So Excited to Plan a 2016 Sway!!

[XXforhubby]

OMG! I had a heart to heart with my DH, I got straight to the point, and told him to think about it. I told him I still feel like there is someone I haven't met yet, and I don't feel comfortable closing the door yet. I said lets just try but not try, no opks, no temping, just when we feel like it, and see what happens. If it doesn't happen by his Xmas break, then he can get a vasectomy. I will feel ok with that knowing we tried for 10 cycles (mine are 24-27 days).

He thought about it and said ok as long as he calls the shots, and we go without protection when he wants. He always wants to in my fertile window anyway. He said since we've tried for a girl on my watch, he wants to try when he wants. He also said he won't back out on me- he gave me his word.

I don't care! I'm happy [emoji4]!!!

He's gone vegetarian with me, and he intermittently fasts. I won't be able to to the cardio but I'm very active cardio wise now anyway.

I'm so excited!

Yay!!!!


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[Katt2275]

So exciting! Hopefully, You will finally get your girl. :)

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[XXforhubby]

So exciting! Hopefully, You will finally get your girl. :)

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Thank you! I'm very excited but also know that I have to be careful to not lose my ovulation, since I'm still breastfeeding quite a bit still. My DS3 is 4.5 months old and nurses quite a bit during the day and only once in the middle of the night. I've been getting copious amounts of fertile CM and horrid ovulation pains to let me know that I'm ovulating.

I'm sticking to the upper limits of the diet in calories and protein, while keeping fat low and saturated fat extra low. I'm drinking white wine 3-5 days a week, walking DS1 to and from school (45-50min), 1600-2400mcg folate, and BDing every 4 days or as often as DH likes. This is pretty much what my lifestyle has been since before DS3 was born. I'll add fiber before fatty meals once DS3 is 6mo.

I'm keeping this ultra laid back and super stress free. I'll be shocked if I get pregnant, and I'm not really expecting to. I just need to do this so I can be comfortable once my DH gets a vasectomy the middle of December. I have worked out that gives me 10 cycles to see if it happens. I'll be ok if it doesn't happen, or if it leads to another sweet baby boy [emoji4]! I hope all I'm doing gives my DH the best chance at getting a DD.

I'm just happy that he is doing this for me!!


[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602][emoji170]
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[essnce629]

Good luck XX! I'll be rooting for you!

[essnce629]

Oh, and my DH had a vasectomy consultation a year ago as well, but hasn't mentioned it since! I told him I would want him to freeze his sperm, just in case, till he's 40 (he's 33). He looked up the cost and that was the end of it I think!

[Faithinpink]

That's fantastic XX.. All the very best

[atomic sagebrush]

:cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

[maidentomother]

So excited for you hun! I have always envisioned you as a mother of 4.

[foxymrsg]

Ah I'm really pleased for you! Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you good luck x

[ahorn586]

I'm so excited and happy for you!!! I wish you the best of luck with everything!!!

[Honeybug]

Fantastic news; I am so excited and happy for you!

[Violet Winter]

I'm so happy to read this xxforhubby! This is so exciting! I wish you all the best. xxoo

[Throwaway_panther]

So, so happy for you!!!!

My own husband was part of a "3 boys back to back and then a girl last" family, so I'm wishing the same for you!!

[Magical22]

Wow that's so exciting can't wait for you to start [emoji179]


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[XXforhubby]

I'm so excited!! My DH last night said he's committed to TTCing baby #4! We will start in May!! Coincidentally, I will have been great with the diet for 9 weeks and doing the 60-70min of cardio for 6 weeks!! I'm so excited!!


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[mommymachine]

I'm so happy for you XX!


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[Dreamsister]

Wauh xxforhubby. So exited to read this. Last post I saw from you was around december '15 I think when you wrote that you were done and felt fulfilled with your 3 boys. What made you change your mind? I am very happy to have you here among us swayers as you are experienced and very active on this lovely forum. I look forward to cheer you on this journey. I am also TTC'ing pink for #4 in May and love being a all boy mom like you


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[XXforhubby]

^^^Sorry, I just saw this! I was trying to convince myself that I was done, because my DH didn't want to have a 4th. Well as it turns out, he thought I didn't want a 4th! After talking, we have decided to keep trying until next summer before closing the door.

I'm so excited that we have agreed to this, and it takes a lot of pressure off.

I feel like I'm putting together a good, doable sway.

FX and GL to you too!


[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602][emoji170][emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]