December 2WW

[yogi&booboo]

Hi Ladies,

Just wanted to get the December 2ww started. I know there will a few of us here so please feel free to join in and welcome to all the new ttc gals. Good Luck everyone and I am keeping my finger's crossed everyone gets a nice christmas present.

[Junie]

Good luck everyone!

[XXforhubby]

Waiting for AF to end after this chemical to, hopefully, get a pos opk. I enlisted Atomic's help- I just bought a personalized plan to see if there is anything we need to do differently.

FX that we all get our BFPs! I haven't been trying as long as you Yogi, but I know I am a close second at cycle 6!

I sent you my blue baby dust Yogi!


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[EmileeJane]

I'll be here! I was in last month's group and cannot believe how many gals good BFPs! So jealous and of course happy for them:)
I did end up having to get a Kenalog injection for a crazy allergic reaction but I spoke with my OB and he said it is a green light for baby making.
tested today but neg opk! Hopefully pos soon! Best of luck gals!

[kitkat18]

Good luck everyone XX

[yogi&booboo]

Thank-you!! Xx & I send all of my pink dust. Even if I get a fourth pink I will be A-Ok with that. I already have a named picked out just in case lol.

[Junie]

Ooh will you share your name? Or prefer to keep it private? I totally understand either way. Emilee: I'm glad you got the OK to try this cycle I hope you O soon!
Yogi and XX- I feel for you both so much. TTC is hard, Swaying is hard, GD is hard and then you have to deal with it taking so long and it just all isn't fair. Christmas babies/BFPs are definitely in order!! :) I wish I could not think about TTC for awhile but I think about it all the time. Do you ladies have tricks for thinking of something else?

[XXforhubby]

Yogi and Junie, I too have a boy name picked out, just in case!

I have been swaying so long that I don't count anything anymore, unless I am adding new girlie recipes, because I find I stay under totals that way and don't obsess either. I just bought a personalized plan and have the 21day meal plans, and I am counting things again to get a feel for it. My husband also started LE diet last month. He is very supportive and my pen name says it all- a girl is more for him than me. I would love the experience, but I also simply adore my boys and love their energy.

To better answer your question Junie, I am just at peace with the process. At peace with it taking the time it is supposed to. I think it is great it is taking so long for me, since I was so strongly set for boys before swaying. I take it my chances are high now for a girl. I am also at peace with having another boy. We told each other before swaying that if we want a girl, we should adopt. If we want another baby, then let's try on our own.

Hope this helps! Sorry it is so long [emoji15]


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[Junie]

Wow! I find you have such a fantastic outlook XX. Really lovely. I also think your names are great, very classic and timeless. I'm going to try and think with your mindset and hopefully some of your patience will rub off onto me :)

[XXforhubby]

I believe it is the LE diet! I was so inpatient, competitive, controlling, and aggressive before going on the diet!


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[sageviolet]

Hugs for you, XX! I'm sorry about the chemical, but your optimism and outlook are amazing. I'm sure good things are coming to you soon!

Good luck, December ladies! I got my smiley face opk+ this morning, cycle 4 of attempting. This is the same time of year dd was conceived, so hopefully my body is with it this season (I got sick last month), and hopefully blue dust for me this time! Any advice on how to be more competitive, controlling, aggressive and all that other good high testosterone boy sway stuff? lol I've got impatient down -- I'm very impatient for my bfp!

[XXforhubby]

I think it must come down to diet, SageViolet. I used to have cereal or oatmeal for breakfast, then a Kashi granola bar for a snack, then a turkey sandwich with veggies and potato chips and an apple for lunch, then a snack of walnuts and raisins (that was my favorite!) or a banana, then I would have a decent dinner something with lean ground beef or chicken with a pasta or potato and a veggie (we also cooked everything with olive or extra virgin olive oil) and THEN a snack before bed of either cereal (God I loved my cereal!!!) or 1/4 cup oatmeal with a 1/4 cup of dark chocolate chips melted in. I GUARANTEE if you do these the rest will follow!!! No wonder I have two boys! I was never over weight, 125 at 5 feet 4 inches BMI 20.8, but with lifting weights for 30min then doing 30min of cardio, you WILL become more aggressive/competitive! Plus, it will increase your sex drive! We had sex every other day after AF for both boys.

At least I believe all of that to contribute to me getting boys and my personality. Since switching to the girl diet, I am SO different!

Hope this helps! I can give you some more recipe ideas too from what I used to eat. Just let me know!


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[Junie]

I also used to snack all the time and eat whenever I was hungry and whatever I was hungry for. I was always thin but quite active too. I LOVED charting (a great way to obsess and think you have more control over something than you do- which is great for boy moms LOL). I'm not competitive at all so can't help you there :D

[yogi&booboo]

Lol Junie yes of course I will share.

I am stuck with Gracy Marie. My mom is Grace in Spanish and my mother in law is Marie in spanish. I want to combine both in english because this would be my last daughter and I want to name her after both moms. I also love Josie. This would also be a name I would consider because the DH loves that name for a girl. If a boy he will be Cesar. :)

[kitkat18]

I also used to snack all the time and eat whenever I was hungry and whatever I was hungry for. I was always thin but quite active too. I LOVED charting (a great way to obsess and think you have more control over something than you do- which is great for boy moms LOL). I'm not competitive at all so can't help you there :D
Sounds just like me Junie when I conceived DS 1 and 2!! X

[Junie]

Ooh I love that name and Josie. Both sound sweet and fun. I'm so frustrated that AF isn't here yet. Technically it should come by today or tomorrow at the latest and I know having a long LP is a good thing but I just really want to move on to the next cycle. Plus I'm so frustrated that my body tricked me into thinking I was pregnant. I should have known better, I'm sure a girl mom wouldn't test early and would be zen about the whole thing :)

We don't have a girl or boy name that we agree on yet. We love the names we finally agreed on for our boys but haven't had a third name come up so far where we thought it fit perfectly.

[yogi&booboo]

I feel you Junie. I lost count with how long my cycle has been since my chemical in September. I think its now over 50 day. I will test wednesday. It would put me maybe 16 dpo. I am tired of testing so it will either be af before I bother testing. Aww how exciting to think of baby names. I cant wait to smell my baby if and when I get a bfp lol

[Junie]

Well I hope this long cycle is lucky for you! I know Oing on CD41 brought us our first happy healthy son :)

[EmileeJane]

Okay gals do you think. . .
I am on day 13 of cycle. Last night and this morning I had a bit brown discharge. I predict to O on day 16. I sort of think late period discharge since it kind of abruptly stopped. But it was 5 days long and I haven't had brown in any previous discharge. DH and I had sex 2 nights ago but it wasn't rough or anything.
Any ideas???

[srg09cag11]

Why is a long cycle lucky? I o'd on CD 9 or 10 this month according to my opks, so it's been more like a three-week wait! It's driving me crazy!

[Junie]

Emilee : I've never had that before, but I have had random spotting/ breakthrough bleeding on the pill. Are you taking any supplements that could be affecting your cycle?

[Junie]

A long cycle can be really frustrating as you may have multiple surges of positive OPKs and not actually Oing and it can be hard to stay motivated and keep your timing on. So I was just hoping it would at least bring a nice fat BFP for yogi.

[EmileeJane]

I'm not taking any new supplements but I am on antibiotics. Hmmm I'm such a nut job crap like this always makes me think I'm dying!
Sageviolet- I'm also on my 4th cycle ttc. Hope we are lucky this month!

[XXforhubby]

Here we go ladies! AF is leaving to visit someone else! I hope I get lucky and get a BFP after the chemical I just had. We are beginning to BD every four days until Atomic finishes my plan.

Here's to putting ourselves out there again for our babies to come join us!


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[Junie]

Good luck this cycle XX!! I'm still waiting for AF but trying to be relaxed about the wait.

[Grace]

Hi ladies, I think i'm ready to join you. We just had our attempt yesterday morning!! I'm kind of shocked, cause DH was giving me a hard time about trying for another baby ( we have 3 boys), and then yesterday I brought it up again and somehow he just went along with it. Good luck everyone !!!

[Junie]

That is great Grace! Good luck this cycle :)

[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Yogi and Junie, I too have a boy name picked out, just in case! Mine is Oliver Lawrence, and I think it goes well with my others- Elliot James and Isaac Thomas😀!

I have been swaying so long that I don't count anything anymore, unless I am adding new girlie recipes, because I find I stay under totals that way and don't obsess either. I just bought a personalized plan and have the 21day meal plans, and I am counting things again to get a feel for it. My husband also started LE diet last month. He is very supportive and my pen name says it all- a girl is more for him than me. I would love the experience, but I also simply adore my boys and love their energy.

To better answer your question Junie, I am just at peace with the process. At peace with it taking the time it is supposed to. I think it is great it is taking so long for me, since I was so strongly set for boys before swaying. I take it my chances are high now for a girl. I am also at peace with having another boy. We told each other before swaying that if we want a girl, we should adopt. If we want another baby, then let's try on our own.

Hope this helps! Sorry it is so long 😳


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Thank you for sharing this XX! I love the way you look at it and it is inspiring because I have trouble sticking to LE and exercise. I dropped the diet because I didn't ovulate anymore and I'm waiting for AF to show so I'll know where I am in my cycle and I can start again
I'll keep your spirit in mind as a reminder that LE shouldn't have to be bad all the time

[XXforhubby]

Blue-Blue-Pink, thank you! You are so sweet! We are all in this together! If you need anything, I/we are here to help! I have become real creative with the diet and have amassed some yummy recipes! That helps!

GL with those having attempts or waiting to test! I am feeling like December is going to be the best yet for BFPs!


