Melliflous May (part 2)

[Pbn3]

New thread started :)

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[Skyblue]

Already [emoji12].
Pbn - The question is, what do U think about it for blue sway?
I don't know if that's good or bad honestly.

[Pbn3]

Mummy2boys when will you start opk testing?? Being ill can affect when you o both early and late so I'd start asap. What opks will you be using? Are you doing e4d from memory?

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[Pbn3]

I'm not the expert sky and I always recommend following what atomic says. I don't know if you remember the thread I created questioning 3 attempts at pos opk as potentially if you o day after then you potentially only have one attempt that actually counts. She said eod is too hard for some people to maintain which is why she recommends the attempts at pos opk instead and also it covers late o. I believe she's referring to those who o later in their cycle or don't temp to confirm o. However you o on the early side and you temp and I would think eod until you have confirmation of o would be quite doable. My honest opinion - I think its risking having just one attempt that counts if you o day after pos opk as your o day attempt will more than likely be too late.... again though, maybe you wont until two days after giving you 2 solid attempts and possibly a third from o day. I'm in no way an expert I just think in YOUR personal situation with your cycle that eod would be better for you. You get to bd at night and dh has a 48 hour break between bd's (which is awesome for keeping swimmers healthy) But it really doesn't matter what I think as you yourself need to be fully happy and committed to what you think will work best for you. I will support you either way 110%, I really want you in my ddg ❤

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[Skyblue]

I m sorry for always putting u in a difficult spot. U have always been more than helpful. I understand what u r saying. I guess I need to do my best to have 3 attempts in after pos opk. I will speak to dh about eod too. I can't Thankyou enough.

[Sumbal]

Ash : gorgeous lines and so true BFP.

Pbn: have you tested again after that positive? I knwo you had your great blood test result :)

Sky: Its great fun to try old wives tricks for gender ;)

Lolla hows you feeling?

Maxim: on what DPO you are?

[Pbn3]

Sky dont apologise!! I am more than happy to help in any way I can :) can I just ask though what do you honestly think is more achievable for you and dh? Eod from cd8 - cd16 (or confirmed tenp rise) or three attempts at pos opk whether its pm, am , pm or 3 pm's in a row.

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[mummy2boys]

Hi Pbn [emoji847]yeah I'm doing e4d and probably extra bd at +opk ( if I get one, I think I sometimes miss it) I'm just using cheapie test strips from eBay. I started testing yesterday, I usually o on cd 16 I think so not too far away!
I don't know anything about blue swaying Sky, but fingers crossed for you and all of our team this time 🤞


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[Pbn3]

Sumbal I tested today and posted in the previous thread :)

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[Pbn3]

What time/s are you testing at mummy2boys?

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[Sumbal]

Pbn: I just saw your test post. Its so so so nice lines showing great BFP. Fx fx for Happy pregnancy

[mummy2boys]

Twice a day, sometime mid morning and then late afternoon, do you reckon that's ok?


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[Sumbal]

Mummy 2 Boys: What I know is best result we can find to test OPK is 2:00 PM. and you can test till 8:00 PM.
On what CD you are? best of luck :)

[Pbn3]

Sounds good mummy2boys - they say between 11-4 is best for most dip tests but maximbella said she changed to 1pm and 9pm as she was missing her surge testing at 10am and 5pm I think? I'll go back and check. If you're doing e4d then at least you'll have an attempt in if you do miss the surge.

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[mummy2boys]

Thanks ladies [emoji4] I'm on cd 12 so getting closer..


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[Pbn3]

Ok I was way off lol she was testing at 11am then about 6-9pm. Got her pos opk at the 1pm test. So maybe if you have heaps of IC's test at 11am, 1-2pm, and 4-6pm???? Surely that should cover you 😉

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[mummy2boys]

Haha yeah sounds like a good plan! I have 20 tests so should be enough as long as o isn't late due to illness, like you say.


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[netti02]

Mummy2boys- that sucks about being sick. Fx your DH gets on board too.

Pbn- I've felt strange after ds5 was born. I had breakthrough bleeding on and off in the first 6 months mostly mid cycle i thought it was ovulation spotting but i think there may have been more to it, i haven't had any for a while now. I thought it was my body regulating but id never had it during previous postpartum periods.

Ive had af cramps on and off throughout this whole cycle and this particular af seems abit yuck.

Maybe this cycle is the body taking care of itself. Will see how i go over the next few cycles. I should have 2 before July. That gives me some time to maybe get DH on board


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[maximbella]

Good morning ladies!
Mummy, definitely add that test in after lunch. I think atomic said between 1-3pm is best. I tested for a first time at 1pm and got a positive right away. I'd missed my surges previously because of the timing I believe. Also, I o'd the day of my positive opk, which is okay since I still had my one attempt, but for those of you swaying blue, you would have already needed those previous attempts right? Thank goodness I'm swaying pink, e3/4d is hard for me LOL! I need ash's libido!!! [emoji23]

That is amazing news about fiveboys!!! Wow good for her! ❤️

Sunbal, in 6dpo today.

Thanks for sharing your stories with me...still having boob soreness and dull cramping, but that makes me feel like AF is coming. Trying to stay positive!! Cannot wait for the weekend to get here so I can formally test and know! 🤞


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[Pbn3]

Maxim it's possible you oed day after pos opk very possible actually! Can I ask what the rectangle box with the X in it means that's at the end of your post? I've been seeing it all day mainly on Facebook??!!

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[netti02]

I think its the fingers crossed emoji pbn

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[Pbn3]

Thanks netti!!!! I've always wondered why they don't have one like the other hand/finger ones they do?? So it is a box or am I just not seeing the emoji properly?

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[netti02]

I can see the emoji.. very strange but i think tapatalk does that sometimes

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[maximbella]

Pbn, why do you think I may have O'd the next day? I'm new to all this, so any help is appreciated!

Here's what it should look like, wonder why that's not going through in your end:

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[Pbn3]

Here's what I see maxim 😂 will explain chart next posthttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170510/72a639e7ce8f5683a7bf738f00a3114e.jpg

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[Pbn3]

Ok your chart. You temp rise on cd23 wasn't much higher than some of the other pre o temps recorded. They are open circle temps so I'm not sure if that would affect the pattern?? There's a clear shift the following day though and your temps have only gone up and stabilised from there. Just my thoughts and its definitely possible you oed when ff says, I just think there's a very good chance cd23 could be o day as well. OR perhaps ypu caught the temp mid rise on the morning of cd23. You may have not long oed when you temped (as in during early hours of the morning onwards) and your basal body temp was on the rise when you took it?

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[XXforhubby]

Pbn3-I just wanted to pop in and say those were some great lines on your test earlier! I have good feelings about this!

Ash- Gorgeous lines too!!

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[Pbn3]

Thank you xxforhubby!! I'm cautiously optimistic for tomorrow's test.😁 I have been feeling quite yuk for a large portion of the day and couldn't be happier 😂

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[cosmosis]

Missing a u on mellifluous.

Pbn3, where is your recent test post?! I wanna seeeeeeeee.

[shinay]

2nd thread already? That is so fast!
Just record my temp this morning. Nice dip in temp. I might get solid smiley today! Fx fx.

Skyblue: i am planning to dtd for a couple nights after pos opk. Hope that would do the trick for blue sway since AM bd might be hard for us as well since dh go to work early.

[shinay]

Forgot to post my chart
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[Lolabelle]

Pbn-how much longer until you get your next results!!! Can't wait to hear!!!
Max & Pbn-I was thinking CD23 might be a possibility for O day too since you got your pos OPK on CD22 and as Pbn mentioned maybe you O'ed early in the AM. Either way...can't wait for the weekend to get here already!! BFP! BFP! Gooo team!
Sumbal-my SIL bought the gender prediction kit that you can find at the pharmacy & it was completely wrong!! She had in her mind that she was having a boy, so she was surprised to hear girl at her ultrasound!


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[kat1234]

Pbn3- I think bd every other day from CD 8-18 sounds easier so we might just try that this month and see if it works.

Max - our girlies are 6 and 3 so IF we have another baby I expect them to be big helpers!! My 3 year old is obsessed with babies and for some reason my 6 year old wants a baby brother, but I'm sure she'll be fine either way. I'm a tad nervous about going to 3 bc right now 2 is so easy. AND there's people making comments about we are out of the baby stage why go back ☹️


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[maximbella]

Sorry for delay - DD2 is at the stage where she wants to do everything by herself and it's making our morning routine a looooot longer! ;)

I had open circles on CD17 & 18 because DH let me sleep in those mornings, so it was about an hour later than my normal temping. Also on CD20 because I had a girls night the night before and had 3 glasses of much needed wine and my temps are always higher the morning after, even if temping at the same time. So I left it as an open circle. Should I discard those temps? Does that adjust how you think of O date?

