
Good luck Steph and Mumofsix and welcome to the TWW!
SamS_TTCPink
May 31st, 2014, 05:24 AM
Wow, what an amazing party you have planned! I don't even know that many people. Lol!!
Maybe take the FRER tomorrow with 2nd MU if you have time or enjoy the party tomorrow and then test the next day.
essnce629
May 31st, 2014, 05:31 AM
Wow, what an amazing party you have planned! I don't even know that many people. Lol!!
Haha! It's just because it's a birthday party for all 3 boys and the kids go to Montessori school so the class size is big-- 35 kids per class and it's 2 classes that were invited. So 60+ kids plus their parents/siblings = A LOT!!! Besides the school kids, I only invited my mom and 3 of my friends from home. Should be fun but all the planning has worn me down and I've had a sore throat for 3 days!
I really need to get off the boards and go to sleep!
I'll update if I decide to take a test!
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 06:52 AM
Enjoy the party and hope to hear BFP news from you tomorrow :)
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 08:24 AM
Hang in there Marika, FX!
MumofSix, looooots of people get pregnant on a 2 day cutoff. Some people even believe it sways girls :D GL!!
Have never had that issue with DH but also have never used OPKs or Timing before. I probably wouldn't tell him what day is Ov if it made him nervous ;D
Still no AF for me this morning.
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 08:29 AM
Sounds promising Ash!
sweetdream
May 31st, 2014, 09:46 AM
AshJagla FX!
Wow what a big party.
I've read everything. but I forgot...
Mumofsix. good luck. I Oed one day earlier.
ppl How are you guys feeling? I've been cranky all month now. around ovulation I felt a bit better but today I'm at my worst.. i've spend almost all day in bed.... what a waste....
I've lost some mucus yesterday with a little strain of old blood in it. (ovulation bleeding? never had that before... but I had major O pains... this month. Had O pains before but so painfull for 3 hours that I couldn't stand straight. never had that before... )
I stopped vitex this month.. guess it changes my mood also (taken it for over a year)
what do you guys think about it.
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 09:55 AM
I've been super cranky all month too!
Sore boobs, nauseous, irritable. Pretty much describes me right now. Extra irritated because I thought I ordered tests that picked up 10mIU but instead bought 30 - 25mIU tests. If I put in the day I think I ovulated on FF it says I'm 13dpo and I got a bfn with smu. I feel total yuck and like I'm definitely pregnant, but I think since I feel that way AF will probably show in a day or two. I really hope not all of my cycles are 40 freaking days long, it's going to drive me insane.
sweetdream
May 31st, 2014, 10:00 AM
I think I would feel like getting insane too. I feel like that atm.
I'm on my fifth month now. It feels like a eternity. maybe it is just the TTC-ing. that makes me feel like this. I think i felt this way in the cycle I got pf with my eldest son as well.. (if i recall correctly)
hope AF doesn't show for you!
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 11:32 AM
Oh, ladies... I am almost afraid of actually saying this out loud (knock on wood) but I think I have a line!!
Tested again 1 hour ago with very dark urin (only held 2 hrs but didn't drink much today, it was much more concetrated now than for my morning test). For the first time ever during all this crazy testing DH actually sat and stared at the test after taking it, and when he said: "Where am I supposed to see it, is it there, where the pink is starting to show?" I realized it wasn't only my eyes seeing something.
It is not strong, but clearly visible (and came up within 2 minutes) and for being 8 dpo I wouldn't expect it to be stronger.
I don't wanna scream it out yet since I had lines last month too, but this one is at least stronger and turned up really fast. Will test again as soon as possible (if not tonight so tomorrow morning) and I really hope it won't be white. Had a small spotting this morning as well (I saw it firstly yesterday morning so pleeeease let it be IB and not bad spottings that could disturb an implanted egg) but now nothing more.
Had a bit of cramping and a funny feeling in my nipples so that's why I decided to have another test.
I'll update later when I have another test taken.
Ash - sounds great Af hasn't showed up!! Fx!
essnce - WOW, what a party! I am usually exhausted after having 15 kids at home for the birthdays! Enjoy the day!
Rosie85
May 31st, 2014, 11:35 AM
I am in here for sure now. Just got a super super super dark positive on my opk. I've never had one this dark before. We attempted two days ago and are thinking of attempting again tonight since it wasn't positive until probably late last night. I'm nervous there won't be enough sperm if my egg doesn't drop for another day or so.