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[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Thanks XX. I'll keep that in mind!
I'll probably start january again

[XXforhubby]

Well ladies, I will get my plan from Atomic today! I found out my hormones are all out of wack from a supplement I have been taking for years. Why it took now to occur, I have no idea, but at least I can work to fix it. What it means is it will probably take me a few months to be able to conceive. The RE wanted me to take DHEA, but I am more comfortable increasing my hormones naturally through diet- which takes time.

We will keep ttcing though to catch the golden egg! GL to the rest of you ladies- keep the BFPs coming, because you give me hope it will happen for me 😊!


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[Junie]

GL XX! It is great to have a plan :) I hope your BFP comes soon even with the changes taking awhile. Sometimes just the act of changing things can be enough :)

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[yogi&booboo]

Thats awesome XX !
Hopefully this will be it and you will finally get your bfp. ! Good Luck!!!

[yogi&booboo]

I have never been this excited to see AF. Just went to the restroom and saw pink spotting. What a sigh of relief. This cycle was 59 days to be exact. CD1 for me and a fresh start. My chemical in September threw my cycle way off :(

[XXforhubby]

I am glad you can start fresh Yogi! I feel for you- it is bittersweet. I sure hope and pray that your little man is ready to join your family! FX you get a Christmas surprise 😊!


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[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

I totally get you yogi! My cycle was the same and AF finnaly arrived yesterday! Fresh new cycle although I'll wait ttc for next year. I will not ask to much of myself going through the holidays on LE diet...
I hope you get your bfp this year though!

[EmileeJane]

Oh boy ladies. My body is on such a ride. I told you I had to get steroid shot for allergies... well 9 days after getting it I started spotting mid cycle. I have heavy spotting still, 5 days later.
I never got a pos OPK and it's too heavy for sex now anyway. I messaged my Ob and he thinks the shot screwed up my LH and I'm stuck in 'anovulatory purgatory'. How fun does that sound when you're On your 4th month TTC! He said it may take 4-5 weeks to straighten out. And if my next cycle is still wonky he wants to put me on something to even hormones out.
I talked with a friend who always has good positive advice. She told me to sit tight and maybe what's waiting down the road is even better than I am experiencing or could ever imagine.
So I am out again this month. Hope to be back next month, fx!
Good luck to you ladies!

[XXforhubby]

EmileeJane- I hear you! I have been ttc 5 cycles now and I had one AF 17 days after another! Needless to say I didn't ovulate that cycle. I had a chemical this past cycle, #5, and I am doubtful about this cycle. My FSH is astronomical, but all my other hormones indicate they are fine. So I am waiting for the fertility diet Atomic put me on to take effect on balancing things. I got preggo with my boys right away, so I feel that this is all good for my little girl! I NEVER was patient before, so I hope this is a good sign!

GL to us waiting to test, opk or BFP, and FX for those that have gotten a BFP for a healthy, sticky bean!!


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[Junie]

Oh Emilee that is so frustrating and I hope it takes only days and not weeks to straighten out!
Yogi- I'm so happy you can start afresh this cycle and hopefully get that Christmas BFP!

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[Rosie85]

Bfn for me today. I believe i am 10 dpo. I really do not feel pregnant so i bet i am out. Onto cycle 5 then i guess.

[Junie]

Don't give up yet Rosie. I've got everything crossed that it is just still too early.

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[XXforhubby]

Rosie, I would wait to test again when AF would be due, or the day before. I bet it is too early! You and Yogi are next to get preggo!

Come on healthy sticky beans!!!


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[yogi&booboo]

Xx I wish you the same too. I hope and pray we all get a wonderful christmas present.

Blue-Blue-Pink I am glad I am not alone. It feels wonderful to start fresh. Thank-you and i hope you get your bfp when you start back up again!

Im super duper happy I am no longer I passed my girls and me and the dh's bday months. My two girls are both June and my dh and I are both July anything before or after those months would be great.

Rosie don't give up. Sending you big hugs 💖

Good Luck everyone else in the December 2ww! :)

[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Don't give up rosie! Especially if you are not sure how many dpo you are so it's probably still to early!

I am sorry to hear you are struggeling emileejane, I hope everything will sort itself out very soon.

[Mars]

Hi all. Mind if I join? DH got a bit excited last night and we had an attempt except we did nothing to sway so I'm annoyed at him. I'm on CD14 so right on O day too. It's going to be a long 2 weeks!! AF is due around the 16th Dec.

[sageviolet]

xx - Thanks for all the great advice! I will take you up on those recipe suggestions if I get a bfn. I struggle with eating. I am not a snacker, I'd rather eat big meals that I'm hungry for and appreciate. I like to always eat a big breakfast, light lunch, and big supper. I was battling Lyme when I had my daughter, so I know I was underweight and eating very few grains. Also, dh had a hot shower right before. We weren't swaying, but I remember that because I was concerned he would kill the swimmers and told him he couldn't do that when we were ttc! It was a surprise, I really thought I couldn't get preg since I was still on the herbal meds but I knew I'd be off of them by the time I found out, so I took a chance.

Rosie, how are you?

I've been sick again, another cold from dd. Blah. This time it hit during implantation, not O day, so maybe it's ok? I'm in the 2ww now, 7dpo. I will start testing soon and keep you posted.

[XXforhubby]

Welcome Mars! Were you ttc a girl or boy? FX for you!

SageViolet, GL! I was sick around implantation with DS2, and he is definitely a boy 😀!


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[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Welcome mars! I assume you're hoping for a bfn? Or do you hope for a bfp?

[keepthefaith]

Hi ladies can I join? I had my first attempt this morning and a positive opk three hours later so hoping and keeping fingers crossed for two weeks! I would LOVE a little lady to complete our family! Xx

[Mars]

We are trying for a girl. I thought we had decided to wait one more cycle and I'm just annoyed after months of being on a LE diet and reading about hot showers and positions etc we did everything opposite!! :(

[Cocosagirl]

Hello! Im glad to see that we are many holiday-swayers! I will ovulate around the 31 of december, so this will be my first christmas ever without gaining any weight. I am following my swaying plan by Atomic. I have been testing for ovulation sometimes over the last years, but I have never seen a positive test. But I know I have ovulated, because I have two boys from that cycles.. So I guess we have to do the baby-dance every 4. day. Sorry if my english is not perfect. Its not my first language.

[Grace]

Mars- the most important swaying factor is diet, I wouldn't worry about stuff like shower or positions, though I know the feeling- I keep second guessing our attempt all the time. I'm 7 or 8 dpo now, and I'm worried that the attempt was too close to my ovulation. I guess we'll know better in a week or so

[belleboi]

I had a temp spike this morning! If it stays up, it looks like my O day will be yesterday:)

Quick question...I was so stressed out yesterday (issues with my mom:() I was crying all day and just a general mess...do you think that could hut chances for blue? I know that's a ridiculous question but I can't help it, LOL. Actually...the last few weeks have been pretty stressful in general. I know IG thinks that stress is no good for TTC boy...

I was also super, super stressed out around the time we conceived DD2 (but I was also actively dieting, doing a lot of cardio, barely eating, losing weight...etc) so I guess this is where my apprehension is from.

[XXforhubby]

Belleboi- I would not worry one iota about that. My mom ALWAYS stressed me out around the time I conceived both of my DSs. I had a very boy lifestyle with them both, and I believe that sways more than any stress could any day!

GL and sending you tons of blue baby dust 😘


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[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Belleboi, I totally agree with XX, it won't mather. Worrying about being stressed might sway blue so it probably won't harm your sway

[Ugee]

Hi ladies, I'm meant to be ovulating in the next few days so fingers crossed. Been getting lots of ewcm so it's looking favourable. I am having to start a course of antibiotics today...do any of you know if it sways?

[XXforhubby]

Ugee- I will be ovulating within the next 2-4 days too! Atomic told me that antibiotics are fine and probably don't sway much either way. Old school thinking was they sway blue, but has not been proven. Being sick does sway pink though before ovulation, so that may be in your favor if you are swaying pink!

FX for all of us that we may finally get our BFP this cycle!!


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[XXforhubby]

Belleboi- I am hoping dealing with a billing error for over 5 weeks doesn't sway boy for me! Today was the first day I somewhat got angry at the representative! I am sure it won't effect my sway....I hope not anyway 😉


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[keepthefaith]

My OV test now gone negative! Eek now we wait and see if worked! If not will enjoy Christmas and try again next month!

Good luck girls!

[Ugee]

Funny we are at the same point in our cycle xx
Fingers are definitely crossed! :)

[sageviolet]

I've been having odd tummy sensations yesterday and today, but bfns when I tested. I'm only 9dpo today. I have unusually sore nipples (very hard to breastfeed this morning!) and odd cramps and fullness in my belly, even itchy skin there at times, so something is going on. I hope it's something good! I am totally recovered from my cold and feel great other than these odd sensations.

[XXforhubby]

SageViolet- I hope that it means you will get your BFP in a few days!


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[Junie]

I bet it is just too early and that you'll get a BFP very soon!

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[belleboi]

Belleboi- I am hoping dealing with a billing error for over 5 weeks doesn't sway boy for me! Today was the first day I somewhat got angry at the representative! I am sure it won't effect my sway....I hope not anyway 😉


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I was SO stressed out when we conceived DD2. I had so much anxiety around that time, was always angry, etc. Like I said above, my lifestyle was VERY girl friendly...so hopefully we are both just psyching ourselves out:)

[keepthefaith]

Oh fab someone to keep me sane as knows what I'm going through eagerly awaiting d day lol!! Are you feeling confident? How strict has your sway been? I've been doing LE DIET for three months and exercising 6-7 Times a week. Also taking the supplements and DH been doing his bit too.
Funny we are at the same point in our cycle xx
Fingers are definitely crossed! :)

[Mars]

Sounds like some positive news coming to some of you ladies soon!

