November 2WW

[MyByC]

Girls, I just hope we get our positive this month.

Just relax and try to keep your time full with something else. I know it's hard but this is the only solution for the time to pass faster...

Boysway, dont you wannt hold until day 12 (at least?). If it's a negative, you'll be more dissapointed then ever...just put it under a key or something ⭐️

What other symptoms, you girls have?

[carmella_marie]

I have zero symptoms!

[tarasue]

Biggest symptom is that I am so tired. Other than that I have just been crampy with some pulling on the lower left side of my abdomen. I had a cramp so bad yesterday while I was at the store that I yelped!
My bbs are on and off sore, maybe more a tingly/burning sensation.
Tingly in my uterus.
Leg cramps.
Cp is high and closed.
Cm is lotion-like.
Hungry, but not?
Getting up at night to go to the bathroom.
Vivid dreams

I have all the textbook symptoms except the biggest one....A positive pregnancy test !

I am pretty sure I'm not pregnant, so symptoms just confuse me at this point.

[Boysway]

MyByC, I wish I could hold out. I have no willpower, lol.

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[Boysway]

OOOOOMMMMGGGGG!!!!!!

10 dpo Bbs are killing me. Tried more cheapie hpt's, no luck. Thought, nup bbs are too sore for af symptoms.

So, I opened my 1 of 2 FRER.

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I'm shaking so bad right now. This test was taken 20 mins ago, it's nearly 4pm :D I'll wait till I have a more solid line till I tell dh.

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[mina108]

Awesome Boysway!!!! So happy for you!!

[Boysway]

Thank you :D I'll have to get myself a digital test now :) Maybe this bfp is a gift from my MIL it would have been her birthday yesterday. I will be due around my BIL's birthday.

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[XXforhubby]

Yay Boysway!!!! I am so excited for you! I have a present- ALL of my blue baby dust. Seriously, all of it!!


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[Boysway]

Awesome :) I'm so stoked. Hearts still racing. I keep looking at the test to make sure the line is still there :D Have ALL my pink dust :D

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[yogi&booboo]

Boysway MAJOR CONGRATULATIONS!!! That's fantastic news. Wishing you a happy & healthy 9 months and of course a big blue adorable bundle of joy!!!!

[EmileeJane]

Hi all! I have no idea why it took me so long to find this group. This I where I belong!
This is our 3rd cycle trying to conceive but that equals 107 days for me. Longer (but shortening), unpredictable cycles.
I will be on day 13 past ovulation tomorrow. I have taken a couple Wondfo tests that are neg. I'm testing with first morning urine tomorrow with an early response test. I'd like to wait it out, cuz I think I'll feel worse seeing the negative, but we're having friends over for dinner tomorrow night and they will call me out 100% if I'm not drinking. We aren't telling people we are trying and it would be unusual for me not to have a drink with dinner....
Anyway, it was so easy to conceive both boys this feels frustrating. But it seems some of you are right there with me!
I'm jealous & excited for you gals who recently got BFP!
2boysjust1girl- congrats! I was just thinking about you before I found this and read your amazing news!
Congrats to you all! I sure hope it's me tomorrow!
I'm not feeling too optimistic since I've been let down before. And truly we had the perfect timing as far as the information says. We BD 2 days before unexpected pos OPK. Then again that evening for good measure. I know, I know, NOT the best girl sway practice. But I really want to be pregnant with a healthy babe at this point!
Nice to meet you all:)

[Junie]

Boysway I am SO thrilled for you! You have had to deal with so much to get this BFP and I just hope you have a fabulous pregnancy! Congrats:)
Emilee: I hope you have a nice big BFP waiting for you tomorrow, you had great timing!

I'm pretty sure I Od yesterday although since I'm not charting I can't be 100%. I've stopped vitex for this cycle though since I already hit CD 14 and we'll BD Mon to be sure and stick with every 4 days. That first week of the 2WW always feels so long to me. But I'm just so thrilled to finally be TTC and DH is so positive about it it is like he was never against it. Plus since this will be our last I'm trying to enjoy everything. :) I think if it takes more than 2 cycles that my attitude might change though LOL

[Boysway]

Awww, you're a sweet heart junie. Thanks lovely. Everything crossed this is your month as well.

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[tarasue]

Congrats boysway!!! Blowing you all my bouncing boy blue baby dust!!!!!!

[tarasue]

Welcome Emileejane! Best of luck to you! We started out this month with lots of disappointment, but things are turning around and we are getting more and more Bfp! Hope you are one of the next:).

[Boysway]

Good luck Emileejane :)

Tarasue, I hope you hold the next bfp :)

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[Linzshine32]

Yay boysway!!


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[2boysJustOneGirl]

Congrats Bluesway! I hope you are blessed with a baby boy!

[tarasue]

Me too boysway!!! I keep trying to tell myself this is only my first cycle ttc( granted it's been a long cycle- today is day 40). My sister has been ttc #2 for two years now, it took her one year to finally conceive her first. I kind of want her to get pregnant before, like the week before, I do. Although, her only son and my second son have the same birthday, a year apart. If we are pregnant and due around the same time, what would be the chances of having babies on the same date again???

[tarasue]

Yogi- this question is for you? You mentioned that you don't think that you actually ovulated, right? Did you get a positive opk?? I am starting to think I never actually ovulated, but I did have two days of +opk. What's up with us? This past couple days I have broke out on my chin, is that a sign of ovulation, Af or both?

[yogi&booboo]

Tara yes thats what i think :( I did have some positive opks the weekend before halloween or at least I thought I did. My monitor gave me a peak day 3 days later. I have been getting pimples here and there. The only thing that trips me out the most is the ewcm that I get almost every day which makes me believe my body is trying to do something. I think acne can go both ways. My pregnant coworker said she has been breaking out lately and shes about 10 weeks pregnant. I don't know what to think anymore but I really do hope I get af so I can start my attemps because this month surely went down the drain. I have been bd'ing un protected :( Plus we have too many birthdays in june and july. My two girls are june and me and the dh are july. I want to get the ball rolling to try for next month.

[MyByC]

Boysway, congrats! So happy for you! Thats wonderful!

Just wanted to keep this until I get a test but I'm already sad so the hopes endes for me this time...

To make my story short, got a folicle of 2.98 on 29 October(the dr even saw the ovucit inside of it cause the folicle was so big) so we had our attempt that night..next day had my usual extreme pains...went to doctor and she said I already O-ed. I'm 9dpo today and got brown spotting at my pee in the WC and at wiping...I freaked out and then wiped and saw again...After that, went to bed..fall asleep and went to toilet again..no spotting again at wiping but I got an OB inside to check for blood and it came out with light brown in the top...I'm sad 😔 I know AF will come from a day to another...but why I didnt get pregnant? Should it have been the Clomid(this is my second month on Clomid but first try for us)....I'm just dissapointed and sad...today have my husband and boy birthday and ruined their day as well with my sadness....😩

[carmella_marie]

Congrats bluesway! Take all my blue dust!

I'm still getting bfn on wondfos and FRER, but a positive on a clear blue! I've pretty much determined SMU works way better than fmu for me and FRER Doesnr really work for me either.

[XXforhubby]

I am sorry MyByC! I know how hard it is to get your hopes up and then come away with disappointment.

Maybe it is implantation bleeding. I would wait to see if AF shows, and if AF is late, then I would test. With DS1, I was SUPER weepy. Anything would bring me to tears, and I would not call myself overly emotional. Although, some cycles cause me to have a day of weeping, but this was different.

Hang in there, and stay strong. Believe that it will happen for you because it will. Sometimes it takes more time, why we don't quite know. Until then take comfort that we are all longing for our little ones to join us, and we will be there for each other in the mean time. 💗


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[MyByC]

Thank you XX...I'm just confused..I make ultrasound every month, I know when I O..it was so easy to conceive my son..and now I just wonder what happend when it was only a few hours apart ovulation my attempt. I know I had the ovucit inside also, cause the doctor saw it...so is the Clomid the reason? Should I just drop it..anyone has experienced this before and drop the Clomid to be able to conceive?

I dont have my hopes high anymore...I read that implantation bleeding are a few spots but I had a big quantity of only light brown that I saw...it usually happends before my AF...

[2boysJustOneGirl]

Thank you XX...I'm just confused..I make ultrasound every month, I know when I O..it was so easy to conceive my son..and now I just wonder what happend when it was only a few hours apart ovulation my attempt. I know I had the ovucit inside also, cause the doctor saw it...so is the Clomid the reason? Should I just drop it..anyone has experienced this before and drop the Clomid to be able to conceive?

I dont have my hopes high anymore...I read that implantation bleeding are a few spots but I had a big quantity of only light brown that I saw...it usually happends before my AF...