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 11:42 AM
Marika - fantastic news!!!
Rosie - I would def attempt!! Good luck :)
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 11:43 AM
Rosie, would you consider last nights test as positive or almost positive? Did you get pregnant with any cut off last time? So hard to advise, but normally I think the swimmers do live for at least 3 days.
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 11:44 AM
I'll post you a pic. As always the line is sooo hard to catch on mobile camera, but I hope you can see something?
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stephk
May 31st, 2014, 11:48 AM
I can see a line!!!!!
Rosie85
May 31st, 2014, 11:49 AM
I see a line marika!!
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 11:53 AM
It's not just you sweetdreams, ttc makes time drag so bad. Just waiting for DH to give in to ttc #3 seemed to take a million years. Now we're actually trying and I thought it would go quicker, but it's even slower -_-;;;
How exciting Marika! Hope you get a super dark line on your next test so you can start celebrating!
Woohoo for the dark line Rosie! I'd def get another temp in just to be positive you've done all you can to catch the egg :D
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 11:54 AM
Oh wow, should have refreshed the page before posting, that's definitely a positive line in my book Marika!!!!
Rosie85
May 31st, 2014, 11:57 AM
I have gotten pregnant with a 5 day cut off before but there was a lot of attempts before it so I'm uneasy about having so little sperm. We did it in the shower so I was standing and it ran out a ton. Last month was the shower and a 2 day and we got pregnant. Ugh I just wish we never did it on thursday!!!
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 12:28 PM
If you do it in the shower and then wash away what you can that might be a good compromise?
sweetdream
May 31st, 2014, 12:54 PM
I see a line! And pink
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 01:05 PM
Back again, took another test just now (Clearblue plus) and got a line immediatly. Line came up even before the test line so it has to be real, right??
I'll let you have a look. It's pretty faint on the picture and was hard to catch so i adjusted the contrast a bit:
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Rosie85
May 31st, 2014, 01:08 PM
You are totally pregnant! Congrats!
Rosie85
May 31st, 2014, 01:09 PM
Are you really only 8dpo? You might be having twinsies!
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 01:09 PM
I have gotten pregnant with a 5 day cut off before but there was a lot of attempts before it so I'm uneasy about having so little sperm. We did it in the shower so I was standing and it ran out a ton. Last month was the shower and a 2 day and we got pregnant. Ugh I just wish we never did it on thursday!!!
I understand it is a tough one Rosie. Stephs suggestion might be a good compromice to keep the sperm on the lower side? On the other side you conceived easily last month, at first try, right? So from that view you probably don't have to worry too much if you have a few days cut off since. Oh, I can't advice you, I wish I had something more clever to say!
Rosie85
May 31st, 2014, 01:11 PM
We tried. Dh released and then we tried to get the second batch and it just wasn't happening. Maybe it is a sign not to do it.
odd
May 31st, 2014, 01:12 PM
Congratulations on ur marika :-)
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odd
May 31st, 2014, 01:13 PM
On ur bfp*
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Marika
May 31st, 2014, 01:14 PM
Are you really only 8dpo? You might be having twinsies!
OMG!! Don't say that! Well, at this point I'll take even three more but Dh would probably have a heart attack, haha!
Yes, I had a strong opk on wednesday last week, ran out of tests but assumed it should have been positive on thursday. Then friday am I felt o pain that was gone in the evening. So 8 dpo should be correct :-) (But it might look stronger since I adjusted the comntrast, but I have to say I was surprised over the quick and strong result only 2 hours after last test).
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 02:38 PM
We tried. Dh released and then we tried to get the second batch and it just wasn't happening. Maybe it is a sign not to do it.
Sorry it didn't work if you wanted to add a new attempt, but I don't think you should consider your chances as low anyway!
Do you usually feel when o occurs, like which day? If you wanna add in an attempt, maybe you'll get a chance tomorrow? Otherwise I would say 3 days is still a really good chance.
Rosie85
May 31st, 2014, 03:02 PM
We got one in! What a mess. It took forever. It was his second batch so barely anything was there and he pulled out as well. I didn't want a lot so that is good. I wanted just enough to give me a shot just in case we didn't have any leftover from thursday night.