Nothing new here, I am sick at the moment and work nights so hoping that works in favour of swaying pink.

[Grace]

I'm 10dpo today. I feel bloated and tired, and cranky!!! Every little thing makes me snap, my poor kids and DH probably think I'm mad. AF is due in a week and I plan on waiting till then to test. Good lock everyone xxx

[Grace]

I hope this is not TMI, but I just went to pee and saw a tiny streak of blood when I wiped. Could this be implantation bleeding??

[Junie]

That could definitely be implantation bleeding Grace- so exciting!

[MyByC]

Grace, thats great! You should take a test tomorrow evening after holding your pee for 5-6 hours.
Sage, can't wait you to tell us the BFP news...soooon.

[Ugee]

Oh fab someone to keep me sane as knows what I'm going through eagerly awaiting d day lol!! Are you feeling confident? How strict has your sway been? I've been doing LE DIET for three months and exercising 6-7 Times a week. Also taking the supplements and DH been doing his bit too.

I've tried to be a strict as possible but found it hard to start with to cut out meat, olives, avocardo's so slowly cut back. For the last 3 months I have not eaten them (apart from a small serving of chicken once a week) and stick to coffee in the morning, have toasted tea cakes/soup/crumpets/light cheese spread sandwich for lunch. Then for dinner I will eat sweet potato with a filling/stir fry/a rice based dish/pizza (a weekend treat)/basically lots of carbs and veg.
The snacking is difficult for me around 4pm I am just so used to eating crisps or nuts it takes a lot of willpower to not eat it!!! Still a working progress on that one if I'm honest.
I'm not exercising as I can only give enough time to moderate exercise which sways blue. I'm not really a couch potato (wish I could be sometimes) but always running around doing errands, housework, or playing with my boys so I'm not sure how that affects things either!?

Good luck to the mummies waiting to test...very positive symptoms by the sounds of things!

Gosh sorry for the Long post lol!

[sageviolet]

Ugee - Taking notes from you on ideas for what I should eat. Thanks!

Grace - We're cycle buddies! I'm 10dpo today, but my cycle is usually 12 so I'm expecting af in a couple of days.

My update - BFN this morning. Breasts are still sore and I felt nauseous after breakfast. Trying to stay busy and keep my mind off of it, so today I'm planning to wrap Christmas gifts. Tomorrow we'll bake cookies.

[Ugee]

I've just got a positive opk!!! (1st month using opk and it's always been faint 2nd line and now 'boom' it's darker than the other line)

Sageviolet-no probs it's a bit boring but I'm used to eating them now. I try to make sure I eat enough tho as worried about not ovulating or not being healthy enough to keep a sticky bean! I also drink a glass of coconut water a day for potassium :)

[keepthefaith]

Strange have had cramps all day today. Like AF on way but FAR too early! I reckon I am only 3DPO so far too early for any symptoms. Definitely cramp though. Mmm strange!!

[XXforhubby]

Ugee- I just got a positive opk too! Looks like we are cycle buddies!

FX for all of us ladies!!


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[Violette]

Hi everyone! I'd like to join as we are currently TTC#2 and hoping for a girl!! We are just hopping on the sway bandwagon (so neat!), so I am doing some swaying, not full out everything just yet. I am supposed to O on Friday, so hoping for a BFP for Christmas!!!

Nice to meet everyone!

[MyByC]

Welcome Violette 😊

[XXforhubby]

Welcome and good luck Violette!


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[Ugee]

Lol xx so we are! Good luck ;)

my husband is on his Christmas work do today so won't be home till very late and also will probably be more than a bit tipsy! So if we get a bfn this month I will know why :-/

[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Welcome violette and good luck!

[XXforhubby]

Ugee- remember that we ovulate 12-48 hours after we get the first positive opk! I think you have an excellent chance! I am not so sure about our chances. I had a chemical pregnancy last cycle, and I didn't conceive DS2 until the following month after a chemical. We'll see 😀!

FX!


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[Ugee]

Thanks XX here's hoping this month works.
If your ovulating then you can get pregnant...also I heard it sways pink after a miscarriage (just trying to think positive after a sad time for you) how funny it would be to get BFP on same day (wishful thinking) :)

[XXforhubby]

Ugee- that would be awesome! I would love to be due date buddies with you! I keep hoping each month I will get a BFP, but I haven't yet. Here's to hoping that cycle 5 is it for me!


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[Ugee]

I really do hope this is your month! It's only my 2nd month TTC pink so my spirits are still quite high but can imagine after a few more months it will get harder to not stop swaying and just get pregnant with whatever god wishes.

[AlliBalli11]

Good luck ladies!! Wishing you lots of pink baby dust!! XX thank you for pointing out that after a positive opk it's still 12 to 48 hours to actually OV as I've been so concerned about dtd too close to OV as I unexpectedly OV 5 days earlier than I normally do according to opk! :ttcgirl:

[XXforhubby]

No problem AlliBalli! Remember too if you ovulate early, you will get AF early too. Use your average LP as a guide for when to expect AF. Atomic reminded me of this a few cycles ago. Same hold true if you ovulate late- AF will come later too.

GL to all of us waiting to test- opk or BFP 😘!


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[keepthefaith]

I'm 3dpo now and hoping time goes quickly!

[MyByC]

XX, Ugee, how old are you ladies?

[XXforhubby]

MyByC- I am 35. And you?


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[MyByC]

27 😁

[essnce629]

Grace-- sounds promising! Good luck!

Good luck to everyone else waiting to test or O!

[keepthefaith]

I'm 35 x

[Mars]

Just turned 30.

[essnce629]

I'm 33 and DH is 32.

[MyByC]

Young mommies :-)

[Grace]

It doesn't seem real, but I'm 40 !!

[sageviolet]

Ugee - I was taking notes on what you used to eat since I want to sway blue, lol.

Ugee and XX - Hope you took advantage of those opk+s! Good luck!

essence - Nice implantation dip on your chart?!

Me - I'm 31 and 11dpo today. My past two cycles would indicate to expect af tomorrow. My temp was down some today and I'm losing symptoms, not as bloated and tender, and losing hope. But for the first time (this is attempt cycle #4, the longest it's ever taken) I'm not upset about it. I feel at peace. I believe my health is improving and it's bound to happen soon, right?

[QueenB3blue]

Hello ladies:) hope everyone is doing well! I just turned 33 last month;)

I finally stopped bleeding/spotting from my mmc a couple of days ago. It's funny because I am taking hpt hoping for a big fat negative!! So I am not really in the 2ww:) of course I want to try and catch an egg right away but I am pretty sure I have a yeast infection now:( I am treating it with yogurt. I am hoping this isn't going to put a damper on TTC pink. I am also nerves that I will ovulate while still having a positive hpt. Atomic says it's not possible, it's not that I don't believe her. I am just nervous to miss it.

Hoping to see lots of bfp for Christmas!

P.s. I hate 60 minutes of cardio!!!!

[XXforhubby]

SageViolet- if you need boy diet ideas, let me know. I used to eat SO differently than I do now swaying for a girl!

QueenB3blue- my heart goes out to you! I had a chemical last cycle. The cardio SUCKS when you have to get used to it again! FX you catch your golden egg!

I hope we catch our egg in a couple of days. We had our attempt last night. DH made me mad, because initially he said he was too tired. I got up and went to the couch, because I was so mad. After all this time, and all that I am doing so he can have a DD, and then he says he is too tired!!! He came out to get me, because he felt bad. Hopefully make up sex brings our BFP in a couple of weeks 😊!


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[yogi&booboo]

Grace-- sounds promising! Good luck!

Good luck to everyone else waiting to test or O!

Essnce!
How are you? How is everything? Have you been able to get some attempts in this cycle? Hope all is well, and really praying you get your sticky pink bean. :baby2:

[Ugee]

I've just turned 30 and DH is 42 (I like the older man ;) )

We had our attempt last night. My DH was very drunk from his work Xmas party tho but at least we had our attempt (I suppose he had no choice as would have been so cross otherwise lol).

I would have been furious like you XX if my husband said that but glad he came to his senses!

Good luck keepthefaith and hope your time waiting goes quickly!

Excited to hear other ladies BFP news too so here's hoping it's a successful month for us all!

I know this is probably a boy mum thought...I can't help but feel weird to only have one attempt! It's what I'm sticking too and find it great to see it's getting fantastic results but I so feel like I should have at least one more attempt. Will tell my boy making brain to hush down and 'just go with it' :D

I have plenty more food lists sageviolet (I used to eat) that suggest help make boys so ask away if your curious lol.

[XXforhubby]

GL Ugee! I really hope we all get out BFPs this month!


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[Grace]

Do you think I should test at 12 dpo ?? I feel like I'm afraid to test too early so I don't jinx it, kwim? Sure if it's positive then I want to know ASAP (and quit this LE diet finally) but if not I'd rather enjoy this blissful ignorance a few more days.

[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Exciting ugee and XX! Fingers crossed you get your bfp's for christmas!

I think 12 dpo is ok to test grace. When do you expect af?

[Grace]

AF is due next Monday or Tuesday

[MyByC]

I would test Grace. Just hold your pee and food for 5-6 hours and then test.
Let's hear good news!❤️

[Grace]

I tested today, 12 dpo with FMU and got a BFN. I'll wait a few days and see what happens, though I'm not optimistic at the moment

[sageviolet]

Glad you got your attempts in, XX and Ugee! I will let you know if I still need boy diet ideas or not. Af is due to tomorrow. I'm 12dpo today, tested with another bfn. My temp is holding steady. I feel like I'm hanging in limbo just waiting for that temp to fall or miraculously rise.