Shinay, yay for temp dip! I bet it's coming today!! Please keep us posted with your opk pics!

Cosmo, when do you find out gender??

[maximbella]

Kat, I sooo get that! Mine are 5 and 7 and both would be awesome helpers! I wish I could go back and have had them at the ages your girls are, but for the longest time we WERE done because life had gotten so easy! My friends and MIL think I'm crazy to even consider going back to the newborn stage, which I will admit is super hard on me, but I'm thinking about it more long term!

Funny you say that about a brother. My DD came home from school with this the other day! It says "I think I want to have a brother."

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[Skyblue]

Good morning ladies.
Max - That is one adorable drawing. My dd just wants a baby. Lot of her friends at school became big brother or sister and she kept getting impatient and asking us why she doesn't have a baby yet? I sat her down one day and explained that it will take sometime and a lot of other things. [emoji12][emoji12]
She was ok with it and now she has moved to wanting a pet. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]
Pbn - I went to bed last night so missed replying. I think dtd for 3 nights in a row is more comfortable for us but that's not good for the sway. I m only concerned about the morning attempt for 3
Attempts in a row. I m also thinking of using Preseed this cycle. I seriously thought about eod but it makes me so so nervous. Ughhh I m losing my mind over BD.
For now, I am just waiting for your test results. How many hours?
Dreaming - When will
U get yours? U said u r in CA, right. I m also in CA. [emoji4]

[Skyblue]

Signature test.


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[dreamingella]

For all my fellow POAS addicts, here's an update on my lines at 14dpo. Enjoy! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170510/a2889c959d97477044db19808d205abc.jpg

@Skyblue Yep, I'm in California too. I go in for my second blood test today and will get the results tomorrow morning. I'll share them as soon as I get 'em! 🤞


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[Skyblue]

Beautiful lines Dreaming. I am seeing this dark
Line on a wondfo for the first time. [emoji4]
Fx for good numbers.


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[maximbella]

Gorgeous dreaming [emoji7]


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[Lolabelle]

That's a beauty dreaming!!! Can't wait to hear your numbers!!!


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[shinay]

maxim: fx! i will update once i take the test around 1pm today. And it is not crazy to go back to newborn stage. It will be harder a bit, but it is all worth it. Don't let the negativity get to you. Just imagine all the joy when your 3rd is here and btw, your DD's drawing is so adorable.

[shinay]

Skyblue, Dreaming: I am in Cali at well! woohoo Cali babies.

skyblue: what did you mean by dtd 3 nights in a row is not good for the sway? Why is it so? We are planning to do that lol

[Skyblue]

Skyblue, Dreaming: I am in Cali at well! woohoo Cali babies.

skyblue: what did you mean by dtd 3 nights in a row is not good for the sway? Why is it so? We are planning to do that lol

Shinay - I m scared to have unprotected BD before pos opk because A part of me is still hung up that it may sway pink which is not what everyone believes here and eod BD after af has really worked for blue swayers here. It's just me being crazy. So what I meant was that since I won't have any attempts before pos opk and then bding every night may not be good incase I O the day after pos opk because that will leave me with just one attempt in the fertile window. Does that make sense? Or Have I confused u more?
I m trying to work out the best option for myself. Hence picking Pbn's brain. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]


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[Pbn3]

@xxforhubby do you mind giving your opinion on bd frequency and timing for blue swayers? If dtd eod from say cd8 - cd18 (more or less based on confirmation of o) is easier and more likely achievable than 3 attempts at pos opk would you recommend it? I know eod sways strongly blue but would be nice to have someone else's opinion.

Lola I have woken up at 3.30am after still being awake at 10pm last night :( going to be a loooong day... it's about 5.5 hours until I get the blood draw and probably 12 hours till result.

Yay shinay!!! Fx fx fx for pos opk! Keep us updated!!!


Sky please don't stress anymore about bding ❤ go with your gut which is telling you 3 attempts at pos opk and protected bd until then. Remember your sway your way 💙 Try not to get so hung up on bd frequency and timing. The
biggest sway factor is the diet, but I totally get wanting to get everything right - it's such a boy mum trait 😂😂

Gorgeous lines dreaming!!! 😍😍
Can't wait for your beta update 😀

Awwww maxim your dd's drawing is gorgeous!! 😍 Don't worry about discarding temps or anything, just keep in mind (especially when testing early) that you may be a day behind what you think you are :)

Yay kat for bd plan!! I'm hoping for xxforhubby's input on this as well. If your not temping to verify o make sure you bd eod at least twice after pos opk and you should be covered :)

@cosmosis hi and thank you for checking in on me 😀 here is my test I caved and did yesterday 😂

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[Pbn3]

Lol cosmo!!! Wil fix mellifluous now 😂😂
Hmmmm any idea how I do that??? 😂
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[shinay]

Shinay - I m scared to have unprotected BD before pos opk because A part of me is still hung up that it may sway pink which is not what everyone believes here and eod BD after af has really worked for blue swayers here. It's just me being crazy. So what I meant was that since I won't have any attempts before pos opk and then bding every night may not be good incase I O the day after pos opk because that will leave me with just one attempt in the fertile window. Does that make sense? Or Have I confused u more?
I m trying to work out the best option for myself. Hence picking Pbn's brain. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]


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I totally can relate. But I agree with Pbn. Don't get so hung up on the BD patterns too much. I got so freaked out thinking about unprotected sex before pos opk as well. i always thought/planned to have one attempt at pos opk or the day after, but after finding GD, my perspective is different. It makes sense to me that more attempts around O means more boy sperms inside. Also, more bd helps increase ph and cm which also help blue swayers. Along with our diet and some other factors to help, i hope we both will get our blue bundles!

I feel a bit uncertain about my sway because I don't lift weight for the past couple months and also i don't have ewcm or maybe very little.

[Skyblue]

Pbn - Don't stress a lot. It's going to
Be all good. I have a feeling. I just wish the hours go by fast now.


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[shinay]

Pbn: the results will be great. don't worry :)
Can't wait to see the numbers!

[Pbn3]

Good to hear sky :) can't wait for your 2ww I too have a feeling about this cycle for you 😀

Shinay can you get your hands on some preseed if you've not much ewcm?

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[Pbn3]

Going to try and get back to sleep 😂😂 (wishful thinking but I'll give it a go) its 4.30am so another 2 hours till the boys get up.....

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[XXforhubby]

Pbn3- Hmmm. The problem with most blue swayers and attempts seem to stem from their DH's not being able to get the 3 attempts in at positive opk. Given that, I don't think it's feasible to have those same couples do EOD from CD8-CD18. Sure that may only be 5 attempts, but they are most likely to have a DH fizzle out well before ovulation occurs. What I think would be the best of both worlds is to start EOD at an almost positive opk and continue as long as the DH can. This will most likely cover them with at least 2 viable attempts around O time by the time their DH fizzles out. We boy making mamas have to remember that blue swayers' DH's can't handle frequent sex and get performance anxiety when they reach "go" time. It's different for them because us pink swayers can always fudge it when our go time is for our DH's but blue swayers don't have that luxury. This is all contingent though on blue swayers using some sort of IC for opks. The CB advanced don't seem to reliably capture an almost positive for my liking.

Sorry for the long post!!

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[shinay]

Shinay can you get your hands on some preseed if you've not much ewcm?

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Yup! I got some preseed. Will use it tonight and tomorrow.

[Pbn3]

Thanks xxforhubby! (Nope can't sleep lol) I just figured that given there is 48 hours between bd's it enables dh to 'rest up' rather than try to perform 3 times in 36 hours.... so would you say eod is as good as or a close second to 3 attempts at pos opk? Just in case eod for 4-5 bd's is very possible for someone?

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[XXforhubby]

I would say it depends on the age of the DH. I don't know if it would necessarily be better than 3 attempts at positive opk but it does seem like a viable option for those that just simply haven't been able to do it, otherwise. I still think it would be best to start at an almost positive opk though- how many times have we seen blue and pink swayers ovulation day get wonky? By starting at an almost positive opk, there is a greater chance for them to get at least 2 viable attempts in.

