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January 15th, 2017, 01:13 AM
#21
Originally Posted by
All*blue*everything
I've been struggling since hearing y2day that my sister in law is having a girl she is due the same day as me..she wasn't bothered what she was having she already has a boy..now all 5 of my husbands sibling have daughters except us. I feel like a failure or that I don't deserve a daughter...
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I'm so sorry All Blue I lived through the same sort of thing. All 4 of my husbands siblings that have kids had girls, all of my friends and cousins had girls too..I'd cry my eyes out and be miserable every time for a long time afterwards! I've lived with GD for over 8 years...
My husband has me so upset because he doesn't believe the ultrasound tech got it right and now he's making me doubt it too...she was positive it was a girl, but I know people who have been told the wrong gender. Now I've got to wait til 26 weeks so I can get a 3D ultrasound just to ease my mind. Shouldn't have taken that stupid Intelligender!!! It said boy and now he's wondering if it was right and US was wrong
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January 15th, 2017, 10:13 AM
#22
Dream Vet
Mummy, you should post your US pic in the US forum and see what ladies guess. If they all say girl it might help ease your mind. I am anxiously waiting my next US too just to be sure my NIPT test was right and she really is a girl. I think it is hard to really believe when you have so much emotions put into it.
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January 15th, 2017, 02:47 PM
#23
Originally Posted by
GirlieCat
Mummy, you should post your US pic in the US forum and see what ladies guess. If they all say girl it might help ease your mind. I am anxiously waiting my next US too just to be sure my NIPT test was right and she really is a girl. I think it is hard to really believe when you have so much emotions put into it.
She didn't take a shot of the genital area, just showed me on the screen :/
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January 15th, 2017, 04:26 PM
#24
Dream Vet
Mummy that intelligender is tricky. if you had sex in the last 2-3 days you will get a boy result because of the semen still in your pee and it picks up on that as 'boy'...funny enough. Its why they warn you to not have sex for 48-72 hours before taking intelligender and if you do you are supposed to wait to take it. I got a boy result with dd3 (my first boy result using it in any of my pregnancies) and it gave me false hope and i only found the "do not take after sex" condition AFTER i had already used it and realized id had sex the day before..sure enough she was a girl and then with this one i took it following the directions exactly and got girl result
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January 15th, 2017, 06:25 PM
#25
Originally Posted by
Burakoam
Mummy that intelligender is tricky. if you had sex in the last 2-3 days you will get a boy result because of the semen still in your pee and it picks up on that as 'boy'...funny enough. Its why they warn you to not have sex for 48-72 hours before taking intelligender and if you do you are supposed to wait to take it. I got a boy result with dd3 (my first boy result using it in any of my pregnancies) and it gave me false hope and i only found the "do not take after sex" condition AFTER i had already used it and realized id had sex the day before..sure enough she was a girl and then with this one i took it following the directions exactly and got girl result
We havent have sex since conception so that isn't it lol. I followed it exactly as instructions said. I know they tend to default as a boy result for some reason...it was correct for my last two sons, but maybe it was a coincidence...I took it at 10 weeks, maybe it would've given a different result later on..
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January 15th, 2017, 06:30 PM
#26
Dream Vet
They say its an expensive PH test...and the PH of your urine changes pretty easily depending on diet..so if you are eating in a way that would make your body and/or pee more alkaline, you will get a boy result too Also any woman that has endometriosis or has taken clomid or estrogen dominant will get boy results with it too.
Katelynn Marie (2005)
Cyra Elizabeth (2010)
Angela Victoria (2015)
Alexandria Grace (2017)
My heart is full and my family is complete, even if i never got my son.
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January 15th, 2017, 07:12 PM
#27
Originally Posted by
Burakoam
They say its an expensive PH test...and the PH of your urine changes pretty easily depending on diet..so if you are eating in a way that would make your body and/or pee more alkaline, you will get a boy result too
Also any woman that has endometriosis or has taken clomid or estrogen dominant will get boy results with it too.
Yeah I've heard that. I really hope it's wrong and the US tech got it right! I have to wait another 8ish weeks to have a 3D scan as they don't offer gender scans here :/
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January 15th, 2017, 07:21 PM
#28
Mummy I really wouldn't put much faith in Intelligender. Are you confident that you saw female genitalia during the scan? After 4 boys I'm sure you're used to seeing boy bits on a scan and would know if they were there or not!
Just over 2 hours until my 13 week scan! So nervous, hope baby is still healthy and growing well, and fingers crossed for a good nub shot!
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January 15th, 2017, 07:26 PM
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The urine tests do not work. ultrasounds are more reliable than those by a factor of a zillion!
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January 15th, 2017, 07:47 PM
#30
Originally Posted by
mamabear
Mummy I really wouldn't put much faith in Intelligender. Are you confident that you saw female genitalia during the scan? After 4 boys I'm sure you're used to seeing boy bits on a scan and would know if they were there or not!
Just over 2 hours until my 13 week scan! So nervous, hope baby is still healthy and growing well, and fingers crossed for a good nub shot!
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