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September 17th, 2016, 03:09 PM
#121
Big Dreamer
Burakoam-you don't know me, I was in the due date after you. But, I just wanted to share with you that my heart hurts for you. I had my 4th son in December. I too had the same thoughts that you are having. I went into a depressed fog for weeks after getting our gender blood work results. At one point, my DH even suggested abortion if that made me happy. I instantly said "no! He's a baby!!!" We never wanted more than 2 kids. And I convinced him that this one was a girl. And we were both so depressed that this was DS#4. What helped me in those early days of pain were remembering that he was a baby, and it wasn't his fault he was a boy. Also, I would DIE to have 4 girls. I know that the grass isn't always greener, but, just think YOU have someone's dream family. YOU get to be proud to be these girls mom. And you will be! Be proud to have 4 girls. Four of a kind IS the best kind!!!! I'll be thinking and praying for you and your DH
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September 17th, 2016, 03:26 PM
#122
Was wondering if anyone has had this, am 6 weeks pregnant tomorrow and I seem to have a constant cramp, soreness in my womb area? Am trying to tell myself it is just every thing stretching but I never noticed it so bad in my other pregnancies, just worrying about it. Anyone had the same? X
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September 17th, 2016, 03:28 PM
#123
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September 17th, 2016, 05:45 PM
#124
Originally Posted by
Girlieplease
Was wondering if anyone has had this, am 6 weeks pregnant tomorrow and I seem to have a constant cramp, soreness in my womb area? Am trying to tell myself it is just every thing stretching but I never noticed it so bad in my other pregnancies, just worrying about it. Anyone had the same? X
Yes I had terrible cramping and pulling feelings for about 8 wks with every pregnancy but ds1 including this pregnancy
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September 17th, 2016, 07:25 PM
#125
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
Girlieplease
Was wondering if anyone has had this, am 6 weeks pregnant tomorrow and I seem to have a constant cramp, soreness in my womb area? Am trying to tell myself it is just every thing stretching but I never noticed it so bad in my other pregnancies, just worrying about it. Anyone had the same? X
Yes its normal, also round ligament pain is another symptom it may be
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September 17th, 2016, 09:44 PM
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Dream Vet
We are keeping her so I will hang around... I will probably not be as active. But I am here.
I'm really not that sad it's another girl surprisingly. I am more sad for my husband. Ladies I don't know if your DH are the kind of guy to be very emotional with you or the type to hold it all in but mine mostly holds stuff in. So when he told me all teary eyed we were keeping her I knew that hurt him. I told him I didn't want him to resent her and he told me not to be ridiculous he's not upset she ended up a she so much as 4 is our limit and he is allowed to mourn the son he will never have. I felt so awful. I tried so freaking hard to give him that bond and that relationship. I don't know why my body can't be made receptive to a male baby... its honestly probably that diet aside I am so poorly mental health and physical health wise. I can't trick my body into thinking it's prime for sons when I can look in a mirror and know it's not. I hope one of his girls steps up and gives him that bond and proves girls can be just as close to their daddy's as boys.
Katelynn Marie (2005)
Cyra Elizabeth (2010)
Angela Victoria (2015)
Alexandria Grace (2017)
My heart is full and my family is complete, even if i never got my son.
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September 17th, 2016, 09:48 PM
#127
Dream Vet
Purple I have been on pins and needles all day. I hope everything is okay with you. I am here saying I am worried and hope you report back soon!
Katelynn Marie (2005)
Cyra Elizabeth (2010)
Angela Victoria (2015)
Alexandria Grace (2017)
My heart is full and my family is complete, even if i never got my son.
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September 17th, 2016, 10:22 PM
#128
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Due March/April/May 2017 (2)
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September 17th, 2016, 11:07 PM
#129
Dream Vet
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September 17th, 2016, 11:23 PM
#130
Dream Vet
Burakoam im glad you will be sticking around. I know that we are expecting girl number 4 also, nothing at all has indicated that this could possibly be a boy and im ok with it now, I think its best to find out early so you have time to get your head around it and start to look forward to the new little squishy baby. And just think of how many grandsons we are likely to get with all these girls haha, something I am definitely looking forward to.
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