Can I talk to you about my BFP?

[atomic sagebrush]

You ALWAYS have a chance of a girl. Please don't beat yourself up, you never know it may be the universe's way of HELPING you get a DD.

Remember, all these people out in the world, get boys and girls without even thinking about any of this stuff!!

[californiadreaming]

Maiden, it was probably 12 hours or a little over between having stark white internet strip and a clear + on FRER (which I thought was weird!), hope that helps

[maidentomother]

Thanks hun! I'll let you know. I'll be 13dpo in a few hours and still no hint of AF. I didn't sleep well so not sure about my temp, thus part of why I didn't test.

[maidentomother]

BFN last night, haven't tested today. I will test again on Saturday if AF still hasn't come. If still BFN and no AF, I'll get a beta done Monday, 17dpo.

[californiadreaming]

How's it going Maiden?

[maidentomother]

3rd day of AF alas, just took my first clomid dose. Thanks for asking! How are you feeling?

[californiadreaming]

Fingers crossed the climid does it's job this month - sending you lots of positive vibes

I'm OK, just so anxious to see if this pregnancy sticks and find out what I'm having. I'm not even 5 weeks, so have at least 11-12 weeks before I can go to a sexing scan - also I told a few people so that I had someone to talk to but nobody really seems to be very happy or excited for us... and my husband keeps forgetting that I'm pregnant...

[maidentomother]

Thank you. <3

Those early weeks are the mosr difficult, so I'm extra sorry to hear your family isn't being as supportive as you need. I've never understood why people seem to celebrate each successive child less, as each is a unique miracle and deserves just as much attention & excitement. I hope once you pass into the 2nd tri and announce officially that everyone warms up and gives your newest baby its due. *I* am super excited for you! I'd love to hear anything you want to share about what you're experiencing, how you're feeling...I can be your virtual cheerleader hun. Love & light to you both.

Oh and men can be utterly daft about these things. They just don't get it.

[Mrs_Bx]

Wow our experiences of getting bfp seem similar . I am sorry to here about your miscarriage . Me n my husband decided to put off ttc over Xmas so I could eat what I wanted , we also conceived New Years I don't no for sure but I must of ovulated that day or the day after because I got a very strong positive at only 11dpo. I'm gutted I could of ruined our last chance of a girly by not sticking to the diet over Xmas . Fingers crossed you hear pink we should have very similar due dates and sexing scans appts xx


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[californiadreaming]

Maiden thank you, that was a lovely message to read -like a sister! part of wanting a girl is that I have no sisters, or obviously daughters - just TONS of boys around me. thanks! crossing my fingers that january is your month - new year, new baby and all!

Mrs_Bx, ahh someone else in the same position! Yeah, it's maddening isn't it?? 3+ months of hard work and then bam, a few weeks off diet and BFP. I am so grateful and so anxious all at once. and then guilty on top... keep in touch x