FX for you, Grace! It's still early if your cycle is normally longer. I know mine is a little short.

[QueenB3blue]

I had my blood drawn yesterday to check my hcg levels from my mmc. I am at 38. On day 22 counting first day of bleeding as 1. Finally got normal cm a couple days ago. I wish I had a better idea when I would ovulate:(

Good luck to everyone testing!

[Grace]

Thanks for the encouragement Sageviolet! I have a feeling AF is about to show earlier than expected. I had pink cm today and some minor cramping...
Hope to hear good news from you ladies!!

[XXforhubby]

Well apparently I had my first positive opk this morning on a wondfo and confirmed with a cb smiley face. We had an attempt 2 days ago...deciding now on attempting again tonight or tomorrow. My surge is usually 2 days long, so I am leaning on attempting tomorrow. Tomorrow will make the attempt on day 3 instead of 4.

GL ladies! Hang in there Grace and QueenB3blue!


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[keepthefaith]

Good luck ladies!

I have been having cramps for three days now but only about 5dpo so not sure why? Its constant as well. Not due af till around 13th. Driving me nuts!

[MyByC]

XX, I would BD today if I were you.
Good luck!

[bluebonnet22]

XX - if I remember you had a chemical last cycle? I would attempt after 3 days . On the cycle following my loss I waited 4 days (when really I should have had another attempt after 3 days based on when my OPKs were) and I totally regret it. I didn't get pregnant that cycle and I'm annoyed because it probably would have been better for my sway and would have saved me another month of diet and exercise!

[XXforhubby]

Thanks ladies! We will have another attempt tomorrow, which will be 3 days after our last attempt. My surge usually lasts two days, and I O within 24-36 hours after my second surge. I hope we catch the egg, but I won't be surprised if it takes me two more cycles. My FSH was four times as high as what it should be because of a supplement I had been taking (for non-swaying purposes). It may take a few cycles for my levels to come back down and to get a BFP.

FX we all get our BFPs soon- we deserve it for our hard work 😘!


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[essnce629]

I had my blood drawn yesterday to check my hcg levels from my mmc. I am at 38. On day 22 counting first day of bleeding as 1. Finally got normal cm a couple days ago. I wish I had a better idea when I would ovulate:(

Good luck to everyone testing!

QueenB-- I have read that you can O once your hcg level is under 50. I was still having + pregnancy tests when my opks went from - to +. My hcg was under 50 at that point. I didn't end up O'ing after my first LH surge though. I had miscarriage bleeding for 10 days, then +opks around my normal O time, but no temp rise and then my opks went negative again. A few days later I had another LH surge and +opks and ended up O'ing on CD21, which is 6 days later than normal. AF started on CD35 and lasted a little longer than normal (9 days). My miscarriage was a natural one at 7 weeks. I hope this helps. If I were you I'd start doing opks.

[QueenB3blue]

Essnce, thank you so much for that info! I thought I remember reading a few times that you can o with a little hcg left. Plus you have the trigger hcg shot that people take to make them o:) I feel so out of control:(
I almost started bding every 4 days as soon as my bleeding stopped. But I know 1 attempt at +opk is more ideal for a pink sway. Like everyone after a loss swaying pink I really really wanted to catch the first egg.
Before my loss my cycle were 21-24 days long and I usually o'd by cd12. My bleeding from my mc lasted for 19 days, the last couple was just spotting. I am feeling frustrated and hopeless at the point(hormones I am sure).

I also started up with a yeast infection as soon as my bleeding stopped. So now I am nervous that is bad for a pink sway also!

[essnce629]

I got a yeast infection immediately after my miscarriage as well. Treated it with a clove of garlic inserted daily for 5 days. ;)

[QueenB3blue]

I got a yeast infection immediately after my miscarriage as well. Treated it with a clove of garlic inserted daily for 5 days. ;)

I always think of giving this a try. But then don't follow through because I get nervous that it will get lost up there:-/

I am using yogurt right now:)

[sageviolet]

lol at the garlic! I haven't heard of that. I have heard of using yogurt.

My temp is down. I'm just waiting for af and seriously considering some resveratrol. I was on it for Lyme when I got preg with dd and when I took it this summer before ttc it gave me nice ewcm. Does anyone else take it? What brand and how much?

And I'll take those boy diet menu and snack suggestions now! I struggle with the snacking. I'd rather eat large meals.

[XXforhubby]

SageViolet-

Breakfast: oatmeal with blueberries, Kashi blueberry cluster cereal, or blueberry waffles (I love blueberries...I miss them!)

Snacks: Banana, kasha dark chocolate cherry granola bars, Luna chocolate chip cookie dough protein bars, grapes, or a protein shake. For dessert after dinner I LOVED 1/4 cup cooked rolled oats with 1/8 cup dark chocolate chips melted with 1/8 tsp of vanilla extract! It may not sound good, but try it- it's yummy! I loved walnuts with raisins too. I also had a square or two of Lindt 85% dark chocolate a day.

Lunch: turkey sandwich with Colby jack cheese and veggies with potato chips or leftovers from the night before.

Dinner: chicken or red meat of some sort. I loved steak fajitas, chicken tacos, lasagna, beef and noodles, or pot roast with potatoes and carrots. We ate a lot of broccoli, asparagus, tomatoes, and potatoes.

I always had breakfast within an hour of waking, a small snack before lunch, lunch, a small snack before dinner, dinner, and a small snack before bed.

If this is hard to do, try eating smaller portions at meal times. I always ate in small portions for meals, but I ALWAYS snacked in between. I think that is why I never struggled with the LE diet- I never ate a lot in one sitting.

GL! Hope this helps! Let me know if you need more ideas. I was never over weight, 125-135lbs BMI 21-21.6


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[QueenB3blue]

Sageviolet, eat nuts all day long and put extra cheese on everything;)

I am spotting this morning. I actually had some really bad cramping/sharp pain last night that woke me from my sleep. If I continue to bleed I will guess this is af. Who knows if I ovulated or not:-/ I have only gone about 3 days now without bleeding or spotting. So much for catching the first egg.......

Essnce, have you been able to talk DH into any attempt? This time last year my DH was completely against another child. It took him a while but he did come around:)

[sageviolet]

Thanks for the ideas, XX and Queen! Hmm, breakfast within an hour of waking? I don't see that happening. Maybe I need to figure out a pre-breakfast snack, lol! I can definitely do more cheese on everything, I love dairy. Nuts, I'm not so nuts about (except chestnuts), but that would be something quick. I will try oatmeal again, but it doesn't always agree with me. I'm gluten-free (and chocolate-free if you can believe such women exist, lol!)

I'm having some spotting, so I think af is starting. So I wouldn't be so bummed this time, I made a list of fun stuff to do when af arrived!

[Ugee]

Hi sageviolet, sorry to hear your temp dropped!

Tips on snacks: nuts, varied range too! I ate a banana every morning for my mid morning snack.

Breakfast: porridge (almond milk) with at agarve nectar and jojoba fruit sprinkled on top. Or peanut butter on toast (sometimes Nutella) cereal of choice if in rush.

Lunch:. Hearty vegetable soup/ tomato soup/ avocado on toast with a dash of balsamic vinegar (I miss this so much) /tomatoes and mozzarella with balsamic vinegar/ ham and mayomustard sandwich/ olives and sun dried tomatoes with a salad and couscous. Peanut butter sandwich with banana sliced (try it b4 diss it)

Dinner: lasagne!!!! / spaghetti bolognasse/ chicken fajitas/ curry/ chicken salad with avocado and olives thrown in/ jacket potatoes with cheese and coleslaw/ risotto!!! (God I miss my food lol) roasts every Sunday and pancakes with maple syrup and fruit on Sunday morning (family thing)

Just because: crisps and salted nuts with wine/mulled wine from Thursday to Sunday in the festive season build up.

I would say I ate a high good fat diet. I would cook with coconut oil mainly and olive oil sometimes depending on dish of the day.

[fivebabies]

Hi Ladies! Just popping in to say Hello. I was thinking I was soooooo incredibly old to be ttc. I assumed you all were in your 20s. lol.

So we ttc for 8 loooooooong cycles. We took a break last month and are skipping this month also. AF is due a few days before Christmas so I'll meet up with anyone in the January 2ww....but I really hope I don't see any of you there! Hopefully you will ALL get Christmas BFPs! :) Good luck!!!!

[XXforhubby]

I am now officially in the 2ww! We had our attempt last night, and I will either O today or tomorrow! I always get excited every month and hope to get a BFP this time. I won't be surprised if it takes a couple more months though. My hormones may need more time to balance out.

FX ladies that we will FINALLY get our much desired BFP!


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[XXforhubby]

I just realized that since I will O later than usual, AF is not slated to come until the 20th or the 21st! I will wait to test until I am sure AF is late, since I had a chemical last cycle.

GL ladies!


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[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Fingers crossed XX!

We'll meet up in the january or february tread fivebabys because I will have my first attempt also then!

[keepthefaith]

You could test Christmas day for hopefully a perfect gift!


I just realized that since I will O later than usual, AF is not slated to come until the 20th or the 21st! I will wait to test until I am sure AF is late, since I had a chemical last cycle.

GL ladies!


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[keepthefaith]

Im 7dpo and been having cramps and a throbbing pain deep in my (*)(*) if that makes sense! Never had this before. Not reading too much into but ever hopeful! Not sure how many conceive first time on sway plan!