With my ds1 I had a moderate amount of brown bleeding 2-3 days before AF. I didn't get a BFP until 2 days after AF was due. So... You never know!

[MyByC]

....who knows..Everybody tries to keep me positive but I'm sooo sad...I really lost all my hopes now.... and the fact that AF might come earlier before the 14 day lutheal phase it makes me more nervous..how normal is that? Last month came at 11 days after my O...
Thank you everybody! ❤️

[XXforhubby]

That is why it makes me think it is implantation bleeding. I know you feel so sad, have a good cry to get it all out. Once you are done, stay positive until AF comes or is late. Don't let yourself feel discouraged until you know for sure. Hugs!!


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[MyByC]

Thank you XX and everyone else. I just hope but I dont know..feeling very bloated and had gas alllll week..but it might be from food...
Will keep my girls of soul updated tomorrow 😊

[essnce629]

Congrats Boysway! I knew you'd get a BFP! Sending you all my blue dust!

Carmella-- Can you go in for a blood test to see what your hcg numbers are?

MyByC-- studies show that odds of conception are highest when you dtd 1 or 2 days before ovulation. You want the sperm in the fallopian tubes waiting for the egg as soon as it's released. The odds of getting pregnant on O day are much lower since the egg doesn't live very long and it takes the sperm several hours to make the journey from the cervix to the tubes. Are you using opks? That's why Atomic says to dtd at +opk, since that usually ends up being 1-2 days before O. But don't give up yet, you still have a chance till AF shows.

[sageviolet]

Hey, just catching up:

2boys - I think I forgot to tell you congrats!

belleboi - I am hanging onto hope by your 13dpo comment. Sorry you didn't make it that far.

tarasue - Could it be your adrenals? Adrenals and thyroid are opposites that balance each other so if the thyroid tests were good but you're still having symptoms, I would suspect adrenals. There's no blood test for them, just taking your temperature regularly. I think it's midmorning temp? I saw someone speak about it several years ago. Sorry I don't remember more, but you should look into it.

yogi - Those are the same tests I use.

carmella - Beautiful line! Congrats! Uh oh, you're going to get me to poas more around the clock, lol.

xx - Get well soon! At least it could help your sway?

boysway - Ahhh! I knew it! Your chart looked so good! Congrats!

mybyc - Big hugs! I understand the whys and frustration. I dropped to 11 days last month after holding steady at 12 for a couple of cycles, no idea why. I started taking more vitamin B6 and C this cycle and it's amazing how much more even my temps are. Time will tell how it's affected my lp length.

My update: I've been testing for a couple of mornings, still bfn at 11dpo today and a slight temp dip. My lp was 11 last month but had been 12 for several months before that. Do I need to get to 14 as I was with dd? As I said, temps have been much better this cycle with C and more B6. Everything would've been perfect except I got a headcold right after ovulation.

[MyByC]

Essnce, I do ultrasounds every month and I went to doctot at 13:00 clock on 29 October when folicle had 2.98 and an ovucit inside(dr saw it - she said this happends very rare). We DTD that night and O-ed next day in the morning..I had terrible pains between 8 and 12...so about 10-12 hours between attempt and O. Also, I layed on a side for 1 hour after attempt and then went and made shower. At 17:00 that day has another ultrasound and dr said the folicle already brake..

SageViolet, I'm swaying for a DD. Give me all your pink dust :-) I'm just taking Clomid , Chitosan Baby aspirin(from time to time). I always had my cycle of 27-28 days and last month had 27 days...which for this month applies on Monday(if it's for AF to come).
I just hope...hope..hope.
Regarding your testing, just wait until 14dpo, if until now it didnt show anything, it should be there at 14. Dont you wanna try a blood test (Beta Hcg)?

[yogi&booboo]

Ugh I guess it doesn't hurt to bd right? This is getting ridiculous 😧

Tarasue Im pretty confused right about now :(:mad: cd42 today. Opk from 5 minutes ago
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[carmella_marie]

Thank you XX...I'm just confused..I make ultrasound every month, I know when I O..it was so easy to conceive my son..and now I just wonder what happend when it was only a few hours apart ovulation my attempt. I know I had the ovucit inside also, cause the doctor saw it...so is the Clomid the reason? Should I just drop it..anyone has experienced this before and drop the Clomid to be able to conceive?

I dont have my hopes high anymore...I read that implantation bleeding are a few spots but I had a big quantity of only light brown that I saw...it usually happends before my AF...

Wait, you had your attempt AFTER an uktrasound confirmed ovulation? It's really really hard to get go with an attempt after O. the egg lives 24 hours MAX many eggs only 6-12 hours and can take sperm 12 hours to get to the egg! Plus the uktrasound will only who you have ovulated, it can't pin point how long ago. I wouldn't drop the clomid as we are so sure its sways pink, I would do an attempt every 4 days so that you're sure to get one attempt in the fertile window (before you ovulate!!) fingers crossed you get a BFP this cycle!

[fivebabies]

MyByC~ I totally feel your pain. And I'm so sorry you're frustrated. For the past 8 cycles I have had very regular cycles, know that I am Oing and right on schedule and have dtd multiple times a day for at least 2 days before O, on O day and 1dpo......every single cycle for the last EIGHT cycles...What is wrong with me?? No swaying or any funny business. Just good old fashioned dtd and lots of it. I have 5 children so I don't have fertility problems. I have no idea what's going on and am at the end of my rope. As I'm sure you are feeling the same way.

I'm so sorry. (((HUGS))) Hun!

boysway~ Huge congrats to you Sweetie! That made me so happy to see. :)

[tarasue]

Ugh I guess it doesn't hurt to bd right? This is getting ridiculous 😧

Tarasue Im pretty confused right about now :(:mad: cd42 today. Opk from 5 minutes ago
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I am as confused as you with what's up with my body? I am out of opk's so I have no idea where I would even be with those. What brand are those, I obviously need to order more.... I wish my period would just start, it's like a restart button at this point- dear god I never Thought I would wish for Af......

Have you gotten all those positives today or are each of those from different days? When was the last pregnancy test you took? I would try another pregnancy test maybe.

[yogi&booboo]

Tarasue Im right there with you. I really wish AF would start too. These are wonfo opks. All from today. The bottom one was like about 3-5 minutes apart from the top two. All within in am 8 minute span. Do you have a dollar store near you? Maybe buy some there while you can order some online. I took some early in the morning that were slightly lighter. I did a frer this morning too and it was negative so its got to be some lh surge. The ones I thought were positive the week before halloween were still not as dark as these. I told the dh and hes up for it. I am not too happy because my body has been sore as if I am going to get a flu. I don't know how many times I have thought I have been 1 dpo this month which really cracks me up and suck more than anything. I hope you can get some opks soon. Hopefully you get a positive too :)

[MyByC]

Carmella, I'm sorry for my bad English..I think there is a king of language barrier between me and rest of you girls as English is not my first language. Actually I went to ultrasound the day before O(when a foclicle with an ovucit inside could be seen- it had 2.98 size) so we dtd that night. Then, the next day the ovulation occured(so theoretically 10-12 hours between my attempt and Ovulation). My doctor just confirmed the ovulation next day in the evening(just like she confirmed the folicle size the day before).
I know Clomid helps in swaying PINK but I'm just thinking if Clomid is the issue of not conceiving this month(in case I didnt got pregnant)...

Fivebabies, I'm so sorry honey. Indeed, I feel down and it's only my first cycle attempt...
You seem strong so just stick to your program. See if there is anything you can drop in order to get pregnant? Maybe there is something wrong you are doing to block this process??
Have you talked with Atomic?

[MyByC]

Yoogi, I would try again.
What do you think?

[yogi&booboo]

MyByC im going to give it a try. What the heck it won't hurt to bd a few more times.
I was told that many women can conceive on short luteal phases so dont give up. I have had implantation bleeding with only my second daughter but it was about a few weeks into my pregnancy. Good luck and hang in there. Sending you lots of baby dust

[MyByC]

Thank you!!😊
Yup, it cant hurt anything you are doing so just play a little more! Good luck! 🙈⭐️

[essnce629]

Good luck Yogi! I think the chemical just totally messed up your cycle. My miscarriage affected mine too and I also had an LH surge with +opks around the time I normally O, but nothing happened (no temp rise). I had a second surge a several days later, more +opks, and then a temp rise. So it looks like we are dealing with something similar after our losses. I'd go ahead and get your 3 attempts in now.