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[Pbn3]

Thank you xxforhubby ❤

Hope this helps blue swayers 💙

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[Pbn3]

Blue swayers this is a link to a thread I created asking about 3 attempts v eod and reading it again now it makes perfect sense what Atomic is saying. For some reason I have it in my head that eod is more achievable than 3 attempts but that is only my opinion and what I believe me and dh could do (3 attempts at pos opk would not be an option,we are fossils 😂😂) As xxforhubby has pointed out and Atomic in this thread its actually a minority of blue swayers that can achieve eod. So my apologies for seeming to 'push' eod, it really is an individual decision on what works best for you but on a general scale it appears that 3 attempts at pos opk is most successful in achieving. Hope I haven't caused too much confusion xxoo
The bd question again.... (http://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/showthread.php?t=58634)

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[dreamingella]

And to add, as a mom of boys, I can tell you boy swayers that dtd often makes boys. So go get it done as soon as your OPK is borderline positive and don't stop until it's negative again! Mostly, have fun! :bluecheer:

[XXforhubby]

I couldn't agree more with this! I mean, my DH could easily do both options, haha! Most blue swayers don't have this luxury. I do think 3 attempts at positive opk is the most feasible for blue swayers. Let's face it- one of those attempts most likely will not happen, and they will be left with 2. This is much better than 1. A minority could manage EOD, but I think most would find it daunting.

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[mummy2boys]

So I tested at 11am with opk and it was negative, just a barely there line. Just done another now and it is quite dark. Do you think I might miss my surge in the night?! Should I bd now? Eek don't know what to do.


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[Pbn3]

Can you post a pic mummy2boys?

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[Pbn3]

Also what time did you do second test?

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[shinay]

mummy2boys: what time is your most recent test? and can you post a pic?

Time for me to go test. Fx for pos opk. Wish me luck!!!

[mummy2boys]

It was at 8.30pm. I've never uploaded a photo so not sure how but will try now..


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[Pbn3]

Good luck shinay!!

Mummy2boys pending photo I wouldn't be worried about missing your surge tonight. If your opk is pretty dark but not quite positive then you may get a pos tomorrow. Waiting to see pic to confirm but don't bd yet!! Stick to your e4d plan until you get a pos opk

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[mummy2boys]

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Trying to post photo..


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[mummy2boys]

Fingers crossed shinay!


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[Pbn3]

Yep that worked. That's the control line closest to the green right? I would say your at least 2-3 days away from pos opk at a guess..... you may get a sudden surge tomorrow though but for now that definately is not positive so keep following e4d :)

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[mummy2boys]

Great, thanks pbn3! Will stick to plan, we bd on cd 10 so will do it again cd14


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[Pbn3]

You'll probably have a pos opk cd14 so it may work out perfect for one attempt 😀 as in you won't have to decide whether to add an attempt or not lol as your pos opk would fall on scheduled bd day! Fx this is so!!!

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[Pbn3]

Shinay how did it go!!!??? [emoji102] [emoji102]

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[shinay]

Still negative! Sobbing...i will test again tonight. If nothing, we will skip tonight.
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[Pbn3]

What time is it shinay where you are?

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[shinay]

Pbn: It is 1pm where i am. Drank very little water this morning and hold since 9am.
This is so discouraging. Maybe i will get the advanced one next time. At least the flashing smile could give me some hope.

[Pbn3]

Big hugs shinay!! Hang in there you are so close!!! What cd are you on? If you have a link to your chart I cant see it on Tapatalk :(

The digi is getting closer to the dip test. I bet you get a solid smiley either tomorrow or the next day at your 1pm test. Try and keep busy today and before you know it it'll be 1pm tomorrow and fx 'go time' tomorrow night 😀 You are almost there!!!!!

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[Pbn3]

Did you bd last night?

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[shinay]

Yes we did. I tried to add the link to my signature. Lets see if it works.

[shinay]

It is just that it has been so long this cycle. It is cd 21 already. I will try to focus on work so i dont keep thinking about this.

[Pbn3]

Hmmm still can't see the link, maybe you could post the link every few days so I can see it that way? I can hear how bummed and frustrated you are [emoji17] hugs again and good idea to focus on work. And have the belief that you'll be in the 2ww by weeks end! I know you've come a long way this cycle but you are so close to the finish line! Chin up and here's some four leaf clovers for luck for pos opk tomorrow [emoji256] [emoji256] [emoji256] [emoji256] with the luck of the Irish (well half Irish in my case 😂) you can't go wrong!! And remember if it isn't positive tomorrow then don't despair because it will be the next day! I just know it!!!!

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[mummy2boys]

Hope it comes soon Shinay, like you say, try to keep busy and keep your mind off it. What day do you usually o?


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[Skyblue]

Thankyou Pbn for going above and beyond to help us blue swayers and I really appreciate xxforhubby for your advise. You ladies are the best. It all makes complete sense.
Dh has no problem with eod and 3 attempts after pos opk in a perfect world which as we all know doesn't exist. We havebn ttc for the last two cycles and those fertile days have brought us the maximum stir up of emotions.
So, I am thinking of having 3 attempts at pos opk however the only one that I m most uncertain about is the am attempt. But We will still have two attempts in the fertile window and I m thinking of using Preseed too. I do advanced cb digi and wondfos. So far I have had two days of flashing before solid smiley. I know eod is advised but I think I feel more safe with 3 attempts at pos opk though it hasn't worked so far[emoji53]. Sorry Pbn. I m just a scaredy cat when it comes to eod. [emoji853]
I m now going to try as hard as possible to get those attempts in.
Thankyou again Pbn and Xxforhubby!


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[Pbn3]

No apologies sky!! I could tell how reluctant you were about eod hence the 'your sway, your way' reminder ❤ You got this and this WILL be your cycle! Two attempts is awesome so if that's what you end up having then perfect!! I think your plan to try for 3 pm bd's starting pm of pos opk is perfect for you if the am bd doesn't pan out. Preseed will be great for your sway but just be very wary of how much you use as if you use too much dh may not get the friction he needs to feel to release 😆 I'd go with no more than 1-2cm in applicator, probably closer to 1cm for first attempt. However if you have plenty of cm then that is even better. I'd use the preseed only if cm is scant :) eeeeekk!!! This is so exciting you are getting so close!! You start using you digi cd9 right?

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[Skyblue]

Yes. Will start using digi on cd9.


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[Pbn3]

I'm only about an hour away from my blood draw. I've already been awake 4.5 hours and its only about to turn 8am. I might try and get stuck into housework today to take my mind off things....

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[Skyblue]

Wow. Looks like u hardly slept. I can imagine being anxious. Keeping u in my thoughts and prayers. Fx for a healthy happy sticky bean.


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[shinay]

Pbn: you just know how to cheer us up. Thank you! And i am not sure why you can't see it on my signature. That's weird...not sure how I can add. But here is the link https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a8e52

mummy2boys: Thank you. i normally O around cd18 or 19. So it is 2 days late for me, hence the frustration hahaha. Hope it comes soon.

[shinay]

Pbn: seriously, i feel like you don't sleep at all. Keep us updated as soon as you get the results. We are anxiously waiting here as well :)

[Shannshaff]

Sky and other blue swayers - I have to agree with Pbn3 and XX. My blue babies came from lots of BDing! :) DH and I have a high libido so the e4d and even the e3d was very tough for us to maintain for our girl sway. White TTC we have never worried about using protection ever.

[Pbn3]

I know I've asked before but kat and LMSM are you ladies charting? I cant remember.... but this will fix it. I've taking chart stalking to a whole new level 😂

No more bugging for chart links or screenshots and I'm sure I've forgotten someone??? I was at work on Tuesday and rang a supplier for an invoice and said "hi, it's Pbn from ___ (awkard silence) then laughter from us both because I had forgotten where I wss calling from 😂😂https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170510/edb2b3b860fe0676ea31d5a82f154a87.jpg

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[Pbn3]

Those are web bookmarks lol so I now have direct access mwah-ha-ha!!!!

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[AshFind]

No notifications all day [emoji35]
[emoji23][emoji23] love the chart stalking pbn! I hopped on to check your results [emoji31] looks like you will get them when I'm sleeping


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[Pbn3]

Just dropped ds to school and heading to pathology now Ash. Is it night for you?

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[Skyblue]

Pbn - How long after the blood draw will it take to get the results? You have so many of us thinking about u. Fx fx fx fx so so so tight.
This wait is killing me. [emoji52]


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[AshFind]

Nearly 6pm here


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[shinay]

Ash: you were gone for a whole day! any new symptoms?

Pbn: you brought it to a whole new level hhahaha. Tell them to process quickly since hundreds of people are waiting for your result!