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 03:08 PM
Awesome, Rosie, FX!
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 03:12 PM
No more brown spotting but ewcm slightly tinged pink. Still abnormal for me, I usually bleed or don't bleed, I don't know what to do with this in between spotting/staining stuff.
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 03:24 PM
Wow, you made it Rosie! :-D
AshJagla, you have probably written it several times now, but which dpo are you on? Tested recently?
About abnormal cycles I think the diet and supps can change it quite a lot. I didn't have spottings like this before ttc and at first I thought it was the Vitex, but even after dropping that my cycle was weird.
babyb5
May 31st, 2014, 03:27 PM
Congrats Marika. Happy and healthy 9 months with a baby girl.
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 03:37 PM
Well I'm on CD38 and that's the longest cycle I've had before this.
O was not confirmed, at first I thought CD14 was O day but I've since realized what I thought was severe implantation cramps and spotting CD24 was probably my real ovulation. If I'm right (which I really do think I am) that puts me at 13DPO, spotting started 9DPO and has been brown until today where I'm getting pink CM.
As far as sups, I've been on them for something like 8-10 weeks now I think. I take fish oil, prenatal, extra folic acid, evening primrose the first half of the cycle, probiotics, and CQ10. Last month my cycle was only 29 days with no weirdness, the cycle before was 38 days but no spotting. Haven't had a cycle longer than 38 since having DD2 almost 3 years ago.
If I'm not pregnant I'd like to just get on with it already.
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 03:53 PM
I totally understand that you are fed up of this limbo and not knowing whats going on. I don't what is medically considered a standard cycle and whats no, but 38 days is a pretty long when trying to catch these eggs and counting days til next possible attempt. Hope that the long cycle this time means you're pregnant!
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 04:07 PM
Thanks Marika! A 38 day cycle by itself doesn't stress me much, I conceived DD2 on what would have been a 50 day cycle and the wait to test didn't bother me one bit. It's not odd for me to ovulate late. This month I keep getting the weirdest symptoms and all this spotting that is so unlike me, it leaves me feeling anxious for an answer. I just had all my hormone and thyroid levels checked a few months back and they looked good, so not really sure WHY I'm irregular, but it *shouldn't* affect me being able to get pg.
yogi&booboo
May 31st, 2014, 04:08 PM
Hi ladies,
I am officially 1DPO and in the 2ww. I must share a complaint though. My cbfm gave me my peak yesterday and I must have ovulated shortly after because my cm abruptly changed. I am glad I had my wondfos because I would have missed my egg. I think from now on I am only using wondfo opks.
This is my 5th month ttc. I hope I caught my egg and get my a bfp. Good luck everyone 😁💞💝
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yogi&booboo
May 31st, 2014, 04:11 PM
Back again, took another test just now (Clearblue plus) and got a line immediatly. Line came up even before the test line so it has to be real, right??
I'll let you have a look. It's pretty faint on the picture and was hard to catch so i adjusted the contrast a bit:
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Omg Marika!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!
That looks like a BFP to me. I am soooooo happy & excited for you.
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Marika
May 31st, 2014, 04:18 PM
Thanks yogi! Yes, I actually believe it is a positive after having taken two tests from different brands. I know it's really really early and while I am super happy I am also terrified of miscarriages. Just hoping that things are ok this time and that this is our third baby growing.
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 04:21 PM
And GL yogi! hope these 2 weeks passes quickly!
Boysway
May 31st, 2014, 04:31 PM
Marika, congratulations hon. You definitely have lines there.
I mentioned this in the other thread. I'll be out for this month. We tried unsuccessfully three times since Saturday morning (it's Sunday morning here) no luck :(
I wish everyone all the best of luck.
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Marika
May 31st, 2014, 04:36 PM
I saw your post and answered there Boysway. So sorry about that :-(
yogi&booboo
May 31st, 2014, 04:38 PM
Marika, congratulations hon. You definitely have lines there.
I mentioned this in the other thread. I'll be out for this month. We tried unsuccessfully three times since Saturday morning (it's Sunday morning here) no luck :(
I wish everyone all the best of luck.