[belleboi]

Yogi and tarasue, I'm officially on CD2 after a 56 day long cycle with multiple positive OPKs. I know mine is because of just having come of hormonal birth control, but I'm just trying to give yall some hope. I did end up finally ovulating, had a normal range luteal phase and just got AF yesterday (wish it were a BFP, but oh well). Hopefully your cycles end either way soon. I know hor frustrating it can be to not know what's going on.

[yogi&booboo]

Alrighty ladies wish me luck. There's no denying I am having a super weird and late cycle.This is the darkest I have ever had an opk this cycle and and i can't be pregnant because the top test is an hpt to prove it. I hope I can get all three in by tomorrow :)http://tapatalk.imageshack.com/v2/14/11/08/2491a210a02275ba02a74fbc254ecbf5.jpg

[Rosie85]

Yogi have you tried another hpt??

[Rosie85]

Oops nevermind...the page with all that just wasnt showing up. I see it now. Yes i would be attempting! !! Good luck!

[yogi&booboo]

Good luck Yogi! I think the chemical just totally messed up your cycle. My miscarriage affected mine too and I also had an LH surge with +opks around the time I normally O, but nothing happened (no temp rise). I had a second surge a several days later, more +opks, and then a temp rise. So it looks like we are dealing with something similar after our losses. I'd go ahead and get your 3 attempts in now.
Thank-you Essnce 😙
I agree and this is a frekin bummer and exausting. I hope you can catch some princess swimmers soon. I hope you get your bfp soon xoxo

[yogi&booboo]

Yogi and tarasue, I'm officially on CD2 after a 56 day long cycle with multiple positive OPKs. I know mine is because of just having come of hormonal birth control, but I'm just trying to give yall some hope. I did end up finally ovulating, had a normal range luteal phase and just got AF yesterday (wish it were a BFP, but oh well). Hopefully your cycles end either way soon. I know hor frustrating it can be to not know what's going on.
Belleboi hang in there. I know our cycles have a mind of their own but hopefully we will all be in the bfp category soon.

[XXforhubby]

I am finally over the stomach virus. 😀

I am 3dpo today and hope that this virus did not mess things up!

I wish everyone good luck with either their attempts or waiting to test! We gotta get some more BFPs!!!


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[yogi&booboo]

Good Luck XX !
I think you will definetly be ok. Super happy you are over you stomach bug :) Counting the days for your bfp!

[yogi&booboo]

Oops nevermind...the page with all that just wasnt showing up. I see it now. Yes i would be attempting! !! Good luck!
Thank-you Rosie 😙💖😊💓
How are you doing? Are you getting your attemps in ? Sending over my pink dust to you 😙

[MyByC]

Yoogi, have you tried with a ClearBlue?

[Rosie85]

I have been doing okay. No attempt for this month yet. I'm due to ovulate when we will be out of town and with people 24/7 so this month is unlikely for me. I am so stressed with the three boys i have im truly wondering if Im okay with a 4th.....sigh.

[yogi&booboo]

MyByC
I have a clearblue fertility monitor for ovulation and a I have also tried the cb digis opks but not too fond of them. I have one cb hpt but I wanted to save it for if and when I get a really good positive on a frer. I hear the cb hpts are great but I am weary with using it before a real positive because when I had my chemical every hpt except this one was positive :(

[yogi&booboo]

If you can handle three one more won't hurt Rosie :) My girls have me going nuts sometimes and our youngst is something special and has us on the edge of our seat from the minute she wakes till the time she goes to bed. My two oldest are in their own little world because they are preteens now but before omg I felt like pulling my hair out at times. If anything a fourth for you may bring some balance and more peace because Im sure your boys would love to care for a little sister 😙 I really hope you can get your attemps in. Would love to hear bfp from you very very soon! I have you in my thoughts and prayers every day. 😊

[MyByC]

Yogi, yup, I totally understand. Then maybe you should wait for that one.
I pray for you! Send you all my blue dust!!! Take it all!!!😘

[Junie]

A friend celebrated her 40th birthday party last night and I'm so hungover, we were also at a Tapas restaurant and I did end up eating a bit of meat so I hope it doesn't affect anything since I'm pretty sure I already O'd. I'll have to take an OPK later to check.

[yogi&booboo]

Thank-you MyByc 😙

Junie good luck!!! Hope you enjoyed you enjoyed your self last night!

[carmella_marie]

Carmella, I'm sorry for my bad English..I think there is a king of language barrier between me and rest of you girls as English is not my first language. Actually I went to ultrasound the day before O(when a foclicle with an ovucit inside could be seen- it had 2.98 size) so we dtd that night. Then, the next day the ovulation occured(so theoretically 10-12 hours between my attempt and Ovulation). My doctor just confirmed the ovulation next day in the evening(just like she confirmed the folicle size the day before).
I know Clomid helps in swaying PINK but I'm just thinking if Clomid is the issue of not conceiving this month(in case I didnt got pregnant)...

Fivebabies, I'm so sorry honey. Indeed, I feel down and it's only my first cycle attempt...
You seem strong so just stick to your program. See if there is anything you can drop in order to get pregnant? Maybe there is something wrong you are doing to block this process??
Have you talked with Atomic?

Ok got it. Just wanted to be sure you're not trying after ovulation! That's a tough one, you might drop the clomid as I've heard stomic say it still seats a few months after you take it since it stays in your system so long.

[carmella_marie]

I am finally over the stomach virus. 😀

I am 3dpo today and hope that this virus did not mess things up!

I wish everyone good luck with either their attempts or waiting to test! We gotta get some more BFPs!!!


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I think being sick at O seats girl!

[sageviolet]

Af showed up today. :-( I'm so depressed. I blame the headcold I got at o and am still getting over. But I'm also concerned about my lp. Is 11 days long enough? It's been 11 the past two cycles, but before that it was 12 for a couple of cycles. When I got pregnant before, my lp was 14 days. I'm taking 50mg of B6. What else can I do? Should I try vitex? I know it sways girl and I'm trying to sway boy. It's so weird, it's like my lp has gotten short on the boy diet and supplements. This was our 3rd cycle of trying and I started the diet 6 weeks before the first attempt, so it's been since August 1! Maybe I need to not take one of the supplements? How do I know what? Ugh!

MyByC - Take my pink dust! One tip, dh had a hot shower right before we dtd so I wonder if that did it.

[yogi&booboo]

I am absolutely devastated this morning and feel absolutely selfish for wanting a son now. My dear friends son was murdered early this morning. She has 4 girls and he was her only son. Why is the world amd destiny so cruel. I don't know how to move on from this. I am devastated and in a loss of words.

[sageviolet]

I'm so sorry, Yogi. Hugs and prayers for all those hurting.

[yogi&booboo]

Thank-you Sageviolet 💖

[Boysway]

Omg yogi. How devastating for your friends. Sending love, strength and healing to yourself and your friend xx

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[Junie]

Oh my gosh that is terrible! I'm so sorry for your friend yogi.

[Junie]

Sageviolet- I'm so sorry AF showed :(

[yogi&booboo]

Thank you deeply and from the bottom of my heart Boysway & Junie 😙

[MyByC]

Yogo, that is a cruel world!
I'm so sorry and sending all my love to your friend! Be next to her!
Sage, I had a 11 lp last month as well and 12 days before...so dont worry. It's because of the diet!
Af should come tomorrow for me as well(11dpo)...I really hope it will not! I dont have any sign of AF but still spotting light brown from time to time at wiping.
I just have a last 1% hope...
Will be waiting until Tuesday and make a early predict pg test..if AF will not come.
Keep your fingers crossed! ⭐️

[mina108]

I am so sad to hear such tragic news Yogi. Praying for your friends and for you.

[essnce629]

So so sorry Yogi for your friend and her family. What horribly tragic news. I can't even imagine. Truly devastating. (((HUGS)))

[2boysJustOneGirl]

So tragic. Helps me keep things in perspective.

[yogi&booboo]

Thank-you Ladies I can't stop crying. I will see her tonight at a candle vigil to give her my support and all of your prayers.

[XXforhubby]

Oh my gosh Yogi!! I will keep you and your friends family in my prayers!


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[Ugee]

Yogi that is so tragic! Sending hugs!

[kitkat18]

Yogi honey that is so tragic! I am so sorry for your friend, her family and for you Xx
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[Ugee]

So I'm 7dpo today. I couldn't finish my coffee this morning, didn't taste nice! I usually can't function without it! Especially as it's technically my breakfast from the LE diet. Possibly wishful thinking but I went off tea/coffee with both pregnancies previously!

Where is everyone else in their cycle? Any symptoms?