Skyblue: i think she said about 12 hours after the test

[AshFind]

Nothing new here shinay sore bbs still and I get nauseous in the afternoons which is mild I think because I'm trying to stay active and workout a bunch. By a bunch I mean 45 minutes a day [emoji23][emoji23]!
I do agree with xx and whoever else said it we've had all boys and have a very active BD schedule and have never once bout a box of protection in the 12 years we've been together. [emoji4]. Dh did honestly try to slow it down this past cycle but I'm not to optimistic because it was still boy territory [emoji20]


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[AshFind]

@xxforhubby how many attempts did you have to get your girl?
@pbn3 have you heard how many fiveboys had?


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[Shannshaff]

@xxforhubby how many attempts did you have to get your girl?
@pbn3 have you heard how many fiveboys had?


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Ash - this is from fiveboys sway:
BD Dates according to Ovulation
2 Days Before O
O Day
4 days after 0

[XXforhubby]

@xxforhubby how many attempts did you have to get your girl?
@pbn3 have you heard how many fiveboys had?


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Most likely one. Least likely two. My "second" attempt was very late at night the day of my temp rise. It's not as likely that was a viable attempt but anything is possible! According to my US at 21dpo, I most likely ovulated the day before my "second" attempt. That made my viable attempt either O-3 or O-2! I've never conceived from one of those attempts until now!

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[dreamingella]

@pbn3 can't wait to see your numbers! FX my friend.
Holy moly the nausea and fatigue has arrived for me hard core this afternoon.


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[Pbn3]

Wow thank you all for the well wishes, I truly adore you ladies ❤❤❤❤❤

So it's done and the wait truly begins. I apologised in advance (😂) to the receptionist for my phone calls that will be far too early and far too many chasing results and she said "it's no problem at all, I know exactly hoe you feel, 3 failed IVF cycles before my successful one, I know all about waiting for hcg results". I nearly burst into tears with her understanding.

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[Pbn3]

@sky I'm going to start ringing after 4 hours and every hour after that. Will likely be closer to 6 -8 hours before I have a result but you never know! Might be a slow day in the lab. Plus its marked urgent so should get priority 😆

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[Skyblue]

Oh thankgod. I m going to be up until then. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]
Pbn - I m so nervous. Can't imagine what u r going through. A big hug my friend. [emoji847][emoji847]


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[Pbn3]

Thank you sky! I don't know whether I want to cry or throw up 😂😂 both!!!

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[Skyblue]

Awwww. Hang in there sweets. It's going to be a good day. We are all here for you and waiting with u. Love!


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[maximbella]

Pbn, good luck...can't wait to hear the results! I'm sure everything is going to be totally fine - your lines looked GREAT!

Shannshaff, what do you consider "a lot" of BD? I really wish I could be like you ladies...I'm soooo okay with 1-2x/week, maybe less! :surprise:

Shinay, hang in there, I know how frustrating long cycles and negative opk's can be! But please listen to me as I learned it the hard way....don't overstress it!! I did that the cycle before last and ended up not O'ing until CD38 from the stress. It's not worth it - it will happen. Hugs!

Sky, good luck with the bd plan!!

Ash, hope you're feeling good otherwise! :)

[AshFind]

Thanks max! Feeling scary good most of the times.
We told the boys tonight and my oldest says Dad will have another to wrestle with and I said well what if it's a girl. Lol he said I hope not that would mess everything up [emoji23]


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[kat1234]

Pbn - I'm not planning on temping. I can't find my thermometer and my husband already made fun of me for buying opks and preseed (just in case) bc I told him I wouldn't go extreme, ha! I do keep track of everything else on fertility friend though. Can I share my calendar if I'm a free user?? I tried to share with pbn3 but I seriously doubt that worked.

Max - I'm usually good with one/twice a week too, normal is relative [emoji12] I'm fine to step it up for a couple months too though!


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[kat1234]

And pbn - can't wait to hear your results!! I'm sure they are super high now!


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[Pbn3]

Ash that's hilarious!!

Kat yes you can share your link to ff chart. Go into the dropbox r/h side on ff homepage, select share chart and data, select create/view homepage then touch the web link you see. It will open in your web browser so copy the address in the browser address and paste into a message here :)

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[dreamingella]

Ash hilarious!
My boys used to say all they wanted was a sister and now all of a sudden they say girls are all drama. [emoji23] We're going to try to wait until we know the gender to tell them. Try being the key word here!


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[AshFind]

Dreamingella you really only have about 7 weeks left until you find out gender right? If I can't get the blood test I'll have to wait until July 22nd that's forever away! Did you get your second beta today?


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[dreamingella]

Yep I got the second beta today but it's not rushed so I won't get the results until tomorrow morning which is probably around noon time for you.
July does feel like forever away but the kids will be out of school soon and then it will go faster!
My doc office reminded me that the first u/s is between 6-8 weeks when I insisted on being there on the 6 week mark. The same thing when we discussed the blood test, they said 8-10. But I pushed my "advanced age" and ectopic as reason to get it all done early. Plus it wasn't my nurse who knows me personally, just the scheduling person. They're usually pretty accommodating but there is still risk that I won't get the blood test done until the week of June 19th. I really want it the week of June 5th so we have results! Patience is not my strong suit!


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[Lolabelle]

Popping in to say heyyyyy!
Pbn-I KNOW it's going to be great! I know the wait probably feels like forever! It's approx 9:30 PM here & I may have to stay up late just so I can hear your news!! FX so hard!!!!
Max-Are you counting down? I am!! Can't wait for Fri-yay!
Sky-don't let your BD schedule stress you out. It does sound like there has been a lot of blue success with eod, but you have to do what makes you feel comfortable! It took me awhile to accept the 1 attempt for pink, but I'm rolling with it & praying for my girlie!!
Ash-that is too funny about what your ds said! They need a little sis to protect & treat like a princess [emoji146] You make beautiful boys, can you imagine what a beauty your girl will be!
Kat-I'm a free ff member too & you can share your chart. Not sure if I remember well enough to explain how to do it though [emoji848]
AFM-nothing new to report. Just moving along. Boys are going to grandma's for the night Friday, giving DH & I a date night. A little wine & dining in my future...and working on my e3d BD plans [emoji12] I need to make this work! I am off for the summer in 3 or so weeks. I think it would be so fun leaving work knowing that I'm pregnant & having a little secret all summer, then sharing when I'm back to work in August & already knowing gender...that is what I'm aiming for!! It seems like mostly coworkers who ask all the time "trying for the girl yet." I smile & say maybe sometime in the future...we'll see


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[kat1234]

Pbn - sent you a message with link!

Anyone else's kiddos start acting crazy when you think you want another one/TTC?! Mine have been terrible tonight!


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[dreamingella]

Oh Kat1234, yes! I swear both my husband and I are like, "are we sure we want this?!" All kidding aside, my patience is thin. I've noticed that probably due to being in this mode and the diet and then the hormones. Be easy on yourself.


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[kat1234]

Dreaming - good, glad we aren't the only crazy ones!! I'm not that great of a pregnant person so this could get interesting [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] IF I get pregnant!!


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[Pbn3]

Yes it worked Katt!! I have added you to my stalking list [emoji102]

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[dreamingella]

Yep! The pg symptoms are just starting for me Kat. So this is going to get real interesting!
You'll get pregnant. You're part of Mellifluous May!!!


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[AshFind]

Dreamingella I have zero patience that's y I pay for an extra u/s at 15 weeks for gender [emoji23]!
Lola so frustrating when ppl make comments and they have NO IDEA!! If we have a girl I can only hope she takes the same genes my boys got! This is HORRIBLE of me but my only niece didn't get the same genes [emoji17].
Kat Bahaha my husband asks all the time are you really sure about this!



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[Lolabelle]

Dreaming-can't wait for you to find out gender!! I was thinking that the earliest they do the materniT21 is 10 weeks. Is that the test that you'll do?


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[dreamingella]

Lola - it may be the same test and I may have totally unrealistic expectations! I had my two boys when they were still doing amnios for women over 35. So when I had my IUD taken out last July, I asked about the amnio since I'm older now. My doctor told me that they rarely do that anymore unless they have any reason to believe there could be a problem and told me instead I'll get a blood test between 8-10 weeks that determines all that now, including gender. Sounds the same though. So I should probably prepare myself for a couple extra weeks!