[XXforhubby]

Thanks ladies! I'll keep you updated. Sounds promising Keepthefaith! I bet you'll get your BFP!!


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[XXforhubby]

I am not sure what is going on. I am still getting positive Wondfo opks! If I get another tomorrow, I will see if the CB digi gives me a smiley. I will keep BDing every 3-4 days in case my body is gearing up to O but can't. I think the supplement I stopped taking and the chemical last cycle is wrecking havoc on my hormones! Ugh!

I am not feeling hopeful about this cycle, since I am Oing late 😞.


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[MyByC]

XX, if you used the CB this month, dont use again same box. It might give false result. Just like it happend to me. Better try another stripe opk model same time with the Wondfo.

[maidentomother]

^XX means the digis, not the CBFM. I think testing with one is a great idea.

XX, if you Oed recently or will soon we could be DD buddies. I think I will O tomorrow though tonight or the day after tomorrow are also possible. I just had my one attempt very early (like 5-6am, the sky was just beginning to lighten the teensiest bit) today so I'm 'almost' in the 2WW. I will probably attempt again in 3-4 days to cover my bases unless I get a huge temp spike before then. I don't mind BFNs so I'll start testing on 8DPO, or maybe 10DPO...we'll see I guess. I don't like to get too obsessive about it.

Keepthefaith, will you be testing soon? I hope your cramps mean implantation.

Who else is waiting or will be attempting soon?

[XXforhubby]

Maiden- how are you feeling? I thought I Oed, but am not for sure. If I haven't yet then I will soon! We will keep attempting every 4 days, just in case. I don't feel good about this cycle, because I usually O sooner. Time will tell!!

GL ladies!!


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[keepthefaith]

I think I'm about 7/8dpo, got my Christmas night out on Saturday night so think will stay in ignorant bliss until morning after when I will
Officially be due af and test then! The throbbing chest and cramps have now gone so if anything they were implantation or totally nothing at all! Anyone else half way there to testing? X

[MyByC]

I'm so depressed...I feel down.
I'm without power and I just wish for AF to come once to stop all this pressure...

Update : I got a positive test with a cheap sensitive test(Thursday evening) - 9dpo....and a negative test Saturday morning (11dpo) with a sensitive expansive one...
Then I googled the first test and A LOT of womens are saying it is giving false positive....

I had no sings of pg...except for some cramps and small pains in the left or right...back pains on Thursday and Friday and soore boobs on Saturday!
I consider these being before AF symptoms...

My AF should be here tomorrow night or Tuesday morning😔

Just like 3girls sway, I fell I did everything for this to get a positive pg test(I know when I O-ed and had an attempt 3 days before and the exactlly O time)...I just dont understand WHY it didnt catch the egg? Why? 😩😩

[XXforhubby]

MyByC- Oh honey! I am so sorry for you! I know you are doing everything you can. Know there is nothing wrong with you or with what you are doing. I don't know what else to say, other than this is out of our hands. The good Lord knows what is in store for us, and I believe that we will get our BFPs...just when we are supposed to.

I have been struggling with this too, and I am working on exercising patience. I still get excited to try, but I keep remembering that it is in God's hands. I know that it will happen when it is supposed to, just not on my time. So I keep on trying everything that I can do, just in case my time is now.

Hang in there honey! We are here for you 😘!


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[yogi&booboo]

Hang in there MyByC we are definitely with you. I really pray it's your bfp.

XX I definetly agree with you. I feel like the Lord is wgo will make the decision when we will get our bfp. Good Luck and I'm prayi you will have a wonde Christmas present♡

[keepthefaith]

Don't give up hope hun, its still early xx


I'm so depressed...I feel down.
I'm without power and I just wish for AF to come once to stop all this pressure...

Update : I got a positive test with a cheap sensitive test(Thursday evening) - 9dpo....and a negative test Saturday morning (11dpo) with a sensitive expansive one...
Then I googled the first test and A LOT of womens are saying it is giving false positive....

I had no sings of pg...except for some cramps and small pains in the left or right...back pains on Thursday and Friday and soore boobs on Saturday!
I consider these being before AF symptoms...

My AF should be here tomorrow night or Tuesday morning��

Just like 3girls sway, I fell I did everything for this to get a positive pg test(I know when I O-ed and had an attempt 3 days before and the exactlly O time)...I just dont understand WHY it didnt catch the egg? Why? ����

[MyByC]

Thank you girls. It means a lot ❤️

[Junie]

MyByC- It is still early, please don't give up hope!

[MyByC]

Af and Ovulation have never been a problem to me.
14 day lutheal phase ends tomorrow :)
If tests have given negative results then I assume no implantation occured.
So I just have to get used with the idea that Christmas is a DIET time 😔

Thank you for your thoughts!

[Ugee]

I hope it's just early and you get you BFP MyByC!

I'm currently 5dpo and I feel nothing. I'm not obsessing as been very busy the last few days which really does help! I did wake up with cystitis feeling on Saturday tho that just went away by itself so that's the only odd thing so far.

I am currently wondering why I decided to TTC so close to Xmas and possibly over Xmas! Food is everywhere and I can't escape it :drama:

[XXforhubby]

Thank you ladies! I am trying to stay positive. I am going to wait to test until I am for sure that AF is late. That chemical last month really was disappointing.

I hope all us ladies get our BFPs, especially those of us that have been ttcing awhile. We deserve it!!


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[belleboi]

Well girls, I truly didn't think it would be my month with all the stress I was under on O day, but I got a very very faint line on a store brand similar to ept, then took a frer this morning and there are two lines! ahhhhhh!

[MyByC]

Congrats Belleboi!

[yogi&booboo]

Congratulations Belleboi! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months :)

[XXforhubby]

Yay Belleboi! Sending you my blue baby dust, and I pray for a healthy, blue sticky bean!!!

This makes my day ! 😊


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[MyByC]

My AF is officially here 😔
I guess I'll have to join new girls in January as well 😔
This will be my last month attempt.

[XXforhubby]

Oh MyByC! How come next month is your last month to ttc? I hope you get your BFP!

I may be joining you too. I had pink CM yesterday and brown CM today with some mild cramping. This usually how my pre-af spotting begins. It is a little early, since I Oed late. Who knows though, since my hormones have been so out of wack!

Hang in there- I know how hard it, but I know it will happen if we keep trying 😘!


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[MyByC]

I can't handle this stress and diet and everything else anymore...I lost too much weight(under my BMI) and my husband says I am tooo skinny, plus Christmas is comming and as you all boy's mamma know, we are the type who eat and snack etc...These last 15 weeks on LE/intense cardio and no meat in 6 months have been difficult for me...I was sooo sure I will get a BFP this cycle that I stopped gym also after the day of Ov just to not affect the egg or implant..so 2 weeks off for me at cardio which sways blue..plus I didnt ate 1200 kcal in these 2 weeks but went up to 1500-1800 (and this weekend before, did 2000)...and I cried like almost every day since Friday with a bonus of 2 hours extra today.....
I know I only have 2 cycles try and some ladies here have much more..but I am not that strong and I dont want to get to the point where I just want to be pregnant and gender dont count, cause thats why I did all this..to get a girl...

[MyByC]

And XX, I really hope you will not join me next cycle! Let's just think this was implantation time for you😘

[XXforhubby]

Oh honey! I know how hard it is! It sounds like you have lost too much weight anyhow, and you need to be eating 1500-1800 to not lose anymore. I wouldn't worry one bit about that! As far as a break from exercise, we need that from time to time. I don't think a break from exercise sways blue. I had to with my chemical. Atomic said a break doesn't hurt, because it cannot undo all you have done over the past several months.

I can understand if it is getting to be too much for you. It is hard to stay positive when it is taking so long. I hope you will get your BFP next month, or can find the courage to continue. I'll miss you!! 😘

FX!!!


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[maidentomother]

MyByC, I am sorry you are feeling so down! It is so hard dealing with things like this that are out of our control. I believe in God and very much in fate so that helps, but it's still frustrating especially when you know you did all you could. Most likely fertilization just didn't work out for some reason; that is extremely common. Fx for next month.

XX, I've had 3 days of positive OPKs (cheap strips) but my CBFM is still reading high, it just won't give me my Peak, argh. So our situations are even more alike it seems. But I think I will O later tonight or at the latest tomorrow. My CM and cervix are less fertile already so I'm glad I BDed yesterday. I understand waiting after a CP; I've never had one to my knowledge but I think if I had I'd be more bothered by testing early. I hope your spotting is pregnancy related and not AF.

Belleboi, big congrats on your BFP! Every time except once (5/6) I was totally surprised bc I had no symptoms. Our bodies/nature/God can be such tricksters.

[XXforhubby]

Maiden- crazy how our situations are so similar! I am not having any spotting yet, thank goodness!! My CM is more pinkish brown and only when I check- none is showing when I wipe or on a panty liner.

I think I Oed yesterday when I noticed my CM being pink in color.

FX for us ladies!!!


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[keepthefaith]

MyByC - Lets keep our fingers crossed that next month is DEFINITELY your month! We are all here to vent at any time and to keep each other right! Did you speak to Atomic about your situation, maybe she could give you some advice?

Belleboi - Many Congrats how exciting! Fingers crossed for you!

xxforhubbby and Maiden - Fingers crossed!

As for me, well 8dpo and time going very slow lol, finding it a bit of a struggle to stick as rigidly to diet and exercise as in 2ww its mentally different. Have done it more or less and getting back on it properly today incase I'm back to square one at weekend! Hoping I won't be but who knows!