[Boysway]

Fingers and toes crossed for you Ugee :D

[MyByC]

11dpo...bloated with gas, food cravings, tired...and that's it :))

[Boysway]

Sounds very promising MyByC :)

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[MyByC]

Today AF should land...no symptom for it (yet)..still light brown spots sometimes at wiping..but not everytime(this holds since Saturday)...little worried but I really hope they are from implantation and not my "before" AF...😕
Just want to wait a few more days and test. I'm afraid of a negative...

[Ugee]

Thanks ladies, congratulation Boysway was thrilled to see you got your BFP! MyByC my fingers are crossed this is your month!

[MyByC]

Ugee I hope is OUR month!
Good luck to you and to everybody here that waits for a BFP!

Boysway, what symptoms you had until now?

[Junie]

That sounds promising MyByC!!
Ugee - ooh that sounds good. I hope this is it for you!

I'm only 2DPO today based on when I guess I O'd. I've convinced myself that I was pregnant before when were not even trying so I know how sneaky my AF symptoms can be, and obviously it is much too early to have any symptoms of anything anyway. We've got birthday parties on Fri and Sun that will involve drinking so I'll test on those days even though it will be super early just to feel comfortable drinking. We also have an event next Thursday so that will be when I test for real and hope hope hope to get a BFP! :)

[sageviolet]

I had a 11 lp last month as well and 12 days before...so dont worry. It's because of the diet!


MyByC, but aren't you on the LE diet to sway girl? I'm on the HE diet to sway boy. I would expect them to have opposite effects on cycle length.

[XXforhubby]

I am 6dpo and woke up nauseous. I have been fully recovered and re-acclimated from the flu for 3 whole days now. I am trying not to symptom spot. 😀 With DS2 nausea was my first symptom at about the same time and lasted until 28 weeks 😬 Although I will never discount AF's tricky ways!

Wishing everyone positive thoughts while we wait for our attempts or to test! FX!


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[True Blue]

Good Luck XXforhubby :)

[MyByC]

Sage, I am on LE diet, yes. But I took Clomid which can have side effects especially for our mentrual cycle.
I always had a 27-28 cycle lent and O-ed in my 15-16-17 day.
With Clomid had a 27 cycle last month(but I did not attempt at all). This is my second Clomid month and today I'm 27 day..I really really hope AF will not come.

Junie, stay positive and just wait until 12-14 day to test so you dont have a negative..at least I cannot hold a negative...

XX, let's pray! ⭐️

Good luck to everyone else!
Hope we have a new day tomorrow with BFP and good symptoms for pregnancy 😁🎀

[Boysway]

MyByC, my only symptoms are sore bbs, back ache, morning congestion and cramping.

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[Boysway]

Sounds promising XX :)

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[XXforhubby]

I am trying not to get my hopes up too high. Nothing seems to help and it comes and goes...I keep telling myself it is just my body readjusting.

FX for all of us!!


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[carmella_marie]

I had mild gender disappointment with ds1, severe with ds2. I really thought I had gotten to the point where I was almost over my gender desire and could be happy with a third boy, I'm already calling this baby my "third musketeer"

Then last night DH says he's so scared its a boy, that it would be so devastating for him, that he's not sure he'd have a third except he really wants a daughter. I feel like our roles have reversed, now I want a daughter just for him, so he won't go through the intense GD I went through...

Still no pregnancy symptoms for me--which I'm fine with!

[XXforhubby]

That explains my screen name Carmella!! My husband was beyond disappointed at the gender ultrasound with DS2. Now, he has come to peace with having a third boy, because he sees how close our two boys are. Although, he is more than willingly to do what he can to sway girl! I used to only want boys but now after swaying I want a girl. I believe that we will get the baby we are supposed to have, boy or girl.

I hope we all get out BFPs and our baby bundle of our heart's desire! 😘💞


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[Junie]

How funny how much our feelings can change :) My husband and I both didn't have GD with our 2 sons because I wanted a boy first and then I loved the idea of DS1 having a brother. Now I also love the idea of three brothers but I'll definitely feel some sadness at the idea of never experiencing a girl. DH doesn't really want a girl even now but doesn't mind that I am swaying and will love the baby no matter what. :)

I looked at my old charts on FF and looked at all my pregnancy symptoms and saw that with both boys I had BFPs by 10DPO so hopefully this time is no different :)

[carmella_marie]

Is anyone thinking about/doing elective prenatal testing to find out gender? Are you doing Panorama, MatrniT21, verify or Harmony and why? I'm afraid it will be hard to talk my OB into doing it since I'm not high risk in any way, and I'm also afraid of the cost and dealing with insurance. Anyone have any insights?

[2boysJustOneGirl]

I am doing it. MaterniT21 offer the VisibiliT test for Trisomy 18&21 and gender. It's 425 USD without coverage. I had to sorta lie to my midwife, told her I was concerned about Down's syndrome for personal reasons. Once I began exploring those feelings I realized, holy crap! What is my baby does have Down's syndrome? How will I deal with that? Having 3 kids will be hard enough and what if one is disabled? I would want to know that ASAP.
Seeing that I am paying for the test the company or my midwife didn't seem to care much about why I wanted it done.

[Boysway]

I would love to but the cheapest test in Australia is the Harmony test which is $470.

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[MyByC]

Ladies, you are so lucky! Here the prices start from 700€(which is about 1000$?). I'm thinking in doing it anyway...I just hope..I hope AF will not come these days....😔

[Junie]

DH actually really wants one done because that has always been one of his largest fears and now that there are non-invasive tests I don't see any reason not to get it done. The only thing I'm worried about is convincing my doctor to do the test- I'm not even 30 yet and we live in Germany where things like that are frowned upon. But since we are paying for the test anyway I don't see why he wouldn't do it. My other fear is that it is now illegal here to tell the gender before 16 weeks. So I would hate to have the test done and then they refuse to tell me that part until 16 weeks... I would do the panorama test.

[bluebonnet22]

Carmella - my first instinct was to have the test done and pay out of pocket (I'm 30 with no risk factors so insurance won't cover it). However now that I'm pregnant again I'm starting to understand the sentiments of the team green ladies. I definitely won't wait until birth, but I'm considering waiting until 16-20 weeks just so I can keep the hope alive a little longer. We have a lot of vacations and parties and whatnot during the holidays and January and I hate to have GD and be depressed just because I found out too early.

That being said I live near family and I'll have to tell them about the pregnancy soon (the not drinking and I showed super early with my DS). I'm considering telling them in December that I had the blood test and it's a boy so they leave me alone and don't make my GD worse. They are all obsessed/convinced I'm having a girl and it's almost easier to just tell them I'm having a boy now while the hope is still alive so I'm not crying in front of them or anything. I'm 90% sure this is a boy anyways so I don't really feel like it's a big lie !

Sorry for the essay. I'd love to tell myself I'd be thrilled with 2 boys, but my DH is keen on only having 2 kids and the thought of never having a daughter is making me bummed out.

[Junie]

Bluebonnet- Having two boys is really lovely. There is just something special about that bond, and you never know DH might change his mind-mine did :) But I hope it ends up being a girl and it doesn't matter anyway!

[2boysJustOneGirl]

I feel like I want to know ASAP so that when we tell ppl I am pregnant again we can tell them the sex ASAP so I won't have to listen to anybody go on and on about how wonderful a girl would be. My heart can't take it or my nerves and I fear I will throat punch the person that says this to me. Lol.

Although if it's a girl i think we will keep the secret and soak up all the moronic comments.

[XXforhubby]

My insurance will pay for MaterniT test, but I think I will go with the standard and find out at 18-20 weeks. I don't start to show until then, and I can hide it with baggy, winter clothes. I am slowly integrating these clothes under the guise that I am cold, so when I need to hide the pregnancy it will be the height of winter.

I too want to announce we are pregnant when we know the gender. I want to delay telling people too, because I do not want to justify having more than two kids. Only a few family members on my husband's side have more than two. The ones with two or less kids somehow feel free to impart their beliefs on others 😡. My family is supportive and loves having babies regardless of gender.

I just have to get pregnant first! I have 7 days to AF with a nice long 13 LP this cycle. I will probably test in 8 days. I will know, because I usually have 3 days of spotting before AF starts. Both times I have been pregnant, I didn't have any spotting. I just pray this is my cycle!!

FX for all of us ladies!!


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[Junie]

You can hide your pregnancy that long? I really want to but I am a stick and can't imagine I'll be able to keep it under wraps that long plus everyone will be guessing when I'm not drinking LOL I'm going to try though!

[Junie]

Let's hope this is your cycle!!! I did have spotting with one pregnancy (it started as a twin pregnancy which is why I think) so hopefully even if you do spot it only means baby is snuggling in!

[MyByC]

I also want to keep the pregnancy a secret until I found out the gender...if our plans goes smooth, then we should know before Christmas or New Year. I'm 12dpo today..no AF yet...I'm waiting until Friday to test....