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[Pbn3]

One last post from me until I find out results. My hcg needs to be 360 or higher in order to have doubled. I'm an absolute mess atm, madly doing housework to keep busy but it's not helping distract me at all 😣 I haven't been able to eat anything, my stomach is in knots and my hands are shaking. Gosh I hope they have the results when I ring in an hour....sorry for harping on about it, you'd think I'd be used to being in this position by now but I'm not. It's just as bad as every other time. Vent over and no more I promise until result is in :)

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[AshFind]

Ugh pbn I'm not sure I'll hold on for another hour! But I'll check when I get up to use the bathroom.


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[dreamingella]

You got me here out West, Pbn. I'm ready and waiting to hear the good news!


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[AshFind]

Pbn you and dreamingella will find out near the same time gender I bet!
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Had to show you gals [emoji7][emoji12] my addiction lives!! Dh is getting a bit perturbed I think lol so I may need to tone it down. The more I buy the more I'm going to be devastated (though I hate to say that because I'll love a boy just as much). I truely need to quit but she will need little booties being born in January [emoji4]


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[Pbn3]

Gorgeous booties Ash 😍😍 and I'll probably stay team green 😉

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[AshFind]

Oh your so patient!! I seriously wish I could do that but there's no way I'd give myself a heart condition haha


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[dreamingella]

Oh my gosh, Ash! I can't let myself go there yet. It's so hard because I already know some of my first stops for outfits and goodies.
Ok so enlighten me. What is team green?! I've been out of the game for awhile!


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[AshFind]

Not finding out gender


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[Lolabelle]

I'm still up pbn! I def understand the anxious feeling...but you're going to be just fine!!! I was team green last time & it was awesome-not this time though! Dreaming-that's not finding out gender until birth! I need to know early this time & it sounds like you do too lol!
Ash-those boots are adorbs!!! I knew you'd have another cute find this week! I'm ready to hear you're having a girl already!!


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[Lolabelle]

Pbn-forgot to mention, love that you're keeping tabs on our charts! [emoji12]
Dreaming-here's the info on the test at my dr's office. They start at 10weeks.
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[dreamingella]

Omg I can't wait. No matter the outcome, I must know!
Thanks for providing Lola!


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[Pbn3]

Just rang and results not in yet. Ringing back in an hour 😣😣😣

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[netti02]

Fx so tight pbn. Must be almost time.

I told DH today that his Mum asked if we were having anymore. I said it's because she still holds hope. I kind of wanted him to feel abit guilty just knowing it's not only me that's crossing everything.

Its going to be so hard not to try this month and next. So im just going to keep trying to plod along. DH knows im not done. I can only hope ds5's 1st bday in July really hits home for him and I can have my wicked way and be done 😂😂

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[AshFind]

Haha netti I hope you get your dh on board.
Pbn they need to know what rush order means!!
Lola I wish I had that kind of info on my providers site but I'll have to wait until I go to find out if I can have it. I know a dr that's nearer to me does it at any age as long as insurance covers and I have great insurance so maybe I can get my dr on board. I'm going to try my best.


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[Pbn3]

Hey netti how about bding with you on top and not getting off on time 😉

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[Lolabelle]

I know Dreaming, there's no way I can wait to hear gender this time & 10 weeks doesn't even seem early enough!
Netti-fx that you are able to get the plan going in July!! Are you waiting so that you can perfect your diet? I don't recall the reason for postponing?
Pbn-I'm just going to rest my eyes & check back so we can celebrate!!


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[netti02]

Lol pbn that was last cycle but DH has pretty good control. Thats why ill be whipping the big guns out for July. I was thinking of heading to the gym early a couple of mornings to add in some cardio. As we are heading into winter though this makes its soooo much harder. Ill just keep trying to think of the bigger picture

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[Pbn3]

Hahahaha netti I read your post at first glance as pulling out the whips 😂😂😂

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[Pbn3]

No worries Lola!!

And Ash I know right!!! She even wrote urgent twice 😂

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[netti02]

Lola- postponing for diet (im so super boy friendly in that department its no wonder I have 5) and adding in exercise. Ds4 bday is in February and a May attempt would be Feb Dd and i think thats right on his birthday. I already have my 2 older boys 1 week apart 😂

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[netti02]

Lol Pbn whatever it takes whips and all 😂😂

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[Pbn3]

Can't hurt to try 😂😂 a bit of s&m might just go a long way😂😂

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[dreamingella]

I really enjoy when Pbn gets convincing! Things happen!


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[Pbn3]

😂😂😂 dreaming!!!

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[Pbn3]

I have to say you wonderful ladies are a much better distraction than housework 😂 cant believe I've been laughing 😀😀😀

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[Skyblue]

Oh my god. I didn't get the notification and I was holding my breath reading each line.
Pbn - I m not closing my eyes tonight until ur results are in. Fx fx
Will be bk soon.


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[Pbn3]

Omg result is 460 [emoji304][emoji304] [emoji304] [emoji304] [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] [emoji322] please be my sticky bean!!!!!

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[dreamingella]

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This could not be better news! Congrats friend!!!


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[Pbn3]

Thank you so much dreaming!!! I'm so freaking happy right now 😄

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[dreamingella]

How's progesterone looking? Did they give you that value?


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[netti02]

Huge congrats pbn crossing everything for you xx

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[LMSM]

Hello gals!

Sorry I only quickly scanned the latest posts, so probably missed a heap of info!

Shinay – sorry you still aren’t getting positive opk’s – it feels like forever when you’re waiting and sitting on the bench, ready to gear up – when do you normally O?

Skyblue – like you it’s the morning attempt I doubt we will be able to slot in – with the kids waking up around 6am unless I basically jump on top of him still asleep I doubt this one will happen lmao bet alternative might be a sneaky quickie when the youngest has her nap and eldest is playing…IF positive opk even is falling on a WE …I like you am having knots in my brain from planning this whole BD business.
We are doing unprotected BD – though it has taken me time to get to terms with it lol now after reading extensively on here have decided that is the way to go – but even eod before pos opk might not do it (not sure Dh could manage), so aiming for e3d until attempt time if we can’t do eod (eod is when there is 48h between BDs, right?).
Hate not being able to know with 100% certainty and in advance when I will actually O – it is such a worry :P

PBn – yeah! Congrats on the beautiful betas more than doubling – fx bub continues to grow well :D
Oh and yep, charting indeed – my link is in my signature – do you need me to send you the link for it to work for you? ^^

Gah – sorry TMI, just went to the loo, and lo and behold, starting to get EWCM (or it might just be a fluke as only on CD10)…better get my opks cracking when I get back from work tonight, just in case!!
Fortunately my thrush seems to be on the way out the door, so should be good to BD tonight and then continue on, depending on opk progression :D we might be in for this month after all – woohoo!

[Skyblue]

Pbn - I am over the moon. Hugs. Woohooo. Fx so tight for u and for a happy healthy sticky bean.


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[Lolabelle]

OMG pbn!!! That is wonderful!!! Sooo happy for you yay yay yay [emoji322][emoji322] Drifted off to sleep, but had to check back in & so glad I did. Woohoooo!!! Now I can rest knowing this awesome news xoxo.


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[Pbn3]

Thank you ladies!!!!! You were all so good at bearing with me today so thank you again forthat as well!

Dreaming they didn't test progesterone only hcg quant. I'll be ringing my obs office on Monday and I'm sure she'll order the works 😂

LMSM I got your pm with chart link thank you! I'm on tapatalk so I don't see signatures unless they are through tapatalk :)

Sky and Lola ❤❤❤ you girls xx

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[AshFind]

Had to check YAY pbn


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[maximbella]

Pbn, such awesome news!!! So happy for you and praying this is your sticky bean!!! [emoji175]


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[netti02]

I tell you what ladies if i didn't have Af i would feel totally UTD!! Sore Bbs, what feels like implantation pains, i feel hot like ive ovulated or am preg. Completely irritable. I took a test this morning 😂😂 and it was neg as was the opk.

I must have a serious hormone imbalance. I just can't work out which hormone is doing this to me 😢😢

And i can't wait for my kiddies to get to bed tonight. Totally driving me bonkers today

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[Pbn3]

Thank you Ash and Maxim ❤❤❤

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[maximbella]

Netti, have you ever had your hormones checked?

Someone asked about kids driving your crazy when you are ttc....yes yes yes!! Mine went through a stage when they were getting so much easier, but recently we have been regressing somewhat. I just keep reminding myself that the days are long, but the years are short. I look back at their pictures and see how quickly they are growing and it makes me appreciate the "now", tantrums and all, since I know there will come a time where I can't soothe them by cuddling anymore, etc. Now that said, there are nights (and days) where there isn't enough wine to drink to cope with my crazies! [emoji23]


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[Pbn3]

Omg maxim your chart is looking amazing!! Your going to start testing tomorrow right??!!! I've seen that temp pattern of very little variance in quiet a few bfp charts fx so tight it means that for you!!!! Cant wait!! How many actual hours till you test??