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Boy sway hang in there 😘
I was only able to get to attempts in. The dh couldn't get the last one in :( plus im worried because we bd'd like 3 or 4 days before my +opk 😥 which I would think means girl. Hang in there. I think this is definitely our last month because I have gained too much weight on this diet and I think its time to take a break and lose some weight. Sending you big squishy hugs 💞
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yogi&booboo
May 31st, 2014, 04:40 PM
And GL yogi! hope these 2 weeks passes quickly!
Thank you Marika,
A few days ago I was thinking of you and did a little prayer that you would get a bfp and here you are. I am super duper excited for you. Ill pray this one is a stickybean. I hope I get to join you soon 💕😄
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Marika
May 31st, 2014, 04:43 PM
Oh yogi, how sweet of you! Thank you so much for those kind words and thoughts! You almost make me cry now!
angielorna
May 31st, 2014, 04:45 PM
CONGRATS Marika!!!! I'm so excited for you :) H&H nine months...!
Angie
stephk
May 31st, 2014, 04:46 PM
Marika - then you are def pg!!!! Yay!!!
Abifasc
May 31st, 2014, 05:14 PM
Yay congrats Marika!!!
Marika
May 31st, 2014, 05:18 PM
Thanks ladies!
girliedreamz
May 31st, 2014, 08:19 PM
Yaaaaaay, Marika! So exciting!!
SamS_TTCPink
May 31st, 2014, 08:33 PM
Congrats Marika! Sending sticky baby dust your way.
AshJagla
May 31st, 2014, 11:14 PM
I'm so excited for you Marika! ^_^
Anyone here experience extreme bloating? I mean.. this is unlike anything I've ever had before, my stomach is rock hard and when I slouch it pushing against my diaphragm and ribs making breathing uncomfortable. It started yesterday and has only gotten worse today. Managed to eat a couple slices of pizza with the hubs even though I was uncomfortable and now I feel nauseous. Yucky! Going to take some tylenol to help with the neck pain and headache I've got going on too. I wonder if I'm coming down with something.
stephk
June 1st, 2014, 01:06 AM
Ash have you taken another PG test yet?
loobylue
June 1st, 2014, 02:25 AM
Congratulations Marika! Very exciting. :)
SamS_TTCPink
June 1st, 2014, 02:50 AM
So today I have mild cramping, am in a foul mood and not much but some EWCM. Opk's still have 2 very close coloured lines but defiantly lighter than the past few days. If I'm ovulating today then Wednesdays attempt would have been too early (I've never gotten PG that early before O) and I'll be even more upset that our attempt last night was a huge failure! This is driving me nuts!! 😜
SamS_TTCPink
June 1st, 2014, 02:51 AM
Hope you're not coming down with anything Ash but there's so much going around!
Like steph asked...have you taken another PG test??
stephk
June 1st, 2014, 03:31 AM
Mum can you try get an attempt in now just in case or is that out of the question? DH doesn't need to know it's a TTC attempt?
stephk
June 1st, 2014, 03:32 AM
By the way, DH has just rolled in at 815am!!!!!
essnce629
June 1st, 2014, 04:01 AM
Just a quick check in before I head to bed. I'm EXHAUSTED after the party!
Marika-- huge congratulations on your BFPs!!!!!
So I think I'm out for this month. I took my last SurePredict test last night at 10:30pm and it was another BFN. Then I didn't go to the bathroom the entire day with all the craziness of the party and just took my last FRER after a 10 hour hold and it was also a stark white BFN. I'm 12dpo today. AF should be here on Monday or Tuesday. No more tests for me.
On a happier note, here's a few pics from today's party!
The birthday boys! DS2 is on the far left with the big hair!
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/06/01/myvyvuby.jpg
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/06/01/5ujyzu4a.jpg
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/06/01/muna3apu.jpg
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/06/01/esuhy7y4.jpg
My mom and I
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/06/01/8ame9u2y.jpg
DH and the boys
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/06/01/my9y2aqy.jpg
SamS_TTCPink
June 1st, 2014, 04:11 AM
Looks like a fun but busy day! Glad it all went well and the kids look like they had fun. Love the cake!!
Sorry about your BFN but you're not out til AF arrives.
SamS_TTCPink
June 1st, 2014, 04:14 AM
Wow stephk! I would shoot my DH. 😉 It must have been one hell of a party!