[Ugee]

I want to keep the baby a secret till I can't hide it anymore lol! Although... I'm rubbish as people will probably guess by my huge grin! :-/

I'm so hungry today, the LE diet is not going very well this afternoon :( the cold weather always makes me want to eat stodgy high calorie food!

[tarasue]

Junie- the no drinking gives me away every time!!!

[XXforhubby]

I don't drink much so people are used to that. I am skinny too, 118lbs at 5 feet 4 inches tall- I have a deep pelvis. It takes forever for my retro-tilted uterus (it is tilted like a slide) to pop out. I can hide it with baggy clothes until 18-20 weeks. Even then, I just look like I have put on a few pounds and getting ready to start AF. After that though, look out! I look like I am farther along than I really am! Think beached whale 😄


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[MyByC]

Tarasue, how are things going??

[True Blue]

Good Luck ladies testing soon :)

[tarasue]

Sorry mybyc, I had a busy weekend and was kinda down in the dumps after my negative test on Friday. I haven't even read through all the posts from over the weekend. Hard to catch up after missing a couple days.

What's new here? I called my ob and told her what was going on, (cd 43, questionable if I ovulated at all in these 43 days, no period, no positive pregnancy test). She had me come in to have a blood preg test done, to confirm I'm not pregnant. Then prescribed provera to start my period and then clomid. I am still waiting to hear back from lab test now.

[XXforhubby]

FX Tarasue! At least you are on the path to getting things fixed. FX that you get your BFP soon!


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[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Tarasue, are you getting enough fat and proteine? I have the exact same problem as you have and AS said the amounts of fat and protein as recommended in the LE diet are more like a minimum rather than a maximum

That was totally an eyeopener for me... I thought staying under those amounts was a good thing but it really isn't. Maybe that can be the problem for you too?

[Junie]

I'm sorry Tarasue!! What a frustrating thing to deal with.

[tarasue]

That could be true for me blue-blue-pink. I have been letting up on the le the past couple of weeks, so hopefully things start moving in the right direction.

Dr. Just called back and my blood test was negative, which I am not surprised. I will go pick up the provera after my boys wake from their nap and get this ball rolling!

[XXforhubby]

GL Tarasue! I hope and pray this works for you, and you get your baby girl!!


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[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Good luck tarasue! It really sucks to not ovulate!

[MyByC]

I'm so sorry Tarasue. But let's stay positive regards Clomid and Provera.
You'll see, your time approaches! 😘

[yogi&booboo]

Hi Ladies,
Just dropping in to say hello. Im still very sad for my dear friend but I know I have to keep it together for my family and be there for her during this difficult time. As for me not excited in any sort of way for this cycle. Its been weird from the get go. As of saturday cd 42 11/8 i finally got my positive opk. I was able to bd that night and two the day after (am & pm) out of obligation. It totally felt wrong but I had to finish what I started. I am tempted to bd today but I know atomic says its best to avoid 0+1 but I don't know of I am 0 or 0+1 because I still had dark positive opk yesterday. Today afternoon they have gotten lighter about the same as the control or slightly less. I didint bd yesterday monday because I didint have it in me. I have been focused on helping raise money for my friend and her family. Well enough about me. Wishing everyone sticky thoughts.


Also here is the story on mu friends son if anyone is interested in reading about it.
http://losangeles.cbslocal.com/2014/11/09/army-veteran-fatally-shot-at-homecoming-celebration-in-sylmar/#.VGKv-fITA6w.mailto

[essnce629]

Such a sad story Yogi. And to happen right after serving overseas.

Don't read the comments though. There's so many ignorant and hateful people out there. :(

[XXforhubby]

My heart breaks for you and your friend's family! Know I will keep you all in my prayers during this time.


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[yogi&booboo]

Thank-you essnce 😙
I have personally received rude comments my self but I will ignore them. They do not have my time or attention im any way. He did justice return and was a bright young kid but sadly died a tragic death.

Thank-you XX I really appreciate your kind words.

[Boysway]

I just read the story yogi, how devastating :( Love, strength and healing being sent xx

[Junie]

Yogi- my DS1 was conceived on CD 41 so don't give up hope!!

[Junie]

I'm 4 or 5DPO and I feel like I don't have any real symptoms. Some cramping and yesterday I got really jittery/shaky after drinking a coffee in the afternoon but that could be anything... Anyone else in the first week after O? :)

[Ugee]

I am junie, I'm around 8/9 dpo. It's my 1st month TTC and already it's driving me slightly crazy with symptom spotting. With my boys I wasn't swaying so I could live each day how I pleased but now it's all about the diet and everyday that passes I am counting down till I can just stuff my face lol!

[Ugee]

* I meant to say I just passed the 1st week but not completely sure I am 8/9 dpo as didn't use ovulation tests. So for all I know I could still be 4/5 dpo.

[Junie]

Ugee do you know if we can stop doing the diet as soon as we get a BFP? I would go out and eat a BIG breakfast :D when will you start testing Ugee? Sometimes I wish I could be one of those people who doesn't really think about TTC but I always obsess.

[Ugee]

Yes junie as soon as that BFP shows itself your free to eat anything you want! I just hope it's soon as I'm dying for meat lol! Miss my favourite lasagne and McDonald quarter pounder with cheese! Mmmmmm

[MyByC]

I'm out. AF arrived today! 😩
Can't understand where I did wrong since I know the day I ovulated exactlly...

[Ugee]

Oh no MyByC I'm so sorry! Was really thinking it was your month too! Sending hugs ((()))

[Boysway]

MyByC sorry to hear af has arrived :(

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[Junie]

Oh no:( I'm so sorry MyByC!!! I'm sure you did nothing wrong, I hope you get a nice big BFP before Christmas!

[XXforhubby]

MyByC I am so sorry! I hope and pray that this next cycle you get your BFP. Know you did nothing wrong. It is hard to understand why this happens...we may never know. Keep your heart open and try to stay strong. 😘


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[XXforhubby]

Ugee- I am 8dpo too! I think I will wait to test to make sure AF is not going to come. I am trying not to symptom spot, because I have been fooled before. That said, I have had on and off again nausea that started two days ago. I am sure it is my hormones balancing from my crazy short cycle last month.

I am keeping my FX for the rest of us ladies!!


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[Ugee]

I'm going to wait as long as possible to test too xx! It's hard tho but as it's my 1st month TTC I need to be realistic. Doesn't stop my symptom checking tho lol! Tmi I've got very very thick creamy CM, it's usually more watery at this point.

[XXforhubby]

My CM is creamy and whitish in color. I too am trying to not get my hopes up. This will be our 5th cycle trying, and we have never done anything super strict. Go figure! I will test the day after AF is due, which is the 19th for me.


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[MyByC]

Thank you girls. I feel like the train hit me. I'm super sad and this is only because I had my hopes high..Just take me as an example and stay strict with everything. Good to evrryone else who is waiting for a BFP in a few days!

[Junie]

Oh sweetie TTC can be so hard! I would splurge on a really nice enjoyable meal and a drink don't think about the diet for a night! MyByC

XXforhubby- I'm so impressed you can wait so long to test! And 5 cycles? you have been on this diet long enough I hope you get a BFP in a week!

Ugee- How long did it take for you to TTC DS1 and DS2?

I know I'll be testing early because I "feel" different (Did I mention that I once convinced myself I was pregnant when we were using protection? It was ridiculous I was constantly testing and was SO sure and then Hello AF LOL)but I have been having stomach pains and have just felt a bit off so will start testing on 8DPO although I have never gotten a BFP that early. I just like to test... and then to feel disappointed I guess ;)

[Junie]

TMI Alert!! I just had a big blob of EWCM. I am 99% sure I already O'd but maybe not. I'm going to take an OPK this evening...

[MyByC]

Good luck Junie!!!! Keep my fingers crossed! ❤️

[2boysJustOneGirl]

I'm out. AF arrived today! 😩
Can't understand where I did wrong since I know the day I ovulated exactlly...

Oh no! So sorry

[tarasue]

I am there with you MyByC.... My sweet old Aunt Flo just arrived, stupid B! Actually I'm a little releaved, it's cycle day 44- I am ready for a restart. Are you doing clomid? I am supposed to call my dr when my period starts so they will send in a script. I took the provera pill last night, do they work that fast at starting your cycle??

[tarasue]

Yogi, so sorry about your friends son. And people can be so cruel with their comments when others are suffering, it's sick. Last December, 4 days before Christmas, my cousins son(he was 16) was killed in an car accident. He was driving home from a movie and there was an ice storm, his truck went down an embankment. Had he been wearing a seatbelt there probably would have been a different outcome. His whole family, his classmates, practically the whole city of Tulsa was devastated. Yet, there were those cruel a-holes who have to get there two cents in and say he deserved it for not wearing a seat belt and blaming his poor broken mother for letting him drive. It makes my blood book to this day!

