Second boy

[Bobster]

Well I'm signing out of here. I can't say I've enjoyed my time on this forum stressing and worrying and obsessing and I actually think it's inadvertently swayed blue for me. My scan was confirmed blue and I've come to terms with it and am looking forward to welcoming a second baby boy into our family. Whether or not we'll have a third one day I don't know but what I do know is that swaying is not for me and if we do have another it will be au natural so I know what is meant to be will be.

I was hoping for a bit more support from the gender disappointment forum as I got so many views from my original message and no replies apart from one lovely lady on a private message. I have now realised that looking at this website is no longer helping my gd and its probably a sign to leave. I am thankful for what I have but will always wonder 'what if'. I need to move forward with my life without dwelling on what never was. I have so much to be happy for... A loving family, plenty of friends, a good career which I love, a supportive and caring life partner, one beautiful cuddly gorgeous little man and now another on the way. Life is good and I have to stop wasting it by wanting this perfect family that doesn't exist apart from in my mind. Life is too short and these are precious moments.

Time to say bye and good luck to you all in your journeys :)

[Dreamgirl01]

Sorry you did'nt get what you hoped for. Altough i'm reading this forum to find out if i want to sway op not. Ik can tell you this. I have 3 beautyfull boys. 2 of them have adhd, and it's not easy. But i know for sure that i could not be happieer with these 3 boys. We recently decided to hopefully welcome another child. But before that, it took me a while to accept there would'nt going to be a girl. But i did accept after a while. And i am really really happy with 3 boys. What i'm trying to say is that eventually you Will Come to peace with it. Brothers together is a beautyfull thing. I wish you all the best! Greetings from Holland🍀

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[trifecta]

I'm sorry you didn't hear pink and that you didn't feel supported here. The GD board here isn't always very active--I don't know why. As the previous poster said the brotherly relationship is a beautiful thing. I would have loved to also raise a girl but there is a lot of joy in raising boys. Best wishes for a happy and healthy pregnancy and birth.

[covered in blue]

So sorry Bobster! I was wondering where you had got to as I didn't see this before :( Hope things are going alright for you now. Guess you won't see this but thinking of you anyway xx