[MyByC]

Keepfaith, the thing is my session has also expired on 30 November. Have asked for an extension and Atomic said she will do that for a small fee but she did not answered since 2 days ago at all on private message :( I need to wait to get in touch and continue with my plan. I feel so tired...

For how long are you ladies into this?
And how many attempts you had until now?

[Ugee]

I can't handle this stress and diet and everything else anymore...I lost too much weight(under my BMI) and my husband says I am tooo skinny, plus Christmas is comming and as you all boy's mamma know, we are the type who eat and snack etc...These last 15 weeks on LE/intense cardio and no meat in 6 months have been difficult for me...I was sooo sure I will get a BFP this cycle that I stopped gym also after the day of Ov just to not affect the egg or implant..so 2 weeks off for me at cardio which sways blue..plus I didnt ate 1200 kcal in these 2 weeks but went up to 1500-1800 (and this weekend before, did 2000)...and I cried like almost every day since Friday with a bonus of 2 hours extra today.....
I know I only have 2 cycles try and some ladies here have much more..but I am not that strong and I dont want to get to the point where I just want to be pregnant and gender dont count, cause thats why I did all this..to get a girl...

I'm so sorry MYByC! Really hope you catch your next cycle! Stress is a huge problem with conceiving so hope you feel positive for next month!
Sending hugs.

[Ugee]

XX- hope it's just implantation bleeding!

Maiden-fingers crossed for you too!

Belleboi-congratulations! Such lovely news and take my blue dust!

Keepthefaith- I also hope your BFP comes this weekend :)

[Junie]

Big big big hugs MyByC!! I'm so sorry this wasn't your month :(

[keepthefaith]

Atomic is mega busy but def will get back to you, when you're stressing everything takes longer so try not fret. I know with this 2ww it's all I can think about and time goes SOOO slow! Hope you're ok xx


Keepfaith, the thing is my session has also expired on 30 November. Have asked for an extension and Atomic said she will do that for a small fee but she did not answered since 2 days ago at all on private message :( I need to wait to get in touch and continue with my plan. I feel so tired...

For how long are you ladies into this?
And how many attempts you had until now?

[MyByC]

Thats such a wonderful feeling I have you all here with me. Thank you for everything. It means a lot.
Thank you to each one of you for the kind words..and a special special for my Cristina (she knows why ❤️).

XX, I have a feeling for you this month...😜
Girls around forum know my 'feelings' are always right 😄

Kisses😘😘

[MyByC]

Keepthefaith, I had wonderful time first 6 days after my ov. Went for a holiday trip in Istanbul with my BFF and her husband...It was amazing. I didnt thought at egg, implantation etc AT ALL. But when I came back, it was HORRIBLE!

[XXforhubby]

Keepfaith, the thing is my session has also expired on 30 November. Have asked for an extension and Atomic said she will do that for a small fee but she did not answered since 2 days ago at all on private message :( I need to wait to get in touch and continue with my plan. I feel so tired...

For how long are you ladies into this?
And how many attempts you had until now?

MyByC- we started ttcing officially this past August, so 4 months and 5 cycles. We have had 5 attempts. I recently bought a plan from Atomic after my chemical. Changed things up a bit!

I think it will take me 2 more cycles, since my hormones are out of wack. I am ok with that. I feel we will get our DD, since it is taking much longer than with my 2 boys. That helps me to keep going, plus my DH wants a DD so badly! I keep everything up so well, so if we get another DS, we will know we tried everything we could! I keep praying, and thanking God each day for my 2 boys. They are such gifts and extra special that they came to us right away! I couldn't live without them, and if they are all we are meant to have, I can't complain and feel truly blessed! My boys are the loves of my life!


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[XXforhubby]

Thank you ladies for your kind words! I sure hope you are right!

FX for all of us waiting! May we get our positive opks soon or our BFPs!!


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[MyByC]

XX, you are a fighter! A hero...
I admire you..
I dont know how much more my psihic can resist...I'm just down...
Good luck to everyone!

[belleboi]

Oh xx, you can have all my pink dust!

I guess I'm the opposite, I got pregnant with both DDs very quickly (first cycle off of BC with DD1, and second cycle off of BC with DD2 and we were trying to avoid...lol), but with this one it has taken 3 cycles and almost 5 very long months (I had a 56 day long cycle last time!)

Don't give up mybyc, I was really discouraged after my last 56 day long cycle, I was SURE this one would be just as long, and I ended up Oing on CD22-23. I know the girl diet is hard because I was dieting like that both times I got pregnant, but I truly believe it works. Good luck to you!

[XXforhubby]

Thank you Belleboi! I need all the pink dust I can get 😊!

By the way, I just sent you a truck load of my patented blue baby dust!!


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[Grace]

Hi ladies. I had little spotting over the weekend, pink at first and then brown, I was sure it was pre- AF , but then it stopped. AF is due today, but no sign of it yet. Telling myself it's just late (last cycle I was 4 days late) so I won't get too disappointed...I guess I'll chek again today or tomorrow, have to buy hpt. Good luck everyone and don't lose your faith!!!

[Junie]

That sounds so promising Grace!

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[sageviolet]

Grace - FX for you! Update please?

Belleboi - Congrats!!!

MyByC - *hugs* I feel your pain. I started preparing in March with monitoring my cycles, started supplements in July, and the diet August 1. Our first attempt was in August. We got pregnant so easily the other two times while battling Lyme disease, and I spent much more time preparing my body for this one, I'm so much healthier, but here we are on attempt cycle 5. I went through all the stages of grief about it: denial, anger, sadness. I rack my brain over what could've gone wrong and what I could do better. And ultimately, this past af the end of last week, I found peace with it. I heard a story recently: Two men asked when they would be reincarnated as whatever highest thing and the answer was 1000 lifetimes or something really high. One reacted by crying because it would take so long. The other started dancing because he was overjoyed that it would come eventually. I am a Christian, not a Hindu, but I appreciate the moral of this story, and I decided to be the one dancing. I also had a verse from the old hymn "Rock of Ages" stuck in my head lately, "Not the labors of my hands can fulfill Thy law's demands. Would my zeal forever show, Would my tears forever flow, All for sin could not atone, Thou must save and Thou alone." We can do everything in our power, but ultimately we have to hand our desire to conceive over to God. So I am still doing my best, but I realized that to be my best that includes a little indulgence here and there. If the gym isn't working for you, stop. Try a different activity. If you're underweight (I was with dd!), eat something. Atomic says one meal isn't going to sway one way or the other, it's over time. So please enjoy your Christmas. Do something special for you like get a massage or manicure or whatever will make you feel good. And you feeling good does help your sway!

[MyByC]

How would I feel without your sweet words? Depressed!
How do I feel now?
IN POWER 😄
Thank you AGAIN and AGAIN!
You are all so wonderful. I'd "kill" to have you ALL close and meet because only between us exist understanding...Around I find no understanding for my "sway".
People would laugh or say "hei, I ate plenty of meat and still have a girl. Haha"
I only live and do everything correct until my next attempt because of a hope...I hope...

Sage, such terrible with the Lyme disease. I am so sorry!! You are so strong! You deserve more then I am a BFP and still not crying like a baby (me).
I am a Christian to and I spent the last year reading books, forums, websites..EVERYTHING! Talked with a lot of doctors, changed them and so on...
I do pray..a lot and I know that only God decides.
I read something the other day regards egg, sperm and the divine connection named entity..which will be baby's soul. If it's not there when the other 2 are, then no fecundation occurs....
You have a DD and I have a DS.
I find it sooo easy in making a boy...and you must probably think the same in your case :))))
How's life :-)

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[XXforhubby]

Grace- FX for you! I hope AF stays away!

SageViolet and MyByC- I hope this next cycle is it for you two!

To all of us ladies that have been ttcing for awhile, I pray we can find peace and strength to keep trying for our little one!

❤️❤️❤️❤️


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[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Do you want to renew mybyc? Or do you want to talk to AS first? Because you can just pay and it will be renewed and your private forum will be answered quickly by atomic just as before.
You don't have to talk to AS first unless you want to

[MyByC]

Yes, I want to continue my private with Atomic.

[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Then you can just go to memberships and plans (in the green menu) and choose membership support renewal. That's all it takes, I think its something like 30 dollars, not sure
Good luck

[XXforhubby]

Agh! Twelve more days until I will test! 2 dpo, and I have a stronger appetite than usual. These crazy hormones of mine! I wish they would get back to normal soon! I have GOT to add fiber back in during the 2ww, otherwise I will eat myself out of a house and home! Lol! I think I will add in cinnamon in my morning coffee for insurance! This has never happened to me before during the 2ww. Thank goodness I am still doing exercise!

Counting down the days to AF so I can start over again.


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[MyByC]

Then you can just go to memberships and plans (in the green menu) and choose membership support renewal. That's all it takes, I think its something like 30 dollars, not sure
Good luck

It appears 60$ to me 😔

[MyByC]

XX, why are you so sure AF will come?
I am not 😊

[XXforhubby]

MyByC- I guess it is just a way to prepare myself. I know I have a good chance, but my day 3 FSH last cycle was a whooping 44.5!!! I feel it will take at least another 2 cycles to get it back down to a normal level. Thank goodness. I stopped taking that stupid supplement! Ironically, I don't have any of the symptoms that I had years ago that caused me to take it in the first place!

FX for all of us ladies!!!


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[maidentomother]

Grace & Keepthefaith, FX for you both that AF stays away.

Glad to see you're feeling a bit better, MyByC - it's amazing how much it helps to have others swaying with you who understand. Most people just don't get it.