I am so sorry for your friend, a mother should never have to bury her baby, regardless of the circumstance.

[Ugee]

Junie- my DS1 was an oops. My DS2 was conceived in the 1st month we tried which I now worry that if I conceive 1st go again (this month) then it's a boy again. My only difference in thought process if that happens is my LE diet change and that I would normally take prenatal vitamins a month b4 we would try (I did that with my 2nd DS). I also gained weight just b4 I conceived my oops DS1.

I want to see a big BFP this month but I'm so scared to have one too. Can't win!

[MyByC]

Tarasue, I'm taking Clomid for swaying purpose only. I never had problems with my ovulation..always had a cycle of 27-29 days lenght.
I took Clomid - September and October cycles (had my first attempt now which turned out to be a BFN although I know the exact time and day I ovulated). It is weird and I only put fault on Clomid.
I also sat on one side after BD for 1 hour...)
I'm not sure about Provera. I read Clomid brings a good chance for a girl.
I personally take it 5-9 day.
Maybe you should ask Atomic, see what she thinks about taking them together..not sure if it's safe.

[tarasue]

I've messages her, no response yet. The provera is to just get my period to start.

[Ugee]

Sorry to hear af came tarasue!

MyByC I'm sure I have seen a few posts where people conceive the month after they come off clomid!?

[Boysway]

Very sorry to hear tarasue. Fingers this new cycle will be 'it' for yourself and MyByC.

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[Junie]

Sorry tarasue :(

[MyByC]

Yes Ugee, I know. I read those posts too but Atomic says Clomid has not preventing me from getting pregnant unless it's used more then 3 months.
This would be my third...and my last.
Will see how things move.
Day 1 for me..need to wait for another 14 to pass to be in the schedule again...
Good luck girls!

[MyByC]

Tarasue, I'm sure she will answer you soon! She knows better then we do.

[atomic sagebrush]

I've messages her, no response yet. The provera is to just get my period to start.

If you are messaging me via PM, it takes me several days to get through those sometimes. For those who have Custom plans (which you do, I believe, right??) you need to ask me in your Custom Sway forum and I do those every day. I just can't promise quick response via PM (which is why that is written at the top of every sway plan). I get too many PM's and I can't always keep track of who had a Custom Plan and who didn't.

[atomic sagebrush]

I am there with you MyByC.... My sweet old Aunt Flo just arrived, stupid B! Actually I'm a little releaved, it's cycle day 44- I am ready for a restart. Are you doing clomid? I am supposed to call my dr when my period starts so they will send in a script. I took the provera pill last night, do they work that fast at starting your cycle??

If you just started taking Provera one day and got AF that day, you need to call your doctor right away because YOU DO NOT NEED TO CONTINUE THE PROVERA. The Provera would have tricked your body into starting AF WHEN YOU HAD FINISHED IT. If you get AF when you start PRovera, your body did it on its own and continuing Provera now will really really mess everything up. CAll doc right away and do not take any more Provera!!

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry to hear af came tarasue!

MyByC I'm sure I have seen a few posts where people conceive the month after they come off clomid!?

These are typically people who took Clomid for several months. Not just one or two months.

[yogi&booboo]

Thank you Boysway for you kind and uplifting words.

Hope you are doing great with your little blue bean in the making. Wishing lots of great health!:car:

[yogi&booboo]

Yogi, so sorry about your friends son. And people can be so cruel with their comments when others are suffering, it's sick. Last December, 4 days before Christmas, my cousins son(he was 16) was killed in an car accident. He was driving home from a movie and there was an ice storm, his truck went down an embankment. Had he been wearing a seatbelt there probably would have been a different outcome. His whole family, his classmates, practically the whole city of Tulsa was devastated. Yet, there were those cruel a-holes who have to get there two cents in and say he deserved it for not wearing a seat belt and blaming his poor broken mother for letting him drive. It makes my blood book to this day!

I am so sorry for your friend, a mother should never have to bury her baby, regardless of the circumstance.

Thank you Tara :tissue:
Yes, its sad that people can a cruel heart and mind to say things to people when they are grieving. I am trully sorry about your cousins son. No one should ever loose a child, friend or relative, but sadly we do. I know everyone's uplifting words will help us heal.

I am truly sorry your AF arrive :( Wishing you the best for your next attempt in the 2 ww. I know I will be joining you very very soon. :bighug::fingers:

[EmileeJane]

My period started Sunday late afternoon. So not pregnant again! I am sad and frustrated by another let down. It was SO easy to conceive both my boys. Got pregnant on the pill with DS1. Pregnant on 1st O after getting mirena out with DS2. Never used opks, never even had a period once IUD was out (or when I had it in).
So I'm starting over this month. Although I feel like my body is letting me down left and right. Had a BAD eczema flare 4 days ago. Went to dermatologist this am and he wants me on an antibiotic and wanted to give me a steroid shot. But it lasts in my system for 6wks! Ugh! I can't stand the thought of waiting to try that much longer! So I'm using topical for now but if it doesn't help by Monday I'll likely have to get the shot. I'm not even sleeping at night I am so miserable and itchy!
Good luck gals! Thanks for your support!

[XXforhubby]

I am so sorry EmileeJane! I feel for you- my DS1 has eczema and gets bad flares from time to time. My heart breaks for people with eczema! It seems so uncomfortable! I would get the shot so you can get some comfort! I'm sure if you are strict on the diet you should be fine. I hope and pray that this next cycle brings your BFP! 💕


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[Ugee]

I'm sorry emileejane it's hardworking this swaying! I have had eczema since a baby. I no longer suffer with it since using Egyptian magic cream! It's amazing and recommend it as it's all natural products. I use pure coconut oil on my skin everyday since my Eczema has cleared and touch wood it's not come back in 6 years! My DS1 had a little eczema and tried the Egyptian magic cream and it also cleared up. Worth a try and maybe you won't need to have the steroids?

[MyByC]

Emilee, I am so sorry. I know your feeling..I'm there with you. I hope you will be soon better so you can have your chance at next O day :-)

[MyByC]

Cristina, just observe them!
They are all colored in PINK so nice, right? :-)

[Junie]

I'm so sorry EmileeJane! I can imagine how frustrating it is for TTC to take so much longer than with your sons especially when you have to stay on the diet the whole time. I hope you don't end up needing the shot!

[Junie]

OPK was negative so I think it was just a strange bout of weird cm.
Cristina: I totally understand and will probably also start testing around then :)

[XXforhubby]

I may cave and test this Sunday too- I'll be 12dpo. I may flip a coin, heads- to be disappointed with a BFN, or tails- to not test and be disappointed by AF...


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[tarasue]

I am there with you MyByC.... My sweet old Aunt Flo just arrived, stupid B! Actually I'm a little releaved, it's cycle day 44- I am ready for a restart. Are you doing clomid? I am supposed to call my dr when my period starts so they will send in a script. I took the provera pill last night, do they work that fast at starting your cycle??

Ok, maybe no Af.... I had a little blood when I wiped the first couple times I used the bathroom this morning. Nothing since then. Whatever, I am so over all this crap! My body has a screw loose or something! Ugh !

[XXforhubby]

Hang in there Tarasue! One thing I do know is that the LE diet and exercise can cause changes in our cycles. I never used to spot before AF, and I do now. My cycles vary in length when they never used to. At least your Dr is on board with helping you. I hope you can get things back on track. I too was frustrated last month when I had 2 cycles 17 days apart! What was up with that?!
Hugs! 💞


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[yogi&booboo]

Tarasue,
Could it be implantation bleeding or preovulatory bleeding if you haven't ovulated yet? Is your cp high or low and what's your cm lion like?

[MyByC]

Tarasue, it might be implantation bleeding(which I hooooope) or pre AF... I had spotting Saturday and Sunday just at wiping...then nothing, until yesterday (Wednesday) 😔

[Junie]

Have you continued BDing Tarasue? As then you definitely could have just O'd late and it is implantation bleeding!! I know long cycles are a big pain but you can get pregnant from them. My first son was conceived on CD41! I agree with yogi- how is your cervix and your CM?

I'm still feeling a bit "off" but that could mean absolutely nothing! I'm waiting to see if any symptoms increase or become clearer before I think anything for sure...

[tarasue]

Thank you ladies for all your support. I thought about it being implantation bleeding, which worries me because I took the provera the dr prescribed. I have some of those sure predict tests that I was going to take before I continue the provera. Cp is high and closed, cm is non-existent - super dry. When I checked my cp this morning, there was a hint of pink on my finger that's it.

