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January 24th, 2014, 11:03 AM #1IVF Advice Coach
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Article about the chances of pregnancy as we age. Not as bad as you may think!
What’s The Right Age to Get Pregnant?
June 25, 2013 at 11:20 am , by Patty Adams Martinez
The gazillion dollar question for every woman of course is, “How long do I have left if I want to get pregnant?” Once a woman hits her 30s, terms like “biological clock” and “baby fever” suddenly enter her vernacular. And even women in their 20s are trying to juggle being the “right age to get pregnant” with wanting to start their careers and lives in general. As women, we’re programmed to believe that the self-destruct button on our uterus is about to go off, and it’s a race against time to get pregnant.
The message from the media—and even doctors—is clear: It doesn’t matter if you have goals you still want to achieve. Drop everything and spread your legs! And even then, it may be too late. Depressing, right?
Well, women in your 30s, it’s actually not too late to get pregnant (cue party music)! New research indicates that our widespread panic was for not. According to an article in The Atlantic, “It turns out the widely cited statistic that one in three women ages 35 to 39 will not be pregnant after a year of trying, for instance, is based on an article published in 2004 in the journal Human Reproduction. Rarely mentioned is the source of the data: French birth records from 1670 to 1830. The chance of remaining childless—30 percent—was also calculated based on historical populations. In other words, millions of women are being told when to get pregnant based on statistics from a time before electricity, antibiotics, or fertility treatment.”
How is this just now coming to light? Women who are not yet pregnant, or people like me who are contemplating their second child, or even someone who wants a third or fourth, can take a collective sigh of relief. We still have time!
A study published in Obstetrics & Gynecology in 2004 examined the chances of pregnancy among 770 European women. It found that with sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of 35-to-39-year-old women conceive within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds. Another study, released this March in Fertility and Sterility, has just as positive news. It followed 2,820 Danish women while they tried to get pregnant. Among women having sex during their fertile times, 78 percent of 35-to-40-year-olds got pregnant within a year, compared with 84 percent of 20-to-34-year-olds. Only a six percent difference!
Of course every woman is different, and I can’t tell you because you fall into a certain age range that you will or will not be able to have kids up to a certain age since there are plenty of other reasons for infertility besides age (ovulation issues, blocked fallopian tubes, or your guy’s low sperm count, amongst other things). But it should make you feel less pressure, and stress can also be a factor in infertility. So if you take that baby-making-anxiety away, you’re one step closer to getting pregnant!Mom to
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January 24th, 2014, 11:22 AM #2Swaying Advice Coach
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I agree totally and I think at least some of the people who have trouble getting pregnant have secondary health issues that may affect their odds negatively. If you're 35-39 in good health, esp. if you have had kids before, you have a great chance of conceiving but do know it may take a few more months.
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January 24th, 2014, 11:23 AM #3
For me my whole moms side went into menopause by 35. I am already running out of time. Hopefully this bout of TTC will go as quickly as the last 3.
DS 1 2008
DS 2 2010
DS 3 2013
May 2014 at 5 weeks
August 2014 at 12 weeks
DD1 our beautiful rainbow baby joined us october 2015. No sway...just miracles.
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January 24th, 2014, 11:39 AM #4
So good that articles like this get published, as there does seem so much doom and gloom surrounding the chances of older mums getting pg.
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January 28th, 2014, 10:27 PM #5
The one thing that is unclear though is whether the pregnancy was successful - we all know that egg quality does decline with age - although I don't consider 35 old, esp as I had my 4th at 40.
Mummy to three gorgeous girls :
DD1 7
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DS born sep 13
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