Uk ladies

[Babybeaublue]

Saw midwife today, told her I was still feeling sick and she said "another girl then?"
On the plus side I got to hear baby's heartbeat
How are you?

[motherofboys]

You would think midwifes would know better than to go by old wives tales. I was SO much sicker with ds4 than any of them and he was still a boy lol


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[Babybeaublue]

I know, because I felt sick with the rest then obviously that means this one must be the same gender :/

[motherofboys]

Another friend having a girl after 1 boy. It would seem the closer people are to me the harder it is to deal with. Knowing that we have grown up nieces and nephews who are in stable long term relationships scares the crap out of me. If it's this hard when it's a friend how hard will it be when it's one of them?


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[Babybeaublue]

I hate the smugness....

[motherofboys]

It's the way when people announce a second of the same gender people just 'like' it and say they bet the child will be happy with a little bro/sis. But when they announce the opposite twice as many people comment saying how fantastic it is and congratulating them


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[Sweet mummy]

So true! The comments about "Awww one of each..PERFECT family!" really annoy me. So, because I have more than one of the same gender my family ISN'T perfect!?!?

[motherofboys]

I made Dh do the school run. I'm hiding. I don't think I can stand seeing everyone fussing over how great it is, and it'll be weird if I stand away from them. I'm not really close with her but she's one of the people I regularly speak to in the playground.


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[Sweet mummy]

Give yourself sometime hun! I had a good "friend" (we mainly kept in touch through WhatsApp as she lives in Trinidad) who I stopped talking to because she had a girl a month after DS2 was born. She has a DS same age as DS1. I felt so hurt and like she rubbed it in my face but now I look back I just didn't handle it well and feel really petty. Time does heal.

Just want you to know you're not alone *hugs*

[motherofboys]

Thanks. That's really what I feel like. Like I can't watch her put up all the pictures people do of the baby clothes they have bought. And I'll have to avoid Facebook when her baby is born. I honestly want to just unfriend her but how pathetic and petty is that. I know that I'm probably being overly dramatic because I'm upset and af is due and everything.


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