Junie we have continues bding, just in case.

[XXforhubby]

Tarasue, I am keeping my FX that it was implantation bleeding! I sure hope you get some answers soon- you have been through so much.


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[tarasue]

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Holy ****!!!!! I don't even know what to think right now! Flipping out! I have taken two of those provera pills, my blood pregnancy test on Tuesday was negative! Is this for real?

[2boysJustOneGirl]

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Holy ****!!!!! I don't even know what to think right now! Flipping out! I have taken two of those provera pills, my blood pregnancy test on Tuesday was negative! Is this for real?

I think you need to call your doc ASAP! Get a blood test to find out for sure.

[tarasue]

Already called they don't open for another 30 min. Seriously, they said my blood test just two days ago was negative! I am so worried that if by some crazy chance I am pregnant, will those provera pills hurt the baby?

[XXforhubby]

Take a deep breath...I think at this early in the pregnancy it will be ok. I am SO happy for you!!!! I am praying that it is for real and for a healthy, pink sticky bean!!!!!


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[atomic sagebrush]

Already called they don't open for another 30 min. Seriously, they said my blood test just two days ago was negative! I am so worried that if by some crazy chance I am pregnant, will those provera pills hurt the baby?

2 proveras should not hurt anything but they may want to put you on Prometrium just to be sure. ( they prob. won't)

I already explained this in the Custom Forum but for anyone else ever in this boat, the doctor did not do the right thing in this case. If you are taking Provera to bring on AF, you need to have either 14 days with no unprotected sex and a negative pregnancy test, or 2 negative pregnancy tests 14 days apart with no unprotected sex in between. one neg. pregnancy test is NOT good enough when you are going to take Provera for this very reason. YOu may just be in the very early days before the pregnancy registers on a test. It is totally possible to have a negative test one day and then a positive test the next.

[tarasue]

Thanks atomic! I kinda thought they were jumping the gun, I thought they should at least do a sono to make sure that I hadn't ovulated b4 handing out clomid. I requested them do the blood pregnancy test, they had already given me the Rx and didn't think a test was necessary.... I am at fault as well, I was getting ansy having such a long cycle. Fingers crossed this is the real deal!!

[2boysJustOneGirl]

Wishing you luck!

[Ugee]

Congratulations tarasue! Fx for a healthy pink pregnancy!

[MyByC]

OMG! Tarasue, thats awesome!!!! So happy for you!

[Junie]

Awesome!!!! What a great outcome to a frustrating cycle. Congratulations Tarasue :)!

[Junie]

I'm sure your levels were just too low on Tues for it to show up on a blood test due to it being too early. I wouldn't worry about the Provera but I would be frustrated with your doctor.

[XXforhubby]

MyByC- how are things? I hope AF stays away! When will you test?

I keep having nausea in the morning after a long overnight fast and in between meals. I am trying not to symptom spot! TMI- I have noticed pinkish CM today. I am hoping it is not going to be pre-AF spotting.

FX for the rest of us ladies!!


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[yogi&booboo]

Good Luck XX!!!

Those sound like amazing symptoms. I hope this is it for you! :) Keep us posted.

[Junie]

Those symptoms sounds so good XX! You should test tomorrow if you have a few tests at home. :D

[MyByC]

XX, my AF came yesterday 😔
It seems that my Saturday spotting was to prepare me for AF...i'm day 2 already...sad but life goes on..so I hope next try is my lucky one.
Hope you are having just implantation bleeding 😘

[XXforhubby]

I keep feeling sick in between meals 😝. I hope AF is not playing a cruel joke on me! I would feel better without the pink CM. I just hope it doesn't ramp up to my pre-AF spotting. I'll keep you all posted! I will definitely test on Sunday- I'll be 12dpo then.

FX for all of us waiting to test!


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[MyByC]

XX, are you taking Clomid?

[XXforhubby]

No, I am not on Clomid. I just have wacky cycles since going strict on the LE diet in June. My RE won't give it to me until we have been having unprotected sex for a year, which will be next May. We have only been actively ttcing since August though.


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[XXforhubby]

My RE had me have an ultrasound to check my lining and for cysts, which came back normal. If AF starts, I go in for bloodwork to see what my prolactin and FSH levels are. I hope I get a BFP, instead 😃


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[MyByC]

Then this would be your implantation XX.
Rose/Brown spotting, I heard is normal for Clomid soooo this might be your implantation since you are not taking it.
Can't wait for the results!!
Let us knooow!

[Junie]

OK umm I am not counting this as a positive yet but I definitely see a faint 2nd line. It's still so early but I will do more cheapies the next few days and a digital on Sun. I can't believe it, now of course I'm thinking of how much I've relaxed on diet and exercise these last days and hopefully that doesn't ruin everything. It is also still so early that I know it could end up being a chemical or nothing so I'm not going to tell DH.
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[MyByC]

OMG!!! Thats superrr Junie! Great!! Good luck!

[MyByC]

I just wanted to know the other girls around who are doing the same mistake as I did regards ultrasounds....
The reason I didnt got pregnant this try was because of the gel that my Gyneco used for transvaginal ultrasounds(the day of our BD and the next day at confirmation)..huge quantity, as you all know, they all are using....
It seems that it's toxic for sperm...so of course no fertilization could be made :((
Stupid thing I did.
Just wanted you to know so you dont copy my mistake!

[Junie]

Oh gosh MyByC- I am SO sorry. How terrible and I would never have even thought about it.Thanks for sharing. Now you have everything in place for your next cycle to be your BFP girl cycle!!

[Junie]

I used first morning urine and I was expecting nothing. I mean it really is too early. But you can also test in the afternoon if you can hold it quite a bit. I think personally that anytime after 10DPO you can start testing and if you are lucky get a faint line. However I know some women also just start producing the HCG later and it doesn't mean anything. With both boys I had light BFPs at 10 DPO and dark lines by 12/13DPO. Digital also around 12/13 DPO. But I know some women who don't get a BFP until 14 DPO or more. I really only did it because a friend has a birthday party tonight and if it had been negative I would have felt comfortable drinking a bit more.

[MyByC]

Yes, I'm sad only thinking at it and remember it how stupid I was...Stupid stupid stupid! 😩

[Junie]

You weren't stupid MyByC, why didn't your doctor say anything? How should you know? :(

[Boysway]

Junie, looks like congrats are in order. Wishing you sticky thoughts :D

MyByc, that's great thinking on your part. Terrible for the person that did the u/s. I truly hope next month is your month.

[MyByC]

Thank you girls 😘

[2boysJustOneGirl]

Congrats junie!

[2boysJustOneGirl]

Wondering how tarasue made out?

[missxo143]

I can join all you finally :) , made an attempt last night :)

Have been really sick for the past 2 in a half weeks, hopefully it will help my sway

[XXforhubby]

Congrats Junie!! I hope for a sticky bean!

MyByC, I wouldn't have thought of that either! FX for next cycle.

I still have pink discharge when wiping. I fear it will lead to pre-AF spotting. For some reason I am losing hope....😞


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[True Blue]

Congrats Junie :)

Good Luck ladies waiting to test :)

[Junie]

Welcome missxo143! Funny that when swaying pink it is actually not a bad thing to be sick :D

[Ugee]

Congratulations junie! Hope it's your pink dream in there! :)

[tarasue]

Congrats junie!!!! Woohoo for you!

MyByC- I would be irate with my doctor!! That's ridiculous!
You wonder if they are thinking things threw sometimes?

My ob just called and the blood test I did yesterday was positive!!! Still in complete shock! I have another blood test Monday to make sure my numbers are doubling.

The spotting I had Tuesday must have been implant bleeding. What's is nuts is that I had more pregnancy symptoms the week leading up to ovulation than I've had this last week. And maybe I just wasn't looking for symptoms because I was pretty sure I wasn't pregnant!! This last week I've had more pulling/cramping, a different nausea(higher in my stomach than before & I have had to swallow hard a couple times to keep myself from gaging) slight pain in bbs, tingling in uterus area(like little sparklers going off) and slight headache. Oh and loose stools started last night...... Sorry tmi!


Both my husband and I have family in town this weekend and I want to keep this little secret in, I'm going to try to hold off telling even him until Monday after my next blood test.

Thank all you ladies for your support and fx to all of you that positive are coming your way and sticky beans in the gender you have been trying for!!!

[True Blue]

Tarasue congratulations and best of luck :)

[2boysJustOneGirl]

I knew it!!! I was so sure you were prego right from the start! Congrats!