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[Pink Pony]

Yay pbn ��������

[kat1234]

Pbn -YAY! YAY! YAY!!

Max - I agree, your chart is looking awesome!!


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[XXforhubby]

Pbn3-That is wonderful news my friend [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]! You definitely have a sticky bean on board! I'm SO very excited for you [emoji8]❤️!

Maxim- I'm loving your chart!!! I can't wait to see your tests soon! 🤞🏻!!

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[maximbella]

Wow really?? It's the first cycle that I'm vaginally temping instead of orally, so it's hard to know if previous charts would have looked similar but had more variations due to the nature of oral temps. It's also the opposite of my two bfp cycles where my temps somehow went down instead of up when I got a positive hpt, but we will know for sure either way this weekend. Yessss starting to test tomorrow!! [emoji323] I thought about it this morning but then decided against it.


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[Sumbal]

Maxim when you ll start testing? Can't wait to see the results. So excited for you.

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[cosmosis]

Can't wait for your test Maxim! :)

[maximbella]

I'll test tomorrow am, which is about 21 hours away (but who's counting...)!

Thanks cosmo!! How are you? When do you find out gender???

[Sumbal]

We are all waiting Maxim

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[maximbella]

Cervix is super low, can't be a good sign!

[AshFind]

Max I've read a bunch cervix isn't a good indicator it can go low then back up. I can't wait for your test


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[netti02]

Fx Af stays away Maxim.

I haven't had my hormones tested but since the birth if ds5 ive felt pretty strange hormonal-ly on and off. I might look into it

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[IWant4Kids]

OMG ladies.....I need to do a massive catch-up this weekend!

PBN3 - have you had repeat bloods?

AFM: No AF, just spotting (dark brown)...apparantly after the cervix swelling goes down you can have some spotting (around 1 week later, which I am). I kind of think fate decided this wasn't the right month....our mortgage refinance finally went thrrough this week and our engine went in the car two weeks ago and tomorrow we find out whether it can be repaired or if we need a new one. Lots of stresses, which will all be sorted by the time we try again. It's been a stressful time, so all of that stress will be gone super soon.

Hope everyone is well x Miss you all!

[mummy2boys]

Pbn- fantastic news! So pleased for you.
Maxim- looking forward to seeing your test! Your chart looks really good. Don't worry about your cervix, I think it can change its position throughout the day. Mine is always on the low side [emoji23]
Sumbal- how are you doing? Have you done another opk yet?


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[mummy2boys]

Sorry sumbal, didn't mean you [emoji85] meant shinay haha


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[dreamingella]

Max I just took a look back at my chart for comparison and I had a medium/low cervix when I got my bfp. Your chart looks great, but don't put too much stock in it. I can't wait for you to start testing!!!


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[mummy2boys]

I want4- glad your stresses will be gone soon. It really all does seem to come at once doesn't it! Hopefully it will be the right time for you soon.


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[IWant4Kids]

Pbn3- wohoooo!!! Just saw your results [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji1317][emoji1317][emoji1317][emoji1317][emoji1317][emoji1317]


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[shinay]

Pbn: saw your result last night but i was too sleepy. Haha sorry. The number is fantastic. I am so happy for you!

Mummy2boys: i did another test last night, negative. Didnt wanna ruin Pbn happy moment. So i didnt post about it. My temp rise quite a bit today. Not sure what is going on.

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[shinay]

Do you guys think i missed my surge or that i have O already?

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[AshFind]

Shinay I don't think so. I think your temp would rise higher. usually post O temps are in the 98s but if you have Od ff will give you cross hairs in a couple days. Are you orally temping? (Sorry if you've heard this a million times I'm guessing you are since temps are all over)


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[AshFind]

Your boys sway aren't you?


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[shinay]

Ash: yes boy sway for me and i temp orally. I probably will switch to vaginal temping next time if this doesnt work out

[AshFind]

I'm sure pbn can give a wayyy better answer [emoji4] but I don't think you missed it. Can't wait to see the opk today what time is it where u r


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[Lolabelle]

Pbn-I know you're on cloud 9! Love love looovve your fantastic news!! [emoji322][emoji322]
Max-1 more day! 1 more day! Can't wait! Let's get this Friday started on a BFPositive note [emoji12]
Iwant4-I'm glad your stresses will be over by ttc time! When it rains it pours!! Then a rainbow of course [emoji4]
Netti-I def get it. If I don't have my Feb baby next cycle, I'll have a baby due on DS2's bday!! I'm going to the dr Tues to see what's going on, you may want to consider getting checked out too. My AF has been very heavy, 1 (maybe 2) CPs and going on month 5 ttc!! We'll get on track!! [emoji106]


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[shinay]

Max: i cant wait for your test on friday. I will be counting down the hour! Fx for bfp!

It is 7am in Cali. I will test around 1pm :pray:
Can you surge and O on the same day?

[AshFind]

Shinay I think they say 12-46hours but I like to think I got my pos opk and O the same day by the way I felt but then again they say you can't judge it by cramps. [emoji53]


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[shinay]

So i was getting ready for work. And just checked my cervix. It is not as high and as soft like past couple days. But the cervix is still open though. I think i might not even O this cycle

[shinay]

Ash: i hate not knowing exactly when i O. And i heard as you grow older, the surge becomes shorter and shorter so i guess it is very likely surge and O could be on the same day. When will you know if you can figure out gender early? I hope you get your dream pink bundle.

[AshFind]

[emoji24] thank you so much! It really seems so far out of reach like impossible for me to ever have a girl! My first appointment is June 9th I'll find out then if I can have the blood test. If I can't I'll pay for an extra scan on July 22nd


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[AshFind]

I hope you O this cycle we need more in the ddg! I know it's so hard to try n not stress but it really does delay it. My first cycle I was all in stressin and peeing on everything and I didn't O till cd16 and this cycle after a vacation and trying to just enjoy myself I Od on 13


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[dreamingella]

Shinay I took a look at your chart and it doesn't look like you've ovulated as far as the data shows. I have seen some folks ovulate super late (I did this cycle on CD17). Unless AF has arrived, there's still a chance this cycle. I've also had an anovulatory (when you never ovulate in that cycle) cycle before, about 6 months ago. So if AF does arrive and you don't have a sustained temp spike, that's what likely happened. Lastly, the temps themselves aren't as important as the sustained spike. My follicular phase temps are usually in the low 97s and my luteal phase temps are usually in the high 97s, sometimes low 98s if I'm lucky. If they're lower than that for you in the luteal phase though, you may want to have your progesterone checked. Show your doc your chart.
Hope that's helpful. Pbn will keep me honest! [emoji12]


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[maximbella]

Shinay, for what it's worth, last cycle I never got a positive opk, but I had horrific cramps and my ob sent me in for an ultrasound that showed I had a cyst on my ovary and that I had ovulated! I couldn't believe it! This cycle, I got a positive opk on CD22 and FF says that I also O'd on CD22, which of course could be wrong! I feel like I should have been testing maybe 3x/day instead of 2 (note that I was also testing at the wrong times, so...). You have to go to the bathroom anyway, so might as well test so that you don't miss it. Maybe 11am, 2pm, and later in the evening? I'm new to all of this, so just my two cents as I'm learning...

[maximbella]

Also, with the temp dip yesterday and increase today, could you be Oing today?!

[Lolabelle]

Shinay-I agree that it doesn't look like you've O'd yet based on your chart. I would continue with BD eod to try to catch the egg just in case. I switched to vag temps & it has much more accurate & steady, so I def recommend that for you next cycle if this isn't the one.


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[Lolabelle]

Max, I wondered that too about shinay's chart. Maybe it'll keep rising-fx!! Can't wait to hear pbn's take on this!


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[dreamingella]

I think Max and Lola might be right. You may be in the middle of O right now, shinay.


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[shinay]

Ash: i hope they will let you do the bloodtl test early :fingers:
Tell me about it. This is my 1st month so definitely more stressed out than usual. I poas any chance i got lol...with delayed O. I almost finished my cb pack. I will need to buy more after work today haha. Debating between regular cb or advanced cb. Any thoughts?

Dreaming: over here, you cant see doctor till you have tried for at least a year. A year is a long time. Not sure if i can endure that long. I hope i have no issue with progesterone. Maybe just an odd cycle due to stress.

