Thank you Fiya and Mamacass for your words, It does help me💕 I really appreciate that I can can speak freely here and you understand My feelings.
Sometimes I feel better and sometimes not. DH feels guilty and he is completly lost when seeing me so sad. I know he doesn't know What to do. He thinks this is perhaps his fault because he Has perhaps a problem with his X sperm. His father has had 3 boys and 1 girl with Turner syndrom that died at 5 months pregnancy. So We are wondering if perhaps this is hereditary since aCgh screening doesn't see very Little mocaïsm and perhaps My misscarriage was du to this abnormality.
We really don't know but I told him there was just a little possibility this was because of his X sperm and I love him anyway😍
We are Thinking about doing a genetic test on his X sperm to see if there is a problem because We don't want to put a lot of money in HT for nothing😳
So yes We could do HT again but I am really freaking out. My plan is to do It as soon as possible after the birth of My third Baby to have 2 Little ones to care at the same time😉
My first son Will turn 10 in August. My second 5 in October and this one Will Born in August, I don't want to wait.
My AMH was not good too...
@Milybaby: it's good to hear you're thinking about the future with possibly a girl in it. I think the genetic testing on his X sperm might be a good idea, but I don't know anything about those things so I can't give you advice.
It isn't anyone's fault anyway, not yours, not hubby's. A baby is always a miracle, boy or girl. But I do understand your strong gender desire and I just hope you'll find a happy place during this pregnancy
Happy mom of 2 amazing and a little princess (successfull sway)
TTC baby no 4 by the end of 2019 with another pink sway
Mammacass!!!!!! I am seriously THRILLED to read your fantastic news! I am sat here with tears of happiness ********* down my cheeks!! Absolutely HUGE congrats on your long awaited and hard swayed for little lady!!!! So so so so so happy for you! Your princess is absolutely beautiful as well, roll on July xxxxxxx
Milybaby I am so sorry to hear you are having your third little boy. There's nothing I can say that will make this time easier for you but just know you can say exactly what you feel here with no judgement whatsoever. I truly hope you will be able to come to terms with this baby and these feelings, my heart is breaking for you xxx
Thank you girls for the kind words and well wishes for my scan next week. I feel bi-polar the last while, flip flopping between being ok with being team blue and then being devastated at the idea of never having a chance at a daughter. Sometimes I think I would probably have been better off not showing anyone that nub shot from my 13+4 scan BUT on the other hand at least it has opened my eyes to the fact that this baby may indeed be a boy as I was so utterly convinced it was a girl. At least I can go into the scan next week and not be blind-sided by "It's a boy!" I'm prepared to hear it now so bring it on!
Aww Thankyou so much Hopper I truly hope you also get your Little pink bundle, nubs and their guesses aren't always true and as you were sure you didn't see boy bits at your scan then you just may well be suprised! I'm excited for you also and will be stalking
Milybaby i m sorry u didnt hear girl
Fiya bedding n sleep bundle is so cute
Mamacass congrats hun
Hopper good luck wid ur scan
Milybaby plz dont feel so sad. Feel free to share ur feelings. I hope u ll get better when u ll hold ur little bundle in ur arms
I m doing gud ladies. Just busy with some weddings.
I havent got full confirmation on gender yet. But i m happy with a healthy baby. I get anxious on babys health sometimes.
Mily I had a scan at 13+1 and the pics looked a lot like yours. I know it's a punch to the gut at first. It took a little while but I'm very excited now for my 3rd little guy on the way. My heart breaks for you and the loss of your daughter. I can't imagine what you must be feeling. I think it's a good idea to get his sperm tested. Big hugs!!
Mammacass I'm so happy for you! Congrats!!
I have my anatomy scan on Tuesday. I can't wait to see him again and I pray he's a healthy little man!
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