[yogi&booboo]

Congrats junie!!!! Woohoo for you!

MyByC- I would be irate with my doctor!! That's ridiculous!
You wonder if they are thinking things threw sometimes?

My ob just called and the blood test I did yesterday was positive!!! Still in complete shock! I have another blood test Monday to make sure my numbers are doubling.

The spotting I had Tuesday must have been implant bleeding. What's is nuts is that I had more pregnancy symptoms the week leading up to ovulation than I've had this last week. And maybe I just wasn't looking for symptoms because I was pretty sure I wasn't pregnant!! This last week I've had more pulling/cramping, a different nausea(higher in my stomach than before & I have had to swallow hard a couple times to keep myself from gaging) slight pain in bbs, tingling in uterus area(like little sparklers going off) and slight headache. Oh and loose stools started last night...... Sorry tmi!


Both my husband and I have family in town this weekend and I want to keep this little secret in, I'm going to try to hold off telling even him until Monday after my next blood test.

Thank all you ladies for your support and fx to all of you that positive are coming your way and sticky beans in the gender you have been trying for!!!

OMG Tarasue!!
Thats absolutely great & fantastic news!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I had a feeling no doubt about that! Wishing you a healthy 9Months!!!!

[yogi&booboo]

Congratulations Junie!!!
OMG I am loving all of these BFP's. Its all this loving thats in the air :)

[Ugee]

Well my body is playing silly buggers with me. Just had quite a lot of ewcm in my underware when I went to the toilet just now!!! Wth!? (Sorry for tmi) Now I don't even know where I am in my cycle! Grrrr!

[MyByC]

Tarasue, I dont think doctors even think at this...
My usual doctor do not do this tranvaginal but abdominal and he always sees good but all the other doctors I went (because my doctor was out of city) they didnt accept doing abdominal...so I guess this was my unluck.

So happy for you. Glad it's your little baby cooking in there. ❤️❤️

[Junie]

Ugee I have gotten what looks like EWCM on pregnancy cycles after O. I think it is just excess mucus which is being used to make the plug.

[Ugee]

Thanks junie, I now remember you put you had to use an opk! And now you've got your fab BFP! I've got other symptoms like dizziness but I just don't "feel" pregnant. Before with my other pregnancies I just knew. Think this month my body is just trying to sort itself out after coming off bc in October.

Poor you MyByC, how frustrating! Lesson learnt, wisdom gained. Not fair though.

[Junie]

Friends brought their 9 week baby to the birthday party and it totally reminded me why I want to have a third child and why I will be totally fine if it ends up being another boy. The baby was so cute and adorable and I just wanted to snuggle and cuddle with him :)

[tarasue]

I knew it!!! I was so sure you were prego right from the start! Congrats!

Thanks!!! I wasn't pregnant from the start, but finally got here:) had some horrendous sharp pains today and I was sure I was loosing it, so fingers crossed this little bean stays put(no matter pink or blue!)!

Now to now blow my cover, the no drinking will give me away pretty quick:/

[essnce629]

Oh my Tarasue, what a turn of events!!!! I hope you have a sticky bean in there and shame on the doctor for jumping the gun with the provera. Congrats!!!!

[essnce629]

And Junie-- Congrats! I definitely see two lines there! I bet you'd get a nice dark line on a FRER!

[Junie]

Essnce629- I don't think so :( I have to wait a bit longer. I only have IC from another brand now and I got a very clear BFN this morning. I'm not worried because it really can't be any later than 8DPO but I'm not going to waste a good test yet. I just have to be patient and hope that things become clearer in a few days :)

[kitkat18]

Congrats junie soooo happy for you xx
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[MyByC]

Junie, to me things show pretty clear! Just wait a little while and test maybe Tuesday??

[Junie]

I sure hope that I'm pregnant as I've completely dropped the diet today. I'm going to have cheese and baguette, chips, and salad for dinner LOL. But my back aches, I feel nauseous, and I don't care ;)

[XXforhubby]

Looks like I am out. Moving on to December. Good luck ladies waiting to test!


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[Junie]

I'm so sorryXX. I hope you get a big BFP for Christmas!!

[MyByC]

XX, I'm there with you honey 😔
Hugs 😘😘😘

[Ugee]

Oh no xx! Sorry to hear. Have a large glass of wine. Will probably be joining you as for me all early symptoms are non existent! BFN this morning. Will wait to test again on Wednesday when af is due. Good luck for everyone else testing!

[XXforhubby]

I am not sure what is going on. The spotting has stopped. I guess I will wait and see if AF shows on Tuesday! Bloody bodies!


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[tarasue]

That was a good sign for me xx! It really confused me at first, but all makes since now:)

[Junie]

Ooh I hope you get a BFP XX!!

[Boysway]

Fingers crossed XX

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[mina108]

I've been out of the loop for 5 plus days with my parents visiting. And its been eventful.

An hour before they showed up, I POAS, because I just knew and couldnt wait any longer, and sure enough, I got a faint BFP at 8DPO!!! I was reluctant to post yet because I had two chemicals in a row the prior 2 months, and I was waiting for the line to get darker. It did get darker, and I was so excited, but I also started spotting that day too. So I tried to stay hopeful and prayed that AF wouldn't come. POAS, FRERS, every morning to keep my spirits up or prepare for the worst.

Today feeling less hopeful its gonna stick. For two days my tests are not getting darker, even a little lighter. Now I just dont know. I keep telling myself its a different pack of FRERs, I didn't hold my urine as long, but deep down I'm starting to think its soon to be over. My cramping also seems to be worse today. I just really hope AF doesn't come. When I saw that line get darker I was beaming, and now I am just so sad.

[Hopefull15]

Hi Ladies. Can I join in please? I am joining you in the 2ww. I am looking forward to chatting with you.

[Hopefull15]

I will keep everything crossed for you Mina108. I have just had two back to back losses so I know that horrible feeling of not seeing the line darken (and in my case lighten before disappearing). Hoping to hear good news. :bighug:

[MyByC]

Mina, I'm sending you hugs and love. Stay strong 😘 Don't loose hope.

Hopefull, welcome!
Let's hope this is your month 😘

[Junie]

Mina108- Different tests can make a BIG difference. I got a faint BFP 2 days ago but didn't have any more tests from that brand of IC, I've only gotten BFN with my other brand so far :( I would try to relax and maybe even take a break from testing for a day or two. I also always had intense cramping with both my sons, so that doesn't have to be a bad sign! I really hope this is it for you!!

Hopefull15- I hope that this is your cycle a for a healthy sticky bean :)

I've had another negative on my IC this morning :( However I can't be more than 9DPO so I'm really hoping that it is just too early.I WISH I had more IC from the brand I tested with on Friday but I don't and ordering more would take too long anyway. I'll just have to hold out a few more days. Good luck to everyone else!!

[Hopefull15]

Thanks Junie, fingers crossed & Good luck when you test again. I hope this is your month too :fx:

[Boysway]

Good luck ladies. Sending bfp dust your way.

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[XXforhubby]

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I am in shock!! I am 12dpo and still lightly spotting. I am excited on one hand and nervous on the other hand. I may make an appointment tomorrow. I wonder if exercise has anything to do with it- it went away yesterday but came back after working out. It is only VERY light and pinkish red, sometimes orange.

Thoughts? Cautiously optimistic!

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[Boysway]

Woo hoo :) Congratulations. Wishing you sticky thoughts XX

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[Junie]

That is just baby snuggling in! Congratulations!!! :) I would not be worried although that is much easier said then done! Yay XX!!!

[Ugee]

Awww congratulations xx! Fantastic news! Won't be seeing you in the next 2ww after all ;)

[MyByC]

Congrats! Congrats! Congrats!!!!!
XX, were you taking Clomid? I think you answered me before?

[XXforhubby]

MyByC, I was not taking Clomid or anything. I sure hope it sticks! I have been spotting lightly, pinkish red, for two days now. FX!

I am hoping and praying that the rest of you ladies get your BFP's soon!!


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[MyByC]

Sending you lots of hugs and love ❤️ So happy for you!
I guess I'm the only one with a BFN for this month 😔

[sageviolet]

MyByC, I'm still here with you waiting for my bfp! Actually waiting to O again, so that's why I've been quietly listening.

Congrats to all the lucky ladies and hope you all have sticky beans!

[XXforhubby]

MyByC and SageViolet, I believe this next cycle will result in a BFP. Stay strong- I know it will happen for you. It has taken 5 cycles for me, and I am still keeping my fingers crossed it sticks! I wasn't doing any crazy swaying stuff either just diet, exercise, fiber, folic acid, and either BD every 4 days or BD at pos. opk.

Hugs and lots of positive thoughts your way!!


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