Maybe an attempt tonight?? Just so paranoid about doing anything to sway blue! I guess it would still be 4 days apart after Wednesday so only one attempt?? Diet hasn't been great though. 😕
stephk
June 1st, 2014, 04:20 AM
Essnce - looks like a fab party! And as mum says, you're not out until AF shows!!
Mum this is normal for DH, to be honest I can't be bothered arguing, it's every couple of months, wouldn't put up with it if it was every week. Only problem is I want him to drive to our friends today so I can drink but he is probably still over the limit grrrrr I said I will drive there but he can drive back! Yes you should definitely attempt today just in case.
yogi&booboo
June 1st, 2014, 05:14 AM
Essnce Happy Birthday to you handsome son. Looks like a fabulous birthday party. I hope you have a late bfp. You are not out till ugly af shows ☺💕
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Boysway
June 1st, 2014, 06:20 AM
Mum, it's probably your LH coming down. You will find as the days gone on, they will get lighter. Mine from today looks the same as the day before my +OPK. But I'm pretty certain I already ovulated.
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Boysway
June 1st, 2014, 06:21 AM
Essnce, sorry about your bfn. As the girls have said, it's not over yet! The party looked fantastic :)
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SamS_TTCPink
June 1st, 2014, 06:43 AM
These are mine this arvo
http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/06/01/unadapag.jpg
Boysway
June 1st, 2014, 07:30 AM
Yes, yours are similar to mine http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/06/01/9a9ehu8e.jpg
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Boysway
June 1st, 2014, 07:43 AM
Yogi, thanks for the kind words but we didn't get any attempts in at all :(
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SamS_TTCPink
June 1st, 2014, 08:07 AM
Glad to see ours are the same. Maybe I did o yesterday??!? 😕 I have I idea!!
H (no, not DH) has no interest in DTD tonight....he "has to" move some photos off his laptop to his server...photos that have been on his laptop for months but suddenly today need to be moved!! Nor is he DTD because I just had a bath and "will be full of water"!! WTF? I told him he was an idiot and now he is watching Hall Pass (a movie where a guy gets a week off from being married) and drinking coke and eating whatever he can because "he can as he doesn't need to be on the diet anymore".
And I dared asked if he could clean up what's left of the dishes while I sit with DS6 who is unsettled and you'd think of asked him to scrub the walls and floors and "why should he have to when he cut up the pumpkin for dinner!" So he has left it for me to do when DS6 falls asleep.
So cross right now! Bloomin' men. If only we didn't need them to TTC! 😠
AshJagla
June 1st, 2014, 08:11 AM
Took another test this morning, BFN. On the plus side, my spotting got sooooo light yesterday and today it seems like it isn't coming back. CD39/14DPO. Will take another test tomorrow morning and if it's BFN and still no AF I'm going to call the dr to see if they'll do a blood test.
laVieEnRose
June 1st, 2014, 11:10 AM
Wow, it's been busy on here!
Just trying to catch up!
Maria, I too can see the lines! How exciting and I dare say congrats!
I'm out! AF showed its ugly face this morning :-((
And back to square one...good luck everyone here.
I will move on to the June thread ...
AshJagla
June 1st, 2014, 11:16 AM
Sorry to hear that LaVie! FX that June is your month!
girliedreamz
June 1st, 2014, 12:01 PM
Fab looking party, essnce--and what a handsome son!
Sorry af showed up, lavie :(
Mum, my dh is finding all kids of "important" stuff at ttc time lately, too. I think he's still waffling in his mind over whether he wants a 4th baby or not. Of course, he's the sort who will waffle for years. I try telling him he's an old freakin man--we need to get to it! Lol! But I'm in the same boat this month. At +opk he was too tired, the kids were up too late, he was "coming down with something" (that he never actually got!), etc., etc., etc. At least we were trying for every 4 days, but I fear our attempts were too early to really count this month. And I'm so not in the mood to attempt again now...he's in the doghouse until next cycle.
Rosie85
June 1st, 2014, 12:05 PM
Amazing looking party essnce!!
So sorry lavie! Hope June is your month.
My opk is still super positve so this is day 3 of positives. I am worried I am not going to O for another day or 2 and my attempts won't be enough. Ugh.
Rosie85
June 1st, 2014, 12:11 PM
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Okay so the top two are dry but the very top is Friday and the bottom is today...sunday. I am an ovulating machine. So if they are still positive that means the egg hasn't yet released right?
