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[motherofboys]

I was just thinking it was girls night on there lol


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[motherofboys]

Ugh I know it's a different subject but how annoying are non-believers. I use another site that has a gender disappointment section which is where I heard about this place. Anyway I was answering a question and recommending GD and someone else replies saying how she doesn't think it has anything to do with dieting to make your body think that times are harder and produce a girl as she has a girl and is sure she has another on the way and that she never did anything like that. And that it's all timing! Annoyed me.


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[atomic sagebrush]

I understand some of the confusion but it's really daunting to me because it's just SUCH a huge job explaining it!!

[motherofboys]

I understand people bring skeptical, I think we all are to begin with but to say it can't be true at all because 1 people got 1 opposite just winds me up. It does with any subject lol when someone won't listen to both sides and just closes their mind.


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[foxymrsg]

I know what you mean!!! I hate hate hate when people say to me well you've got a 75% chance of having another boy as it goes up everytime you have the same sex!!! Um and the science behind that Einstein is......this of course came from the lady who has got BGG her desired genders and has never even heard of diet for swaying but knows all about timing and really how that's how I should have done that to get a DD as it's a scientifically proven method! (Obviously the same science behind the 75% then!!) lol! Sometimes you just can't explain as it's too hard to argue with ignorance! Would LOVE to be able to see everything about these ladies lives, diet, exercise, times BD etc just so we could point out how some of those things combined resulted in their DG not timing! Lol! *and getting off my soapbox! Lol

[motherofboys]

I didn't reply to her any more in the end.
The way I see it is whether swaying works or everyone who got their DG were just lucky, after 4 of the same gender, what can it hurt to try a little diet change and exercise?


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[foxymrsg]

Absolutely agree! The way I feel is that if I have a third son he's meant to be here but I can say I tried and gave it my all! Do you have a month of when you starting to TTC?

[motherofboys]

No I don't yet. I'm still awaiting the return of af. My youngest son is 6 months and was exclusively breastfeeding until about a month ago. We are now doing formula in the day and breast at night, so I'm hoping to see a return sooner rather than later.
Dh won't commit to a date until we can move either. Which will happen when it happens. I'm looking but nothing's come up yet. So kind of waiting on things out of my control.
BUT Dh isn't being overly careful to prevent a pregnancy either. I think he is hoping it will just happen and all be perfect and magically a girl lol so I think in going to make some changes just in case.
I saw something on Facebook just this evening that fits my diet perfectly. It said "the most accurate description for my diet is 'unchaperoned child at a party' "
So I will be cutting my grazing out and focusing on just eating meals, with lower fat versions and less meat. I don't eat breakfast any more anyway. Just dont have time. And starting my exercise. Going to make sure I take in enough calories to maintain my weight. I can't afford to lose much anyway. Then when things are officially I'll bring some other factors in and cut some more calories. I want to keep it quite simple though.


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[motherofboys]

And yes at least you know it's meant to be. I don't want to wonder what if I had done this or that. Mind you now I know the things I do regarding swaying, I don't think I could just TTC the same as I did before. Those things are in my head now and even if it was subconscious I'm sure I'd find myself changing things.


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[foxymrsg]

Your in a similar situation as me! My youngest ds is only just 1. My DH was so against trying again after he was born and so I really thought that was it and we were done, but then I found this amazing website and we've started discussing it again. We were out sat night and he was drinking and I wasn't as was driving and we ended up discussing it and it was good as he was very open to me telling him everything I've found out on this website. He's admitted that he reckons he'll cave and well try again, but same as you were looking to move but need to finish renovating house first so on everyone else's time scale now!! But good to know he's open to it more now though! He's just sooo not impressed with the tighty whities! Lol!