Max: i am an addict so i do test 3x a day when i got closer to my usual O day lol. Morning, 1pm and around 7-8pm. i hope that i would get a smiley after lunch today. If digi cb just fails to pick up my surge, i do hope i O later on today so we can put in one more attempt. Else we only have 1 attemp and it is O-2!

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[shinay]

Dh will need to stop by the house for couple hours for AC appointment check-up. Should i also go home and add in a quicky? Lol

[shinay]

Pbn: i need you badly!!! Could you give me some advice?

[Lolabelle]

Shinay-when was your most recent OPK? I'm really curious what your next one will look like. The advanced is more expensive, but I like how you can use it first thing in the morning & how it shows a progression from the blinky smiley to solid. It makes me feel like something is actually happening.


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[dreamingella]

I'd say, get in as many as you can, shinay! But your sway your way!


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[maximbella]

I agree with dreaming, can't hurt!!

[Lolabelle]

Agreed!!! Especially swaying blue, go for it!!!


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[shinay]

I took the test this morning. Still negative so i wasn't so excited and didn't take a picture of it. I should have.
Let me see if dh is in the mood for a quickie lol

[AshFind]

[emoji23] love it shinay!! If you do buy another digi just remember the first it set to always give you a blank. Maybe since your still on the same cycle use the same stick you have. Unless you buy the advanced I liked those a lot expecially swaying boy because you can gear up for lots of BD when it starts flashing


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[shinay]

okay so dh agrees to have a go right after our AC appointment. This is quite exciting lol
I hope this is not too late. Man, i don't know how i can have a big O with a quickie. Might have to finish the job myself afterwards. If i am O-ing right now, this attempt might be too late. But better be late than sorry later.

[shinay]

i have some cramps on my left side now

[AshFind]

That's hilarious!! Finish it off on your own [emoji23]
Yay for cramps!


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[Lolabelle]

Yay cramps! I've learned that cramps could be before during or after....but I bet it is still before and hopefully you're gearing up to O. I did a no-no with the advanced digi, but it worked. Decided to buy it last minute & started testing later than it recommends. I tested in the AM with FMU and got the blank circle that you always get, then I took a chance & tested that afternoon and got the blinking smiley!


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[Lolabelle]

And yay for quickie [emoji854]


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[Pbn3]

Hi all its only 4.40am so I'm going to try sleep again before I post my usual morning novel 😂

Shinay I've checked your chart and I don't think you've oed yet. Lets see what the next few days temps look like but you did awesome getting a quickie (high five!!) in today as if you are oing today then your covered beautifully with eod attempts 😀 Can you poa an dip opk after a couple hour hold so we can see how it looks? Also keep the collected urine just in case... what time is it where you are??

I'll be back in an hour or so, possibly sooner if I cant get back to sleep


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[Pbn3]

Who am I kidding? I cant get back to sleep, I'm far too excited [emoji322] [emoji322] [emoji322]

Going to make hubby's lunch for work and a decaf coffee (already miss my favourite beverage [emoji17] oh hang on that's wine 😂 ok so my 2nd fave beverage) but decaf can easily be my new fave for 9 months!!) Anyway I'll brb!!

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[dreamingella]

I'm dying waiting for my 2nd set of betas to come back. I should have had them by now! Argh!


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[Pbn3]

@xxforhubby thank you so much for all your support these past two years ❤❤ I still remember how I felt when you found out you were having your long awaited daughter [emoji24] (those are super happy tears and my mouth is saying OMG!!!) You have been a rock to so very many people here and I am just thrilled I get to stick around abit longer!!! Can't wait for newborn pics 😀😀

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[shinay]

Pbn: there you are! I am glad you agreed with the quickie lol. I used up my last cb test so i need to buy another pack. I think it might be too late to switch to the advanced so imma stick with the normal cb for now. I did the test around 11am. Cb just shows empty circle like usual, the easy@home dip test is lighter than control line. So it makes me think that the cb just didnt pick up my surge. I will post the pictures later (didnt take pics again, i know)

For next time (in case i dont make it this time), which test should i use? Normal cb, advanced cb, i also saw first response ovulation test....do you think it is any better than the cb?

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[AshFind]

@dreamingella I was just popping on to see if you had them yet!
Pbn so glad your excited and can't sleep lol for some reason I'm having mixed emotions today. Scared mostly I guess dh wonders why I'm not more excited and honestly I thought I would be also. In the past I've always told I'm pregnant the second I found out. I just feel different this time like everytime I go to the Br I'm just waiting to see it on the paper! WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!!! Only symptom I notice really is sore bbs and extreme tiredness. Anyway enough of my wining
Dreaming you should give them a call. That's what they're there for


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[Skyblue]

Hello Ladies.
Pbn - You always crack me up. Morning novel🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hope u ate something after your bw result yesterday. I am also not getting much sleep these days and I miss sleeping. [emoji52][emoji52]
Max - I wish I could fast forward the day to Friday. Can't wait. [emoji52]
Shinay - How funny is the quickie part but it's so true and I can totally relate to it. Sometimes after solid smiley I keep observing our situation to see if we can fit in a quickie anytime. [emoji12][emoji12][emoji12] Dh sometimes gets shocked to see how my brain works. [emoji12][emoji12][emoji51][emoji51]
This BD business for blue sway gets harder with kids and busy husband. [emoji849]Fx for u to get a bfp this month.
I use cb advance and it's bn good so far but didn't result in a bfp yet may be because I m not doing eod. The only thing is that u need to start testing early so that it can give u flashing smiley and solid thereafter. The test day is based on previous cycle length.
Lolla - Good luck with the doc's appointment. Keep us updated.
Ash - How are u feeling? I craved iced water like crazy when I was pregnant with dd. I used to drink chilled water all the time. And I had no other cravings. [emoji51][emoji12]
Dreaming - How many hours??
Iwant4kids- I hope the stressful situation goes away soon so that u can start ttc. Xoxo.



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[shinay]

Pbn: and what do you mean by keep the collected urine just in case? In case of what would happen?

[dreamingella]

I've been waiting on hold FOREVER! They're probably at lunch and I'll just here. Ugh!
Ya know Ash, I've been feeling the same way. I keep checking and expecting to see spotting. I'm so cautious and anxious like it's not real. I also don't have much in the way of symptoms. No bb soreness even. Just fatigue and nausea in the late afternoon. I was cramping big time yesterday and freaked out but Pbn talked me off the ledge and it ended being that I was just constipated.
So vent away. I'm here to listen and validate you!


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[shinay]

Dreaming: hope you get the result soon!

Skyblue: haha how creative we all are when it comes to ttc. I cant imagine finding time to bd with kids. I already find it so hard to dtd around O with our work schedule. It works best if O falls on weekend, else it will be hard to squeeze in 3 attempts.

Dh was quite surprised when i mentioned quickie since i normally dont lol. He was all for it. Well lets see how my temp will be tomorrow.

[Pbn3]

Kat thank you!!!

Ok maxim I've worked out you should be testing in 14 hours time which will be 9.30pm my time which means I'll be awake 👀 woohoo!!!

Netti it certainly couldn't hurt to get tested?? Let us know what you decide...... no let us know when you've booked an appt 😉

So good to hear from you Iwant4kids!!! And thank you!! I'm still pinching myself that this has happened!!! Hope everything works out for the best financially wise and you can kiss that stress away and get back to ttc xxoo

Thank you mummy2boys!!! Hopefully you're only a few days from go time!! How are your opks looking?

Shinay thank you!! And wow what a lovely gesture not posting but please in future don't ever feel you have to refrain from posting anything ❤ I'm coming back to you shortly, just going to finish this novel first 😂

Lola I just adore what you wrote - "Iwant4-I'm glad your stresses will be over by ttc time! When it rains it pours!! Then a rainbow of course 😊" Really hit me in the feels I love it!! What a beautiful person you are to think of such a beautiful thing to say ❤🌈
And thank you for being so happy for me!! Cant wait to see how your appt goes!!!!

Hope I haven't forgotten anyone please let me know if I have :)


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[kat1234]

Sky - your just a tad ahead of me this month, I'm on CD 6, so we can stress about BD together [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]

I'm thinking I'm going to try sperm meets egg?? That's got to be boy friendly - right?? But, won't start EOD until CD 10. I really don't think I ovulate until CD 14-18 so don't want my husband to get burned out. I don't know that he would but everything on here scares me he might, ha!


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[shinay]

Here is my test at 11am
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[dreamingella]

Woah Shinay that is a positive or very close to one! I use those cheapie strips and have had great success with them.