Yikes sorry they loaded sideways. The one on the left is fridays.
stephk
June 1st, 2014, 12:33 PM
Omg what is it with these men??? I understand performance anxiety but then there's being a complete **** so sorry to hear about so many men issues :(
stephk
June 1st, 2014, 12:36 PM
Oh lavie I'm so sorry that you are moving onto June.
Rosie I'm not an expert but I'm sure I read somewhere here that it's not uncommon to have more than one positive but it's the first one that counts.
sweetdream
June 1st, 2014, 01:08 PM
Rosie from the first Positive OPK it takes 24-48 hours for the egg to release.
If you look online for pictures of how the variation Egg and LH peak works you'll see the egg can release within the Peak.
The OPK's you have there are very sensitive. (I stopped them because I spot real long LH peaks and was worried I was to early. )
Don't worry try to BD every 4 days you'll be fine
I think the Actual Peak started yesterday. the OPK from friday is a bit lighter then yesterday. (and the control line. with so clear positves after that count from yesterday)
sweetdream
June 1st, 2014, 01:16 PM
La vie I'm sorry girl.
Everyone with hubby issues good luck. hope the sperm isn't that doubtfull and goes straight for the egg!
I don't feel so well. I kinda crashed yesterday.. I was sooo cranky and tired. I've slepped an ate a lot.. today I've slepped also and ate a bit more but not a lot. I start to feel a bit better. I'm pretty tired.. (joints are from an 80 year old women lol) I think I've got a bladder infection. I need to pee a bit more and its cramping before and after I peed.
and being this tired... guess it's the drop.
Try to start walking again tomorrow.
Rosie85
June 1st, 2014, 01:39 PM
Oh yeah I know you can have a few days of positives. ..I'm just wondering if my egg doesn't release until it goes negative. If I still have a positive tomorrow I think I shoukd attempt again if that's the case.
Rosie85
June 1st, 2014, 01:40 PM
Oh sweatdream...I missed your post..my thing didn't refresh. Okay...I think I will say I should be ovulating today then. Thank you!
sweetdream
June 1st, 2014, 01:42 PM
when dit you attempt last?
stephk
June 1st, 2014, 02:22 PM
I don't know but my tests look the same as yours and the instructions say the egg may release 24-48 hours after the positive. Sorry I am not that knowledgeable as I only used opks for 2 months when TTC DS and they didn't work the first month (no positive). I'm sure someone on here will know though.
Marika
June 1st, 2014, 03:10 PM
Been gone over the day and trying to catch up - it' such an active thread!
So many opk problems! I begin to understand why ppl choose to BD every 4 days and skip the tests. They can be pretty stressful.
Essnce - wow, your son is adorable! And what a party! I hope you only tested too early and that AF doesn't show up for you!
Mumofsix - I would also have been pretty upset if H would give priority to the photos on the computer instead of BD. Hope he rethaught... and helped out with the kitchen.
Ash - sorry about BFN today. Hope you see something tomorrow!
Lavienrose - sorry AF turned up :-(
stephk
June 1st, 2014, 04:10 PM
Argh I had EWCM today, only a little but only had small amounts Wednesday, Friday and today. V annoying, makes me feel unsuccessful.....been a naughty eating day, well naughty eating week....hey ho
Rosie85
June 1st, 2014, 08:32 PM
Sweet--I attempted yesterday with a second batch. He also pulled out so he didn't get too much since we also had attempted Thursday night with a full load. Haha
SamS_TTCPink
June 1st, 2014, 10:36 PM
Yay Rosie! Fingers crossed for you. 😊
sweetdream
June 1st, 2014, 11:24 PM
Rosie. That Must be good enough.
Boysway
June 2nd, 2014, 01:54 AM
Good luck Rosie :D
Marika
June 2nd, 2014, 02:09 AM
Good luck Rosie :fx:
essnce629
June 2nd, 2014, 02:17 AM
Good luck Rosie!!!!
essnce629
June 2nd, 2014, 03:35 AM
AF just started. On to June. :(
Good luck to everyone still in the TWW!
stephk
June 2nd, 2014, 03:42 AM
Sorry to hear that essnce :(
Boysway
June 2nd, 2014, 04:01 AM
Sorry to hear essnce :( Good luck for June.
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