My temp spiked this am and my O pain was so severe I slept badly (except for a super hot sex dream with one of my favourite fictional heros, Trent Kalamack - I almost NEVER dream due to meds I'm on so I was very pleased for multiple reasons!). I am still having O pain so I really hope I'm not releasing another egg, or if so that only one fertilizes. My CBFM is still giving me High but my OPKs are fading (though still positive, this is the longest surge I've ever had, 4 days in a row!). I had some almost AF like cramping too. But my CM is creamy and cervix is low, firm and closed so I consider myself 1DPO.

I started swaying in November 2013 and TTC Dec, Jan, Feb, and Mar with no luck. But 2 of those months I BDed too late, either O day or the day after O, bc of Oing the same day of my first positive OPK. Then I took a break from swaying over the summer. Technically I've been NTNP or TTC since Dec 2011, but I had my miscarriage and it messed me up a lot, and then I moved continents, so most of the time I wasn't really trying. I'm feeling more pressure now for sure.

[XXforhubby]

Maiden- My surge was 4 days long too! Almost exact same symptoms to a T, except I am 2dpo!

FX for us ladies!!!


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[keepthefaith]

Ladies have you had big O since ttc? We've been scared incase messes with acidity or whatever!! However needing some action lol!! Sorry if tmi ��

[MyByC]

KeepFaith, nope. I asked hubby to do it fast so I dont go in the oposite side :)))
I had O with my boy and I think it helped A LOT since I immediatelly J&D and did a shower, + it was a release with 4-5 days before my Ov. What a strong boy I have 😄

Maiden, I read that if a egg is fertilised, it instantly kill the other sperm around and make the other eggs to back up...
Are you taking Clomid?

Good luck to you and XX. Hope you have a beautiful Christmas gift.

[XXforhubby]

Keepthefaith- I have had the big O from time to time while ttcing. I didn't have the big O with my two boys, so I don't think it matters for me, anyway. I don't intend on having one when we have our attempts, but if I do, I don't freak out 😉!


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[maidentomother]

XX, crazy how similar we are this month! Maybe it's the full moon causing wackiness?

Keepthefaith, my meds prevent me from being able to orgasm. So no big Os for me. Very rarely, like once or twice a year, I might orgasm during a sex dream when my med levrls are at their lowest. Don't think I did last night though.

MyByC, thank you! No, I'm not on Clomid but I naturally hyperovulate and release 2 eggs every few months. And I haven't since August so it's highly likely, ugh. I had a migraine when my estrogen levels peaked this cycle and that only happens in hyperO months usually. I used to want twins but since miscarrying the set I conceived in 2012 and since my back has gotten so much worse, I'm hoping for just a singleton.

[MyByC]

Maiden, let's hope at least 1 egg gets fertilised! Praying this is your month!
❤️❤️❤️

[Grace]

BFP !!!
I just tested this morning!! Still haven't told DH since he's kind of having an anxiety attak over having another baby...I wonder when he'll grow up ;)
Truth is I'm surprised. I was sure we DTD to close to o, and I've had months with more 'pregnancy like' symptoms before AF than this cycle. I just want to add that I'm really glad to have you ladies to share my news with. You are so amazing, each and every one of you, so supportive and accepting, it is priceless!! So thank you and I hope good news are coming your way soon xoxo

[Junie]

Congratulations Grace!!!!

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[Ugee]

Congratulations Grace that's fantastic news! Hope your have a happy nine months :)

[Ugee]

I'm 7dpo today. Not sure why I'm so tempted to POAS as that's plain silly! I will wait till Saturday to test as have a night out planned and wouldn't want to have a couple of drinks without seeing a bfn.

[MyByC]

Grace, congrats!!! What a beautiful Christmas gift!

[MyByC]

Ugee, just hold a little longer. Keep my fingers crossed.

[maidentomother]

Yay Grace, congratulations! Hopefully you'll be the trendsetter for the rest of the month. How many DPO are you, what's your DD?

Ugee is next up to test... I admire your restraint in not testing until Saturday.

[Mars]

Congrats grace!
I've been reading along but haven't had a lot to contribute. I think I'm on 10dpo but in not going to test until I'm late. It's been too many months of wasting tests. I'm due for AF around the 16th. It's been a bit all over the show the last year so I can't be sure how long my cycle is. I've been pretty bad eating this last week. Really must crack down on the diet.

[sageviolet]

Congrats, Grace!!! I knew it! Seriously, I knew it, lol! I am *the luckiest* cycle buddy. I participate here and on one other group, and every cycle the past 3 times, there has been only one other person who o'ed the same day as me and that person has gotten a bfp. What are the odds? Hope it's my turn next time!

And I like to O when we dtd, but I don't stress over it. I had a really big O with dd, like one of the biggest and best ever, so you pink swayers don't need to worry!

[MyByC]

Sage, dont be sad yet! Maybe Christmas brings good news to everyone around.
I really hope and pray that whoever remained here get their BFP by end of 2014!
Let's just pray for this!

Today I found out that a girl I know is pregnant (6 weeks) and she was diagnosticated with infertility last year...
Can you imagine?
What were the chances?
And I bet she is having a girl due to her style of life and abstinence of her husband (he was outside of country until they conceived) 😄

[XXforhubby]

Yay Grace! This makes my day!! I hope you have a healthy sticky bean and a wonderful nine months!!

Let's keep the BFP's coming!


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[keepthefaith]

Eeek congrats Grace!!

Ugee Im testing Saturday too!!

[keepthefaith]

Congrats grace!
I've been reading along but haven't had a lot to contribute. I think I'm on 10dpo but in not going to test until I'm late. It's been too many months of wasting tests. I'm due for AF around the 16th. It's been a bit all over the show the last year so I can't be sure how long my cycle is. I've been pretty bad eating this last week. Really must crack down on the diet.

I could have written this post! Im also about 10dpo and finding diet a struggle in 2ww. Doing my best and painfully trying not to poas!

[maidentomother]

Ugee, KtF and Mars all share a potential DD. I'd be testing at 10DPO! Fx.

[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Congrats grace!

[Mars]

Oh how exiting for all those testing! I'm really going to hold out so maybe I won't check in here over the weekend or I will want to test too!

[XXforhubby]

What is going on ladies?! My boobs are so sore along the sides of my breasts! I have gone through 2 bras today, because they hurt so bad! My nipples are tender too, and it doesn't help that DS2 is cutting his canines :/! I believe I am only 3dpo. Although on CD 10 I had horrible cramping, a rush of EWCM, with a pink tinge in it. Maybe I Oed earlier? AF is due on the 18th or the 21st, depending on which day I Oed. I currently am on CD 21. This has been going on ALL day and not showing signs of stopping! It feels different than with my other pregnancies, although I wasn't nursing when I got pregnant with both DSs though.

Isn't it too early if I am pregnant?


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[MyByC]

XX, my feeling is right AGAIN! 😊
I think you are. It sounds promising!

[maidentomother]

Xx, it's just to progesterone from Oing. It is too soon to be from pregnancy. BUT it can mean you had a good quality egg that produced a strong corpus luteum that's pumping out lots of P, which will help support a pregnancy if you did conceive. So it can still be a good sign. :)

You continue to be my twin bc my breasts started hurting yesterday/today (I got my cross hairs this morning so I'm 3DPO) and my nipples are sensitive-sore too. I know most of it is probably due to Vitex as that is normal for me taking Vitex even in non TTC months. BUT my breast tenderness doesn't usually kick in until 5-7DPO. Of course my right breast is all sorts of sensitive but it is still recovering from my operation so I'm not sure what is causing what.

[XXforhubby]

Thanks Maiden! I thought it was too early to be pregnancy related. Good to know it is a sign of good progesterone production!

It is funny how we are experiencing things together! I sure hope it brings us both BFPs!

FX for all of us ladies waiting to test! ❤️❤️


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[Grace]

Thanks for your kind words ladies! Hope you all get your BFP soon!

[keepthefaith]

OK majorly annoyed with myself as decided to poas and got a BFN. Why couldn't I have been patient as now I'm disappointed and might be for nothing! Raging with myself. 11dpo i reckon.

[XXforhubby]

Hang in there Keepthefaith!! You are not out until AF shows up! I think there is no easy way. We test early- get a BFN. We wait for AF- she shows up on time or late. After four months and five cycles ttcing, I now am testing a few days after AF should arrive. Last month I tested 12dpo, which was 3 days before AF was due and had a chemical. Now I want to be blissfully ignorant and think AF was late because of late ovulation.

GL! FX for you!!


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[keepthefaith]

[QUOTE=XXforhubby;661890]Hang in there Keepthefaith!! You are not out until AF shows up! I think there is no easy way. We test early- get a BFN. We wait for AF- she shows up on time or late. After four months and five cycles ttcing, I now am testing a few days after AF should arrive. Last month I tested 12dpo, which was 3 days before AF was due and had a chemical. Now I want to be blissfully ignorant and think AF was late because of late ovulation.

Thanks xx makes sense, wish so much hadn't done it! Think this whole ttc thing is harder than I thought! Also struggling to stay focused on Le diet and exercise though I am doing it, just don't feel as motivated. Prob time of year doesn't help!

[XXforhubby]

I would take things one day at a time. If you cheat or skip exercise, there is always tomorrow! Remember, it is not what happens in a day but the overall picture! It gets easier over time. I always allow myself 2 pity days a cycle- the first 2 days AF comes. I don't worry about diet or exercise- I don't go whole hog though! Then I pick myself up by the boot straps and get strict again. This has helped me a lot.

My hope is that we all get our BFPs soon- so we can celebrate together!! ❤️❤️


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[keepthefaith]

Really hope so xx

[maidentomother]

Hang in there KtF - seems lots of pink swayers get late implanters so you're not out yet.