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[AshFind]

Shinay do you save your previous days tests? It looks like this past one is darker than what you posted last time. Can you put them all together to see a progression?


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[Pbn3]

Omg another page has been added since I started my novel 😂😂 Could you imagine how noisy we would be if we were in a room together 😂😂😂

Dreaming I CANNOT wait until you get your results!!!! You'll probably post them as I'm writing this!

Shinay definately too late to switch to advanced. Keep using the same tester but use the new sticks. Just put aside the new tester for now and you can throw it out when you get yor bfp 😉 IF there is a next time I'd just use the dip tests only until you start seeing a halfway there line then start using the regular digis as well. I would also only use the digi at 1pm test and possibly again later if you are worried about missing your surge. It would be very expensive otherwise. About the keep caught urine jut in case I was referring to testing a dip test only and if it looks positive then you have the same sample to use with digi :) what time is it where you are now?

Ash big hugs and what you're feeling is sooooo normal. I worry every. single. time I pee that I'm going to see blood. Every time my nausea goes or my bbs don't feel as sore my mind automatically thinks I'm losing the pregnancy. But then the nausea and soreness come back and I could cry with relief 😂 I cant wait for our 7 week scans to give some peacenof mind. While I'm thrilled with my hcg results I still don't feel entirely safe as my second mc started with awesome betas too. So we will keep each other sane and just keep breathing until our scans in a few short weeks.

Hi Sky and yes I ate!! I think I was smack bang in the middle of THE longest panic attack yesterday but onceI got the results I felt normal within 10 minutes 😂😂 oooooh you start poas tomorrow whoop whoop!!! I know it'll be an open circle but it's still a beginning!!!


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[AshFind]

I think you should take another one pronto ! [emoji4]


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[dreamingella]

My draw was yesterday at 10:30am. It's 1pm now. That's 26.5 hours. My 1st round results were posted early the morning after. So I keep hitting refresh like a maniac and now I can't wait on hold any longer because of a work call. End rant!


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[AshFind]

Pbn thanks! I don't even feel nausea much at all only if I take a nap then I feel like poo when I wake up! Bbs very mildly sore. I will feel a sense of relief when I make it to my 8 week scan but that's 4 whole weeks away! [emoji52]


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[dreamingella]

Agree with Ash, Shinay!


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[Pbn3]

Shinay I agree that does look like a first positive, I bet your next test will be even darker! What time is it where you are!!! Unusual the digis aren't in agreeance..... agree with Ash poas!!!! (Especially if it's between 1-2pm)

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[XXforhubby]

@xxforhubby thank you so much for all your support these past two years [emoji173][emoji173] I still remember how I felt when you found out you were having your long awaited daughter [emoji24] (those are super happy tears and my mouth is saying OMG!!!) You have been a rock to so very many people here and I am just thrilled I get to stick around abit longer!!! Can't wait for newborn pics [emoji3][emoji3]

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Awe, thank you! Right back at ya! I'm just so thrilled to be here to catch this moment and to be around for your pregnancy! I'm so overjoyed for you and know that I have not stopped sending positive, healthy, sticky baby vibes your way! I can also send you some pink baby dust, finally!!

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[Pbn3]

Shinay WHERE ARE YOU!!!!! You're killing us with the suspense!!!

Dreaming I'm dying here so I cant imagine how you're feeling. Hopefully not much longer.....

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[Skyblue]

Sky - your just a tad ahead of me this month, I'm on CD 6, so we can stress about BD together [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]

I'm thinking I'm going to try sperm meets egg?? That's got to be boy friendly - right?? But, won't start EOD until CD 10. I really don't think I ovulate until CD 14-18 so don't want my husband to get burned out. I don't know that he would but everything on here scares me he might, ha!


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It will be great to be so close in our cycle. I usually O between cd15-17. You know I was thinking if I won't have any luck even this cycle then I might start doing eod starting anyway after cd10 coz I m too nervous to do unprotected before that.
Are u going to use Preseed ? I take guaifenesin from cd 11. Thinking of using Preseed too this cycle. I want to try to do 3 attempts after pos opk with a little Preseed this cycle and will hold my breath for a bfp. If it still doesn't happen then I need a game plan. [emoji12][emoji12][emoji12][emoji41][emoji41] This is our 3rd attempt for ttc. Last two cycles, we ended up with only 2 attempts. [emoji849][emoji849]
Can u post ur chart. I love reading charts these days.
I think Sperm meets egg sways blue.
@Pbn3- Can u pls tell if it's right?


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[Skyblue]

Shinay - That looks very close. I think u r getting blank circle because it's not the advance one and it can turn solid anytime looking at ur wondfo. I think this would be a flashing smiley time had u been using the cb advance. What do u think ladies?
Shinay Update us soon pls.
[emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]
Dreaming - Anything?? Can u call them and ask if it's not updating online. Is that an option?


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[shinay]

Don't mean to keep you guys hanging. I asked for some time off due to "emergency" so catching up at work now lol....i will update you guys ASAP!

[Pbn3]

Sky I ❤ your plan for this cycle!!! I know you're worried about the am bd but can you maybe think about the idea of setting an alarm and 'waking (wanking 😂)' dh up to the idea so he's possibly getting close to the big o before you even start intercourse?? You could even use a small amount of preseed on him for lubrication? Maybe the change up and you initiating things that way will help with him performance wise. I hope no one minds me speaking so bluntly but there really is no such thing as tmi or off limit subject matter when ttc 😊

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[Skyblue]

Absolutely Pbn. I m not letting the am attempt go without a fight. [emoji41][emoji41][emoji41]
I havebn working on my game plan. [emoji12][emoji12][emoji12]
I wish I could be the guy only for the BD part. Dh is super cooperative but a lady gets the job done even in stressful times YKWIM. My mind just works at different level of high around O[emoji12][emoji12][emoji12][emoji12]Dh wants to BD everyday these days. I told him last night to keep the flow going next week too. [emoji41][emoji41][emoji41]
I wish our libido could be in sink not a week apart. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji38]



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[Skyblue]

Pbn - I keep imagining in my head about what U said. How would it be if we all will be in the same room. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]


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[Pbn3]

That's always the way sky and fx you'll be in sync when it counts! As for getting the job done as a woman yes! Yes! Yes! We see it thru everytime even if our mind is thinking about what to have for dinner the next night because we'll be at the shops tomorrow and what do we already have in the cupboard that won't need buying 😂😂😂

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[Pbn3]

Pbn - I keep imagining in my head about what U said. How would it be if we all will be in the same room. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]


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I know right!!!!!! Even worse if we were at a cafe or restaurant 😂😂😂😂 can you imagine how the staff would be looking at us??!!! Not just because of the noise but the subject matter 😂😂😂😂 omg I'm dying laughing thinking about it!!! Especially if we were discussing cm and cervix position/texture ahahahahaha!!!!!

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[Skyblue]

I can't stop laughing. BD, dtd,Ewcm, bfp. They will lose their mind. And not to forget calling each other with the names we have here. Oh boy that will be some crazy get together. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji51][emoji51][emoji51]


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[Pbn3]

I didn't even think of the usernames!! 😂😂😂😂 laughing even more now!!! There was a lady in a ddg I was part of briefly and her username was 'stink.ee' 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm not joking I have never laughed so hard

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[Skyblue]

Me too. U r so funny. I have tears in my eyes laughing. They might think we r from some other planet. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]🤣🤣🤣🤣


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[shinay]

Ash: i dont have all the test to do the progression :(...i will do that in the future

Pbn: it would be so much fun if we are all in one room together. non-stop chit-chatting for sure. i have an extra box of regular cb, i should just exchange it for the advanced then. Thanks for giving all these useful advice! Also, what is your take on bsf?

[shinay]

skyblue, Pbn: you guys are funny! have to control myself not to LOL at work.

Skyblue: Goodluck with your game plan! Make sure you get your am attempt in. Give him a challenge! i should have used the advanced. At least the flashing smile will help me feel sth is happening so i wouldn't be as frustrated. I keep wondering if my surge is too low for cb to pick up.

At least i am not too worry now since I got one attempt in today. I will check again tonight, but i already gave up on the cb now [emoji32]. Anxiously waiting for temp tomorrow. I normally take my temp at 6am, but I might need to move to 5am. So if anything, i could have my am bd before dh goes to work.

[dreamingella]

Omg you guys... I waited on hold FOR.EV.ER!!! I thought I was going to pass out from the anxiety!
HCG went from 105 on Monday to 459 yesterday!!!!!! I can't even believe this is real!


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