I really agree with XX, swaying is best taken day by day, even hour by hour, even though it's the big picture that matters. If you have a cheat - mandatory every now and then - enjoy it and then move on to being strict again. I know easier said than done but I have found it helps me too to have such an attitude. Plus, the diet needs to be tolerable - that's more important than stressing about perfection. But I know that you've been doing a great job on the whole with your sway, KtF. Just keep it up. :)

[keepthefaith]

Hang in there KtF - seems lots of pink swayers get late implanters so you're not out yet.

I really agree with XX, swaying is best taken day by day, even hour by hour, even though it's the big picture that matters. If you have a cheat - mandatory every now and then - enjoy it and then move on to being strict again. I know easier said than done but I have found it helps me too to have such an attitude. Plus, the diet needs to be tolerable - that's more important than stressing about perfection. But I know that you've been doing a great job on the whole with your sway, KtF. Just keep it up. :)

Thanks appreciate it xx

[Grace]

Keepthefaith- don't despair! I got a BFN on 12dpo, and then waited till the day after AF was due and got my BFP.

[Ugee]

Ok so I'm gobsmaked! I've got very faint BFP's (took 3 different type tests) I am only 9dpo so it could all come crashing down and be a chemical. I tested today instead of tomorrow as some friends are coming over tonight and was going to have mulled wine. I'm unsure how to feel to be honest.

[sageviolet]

Congrats, Ugee!!! FX for a sticky bean!

[XXforhubby]

Ugee- let yourself be excited! There is a good chance it won't be a chemical. Be in the moment.

So I'll be your cheerleader: OMG- you got a BFP!!!! Yay!!!!! Yes I am jumping up and down for you right now!!!

❤️❤️❤️


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[Ugee]

Thanks ladies!

I have to say I'm more positive now it's sunk in! Was shocked that I had any other feelings but pure joy. I had so much running through my mind like 'what if it's an opposite? And was my sway good enough?' Did anyone else think these things?

Now I want all you lovely ladies to join me so we can stay in the same due date thread! So hurry with those BFP (no pressure lol)

Thank you all for every nice comment and encouragement you have given me it's meant more than you'll ever know <3

[keepthefaith]

UGEE Many congrats soo pleased and happy for you!! Due AF Sunday so will see what next couple of days brings x

[Junie]

Congrats Ugee!!

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[Grace]

Great news Ugee!!
And yes, I keep doubting myself all the time

[maidentomother]

Yay Ugee, so excited for you! Happy, healthy, sticky vibes your way. I feel like a BFP at 9DPO is unlikely to be a chemical. Fx.

[belleboi]

Glad to see more women getting their BFPs! I'm 4 weeks now. Breasts are tender, but no other symptoms, yet! The tender breasts is a new symptom for me this early in pregnancy. Never had this with the girls:)

[XXforhubby]

Soooo, I am either 6 days or 10 days out from AF starting. I have had very creamy CM that has varied between very light brown to very dilute pink in color today. I have only noticed it when I check and not when I wipe- TMI. I have had slight cramping/ pulling sensations off and on since the middle of the night (it woke me up). All of this is different from my pre-AF symptoms, plus it is too early. I am trying not to get my hopes up!

I am nervous 😬😬😬😬!

FX for the rest of us waiting to test!!!


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[maidentomother]

Oh wow XX, maybe you ARE further along. I am definitely not any more than 4DPO.

[XXforhubby]

I can't temp- I get too obsessive, plus DS2 lost my thermometer 😆! Probably just as well! I can use opks though. We'll see. I may cave and test on the 17th!




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[XXforhubby]

Not feeling as hopeful. TMI- the discharge looks more like spotting after I had a BM. I would be surprised to get a BFP anyway, since my FSH probably needs more time to come down.

I just want AF to come now so I can move on to cycle 6.

GL to the rest of you ladies waiting to test!


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[maidentomother]

XX, Do you usually spot at this point in your LP? I still have hope for you.

I have been dreaming every night! I'm trying not to read too much into it as two of the months earlier this year that I was TTC I had dreams (one per month in my LP), but I've had more dreams in the past 4 days than the whole rest of the year. Really VIVID dreams, too. Actually woke up super early from an awful nightmare just now. My right ovary is really sore again, almost like full on O pain...I'm 5DPO but that's too early for implantation, right? I never felt it with my first 5 pregnancies in my 20s but my O pain was mild or absent then too. I thought I felt implantation with the twins but it wasn't painful.

Man I am SUCH a symptom spotter.

[Mars]

Congrats ugee!!

I think I'm about 12dpo and yesterday I had the weirdest heart thing. It was racing then I felt short of breath. Last night I also felt light headed. Normally I week before AF is due I get super moody too it so far I've been ok plus I haven't had a heap of pimples like I normally get too. Thinking I might test tomorrow but then again maybe I'll wait.

[maidentomother]

Ooh Mars, test tomorrow! Pretty please!

[keepthefaith]

So I tested this morning and got this, think got slight line but might just be my eyes, not sure if you will be able to see anything!! Not thinking anything about it at mo as don't want hopes up, will just wait and see! 13dpo I reckon!22559

[XXforhubby]

Maiden- I usually spot 3 days before AF, so it would be too early. It is not showing up when I wipe, only when I check my CM. It has changed back to brown. We'll see. I have been having strange pulling type cramps off and on too. Much different than AF cramps.

Mars and Keepthefaith- I am getting excited for you!!

FX for us ladies!!!!!


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[Mars]

Lol I think I will wait. I always regret testing early and wasting a test!!

KTF I can't see a line but fingers crossed it gets stronger!!

[bluebonnet22]

KTF - I see a line! Congrats! Hope it is darker today! :)

[keepthefaith]

Just did a clearblue digital with third morning toilet trip and came back NOT PREGNANT so now not sure what to think! Maybe other test was an evap line. Who knows, will see if AF shows in next couple of days and go from there! At least can have drink at Christmas night out! ��

[Junie]

Probably too early for digital. I do see a second line. I'm guessing you will get a darker line tomorrow or Mon with FMU KTF!

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[keepthefaith]

Probably too early for digital. I do see a second line. I'm guessing you will get a darker line tomorrow or Mon with FMU KTF!

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The digital test said can test up to 4 days early but to use first morning urine which I didnt. I def see line in other one so in limbo lol. Patience is not my strong point! Lol

[maidentomother]

It would definitely be too early for a digital. I don't see a line but I rarely see light ones on my tablet. Plus loads of glare at the moment. Fx it gets darker fast, KTF!

[MyByC]

I think it is a bit to early. Test Sunday night.
Fingers crossed!

XX, my feelings are never wrong! And I do have the feeling for you. I told you since you BD. We'll see 😘

[QueenB3blue]

Just checking in to see how everyone is doing:) hoping to see loads of Christmas time bfp's!!! My bleeding picked back up after only 3 days of normal cm. I am ~thinking~ maybe my body skipped o and went straight to af. My boobs got sore before the bleeding picked back up and all the aches and cramping feels just like af. My hcg went from 38 to 17 this past week. Hoping this week I am down to zero:) I am tentatively saying I am on cd6, really hoping to o in a week or so! Fingers crossed my opk's work! I think that is what is worrying me the most.

Emotionally it is hard for me to hang around right now:( but I like checking in on you ladies and love love seeing BFP's!!!!!

[XXforhubby]

QueenB3blue- I am hoping that your HCG level goes to zero and you get positive opks soon! I admire your courage and strength- you are an inspiration. I am crossing everything and praying for you! Now we just need a healthy sticky bean 😉!


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[MyByC]

Queen, I'm there with you. Day 5 for me. Let's get this done this month and start the year with positive news BFP!!!!!

[maidentomother]

QueenB3blue- I am hoping that your HCG level goes to zero and you get positive opks soon! I admire your courage and strength- you are an inspiration. I am crossing everything and praying for you! Now we just need a healthy sticky bean ��!


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XX took the words from my mouth (she does that an awful lot ;) ), I too admire your attitude and find your strength and courage inspiring - yes, exactly those words. Hoping you O & conceive your rainbow girl ASAP. Fx we share a September DD!

[Ugee]

So I tested this morning and got this, think got slight line but might just be my eyes, not sure if you will be able to see anything!! Not thinking anything about it at mo as don't want hopes up, will just wait and see! 13dpo I reckon!22559

One of my test looked like this ktf! They got darker so would say that's BFP!

[XXforhubby]

Thanks Maiden! Great minds think a like 😉!

The discharge has pretty much gone back to creamy, brownish CM. My breastmilk is dwindling, like last month before my BFP. It usually tanks the day before AF. I am trying to remain hopeful. DH and I resolved that conceiving either at the end of January or February would be great, since he has 2 weeks off for Christmas (he is a Principal of an elementary school). Watch, I'll get a BFP now, because I would rather wait!! That is just my luck!

Baby dust to those of us waiting to test and sticky beans for those that have gotten their BFPs 😘❤️❤️❤️!


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[Ugee]

I really think this is your month maiden!

All of you ladies are so courageous as it's such a mental roller coaster TTC. Pray you all get your Christmas present BFP's xx

[XXforhubby]

I am going to bite the bullet and test with FMU on the 17th, the morning before AF would come at the earliest 😬😬😬! DH wants to know badly and said he would poas if he could 😆! I would rather wait until the 21st, but DH keeps pestering me! Since I am a SATHM, I told him it his his money I may be throwing down the drain! He told me to take a look in my stocking...he put in a box of FRERs and CB Advanced digis! Point taken!!


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